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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A Luxury for the wealthy?

I know I'm still young, though 30 is fast approaching and I'm weary of getting older and my appearance changing ..

Do all women feel the pressure ? Or is it true that the older you get, the more comfortable you are?

Would you get anything done ?

And do men prefer the natural look ? Or otherwise ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Natural, always. Nothing more unappealing than plastic fantastics. What's wrong with being natural yet classy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im more aware of my aging now then ever. Nearly every friend I have on here is in their 20s and 30s or early 40s. Im close to 50 now and even though I dont feel my age im reminded of it alot on here. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im more aware of my aging now then ever. Nearly every friend I have on here is in their 20s and 30s or early 40s. Im close to 50 now and even though I dont feel my age im reminded of it alot on here. X"

You look fantastic for close to 50 !

I think society is hard on women, though I'm sure everybody has insecurities!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Natural, always. Nothing more unappealing than plastic fantastics. What's wrong with being natural yet classy?"

Classy I agree with, also a fan of the natural look .. though I want to keep some of the things I have the way they are.. preserving then, rather than change

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"Im more aware of my aging now then ever. Nearly every friend I have on here is in their 20s and 30s or early 40s. Im close to 50 now and even though I dont feel my age im reminded of it alot on here. X

You look fantastic for close to 50 !

I think society is hard on women, though I'm sure everybody has insecurities! "

A naturally looking lady any day of the week. And you both look fantastic

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking


"A Luxury for the wealthy?

I know I'm still young, though 30 is fast approaching and I'm weary of getting older and my appearance changing ..

Do all women feel the pressure ? Or is it true that the older you get, the more comfortable you are?

Would you get anything done ?

And do men prefer the natural look ? Or otherwise ? "

I'm lucky that for my age my skin is very good and has very few wrinkles. Now if I could change one thing it would be my belly. I'm happy with everything else. Maybe get the bags under my eyes done lol...or give up work and rest more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 57 this year & at times I feel every one of those years, most my friends are much younger & of course Ch3wy is younger but I'm never tempted to be anything but my age & wouldn't have any work done. Grow old very very disgracefully I reckon X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A Luxury for the wealthy?

I know I'm still young, though 30 is fast approaching and I'm weary of getting older and my appearance changing ..

Do all women feel the pressure ? Or is it true that the older you get, the more comfortable you are?

Would you get anything done ?

And do men prefer the natural look ? Or otherwise ?

I'm lucky that for my age my skin is very good and has very few wrinkles. Now if I could change one thing it would be my belly. I'm happy with everything else. Maybe get the bags under my eyes done lol...or give up work and rest more "

Your gorgeous x

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By *ara MTV/TS
over a year ago

Aberdare

I look after my skin.

I wouldn’t do anything too intrusive.

I’ve had cryogenic lypolosis and I’m currently having laser to reduce my beard growth.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm 57 this year & at times I feel every one of those years, most my friends are much younger & of course Ch3wy is younger but I'm never tempted to be anything but my age & wouldn't have any work done. Grow old very very disgracefully I reckon X"

My concern is I'm feeling it at 28 .. haha, terrible I know !

I'm praying I have my mama's genes

I'm not sure I am brave enough for any drastic work , but I would consider fillers in my lips and maybe a facial lift x

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By *ara MTV/TS
over a year ago

Aberdare


"I'm 57 this year & at times I feel every one of those years, most my friends are much younger & of course Ch3wy is younger but I'm never tempted to be anything but my age & wouldn't have any work done. Grow old very very disgracefully I reckon X

My concern is I'm feeling it at 28 .. haha, terrible I know !

I'm praying I have my mama's genes

I'm not sure I am brave enough for any drastic work , but I would consider fillers in my lips and maybe a facial lift x"

Just look after yourself and I’m sure you will age well.

Women are like fine wine they get better with age.

Tx

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By *evils-couple13Couple
over a year ago

Neath

I'm 27 and I worry about wrinkles, lines etc. I'd love to be younger again

Devil-lady. X

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I’m close to 60! Never had anything done not a filler or a Botox injection .... Life is better now than in my 30s !!

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By *aileyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Botox is, in my opinion, preventative.

Get a little now. Keep it up. No need for drastic measures in the future.

I also love lip fillers. Nothing drastic. But thin lips age a woman.

Nothing you need to worry about until late 30s. Enjoy your youth!

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By *atty_loves_curvesMan
over a year ago

South Wales


"I'm 57 this year & at times I feel every one of those years, most my friends are much younger & of course Ch3wy is younger but I'm never tempted to be anything but my age & wouldn't have any work done. Grow old very very disgracefully I reckon X

My concern is I'm feeling it at 28 .. haha, terrible I know !

I'm praying I have my mama's genes

I'm not sure I am brave enough for any drastic work , but I would consider fillers in my lips and maybe a facial lift x"

The natural look is best. If you ever have any work done, and you don't need it, never have it done on the face.

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By *ardiffCoupleNJCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd/Rhyfelin

Nah keep it natural.

I (Mr) still feel like I'm thirty something, until I look in the mirror. But heck, there's only one certainty in life. We're all ageing at the same rate -lets grow old disgracefully together.

Don't worry about it, enjoy life, save your money and spend it on a holiday!

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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago

my house

56..don't feel it but not as bendable as i was a few years ago....

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By *aryg69Man
over a year ago

neath

I personally think the natural way is by far the best, grey hair on a woman can look so sexy.

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By *r LadMan
over a year ago

wales

I know exactly what you mean and this coming from a man lol, personally I think women are under more pressure to look good.. but if you ask me I much prefer natural over fake. I know a few women who were very pretty and spoilt their looks with over doing it with lip fillers horrendously big lashes the list goes on lol.. as they say less is better that’s if you do choose to have any work;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Natural, always. Nothing more unappealing than plastic fantastics. What's wrong with being natural yet classy?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing I ever considered was a boob job a year or so back when I lost a lot of weight as I went from a 42e to a 36d and to me they looked and felt empty. However I soon adjusted and now I have grown to like them as they are in proprtion to my body. But apart from that nope never considered anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always been very low maintenance on the whole. Have my hair cut every couple of months, no false nails, no false tan or sunbeds, no false lashes, no make up. I like the natural look and tbh my life is so busy I wouldn't have time to maintain anything else haha

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By *edneck4uMan
over a year ago

Penarth

Be who you are and grow old disgracefully.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have always been very low maintenance on the whole. Have my hair cut every couple of months, no false nails, no false tan or sunbeds, no false lashes, no make up. I like the natural look and tbh my life is so busy I wouldn't have time to maintain anything else haha "

Despite appearances , I'm not particularly high maintenance either, i do have my hair and nails done, but not false, my own .. not brave enough to go without makeup though!

Well done on your weight loss!

I don't like the thought of anything to invasive like a boob job ..

It's my face.. I have full lips naturally , worried about them thinning and my face wrinkling .. but to the point where it's an issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Despite appearances , I'm not particularly high maintenance either, i do have my hair and nails done, but not false, my own .. not brave enough to go without makeup though!

Well done on your weight loss!

I don't like the thought of anything to invasive like a boob job ..

It's my face.. I have full lips naturally , worried about them thinning and my face wrinkling .. but to the point where it's an issue

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Having seen you in the flesh, (almost literally,in Chams) I can assure you that you have nothing to worry about at all. And no, that's not some chat up line. You are a pretty woman, attractive and you are only causing yourself unnecessary stress by worrying about these things. You are gorgeous. Please start to believe that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never felt the pressure of ageing. I try to look after my skin and do like to wear make up and make the best of myself. I don't really have wrinkles, as of yet. But I'm not concerned about it. I find it adds character to a face. As for the thinning of the lips, my lips are still as full as they've always been. I wouldnt consider cosmetic enhancement, but wouldnt judge others who do. It's about doing what you feel is right, to make yourself feel confident. In all honesty, i think i actually look better now, than i did in my twenties. I always had a baby face and looked far too young. I feel sexier now too

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By *cedGemsWoman
over a year ago

South West Wales ;-)


"Be who you are and grow old disgracefully. "

Yup x Nothing to hide like many on here x each to their own x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A Luxury for the wealthy?

I know I'm still young, though 30 is fast approaching and I'm weary of getting older and my appearance changing ..

Do all women feel the pressure ? Or is it true that the older you get, the more comfortable you are?

Would you get anything done ?

And do men prefer the natural look ? Or otherwise ? "

It’s not just you women, I turn 40 next year and really don’t like the way that sounds

I don’t think I’d ever resort to surgery though & o don’t think women should either

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By *ve 63Woman
over a year ago

Newbridge

God was kind never gave me wrinkles. Might have a stomach on me from caesarians but just look at it and reminds me how lucky I am to have great kids .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 57 this year & at times I feel every one of those years, most my friends are much younger & of course Ch3wy is younger but I'm never tempted to be anything but my age & wouldn't have any work done. Grow old very very disgracefully I reckon X

My concern is I'm feeling it at 28 .. haha, terrible I know !

I'm praying I have my mama's genes

I'm not sure I am brave enough for any drastic work , but I would consider fillers in my lips and maybe a facial lift x"

Doesn't matter what I say, because you will do what you want anyway.. But women in my opinion have allways looked better naturally... For example I used to chat with a girl who allways sent me pics of herself wearing makeup and one day she accidentally sent me a picture of herself with no makeup on and I loved! it a lot more than the other pictures.

But no matter what I said to her, she wouldn't believe me!

So don't worry about it, because men don't care as much as you think

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By *TG1Man
over a year ago

Swansea

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By *TG1Man
over a year ago

Swansea


"Be who you are and grow old disgracefully.

Yup x Nothing to hide like many on here x each to their own x"

Second this. If you can afford it, then do it. Haters will always hate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 57 this year & at times I feel every one of those years, most my friends are much younger & of course Ch3wy is younger but I'm never tempted to be anything but my age & wouldn't have any work done. Grow old very very disgracefully I reckon X

My concern is I'm feeling it at 28 .. haha, terrible I know !

I'm praying I have my mama's genes

I'm not sure I am brave enough for any drastic work , but I would consider fillers in my lips and maybe a facial lift x

Doesn't matter what I say, because you will do what you want anyway.. But women in my opinion have allways looked better naturally... For example I used to chat with a girl who allways sent me pics of herself wearing makeup and one day she accidentally sent me a picture of herself with no makeup on and I loved! it a lot more than the other pictures.

But no matter what I said to her, she wouldn't believe me!

So don't worry about it, because men don't care as much as you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is nothing, experience is everything! As long as you can cast a smile and tempt desire you have everything you need

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

No it does not bother me at all. Would not get anything done so i just make the most of what i have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ageing doesn't bother me, I am in my mid forties and feel just as young as when I was in my twenties, in fact for many reasons I wouldn't turn the clock back and believe that about my appearance too, I wouldn't alter how I look.

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By *ustooCouple
over a year ago

East Fife

We're now in our mid 60s and feel and look a lot younger that a lot of similar aged couples we know but it's nothing to worry about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm lucky to have good skin. I'm 70+ but have been tempted to have my neck area under my chin done though

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