FabSwingers.com forum: Has fabswingers been any good for you or a let down.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What are your thoughts on this site now.

I'm finding it has changed and not for the best either.

Have a rant and let it all out here about what really fucks you off about this site and some people who use it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not active on the scene anymore but always loved it and had some of the best times with the best people.

If it fucked me off, I'd leave, rather than stay and moan about it

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By *mmacdheelsTV/TS
over a year ago

France, Not in

Been using the site for 5 years and its been very good for me. I've not seen any real changes in the actual site during this time that would say its got worse. People used to moan about it just as much 5 yrs ago. To me its all about the individuals and how you deal with them and not the site.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

"Been using the site for 5 years and its been very good for me. I've not seen any real changes in the actual site during this time that would say its got worse. People used to moan about it just as much 5 yrs ago. To me its all about the individuals and how you deal with them and not the site."

I’ve been here eight years and have always enjoyed poncing about here.

I agree with the above - I don’t think it’s changed that much in those years. People were complaining about the same stuff back then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Made some wonderful friends over the 7 yrs I've been on here and had some incredible meets. I leave and I always return xx

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By *ancardiff7Man
over a year ago

Near Cowbridge

For me, it's like most things in life - you get out what you put in.

If I make an effort I get a few winks/messages/replies etc., if I can't be arsed then nothing happens.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

It's been awesome.

It has changed over the years, and the ratio of "single" men has gone up a lot, but it's still a great site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The secret to spreading legs aha is being able to accommodate hehe as I am learning x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swings and roundabouts

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By *eannaTV/TS
over a year ago

Cwmfelifach, nr Newport

I've met some great people here and I agree with some of the other post's the complaints are pretty much the same as they were when I first joined, I've complained myself but that was mainly down to frustration after spending 2 hours plus getting ready and nothing happens due to a no show but there are some decent genuine people here and it makes up for effort put in when you do meet.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

It was a huge let down originally but later I learned that it was because I had unrealistic expectations when I joined.

I've lowered my expectations now and enjoy the forums and if I'm lucky enough to get a meet it will be a bonus.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

It's a tool like any other, really. If you use it poorly then you'll get poor results.

We've been on the site for about 4 years and we enjoy it

We're not massively active but it's nice to have a look around and make new friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a tool like any other, really. If you use it poorly then you'll get poor results.

We've been on the site for about 4 years and we enjoy it

We're not massively active but it's nice to have a look around and make new friends. "

Enjoyed both the profile and pics so thought I'd say hello aha xx sorry filtered out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only been on here a little over 3 months.

In that time I have had my fair share of time wasters, fakes and creeps but also I have made some good friends and been fortunate enough to have a play meet with a few of them.

I joined to broaden my sexual experiences and it has certainly done that

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

6 years and apart from the odd blip love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here 6 years. Take time out now and again. But I do agree it has changed a lot I used to chat in Wales room good banter but now not the same and I won’t be paying to be a site supporter either anymore. Seems it’s all about image and slagging each other out if ur a married man etc before there wasn’t any issues as it was always nice to chat to ppl

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By *aughingmimsWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

I’ve been here nearly a year and it’s been great for me. Met some cracking folks and had a lot of fun. Because there’s a lot of single guys I get bombarded like all the ladies do. Sadly most guys don’t read my profile. But that’s always been the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 years+ for us as singles & via couple profiles, we've learnt that you need to make the site work for you. I no longer have the patience for a single profile, although I will pop in now n again but don't use it to meet anymore, single guys only seem to be here for the guaranteed quicky nowadays & that's the main change from my perspective. We & I alone, now only meet via clubs, parties or socials, it's far less stressful & we all know what we're getting X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"10 years+ for us as singles & via couple profiles, we've learnt that you need to make the site work for you. I no longer have the patience for a single profile, although I will pop in now n again but don't use it to meet anymore, single guys only seem to be here for the guaranteed quicky nowadays & that's the main change from my perspective. We & I alone, now only meet via clubs, parties or socials, it's far less stressful & we all know what we're getting X"

Fab. Would love to get my hands on you one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coming up 3 years for us with a little break a few months back. I honestly can't remember the last time we met on here. It's just easier at clubs and socials. We've had great times and some not so great xxmiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Coming up 3 years for us with a little break a few months back. I honestly can't remember the last time we met on here. It's just easier at clubs and socials. We've had great times and some not so great xxmiss "

Dictionary definition of hot wife aha x

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By *rolicerMan
over a year ago

Abergele

Having been on and off the site for the last 10 years or so. It seems the expectation that a joining will give you unlimited sex, welllllll, lol.

If your a good looking woman, of course it will, as it would off the site. Couples looking for couples, after all if you are using mine I can use yours, the not bad option.

Single blokes, thousands of em, everywhere, mostly just look to dump a load. from a couples experience, they then start making so many demands, no meet in a public place, meet at yours in the dark, I can only stay 30 mins, lol.

Me, I use it to try and meet people who like more than cock in cock out, roleplay, 3 sums, and like minded people.

Its not easy, despite being genuine, lol.

Anyway, profiles to perv and send messages too, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we're active we use the site as a tool, it's been pretty good to us in the past but due to so many dreamers etc we tend to do the looking ourselves now or simply go to a club which is far less time consuming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on & off here over the last five or so years. This time it's definately been harder to get meets,possibly due to the larger number of men on here now looking to meet women & couples,most of which are younger & better equiped than me, it seems that cock size is more important to most women & couples than personality. If I wanted to meet bi men on their own I could be out most weekends. But ever the optomist I'm still here,how much longer remains to be seen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mainly love it. Met some wonderful people and have lots of friends from the scene that I see socially. There has been one or two blips and fakers but you soon learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a problem with the site since it started many years ago.

Been a single and now couple on here and thanks to fab I've been all over the UK and visited some amazing places.

These days it's far better to meet new people at social events or clubs, but this can only be communicated by being on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a letdown.

"What are your thoughts on this site now.

I'm finding it has changed and not for the best either.

Have a rant and let it all out here about what really fucks you off about this site and some people who use it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You just got to love it for all its faults, and for a single bloke like me it’s a place for people who like to have a bit of fun. But unfortunately, there are some people endlessly running down single blokes and putting us all in the same timewasters and wanting an instashag experience. I have met many single people and couples and can only say the majority I have met from here are and have been great friends, some socially and some playmates, So my experience is yes its worth the shit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The positives for us are...met some lovely people. It's exciting from when u browse right up until u meet n verify....negatives are...spending time messaging bck n forth getting to know ppl, all going good then suddenly getting blocked without any explication

if we r not for u then just say so, left feeling as though we said summit wrong even though we know we haven't. Anyone else experienced this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Overall we have loved our time on here.

The good points are we have met or chatting to some lovely people which we would never cross paths with in the vanilla life.

There have been some bad bits but you live and learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is only one of two social networks I use now, the other is for athletic bores, yawn.

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By *eannaTV/TS
over a year ago

Cwmfelifach, nr Newport

"The positives for us are...met some lovely people. It's exciting from when u browse right up until u meet n verify....negatives are...spending time messaging bck n forth getting to know ppl, all going good then suddenly getting blocked without any explication

if we r not for u then just say so, left feeling as though we said summit wrong even though we know we haven't. Anyone else experienced this? "

I get that as well when I ask if they have read my profile then I get abuse and blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need for rudeness or abuse we r all adults.

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By *layfulcoupleCouple
over a year ago

a kinky mood

It’s been fantastic for us. Fulfilled so many fantasies before we came on here

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By *eannaTV/TS
over a year ago

Cwmfelifach, nr Newport

"No need for rudeness or abuse we r all adults.

I only ask that people read my profile so they know what I am, I always read profiles, to me it's common courtesy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No need for rudeness or abuse we r all adults.

I only ask that people read my profile so they know what I am, I always read profiles, to me it's common courtesy. "

I'm with you on that one.

Gets quite irritating when one of the first questions can be

So what you into or looking for.

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By *rs Myvanwy Scarlet-BlackTV/TS
over a year ago

Darlaston

Been on the site for around 3 years now travelling from area to area and I've had some very interesting meets I think it's a great place if it's just sex but any thing heverir scares most people of x

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By *igjrvMan
over a year ago

blackwood

I've not had a meet for a long time off here. So it's become crap. No disrespect to the men but there's too many of us on here now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had one meet in 3 years, just too much hard work for a bloke. I just pop back on and browse the forums once in a while now

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Early days...

Naive and thought it was insta shag so I got hooked and spent hours and hours checking my phone and it genuinely took a huge proportion of my life away.

Today...

Lowered my expectations, love the forums and if I get a meet it will be a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met some really good people here, but it's been hard work because of:

People who:

- do not turn up

- are not who they say they are (guys pretending to be couples)

- don't bother to read profiles

- agree to play in a certain way and then try to take people another way (I'm into kink, they pretend to kinky and the try to railroad you into straight sex?

We spend a lot of time flushing out these idiots.

What keeps us going is the assumption that once they are blocked it will be easier to find decent people, and the recent discovery that you can report profiles for not turning up.

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By *iss B-HavingWoman
over a year ago

Welsh Valleys

Bit of both...met some amazing people who I will always be friends with. On the other hand I've met some absolute dicks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I ve had time wasters - men with lifestyle issues and addictions - but on the whole had amazing experiences met lots of friends - and now coupled up with a gorgeous funny guy so bring on more experiences xxx

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By *irtywildsideMan
over a year ago

Barry

It’s been great for me but experience helps and I’m much better navigating my way through the non genuine people than I was a few years back.

I’ve got some decent and trusting people who share my interests who I can meet with when the timings are right and others who I’ve chatted with but haven’t met yet but who I know are genuine.

Still many boxes to tick on my ’fucket list’ but I’m sure that over time those will be sorted out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only recently started to give this site a chance and it's already fucking me off, because hardly any of my messages are seen.. But i am finding it addictive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awesome... Think it's great.

Only been using it a month and I'm in me oils....

Have had the odd issue with the fakes, but there is a block button for that.

Also had a couple of issues with downright rude, ignorant and arrogant women too.... But also a block button for those...

All in all, I'll give it a 8/10

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By *terobs6869Man
over a year ago

Llandudno

It's been frustrating. A few fakers and time wasters. Also frustrating because I have had Interest from people but then we weren't going to be able to meet. But I accept a lot of this comes from my own restricted availability (daytime weekday meets) and that I would have had a lot more fun if I could have been more flexible and also if I could accommodate. So all things considered, I think fab has been ok

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By *iana777Woman
over a year ago

Littlehampton

I have been on here for 5 years on and off both as a couple with Masters and now as a single lady.

I agree with a lot of the earlier comments about time wasters, fake profiles, people aranging to meet and you sit there like an idiot waiting luckily that has only happened once.

When you write a story like I have you don't know how many people read it you only know how many comment or just thumbs up but at least you know it is being read.

I will say I have to thank Fab for several Masters I have had and some I am still Submitting to it has been a fantastic journey and a lot of the stories are fantastic and that is where I met one of my Masters by commenting on his story and I'm really glad I did.

I have also met a great deal of single men and had a lovely time with them and still meeting some of them xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had one meet on this site, absolutely lovely person! Showed me some of the messages she gets off other guys and it's no wonder I hardly ever get responses!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s been a bumpy road at times but i have met some fantastic people and made some great friends.

I have to say something has happened that I never expected to when I joined the site.

I would say I found someone special but we found each other and it’s early days but we have a good feeling about where it’s going to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s been a bumpy road at times but i have met some fantastic people and made some great friends.

I have to say something has happened that I never expected to when I joined the site.

I would say I found someone special but we found each other and it’s early days but we have a good feeling about where it’s going to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where is the vomit emoji??

Seriously though, I am happy for you 'H' because you don't give a lot away and to be this vocal publicly well, you must be feeling it strong! (no pressure LJ.. )

Has Fab been a disappointment? On the whole no, I have had many great evenings and some experiences both very good and also very bad that I have learned from and I believe that everything that you learn form is always a positive. So yes, Fab has in general been a 'Good Thing'. It just carries a hefty price.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where is the vomit emoji??

Seriously though, I am happy for you 'H' because you don't give a lot away and to be this vocal publicly well, you must be feeling it strong! (no pressure LJ.. )

Haha thank you lovely. What can i say? When you meet someone special, you want to shout it from the rooftops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha thank you lovely. What can i say? When you meet someone special, you want to shout it from the rooftops

Unfortunately for me I have been guilty of shouting a little early.... Maybe even guilty of "Premature Vocal Ejaculation".... So I tend to be a little bit more apprehensive when I see people hollering from their rooftops.....

Good for you. And don't be a stranger, we have a habit of being at the same functions now and then

(don't worry LJ, I am a gent, my hands do not wonder).

See folks! Fab does have hope in amongst the Sea Of Sorrow....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where is the vomit emoji??

Seriously though, I am happy for you 'H' because you don't give a lot away and to be this vocal publicly well, you must be feeling it strong! (no pressure LJ.. )

Haha thank you lovely. What can i say? When you meet someone special, you want to shout it from the rooftops

And so you should. Good on you! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where is the vomit emoji??

Seriously though, I am happy for you 'H' because you don't give a lot away and to be this vocal publicly well, you must be feeling it strong! (no pressure LJ.. )

Haha thank you lovely. What can i say? When you meet someone special, you want to shout it from the rooftops

Or the mountain tops

And thanks for your nice comments guys we have had a really heartwarming messages from our Fab friends and it’s good to see the forumites are almost as chuffed as we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relatively still a newbie to the site. 4 months in and so far a good experience. Met some fantastic people and made great friends too. Yes, there are plenty of fakes, time wasters etc, but filters help with that.Still a little difficult to find genuine couples though. Heard that socials are a great way to meet people, but not plucked up the courage to go along yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been great for us. Tried other sites but always come back to FAB. The longer you're on you develop an idiot filter with experience and can spot the genuine people !

The only down side of FAB is being the most successful site it takes its self for granted and doesn't feel the need to change. Some features of other sites would be great here, like the optional close by map search which puts a pin on a map which is fun when out on the town. Or option of comments against pictures etc.

Still got got to drop a nag about the region search as we live in Suffolk but overall still the best site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been great for me, as its lead me to where I am now. To the point where I no longer feel the desire to be on here...I've found what I've been searching for my entire life.

Still on here as it facilitates another means of communication, for the moment at least, but my days of enjoying the variety of Fab's lovelies is over. I've found my inner peace

I'm currently baring my soul to move forwards...really not an easy place to be, but absolutely necessary. In a perfect world, I'm hoping to be heading off into the sunset, hand in hand

...only time will tell if I've got this right, but I'm prepared to lay down my life on it, and hopefully enjoy a long and loving future...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been on & off here over the last five or so years. This time it's definately been harder to get meets,possibly due to the larger number of men on here now looking to meet women & couples,most of which are younger & better equiped than me, it seems that cock size is more important to most women & couples than personality. If I wanted to meet bi men on their own I could be out most weekends. But ever the optomist I'm still here,how much longer remains to be seen."

Well having just about messaged every lady or couple that I liked the look of with in a twenty mile radius & had most of the messages deleted with out the courtsey of a reply I'm coming to the conclusion that for me anyway it's been a total waste of time,so many shallow minded people that judge you purley on your appearance,age & cock size rather than your personality.

I would like to be proved wrong,but I won't hold my breath. Yes I've had three meets in a year & a half,suppose I should be gratefull for that. Unless my luck changes I can't see me staying much longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huge let down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an easy going guy after females or couple. When I do occasionally meet people love meet and are stunned at my size length and girth. Yet hardly get any meets on here??? Any tips or couples after big?

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