FabSwingers.com forum: How do you avoid fake couple profiles?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Having difficulty sussing out the fake versus genuine couple profiles. Any tips on what to look out for? As a single female, safety is paramount for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples where only the male speaks.

No photo veri after months on here (it takes 2 mins)

Also, reverse image search is a great tool to find out who's fake. Lots of fun annoying them can be had if you have the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications are the best way, particularly if they are from established members. Lots of fake couples, and single "females" on here. Trust your insticts..if its too good to be true, it probably is..

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Having difficulty sussing out the fake versus genuine couple profiles. Any tips on what to look out for? As a single female, safety is paramount for me. "

Veries are the obvious way to spot genuine couples.

Organised socials are also a very safe way to suss people out, and make loads of new friends at the same time, especially single ladies who can point you in the direction of reliable, sane couples lol.

If you are in any doubt, ask to speak to both on the phone, either ask for their number and withhold yours, or have a "burner" phone that you only use for swinging. If you explain why you want to chat, anyone who is genuine shouldn't have a problem.

Being photo verified proves nothing.

Messages can be a good indicator too, the "tone" and language used can often be a bit of a giveaway that its a single male.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all. Very useful tips x

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By *estisbest22Couple
over a year ago

cheltenham

We’ve noticed a few hot couples/fems that have a good few veri’s But off profiles that can’t be seen, quite often not interested in men under any conditions. Can’t help but think sometimes they’re just a man creating lots of fake accounts? 9 times out of 10 if a couple or fem seem to good to be true, they usually are! Of course we could be wrong, but we’ve been on here long enough that the spidey sense kicks in when something isn’t right!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There is a lot to be said for gut instinct

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By *rolicerMan
over a year ago

Abergele

My wife isn't playing at the moment, but happy for me to play.

My wife wants me to meet women, couples for sex and tell her about when I get home as she rubs one off.

the profile is written from the male perspective...

as are the no veri, no pictures,

are some giveaways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As mentioned veris.

We have a spare phone with a throw away SIM so use that to speak to the fem if your gut feeling is undecided. X

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By *offee with MilkCouple
over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

The most important clue will be provided by your own mind. If it doesn't seem quite right then it probably isn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think fakes are relatively easy to spot, we tend to put couples with social only veris into the same “fakes” category as well

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Gut instinct for sure. As has berm mentioned, photo search and check the veries. If a veri doesn't mention them by name and seems fairly vague and generic then they could be from other fake profiles.

If the pics don't flag up on Google or tineye then check if they all seem to show the same people.

Try and have a group chat on kik with everyone having their own profile. Or a phone call / video chat with them both. It's amazing how many wives are permanently in the shower/ill/out shopping...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Video chat always gets rid of fakes! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think fakes are relatively easy to spot, we tend to put couples with social only veris into the same “fakes” category as well

Well not all couples with social only veris are "fake"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick to going to social events. You get to see meet and decide wot u want all in one go, instead of endless messages which mostly end going nowhere. Socials r a kind of try before u buy night lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think fakes are relatively easy to spot, we tend to put couples with social only veris into the same “fakes” category as well

Well not all couples with social only veris are "fake""

Very true

it may just mean that going as far as play is not the right time for some so until they r ready they enjoy social meets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all for the great feedback and tips. Most appreciated x

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