FabSwingers.com forum: oversensitivity

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

how common is it for women to be oversensitive and not able to receive oral stimulation. I have not yet cum from oral, I need my vibe, but god it feels good and I can have it done to me for hours!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not the only one by any means - I love giving oral, but not receiving it. It simply doesn't work for me, though a vibro does!

It's never been a problem for me - but it's an absolute pain trying to convince people that I'm just not interested - they all think that they are the special one who can "make it happen" for me - like it's a challenge..

I think I'm just going to have the words tattoo'd on me somewhere - "If there's any pussy-licking to be done then stand back, 'cos I'm going to be the one doing it!!!"

Please can we have a special club for Women who don't receive oral...? (Can't be bothered to think up a smart acronym... maybe somebody else can?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please can we have a special club for Women who don't receive oral...? (Can't be bothered to think up a smart acronym... maybe somebody else can?)

How about 'We've got it licked'?

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By *un4uxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nr Cardiff

Know what you mean, I have a very sensitive clit and any over zealous direct stimulation especially through oral is guaranteed to send me jumping through the roof! Done sensitively though and I'm a pussycat purrrrr

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

there is such an amazing variation between how people perform oral!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many yrs ago in a different relationship the sex was less than average so I did use my vibe all the time and then found the same as you was difficult to orgasm without it ! After not being able to use it for a good while I then got with mr newbie and I orgasm at the drop of a hat now lol

And totally agree totally different techniques out there some just lick like a hungry dog with no purpose and others know exactly what to do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Perhaps I should not use it and see how I get on. Until recently never come across a man who knew how to perform oral well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'd like to give it a go,haha perhaps this older tongue can help? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're not the only one by any means - I love giving oral, but not receiving it. It simply doesn't work for me, though a vibro does!

I think I'm just going to have the words tattoo'd on me somewhere - "If there's any pussy-licking to be done then stand back, 'cos I'm going to be the one doing it!!!"

Please can we have a special club for Women who don't receive oral...? (Can't be bothered to think up a smart acronym... maybe somebody else can?)

+1.

It does absolutely nothing for me at all, never liked it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

has anyone ever played with orgasm denial?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the opposite. I have never orgasmed using toys to stimulate my clitoris. But have mindblowing orgasms at the hands of Sean's very gentle experienced tongue.

Rough doesn't do it for me at all...what's it all about when a guy goes at it like he's a dog chewing a bone? I actually had a guy once bite my clitoris...I nearly hit the roof and was sore for many days afterwards. He had the audacity to ask me to rate his oral skills out of 10!!! Minus figures sprang immediately to mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never come across a lady who didn't like receiving oral and on the odd occasion I have been complimented on it

think they might have been dwank

So as I slip my Freudian hat on

Is the fact that some are more sensitive due to past experiences either good or bad ?

Is it the mental state you are in with the person (relaxed, anxious/ tense)

Are you putting yourself into a "must orgasm" state of mind as opposed to using a vibrator where this is no pressure to show your gratitude to the other person

If I quote the post above

"I'm the opposite. I have never orgasmed using toys to stimulate my clitoris. But have mindblowing orgasms at the hands of Sean's very gentle experienced tongue."

You can contact me for my hourly rates via email

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is the fact that some are more sensitive due to past experiences either good or bad ?

Is it the mental state you are in with the person (relaxed, anxious/ tense)

Are you putting yourself into a "must orgasm" state of mind as opposed to using a vibrator where this is no pressure to show your gratitude to the other person

If I quote the post above

I'm the opposite. I have never orgasmed using toys to stimulate my clitoris. But have mindblowing orgasms at the hands of Sean's very gentle experienced tongue.

You can contact me for my hourly rates via email

Lol Prof...a very in-depth analysis hun. And a good one too.

For me, it's all about the man knowing my body...hence Sean is the ONLY man to date who has brought me to orgasm orally.

There's also a lot in what you say about how a woman feels mentally. I think I put up a psychological block that prevents me from cumming for another man via oral stimulation.

I think this is because I view oral sex as even more intimate than penetration. After all, the man can see, smell, touch and taste my most secret places...what more intimate act can there be than that?

Hence I keep that particular pleasure for Sean and Sean only.

I certainly don't mind guys giving me oral - bring it on - but haven't yet found one with Sean's skills.

P.S. Thanks for the post Prof. I feel a lot lighter after admitting to that lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women seem to like a clit stimulation to be a steady regular sensation...

But I guess that many blokes can't lick the same way for more than a few minutes, dry mouth, aching tongue, or bored, lol.

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