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"It's getting to the point where single guys actually think they are doing you a favour by meeting lol. They seem to forget that without couples inviting them to join in their they'd be at home wanking instead. We don't meet single men that often because they promise so much and deliver jack shit for 90% of the time. Much rather meet a m/f Cpls any day x" here here :D | |||
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"Have you ever wondered why there are so many single guys on this site. Is it that they choose to remain single or is it that they simply cannot get a girlfriend? We frequently meet single guys and it's surpassing how many turn up empty handed. Not only do some guys not bring anything to drink, but don't bring condoms either. Some guys say that they didn't know if we preferred white or red so they didn't bring anything. Rather strange logic!!! I would suggest if that's how a guy treats a lady then no wonder he is single. Women love to be pampered. " Correct me if Ia m wrong, but it is still the 21st century isn't it? Why should a single guy be made to bring stuff along? What would the OP feel like if I said couples were numpties because they had never brought me a gift? Pretty crap I reckon. Yes, they should bring condoms, but then everyone should, but why should they bring gifts? | |||
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"Correct me if Ia m wrong, but it is still the 21st century isn't it? Why should a single guy be made to bring stuff along? What would the OP feel like if I said couples were numpties because they had never brought me a gift? Pretty crap I reckon. Yes, they should bring condoms, but then everyone should, but why should they bring gifts?" Its not a question of being politically correct and changing with the times, its simply being courteous. Whether its a swinging party or not, to turn up without a bottle is discourteous. You would expect to drink that persons wine but wouldn't bring any of your own? It would be a pretty boring party if we all sat round drinking water. A guy contacted us recently for some fun. We told him we didn't accommodate so he asked us to book a hotel room and he would visit us. He didn't even offer a contribution to the cost of the room. When we raised the question about sharing the cost his reply was, 'You must be joking'. I'm sure that most reasonable people would agree that when invited to a party it is good manners and 'de rigueur' to take a bottle of wine. Of course, there is no accounting for taste... QED | |||
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"think i'm going to fan the flames on this one, and give an interesting quote by stephen fry "If women liked sex as much as men, there would be straight cruising areas in the way there are gay cruising areas. Women would go and hang around in churchyards thinking: ‘God, I’ve got to get my fucking rocks off’, or they’d go to Hampstead Heath and meet strangers to shag behind a bush. It doesn’t happen. Why? Because the only women you can have sex with like that wish to be paid for it. I feel sorry for straight men. The only reason women will have sex with them is that sex is the price they are willing to pay for a relationship with a man, which is what they want. Of course, a lot of women will deny this and say, ‘Oh no, but I love sex, I love it!’ But do they go around having it the way that gay men do?" re the issue over wine, it's more about who you are, if you were invited to a friends for dinner, you would either turn up with a bottle or not. Am single by choice, whether i meet someone that looks to persue this lifestyle only time will tell..." he got a lot of abuse of leading feminist groups for that I remember when that was in the news lol | |||
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"I personally have never expected men, or anyone to bring a drink over. If they do, cool, but I wouldn't see it as rude if not. At the end of the day, they are there for me to screw, not to have a date or a meal with." Couldn't agree more its a swingers site not come dine with me !! | |||
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"Just putting my tuppence worth in here....surely if the guy is driving, why would he want a drink anyway???" I always bring it as a gift rather than to consume cant stand the stuff myself | |||
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" Whether it’s a swinging party or not, to turn up without a bottle is discourteous" How can it be discourteous to not bring a bottle? Is that the same mentality of “you’re shagging my wife so you can bring a gift?” or is it that you need to get wasted before anything happens and you’re too tight to by your own alcohol? It is true that the general opinion is single guys are in fact not single and I could say the same for some of the single ladies. Regardless of why they choose that status is their choice, after all they “singletons” are filling your needs. There was a really good post on single swingers I forget where I read it so to be brief. Couples include singles into their relationship both men and women, be it because there is insecurity, jealousy or for other reasons. The singleton is then given a “thank you for coming” no pun intended at the end of the meet and they get sent on their way to sleep in their bed alone for the night, very courteous. Maybe that’s a conscious choice they make who knows. What I do know is both parties should bring protection have a mutual respect for each other and not presume anything. As it was so eloquently put " they are there for me to screw, not to have a date or a meal with. " | |||
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"I'm sure that most reasonable people would agree that when invited to a party it is good manners and 'de rigueur' to take a bottle of wine. Of course, there is no accounting for taste... QED " Your original post didn't mention parties. If you are going to change the goalposts then at least let us know! A party is different, but surely then it is up to the organiser to let people know what is expected? If a party doesn't state BYOB then I think someone should be forgiven for not bringing something. But a private meet, just you and them, why should they bring something? And it has nothing to do with being 'politically correct' . It's 2012 so why do single men have to spend money on couples and single females? Would you expect a single female to bring a bottle? If not, why not? Honestly, the entitlement in this post. Shocking. | |||
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"pmsl" What do you mean by PMS, apart from the obvious? | |||
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"pmsl What do you mean by PMS, apart from the obvious?" IM language for Pissing Myself Laughing. Mostly it's not literally meant but it's commonly used when something strikes someone as extremely funny. | |||
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"..."Couples include singles into their relationship both men and women, be it because there is insecurity, jealousy or for other reasons." " Not that I want to change the ops initial comment. There seems to be some misinterpretation it was intended to read, "couples prefer singles to other couples for the reasons stated" although some would disagree Must proof read in future I still wouldnt take a bottle though | |||
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"pmsl" A valuable contribution to this thread no doubt... | |||
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"Have you ever wondered why there are so many single guys on this site. Is it that they choose to remain single or is it that they simply cannot get a girlfriend? We frequently meet single guys and it's surpassing how many turn up empty handed. Not only do some guys not bring anything to drink, but don't bring condoms either. Some guys say that they didn't know if we preferred white or red so they didn't bring anything. Rather strange logic!!! I would suggest if that's how a guy treats a lady then no wonder he is single. Women love to be pampered. " or maybe.... just maybe that says just as much about you in the way that you choose the single men you play with.... as it does about some single men itself... I know... its a radical concept.. looking hard at the way you do your swinging and the people you are attracting....... | |||
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"If we are invited to a party (swinging or otherwise), be it with a couple or single guy, we would always take a bottle or two of wine. " Is this for your own consumption or the other parties ? So in an effort to get the thread back to the initial question of "why single men are single" It seems to be from the posts that the majority is out of choice. There will always be a greater ratio of men than couples and the time I've been on the scene a vast amount of "single guys" will either get a fuck buddy or leave the scene. Very few actually last and even fewer get the reputation to warrant spending the time to meet. I would repeat what was stated above "I know... its a radical concept.. looking hard at the way you do your swinging and the people you are attracting......." | |||
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"Oh yes are you looking for meets or free wine and condoms ? il bring a case of red and white ! and a condom x " id rather use a glass | |||
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" By not agreeing with this speaks volumes." I beg to differ. Last I checked, I was here for fun, flirting and to broaden my sexual horizons. Not for a winetasting session. | |||
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" By not agreeing with this speaks volumes. I beg to differ. Last I checked, I was here for fun, flirting and to broaden my sexual horizons. Not for a winetasting session." Don't forget to crook your little finger like so when drinking tea, oh, and probably best to avail yourself of a quality broadsheet for the pre-coital natter. | |||
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" By not agreeing with this speaks volumes. I beg to differ. Last I checked, I was here for fun, flirting and to broaden my sexual horizons. Not for a winetasting session." Ava it's a deal ! lets do it | |||
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"Dull" and whats the forecast for the w/end | |||
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" By not agreeing with this speaks volumes. I beg to differ. Last I checked, I was here for fun, flirting and to broaden my sexual horizons. Not for a winetasting session. Ava it's a deal ! lets do it " Hop on, babeh!;) | |||
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"I personally have never expected men, or anyone to bring a drink over. If they do, cool, but I wouldn't see it as rude if not. At the end of the day, they are there for me to screw, not to have a date or a meal with. Couldn't agree more its a swingers site not come dine with me !! " Fab comment ,swinging not come dine with me, lol fab | |||
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"I don't mind bringing a bottle! I've even been known to turn up with a bunch of flowers for the lady of the house. But make no mistake, some of us on here, due to natures' design, have been endowed with penises that are larger and thicker than the average. We also have more staying power that most and can repeat and have multiple orgasms while delivering what can sometimes be your partners' best of sexual experience of her life so far. There is no equality for men aren't created equal, especially when it comes to sex. If you want free wine....cool..I'll bring a £4.99 bottle of Jacobs Creek, but if your wife or partner is looking for a certain kind of experience, then manners are free....but the sex is priceless! " You've just put so many women off you by bigging yourself up. | |||
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"You've just put so many women off you by bigging yourself up. " Oh I don't know if he has, but the photos of him having unprotected sex might | |||
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"You've just put so many women off you by bigging yourself up. Oh I don't know if he has, but the photos of him having unprotected sex might " We can only go by what the fems of the cpls we meet say. | |||
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"You've just put so many women off you by bigging yourself up. Oh I don't know if he has, but the photos of him having unprotected sex might " Another 10 ft on the barge pole and still no !!! Not even with a bottle of blue nun ! | |||
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"You've just put so many women off you by bigging yourself up. Oh I don't know if he has, but the photos of him having unprotected sex might Another 10 ft on the barge pole and still no !!! Not even with a bottle of blue nun ! " Fair play, thats funny lol | |||
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