FabSwingers.com forum: To many single guys

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The number of supposedly single guys on this site outnumbers the number of couples and single women by a factor of about 20.

I use the word supposedly as it is amazing that the vast majority of them can not accommodate, have no pictures worth looking at and a profile description of about 6 words. You then add in the number of them who hide their profiles between visits its a bloody joke.

How difficult would it be to stop individuals who have no pictures on their profiles looking at pictures on other profiles. Why should someone who is not prepared to show a picture be allowed to perv over other members pictures.

In addition to register as a single guy you should have to as a minimum put up a head and shoulders shot this would get rid of the vast majority of them who are on here to collect pictures.

So come on all you silver and gold supporters lets start putting pressure on the people taking our money to add some additional checks in and lets start getting rid of the bloody time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just routinely go through & block those profiles, they can't see your pics then, Well unless they're on hot pics. There are loads of fake pics to go along with the fake profiles X

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

I can't accommodate as don't live alone but genuinely single and also don't have much in the way of pics on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

There are some of genuine single fella on this site. If they can't accommodate, does not they are not genuine or single. Im a single parent, lucky my chils has consistent days stay with both parents. There are some single parents may not be in a position to accommodate.

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

With the internet progressing as it is and the publicity the site has had through various sources there were bound to be more people finding this site.

It is really difficult but you got to try not to tar everybody with the same brush as there are genuine single males on here. We have found that it's easier to meet these at socials and clubs as you do get alot of keyboard warriors and we don't have the time or patience for these.

Mrs

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By *emmeFatale_XWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

I just think of you don't want your pics looked at by who knows...put them in private...then no one can picture collect the the ones your not willing for them to see ....thats the beauty of options

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some single guys like discretion still. I’ll happily send pics in a PM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have filters up to stop anyone without public pics contacting us.

When we was searching for single males we put a good description of the type of man we was looking for if they obviously wasn't what we described we just blocked.

We also done a lot of our own searching and contacted the men we thought was what we were looking for.

Maybe we was lucky but we never really had any problems.

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By *aydee65Man
over a year ago

Near Merthyr

Some of us have very sensitive jobs and as such could encounter serious problems if certain individuals found out who we are. It doesn't necessarily mean that we're not genuine. Personally I can accom and have a string of verifications proving that I am genuine, but if a single guy lives with a family member or has children at home then he clearly can not accom. Again it's no indication that he's not genuine. I've been here many years and know that there are way too many timewasters on here (including pic collectors) but I'm sure some of the women are guilty of that too. If and when I'm lining up a meet then I'm more than happy to share photographs.... after all, I wouldn't meet someone without seeing them and wouldn't expect others to do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of us have very sensitive jobs and as such could encounter serious problems if certain individuals found out who we are. It doesn't necessarily mean that we're not genuine. Personally I can accom and have a string of verifications proving that I am genuine, but if a single guy lives with a family member or has children at home then he clearly can not accom. Again it's no indication that he's not genuine. I've been here many years and know that there are way too many timewasters on here (including pic collectors) but I'm sure some of the women are guilty of that too. If and when I'm lining up a meet then I'm more than happy to share photographs.... after all, I wouldn't meet someone without seeing them and wouldn't expect others to do so."

exactly x

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

Agree with you on this one

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By *ay rickMan
over a year ago

cardiff

Kinda lost me in someways...I personally wouldn't say to any stranger heyyyyyy here's my address come on over!!..just coz single guys doesn't make any different to the ohhhh we're couples or femz so discretion is important or we get lots of options on here lol I say be respectful..show only what your comfortable with...and be foooookin normal..I treat this site like real life..enjoy it and take it for what it is

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