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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is having to many varies a put off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv been told that I have to many by a couple in the past and a single fem... you have only got 8?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me but there are an awful lot of judgemental people on Fab, run your profile how you wish & not for the approval of others X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would depend on the context in all honesty. Some can have many verifications and it just means they are a social butterfly. If someone had a huge amount of play veries, it would put me off in all honesty. I wouldn't want to feel like I was another notch. How people conduct their profiles and how many they meet, is entirely up to them. I would just see them as someone that wouldn't fit my own personal search criteria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would depend on the context in all honesty. Some can have many verifications and it just means they are a social butterfly. If someone had a huge amount of play veries, it would put me off in all honesty. I wouldn't want to feel like I was another notch. How people conduct their profiles and how many they meet, is entirely up to them. I would just see them as someone that wouldn't fit my own personal search criteria "

I have a lot of social ones but people don’t bother reading them just look at the number and think you have fucked half of fab lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

I find it bizarre that people on here judge others based on the number of meets they've had

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Happens all the time I went to a party the weekend cause there was multiple woman thay thought I slept with them all and that was not the case

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By *ay rickMan
over a year ago

cardiff

If loads of play veris then not for me personally but that's not judgement that's pure choice...do what you want I say and if your comfortable with it who cares there's plenty of people here to match everyone's preferences

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By *andK78Couple
over a year ago

Newport

We have not got loads, enough to get us invited to parties and to show who we are also what we like.

The rest is private for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the main thing is if they read the veris. I couldn’t get any interest when I joined and people understandably thought I was fake. I went to a daytime social and got some veris, then had someone say they didn’t like me because of who I’d met, even though it says social meet. Frustrating but hey ho

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

People often don't read them if you have loads, and just assume that you will hop into bed with anyone who offers.

We show all ours because someone went to the effort of putting their opinion into words, so it's only good manners to display it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really care if a person has hopped about, that shows me they're not going to attach, they turn up & they're going to have fun. What puts me off is those with none who talk as if you're a cum dump, at least the busy ones will have comments about respectful behaviour etc. What number could you put on too many 10, 20, 100? Isn't this a swinging site or are we now just an extention of a dating site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't judge and would hope never to be judged

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That’s great you don’t thanks for the input all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very true x as mine say all genuine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a certain kind of single women do this judgement usually those on here for NSA rather than swinging.

I know in the past some fb’s of mine found it hard to get a meet because of veri’s from me because apparently I’m/I was a slag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would depend on the context in all honesty. Some can have many verifications and it just means they are a social butterfly. If someone had a huge amount of play veries, it would put me off in all honesty. I wouldn't want to feel like I was another notch. How people conduct their profiles and how many they meet, is entirely up to them. I would just see them as someone that wouldn't fit my own personal search criteria

I have a lot of social ones but people don’t bother reading them just look at the number and think you have fucked half of fab lol "

If only they knew how many were on here. Even if they were all play meets, you would have barely scratched the surface

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People often don't read them if you have loads, and just assume that you will hop into bed with anyone who offers.

We show all ours because someone went to the effort of putting their opinion into words, so it's only good manners to display it.

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Ahhh you've just reminded me. I need to re-verify you

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By *onkers 76Man
over a year ago

pontypool

Always have a read but rarely puts me off , at the end of the day that's why we're all here .(to meet ppl not gain veris)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a certain kind of single women do this judgement usually those on here for NSA rather than swinging.

I know in the past some fb’s of mine found it hard to get a meet because of veri’s from me because apparently I’m/I was a slag. "

I'm in that group, my veri can be like a kids of death. I don't care who someone has met so long as my experience is worthwhile & I'm their focus whilst they're with me X

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By *onkers 76Man
over a year ago

pontypool


"I think a certain kind of single women do this judgement usually those on here for NSA rather than swinging.

I know in the past some fb’s of mine found it hard to get a meet because of veri’s from me because apparently I’m/I was a slag.

I'm in that group, my veri can be like a kids of death. I don't care who someone has met so long as my experience is worthwhile & I'm their focus whilst they're with me X"

Oh I'm sure you would be x

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"People often don't read them if you have loads, and just assume that you will hop into bed with anyone who offers.

We show all ours because someone went to the effort of putting their opinion into words, so it's only good manners to display it.

Ahhh you've just reminded me. I need to re-verify you "

Mmm, that would be lovely, drop us a FR too hun so we can perv.... erm I mean stay in touch xxx

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

One thing a lot of people don't realise is, someone with just one veri shown could have met and played with dozens of people, and just not shown the veries.

Surely better to know someone is genuine, and turns up, and is respectful?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm one of those judgemental women then as when I was meeting I would be put off someone by who they had met.

I would never say who or why as it was just my preference.

Also lots of single females get very territorial once they have met a guy and dont like sharing.

This site can be hard work and to much hassle these days and thats why I have now changed the way I use Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a funny old site tbh when porn stars can’t get meets.

Haha Peachy yes kiss of death! On the bright side those fem’s that had a problem with me are probably no longer on the site.

Only thing that puts me off is men with lots of repeat veris from one person with no-one else in between (yes I was guilty of this in the past with one guy in particular) oh and straight men with veris from other men.

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By *onkers 76Man
over a year ago

pontypool


"It’s a funny old site tbh when porn stars can’t get meets.

Haha Peachy yes kiss of death! On the bright side those fem’s that had a problem with me are probably no longer on the site.

Only thing that puts me off is men with lots of repeat veris from one person with no-one else in between (yes I was guilty of this in the past with one guy in particular) oh and straight men with veris from other men. "

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By *ardiffCoupleNJCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd/Rhyfelin

Doesn't matter to us at all! It's a swingers site after all. We do look through them as its gives us an idea about people.

E.g. if we get a message from a guy in response to a meet request & on checking veri's he's met 43 single lasses, none over the age of 27, we'll kind of assume he's gonna take a 'better' offer if it comes along in the meantime!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a funny old site tbh when porn stars can’t get meets.

Haha Peachy yes kiss of death! On the bright side those fem’s that had a problem with me are probably no longer on the site.

Only thing that puts me off is men with lots of repeat veris from one person with no-one else in between (yes I was guilty of this in the past with one guy in particular) oh and straight men with veris from other men. "

Any woman who actively meets & appears to have a good time is considered the kiss of death. If I was bothered by who a man met in between tbh I'd never meet anyone, can't say I'm fussed on many women here anymore X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't judge and would hope never to be judged "

Not even a 10/10 for that top bott?

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By *onny-n-clydeCouple
over a year ago

cwmbran,


"People often don't read them if you have loads, and just assume that you will hop into bed with anyone who offers.

We show all ours because someone went to the effort of putting their opinion into words, so it's only good manners to display it.

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By *eswillMan
over a year ago

Chepstow

Veri,s do not tell you how many people someone played with.

You can have only one veri showing and have 100 veri,s not showing.

I meet a number of people several times and have no veri off them to show.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

Read into them what you will, I always take them with a pinch of salt anyway

And just because someone has many veris it doesn't mean they're as promiscuous as a rabbit on speed

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