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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just been blocked by a lady who shall remain nameless. We were talking and she seemed keen to meet on Tuesday. We both agreed condoms should be used. I asked her where she likes cum. In condom? Over her or swallow? This has resulted in me being blocked.

So the question is? Is asking that before a meet out of order or is it just clarifying what is expected? For the record I didn't ask if I could cum in her mouth

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

People are funny (peculiar)!

Just put it down to fab quirkiness and move on

You can't change a block, so unfortunately you'll never know the answer

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By *logger and Rainbow-AliceCouple
over a year ago

Bridgend

I think it's good discussing these things before sex. Nothing worse then asking just as your about to Cum so I think you did the right thing.x Mrs

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By *ich_and_LizCouple
over a year ago

Cornwall

If you don’t like the fact she blocked you just feel grateful you didn’t have to meet her and waste your time. If you now think it’s weird then you had a lucky escape. Just move on until you find some ones that like your ways... she obviously didn't !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky escape & she likely had 2nd thoughts for other reasons. I prefer to do all the do's n don'ts ahead of the meet but it is a fine balance because some guys see this as a licence to suddenly switch to fantasy talk X

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

People use the block button in many varying ways on here. The important thing to remember is that she saved you wasting your time, move on and don't worry

Mrs

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By *emon DelightMan
over a year ago

South Wales


"People use the block button in many varying ways on here. The important thing to remember is that she saved you wasting your time, move on and don't worry

Mrs"

So true - I recently got blocked for winking at someone!!

To be fair - she probably decided I wasn’t for her, and so blocked my profile in advance of receiving potential post-rejection abuse.

Not that I would send such abuse, mind - I’m actually a grown up, despite my behaviour occasionally suggesting otherwise!!

It’s just a shame that the idiots on here force you ladies to resort to such extreme measures

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Just been blocked by a lady who shall remain nameless. We were talking and she seemed keen to meet on Tuesday. We both agreed condoms should be used. I asked her where she likes cum. In condom? Over her or swallow? This has resulted in me being blocked.

So the question is? Is asking that before a meet out of order or is it just clarifying what is expected? For the record I didn't ask if I could cum in her mouth "

Sex talk before meet. Red flag - instant block.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just been blocked by a lady who shall remain nameless. We were talking and she seemed keen to meet on Tuesday. We both agreed condoms should be used. I asked her where she likes cum. In condom? Over her or swallow? This has resulted in me being blocked.

So the question is? Is asking that before a meet out of order or is it just clarifying what is expected? For the record I didn't ask if I could cum in her mouth

Sex talk before meet. Red flag - instant block. "

It wasn't sex talk as such it was more a case of finding out what was expected. There was no 'I am going to do this or that to you' as that is not who I am.

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By *logger and Rainbow-AliceCouple
over a year ago

Bridgend

I like talking about sex, i need to know if they are compatable with me. Thsts why im on here. I don't like the conversation starting off heavily but eventually I want the subject of sex to come up in the conversation x mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well it is what most of us are on here for!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Proactively blocking isn't 'extreme' its merely another tool available to you to manage your profile.

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

I often get blocked for sending polite messages so return the favour, just one of those things that go with being on here and like others have Saud people block for a variety of reasons

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By *emon DelightMan
over a year ago

South Wales


"Proactively blocking isn't 'extreme' its merely another tool available to you to manage your profile. "

Perhaps ‘extreme’ was the wrong choice of word - I clearly hadn’t considered the profile management aspect, despite having used that method myself, occasionally. Apologies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how you came across (no pun intended) OP. Some men can't discuss sex without turning into or at least coming across as pervy and extremely offputting. Maybe you unintentionally made the lady feel uncomfortable. Just forget about it and move on

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By *ich_and_LizCouple
over a year ago

Cornwall


"Depends how you came across (no pun intended) OP. Some men can't discuss sex without turning into or at least coming across as pervy and extremely offputting. Maybe you unintentionally made the lady feel uncomfortable. Just forget about it and move on "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We see blocking as a neutral act, it doesn't engender an emotion response from us, it's purely functional & it's the same if we're blocked, although we rarely notice or even know lol X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got blocked for asking someone how there bowling social went

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By *ighugs69Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot

Getting blocked mid conversation, when you think things are going great isn't a great feeling. But as said above it's best to do the same. Block it out of your memory and move on.

It happens all too often for many reasons. As said previously in this thread explicit sex talk before you've met or even talked on the phone is a red flag.

Fake accounts, usually men pretending to be single women/couples will try to string you along for as long as they can and then block you.

Personally I don't get my hopes (or anything else) up until I'm face to face with someone or at the very least spoken on the phone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sites gone down the shitter pal, I got blocked for replying to a posted meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The sites gone down the shitter pal, I got blocked for replying to a posted meet "

I got blocked for being an ignorant cunt because I didn't reply IMMEDIATELY to a message, they could have called me that for so many better reasons tbh X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s some strange people on here

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By *emon DelightMan
over a year ago

South Wales


"There’s some strange people on here "

Different strokes for different folks... (now I’m really showing my age )

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By *ighugs69Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot


"There’s some strange people on here

Different strokes for different folks... (now I’m really showing my age )"

What'chu talkin' 'bout, Willis?

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By *emon DelightMan
over a year ago

South Wales

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s some strange people on here

Different strokes for different folks... (now I’m really showing my age )

What'chu talkin' 'bout, Willis? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well, I just got blocked for verifying someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocked for, in her words being the perfect Gent on a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha we got blocked last night after some bloke sent a msg at 1:45am I read it after my phone buzzed half asleep then marked it unread,he responded by calling us rude and ignorant.

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