FabSwingers.com forum: First time meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been on here a while and i just cant seem to get around to getting my first meet!? Maybe im going about it the wrong way!? Any tips?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your photos aren't good

You can't accom

Your profile is very bare

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

"Your photos aren't good

You can't accom

Your profile is very bare

MissP69, pulling no punches since, well.... A long time

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

Week you've found the forums, so that's a good start.

Now try a search on "profile" and you'll find hundreds of threads on this subject, all with the same advice??

Basically, your profile is a shop window, so do you want to be Poundland or House of Fraser?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have other photos they're just private, and i can't accom because i live with housemates lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Week you've found the forums, so that's a good start.

Now try a search on "profile" and you'll find hundreds of threads on this subject, all with the same advice??

Basically, your profile is a shop window, so do you want to be Poundland or House of Fraser? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have other photos they're just private, and i can't accom because i live with housemates lol "

I agree with missp .. ur profile is very bare add some personality to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have other photos they're just private, and i can't accom because i live with housemates lol "

Yes exactly so you’ve now got to push what’s left to “sell” advertise yourself but few more pics up that your happy to put public always handy to keep a few private though, then pump up your profile, make the fact you can’t accomodate and your best pics are private seem less of a hurdle and more of a mere inconvenience that can be managed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your photos aren't good

You can't accom

Your profile is very bare

MissP69, pulling no punches since, well.... A long time

Jack I was being nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone ill add some more information to my profile and some teasing pics, think it may help if women find out im a georide ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks everyone ill add some more information to my profile and some teasing pics, think it may help if women find out im a georide ?? "

Is that supposed to say geordie or are you some sort rock riding cowboy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks everyone ill add some more information to my profile and some teasing pics, think it may help if women find out im a georide ??

Is that supposed to say geordie or are you some sort rock riding cowboy? "

Lmaooo yeah Geordie hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks everyone ill add some more information to my profile and some teasing pics, think it may help if women find out im a georide ??

Is that supposed to say geordie or are you some sort rock riding cowboy? "

And there was me gonna get my loopy on for a bit of that geo ride no idea what it was but fuck it sounded good

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By *rgasmicFunCouple
over a year ago

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"Your photos aren't good

You can't accom

Your profile is very bare

Miss P, is right its a crap profile, with so many guys on here u have to sell your self, and make u look interesting, would u meet some one with your profile, better pics not just cock, and more info about u, and get to the clubs and socials let ppl get to know u, have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks everyone ill add some more information to my profile and some teasing pics, think it may help if women find out im a georide ??

Is that supposed to say geordie or are you some sort rock riding cowboy?

And there was me gonna get my loopy on for a bit of that geo ride no idea what it was but fuck it sounded good"

Lmaoo it was a typo

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Maybe be a bit more picky with your age range too. Women see 18-99 and think oh he's her to fuck anything and everything. Think about the age group you actually find attractive.

Read or at least scan a profile and use snippets of their info to make a message personal to them. Otherwise you'll messages will seem copy and paste.

Don't include cock pics with a message straight away wait till you're asked to see them (and they will)

But most of all Patience is needed on here. There are a vast amount of men on here all wanting the same. Start moaning and you'll hit people's block list.

Don't think cause you're on a swingers site you're guaranteed anything.

Follow all the advice given above by helpful people and you just might get somewhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe be a bit more picky with your age range too. Women see 18-99 and think oh he's her to fuck anything and everything. Think about the age group you actually find attractive.

Read or at least scan a profile and use snippets of their info to make a message personal to them. Otherwise you'll messages will seem copy and paste.

Don't include cock pics with a message straight away wait till you're asked to see them (and they will)

But most of all Patience is needed on here. There are a vast amount of men on here all wanting the same. Start moaning and you'll hit people's block list.

Don't think cause you're on a swingers site you're guaranteed anything.

Follow all the advice given above by helpful people and you just might get somewhere "

Thanks everyone for all your advice i have taken it all on and already updated the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you considered getting on cams, or going to a social, where you don't need to be verified to attend? Sometimes the green tick can let people know you are genuine and will be more likely to respond (not foolproof, but may help). At the socials, you may meet some friendly faces and may even meet someone where there is a mutual attraction and you could arrange a meet at a later date from that. It's a good way to get your face out there

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you considered getting on cams, or going to a social, where you don't need to be verified to attend? Sometimes the green tick can let people know you are genuine and will be more likely to respond (not foolproof, but may help). At the socials, you may meet some friendly faces and may even meet someone where there is a mutual attraction and you could arrange a meet at a later date from that. It's a good way to get your face out there

If i knew how to do all that i would ?? i know my profile says ive been here ages but i really dont use it as much as i should lol

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