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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do so many married men pretend to be single? Answers on a postcard please, oh I know, because they think with their dicks and have no respect for women...............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree hot, plus it's the fems who will actually go with married guy's regardless of the conciquences...........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonders who is going to put her hand up and admit to it lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been shagging a married man, but he told me he was single when we met, then after seeing him for over a year he tells me he's married but separated. Then after being separated for 8 yrs he went back to his wife..... said he was going to be a good boy and behave himself, funny that he was over my house a couple of days after moving back in with the Mrs!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting for sex is fine, if you both know the score.

Problems arise when one of you wants more that what was originally wanted.

Being married will prevent too many random meets and is doomed after a few meets...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually only play in a club, and generally with a lot of guys at once - theres no way im asking each one first if he is married and what the home situation is like!!

xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I usually only play in a club, and generally with a lot of guys at once - theres no way im asking each one first if he is married and what the home situation is like!!

xx"

Bit different when he's a regular, and by that I mean up to 3 times a week occasionally and at least once a week, to find out after a year that he's married...... wondered why he could never stay over, I have my suspicions that he was never separated!!!

Nice to know you can trust someone you've known so long.

Clubs are different of course, you can't very well give them a quesionnaire at the door!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never mind trace,

If he's a cheating liar just remember he's not worth being in your life or bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Bit different when he's a regular, and by that I mean up to 3 times a week occasionally and at least once a week, to find out after a year that he's married...... wondered why he could never stay over, I have my suspicions that he was never separated!!!

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Thats so wrong of him, especially if your suspicion is right. You should have sent him home one night with a lovebite on his bum, that would have exposed him if he wasnt separated!

xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Bit different when he's a regular, and by that I mean up to 3 times a week occasionally and at least once a week, to find out after a year that he's married...... wondered why he could never stay over, I have my suspicions that he was never separated!!!

Thats so wrong of him, especially if your suspicion is right. You should have sent him home one night with a lovebite on his bum, that would have exposed him if he wasnt separated!

xx"

Not sure I've ever given a love bite in my life, bitten a few bastards though!!! lol

Quite right Tash, kick him into touch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

married guy here, don't pretend to be anything else. Find this thread a little bit one eyed to be honest. Granted married guys shouldn't pretend to be single but to label all married men as cheating bastards is not really on. Why? Because it doesn't really cover people's unique circumstances, now I am not going to bleat about my situation it is what it is, but if anyone could tell me that this was my design to end up on a swingers site to satisfy a certain part of my life I would have mocked them. The separation of love and sex is paramount to this point, I love my wife we don't have sex for reasons I would not wish to disclose here. Let us not forget there are a myriad of married women here too, lots pretending to be single, but it seems (I am happy to be challenged on this) that it is one rule for married women (they must have their reasons) and one for men (he's a cheating bastard)

ok all done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to feel the same about married men and I would rather them be upfront. You cant make an informed choice based on lies.

We ALL have our reasons for being here,even if we dont agree with some of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"married guy here, don't pretend to be anything else. Find this thread a little bit one eyed to be honest. Granted married guys shouldn't pretend to be single but to label all married men as cheating bastards is not really on. Why? Because it doesn't really cover people's unique circumstances, now I am not going to bleat about my situation it is what it is, but if anyone could tell me that this was my design to end up on a swingers site to satisfy a certain part of my life I would have mocked them. The separation of love and sex is paramount to this point, I love my wife we don't have sex for reasons I would not wish to disclose here. Let us not forget there are a myriad of married women here too, lots pretending to be single, but it seems (I am happy to be challenged on this) that it is one rule for married women (they must have their reasons) and one for men (he's a cheating bastard)

ok all done"

well said! ....xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thanks tands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so does your wife know your on here?, i agree some married fem's say they are single, and no there is no different rules.

Think of the poor spouse when she finds out the man she loves has been fucking others !...........not nice.

SORRY YES I AM A WIFE THAT WAS CHEATED ON !

RANT OVER...........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kes and I get fed up with people throwing labels around liars, cheats, bi, gay, straight bitches bastards etc etc!

We are all adults here and free to make our own choices without having to explain ourselves to anyone, we as a couple like to add spice to our love life by playing separately sometimes and no strings no guilt fun with others. As long as your honest in what you do, then where's the harm!

If people want to judge us without knowing anything about our decisions or discussions then don't dare to call us ignorant stupid cheats etc! And yes I (mike) do have a single guy profile on here with the full knowledge of my wife and yes I use it but in the end!!!! FFs this is fun NOT real life. Xxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mean people label us as above!!! Just comments in general lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi well said kes and mike x

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast

well as far as i am concerned this is a swing site, i dont see anything wrong with meeting either married men/women.Afterall its all abt nsa fun.there r sum ppl on here who have girlfriends/boyfrnds or fiances.its all abt preference.well thats my opinion.

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By *elshcoup3Couple
over a year ago

rhondda cynon taff

Well put ... kes-n-mike

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's a totally different aspect if it's with the knowledge and agreement of your partner..... I'm talking about men who pretend to be single when they're not, then fuck anything that moves. It would break my heart to find my partner was sharing his favours with other women, but we are all adults as has been said, and we make our own choices.

It's the pretece of being single that annoys.......

I wrote this post after getting pissed, so perhaps I was a little over enthusiastic..... my apologies if I irritated anyone, but that woulnd't be a first.....

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By *elshcoup3Couple
over a year ago

rhondda cynon taff

you spoke your thoughts at the time, nothing wrong with that ....xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"you spoke your thoughts at the time, nothing wrong with that ....xx"

Thank you hun xx

It was lovely to see you both on Saturday xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all guilty of being enthusiastic about things we care about (human nature) and can certainly see why people get cheesed off with certain aspects of the scene, we both live by the adage be honest with others and they'll be honest with you, (to simplistic I know lol ) but this is a community where word really does around quickly so just be straight..... people don't really care about marital status just trust and honesty!!!

(OMG I just read all this back to myself...... this is deep for me ffs better get back to being a tw@t ) lol

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are somtimes expectations from a meet, ones that are not based purley on sex. With this some might want or be looking for a relationship, that then causs problems if one is attached.

In th great scheme of things, if its sex, then its sex!

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