FabSwingers.com forum: Whats youre thoughts on this.?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have been to chams a few times before with my ex girlfriend and ive been on here with her and since weve split....i have found my self a new girlfriend who has the same sexual interests as me(swinging)....ive told her about the club and said it was a friend i knee who been there i havenr told her ive exp anything and i want her and me to exp new rhings together....anyway im scared pf taking her amd someone man or woman coming up to me saying they recognise me from the sote ect when my girl dont know ive been here before....any suggestions?stay away or go..

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By *n Search Of SunsetCouple
over a year ago

Search Of Sunset

Go somewhere new you both haven't been to.

Make a weekend away of it.

Vanilla Alternative near Sandy in Bedfordshite is worth a visit followed by a day in Stratford or another lovely town in Warwickshire..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pro tip: don't lie to women, no matter how early on to a relationship.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Why did you feel the need to say you'd never been to the club before? If she's into it the same as you, what harm would telling the truth do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell the truth, it always comes out. Best she hesrs it from you. Then your conscienc is clear and you can move forward happily. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why did you feel the need to say you'd never been to the club before? If she's into it the same as you, what harm would telling the truth do? "

I agree with you here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pro tip: don't lie to women, no matter how early on to a relationship. "

This, if its complicated already its doomed before you start. What if you decide to attend socials together etc, where will it all end X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pro tip: don't lie to women, no matter how early on to a relationship.

This, if its complicated already its doomed before you start. What if you decide to attend socials together etc, where will it all end X"

I agree also swinging requires honesty and trust and your breaking that already! I would own up with the truth as it always creeps out

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

100% agree with all the points above. Swinging requires honesty. A relationship to survive needs trust and honesty. Without either you have nothing really but a lie.

Hope it works out for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want to get yourself out of the hole, put the shovel down first

Tell the truth from the start !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pro tip: don't lie to women, no matter how early on to a relationship. "

I was being facetious, a combination of a long day at work and overtiredness.... I apologise for the quality of the post even if the message has merit.

If I were you OP I would come clean immediately without it being mentioned first if she is the type that doesn't accept mistruths no matter what, you might catch her in a good mood and get away with it. If she is one to deploy her own little white lies every now and then (ie every 5 minutes) then come clean as soon the subject is mentioned again, you might even get brownie points for being even more honest and owning up to the fib than you thought

Or you can just maintain the lie, and hope you are never outed as a miscreant who cannot be trusted by a mate who has a big mouth.....

Or worse, the ex-girlfriend

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By *ve 66Woman
over a year ago

Blackwood

Trouble with lying you got to have a brilliant memory as youl slip up along the way sometime

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