FabSwingers.com forum: That awful moment

By *retty Good OP Man
over a year ago

Cardiff Bay

Sure it's the same for females and couples but when you chat to someone it's seems great and then you swap a pic or two and realise that there profile description is all wrong or the pics dont match expectation

Super sucks

And fab is hard enough as it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sure it's the same for females and couples but when you chat to someone it's seems great and then you swap a pic or two and realise that there profile description is all wrong or the pics dont match expectation

Super sucks

And fab is hard enough as it is

Thats why real life meets are better than online.people can instantly be attracted to someone then chat for real.

Online we all let people know just enough as we need to keep things private untill we get to know people and that includes photos.

Its all a bit of a raffel sometimes you get the top prize sometimes you get dissapointed .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why we do the pic thing from the off saves a lot of wasted time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's why we do the pic thing from the off saves a lot of wasted time

Definitely this

Exchange of face pics before getting drawn into conversation is vital as if you find the other party unattractive, or vice versa, it saves a lot of wasted time and false hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep getting told I’m to young looking lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I always ask for a face pic before I even start to talk saves everyone time as if I am not physically attracted I wouldn’t even bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I can say is that it is a good job that I don't rely on my profile or my pics to gain an interest from someone! All my meets have come from face to face accidental socials

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

Could be worse, could open up that pic and see one of your parents staring back at you. Shudders

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Face pic from the get go to establish if the attraction is there

saves time, messaging that then doesn't meet expectations when you see them and cuts out those said awkward moments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours is always an early exchange of face pics.

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