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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello everyone. I was wondering what's the best way to start a conversation by message. I have found that if i am nice and polite saying things like hello and asking if they would be interested in chatting sometime even through i have included a face pic at times almost all the time the messages get deleted without a reply. if i go the opposite way and send naughty messages i get the same respones. i know women get loads of messages and they can't read them all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i want pussy juice all over my mouth" that might not help ya case but if you are polite in ya messages like u have said i wudnt change just keep on going 1 day it will happen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I suppose that status updates like that won't help attracting some women most time i don't have one other times i just write any women up for a chat. the thing is i seem to use the similar rule that i would for a job interview if it formal then i go in formal clothes and behave in a formal fashion but if its casual then i dress and behave casual. so i if they have a nice profile then i respond with a nice message but if its naughty then i send a naughty message. if they written some very naughty things they like and want to do and i just respond with hello fancy a chat i am not going to get a response. the thing is that maybe if women could block more on here so if you did do a search they don't come up in the results then you wouldn't be able send messages to ones not interested in someone like you . example of blocks could be body shape and distance from them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant speak for anyone else but first thing I do is look see if they verified and also if they can accomodate. I totally understand that we all have to start somewhere with verifications but the amount of times we have arranged a meet with a non verified and theres a no show is unbelievable,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I understand about the verification i done the photo verification. through i haven't been by a person. i think that is a problem because there are people on here wanted to only meet people who have verification from someone else so they can get verified and i bet because there are people who want compliments on there profile. non verified can't leave comments. i do understand verification is to make things safe for people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how about changing ya profile pic from a cock to a face pic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i want to keep what i look like between me and who i meet. i know some people are ok with having public pics of there face. there are people on here who like to be more discreet. I could use a different pic i suppose but to be honest a pic of a fat hairy man dosent seem to increase my chances i would have more luck with no pics.The thing i have always wondered is women are offended by Cock pics but there profile could be of there fanny. i have never seen men complain about Fanny pics on here.

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

i get same response m8 and im polite in every message iv sent and they still get deleated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most single men, tend to send us messages, even though we aint interested in Single males, Do you actually read peoples profiles before sending message cause i guarenteed 98% of the men that send us a message do not read our profile, so therfore we delete.. if they then again send another message .. we block! ... i hate messages which is dirty and sleezy.. expecially when they write..

'Wanna Chat to an Ex army bloke'

'sexy fir firefighter here'

makes me sickkkkk!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think most men do read profiles but some who just send loads messages and friend invites i think that they haven't had much luck only contacting one or two women at a time so they just bulk send messages and hope they get someones attention. i think profiles are like job vacancys if it short and Dosent exclude certain people like on body size or other things then loads of people will apply but if it long and very detailed and you say what exactly you are looking for and what you are not then fewer people should apply. if women are getting messages from people they are not interested in and they have said in there profile they are not interested they should block them straight away.

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