FabSwingers.com forum: What do women prefer..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I do Ok on here so I can't complain but what I'm finding more of is being turned down for non gym-type hairy guys with one photo usually a dick pic and an empty bio.

This is not a rant just a curious observation.

Which do you prefer and why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know you're being turned down for these other guys , do the peoole you're trying to meet actually tell you they prefer them ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like a light hairy chest but it's not a necessity. Never gone for gym bods ever just normal shape. Decent photos and a profile explaining abit about that person helps too.

It just depends on the person im looking at overall xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What "type" do you class yourself as OP??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" How do you know you're being turned down for these other guys , do the peoole you're trying to meet actually tell you they prefer them ? "

A quick look at their recent veries tells you what you need to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" How do you know you're being turned down for these other guys , do the peoole you're trying to meet actually tell you they prefer them ?

A quick look at their recent veries tells you what you need to know"

You then go an visit the guys profiles and look at their pics??

Why??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" How do you know you're being turned down for these other guys , do the peoole you're trying to meet actually tell you they prefer them ?

A quick look at their recent veries tells you what you need to know

You then go an visit the guys profiles and look at their pics??

Why??"

Curiousity.

This post is not a personal attack on anyone so please don't attack me, I see you baiting but it's not working, I won't respond to you again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't have 1 particular type and I'm sure many are the same so I'm not sure using that method is an accurate way of judging whether someone will be interested or not but each to their own

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

I like a nice smile, nice eyes. Yes I admire gym fit men and have played with some I don't completely go for them. I like a man to be a man. I don't mind if they have a hairy chest in fact I'm growing to like this.

That said Im not keen on beer bellies either tho. Just personal preference sorry.

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent

Maybe you happen to be going for women who are attracted to those type of men?

You can’t really ask what women prefer because we don’t all like the same thing.

There’s no “one type” that all women go for.

Maybe you need to change who you’re going for, not wonder what they’re going for.

Maybe they only have one picture visible but lots private they’ve sent to them? Maybe their messages are better than yours? Lots of reason women go for a man. Yes profile is there to help attract but they’re not the only thing.

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By *issallureWoman
over a year ago

Llanelli

I generally find a man with a gym fit body is what turns me on but having said that a guy without those qualities who is great to chat to can at times be equally attractive.

If I’m honest as a curvier girl a good looking muscular man can sometime intimidate and bring out the odd insecurity.

I wouldn’t worry too much op you have a good profile and are clearly popular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" How do you know you're being turned down for these other guys , do the peoole you're trying to meet actually tell you they prefer them ?

A quick look at their recent veries tells you what you need to know

You then go an visit the guys profiles and look at their pics??

Why??

Curiousity.

This post is not a personal attack on anyone so please don't attack me, I see you baiting but it's not working, I won't respond to you again"

My utmost apologies OP if you took my question as a personal attack.

I genuinely didn't realise men took interest in the men women meet and thir veries etc. I thought that was more of a woman thing. Sorry again if I offended you, I was genuinely curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me taller is better thats what turns me on. Interestingly i tought i had a type blond blue eyed Viking

then since im up here im going with dark hair dark sking black eyed guys. It does vary mind it depends on personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do like a light hairy chest but it's not a necessity. Never gone for gym bods ever just normal shape. Decent photos and a profile explaining abit about that person helps too.

It just depends on the person im looking at overall xx

Appologies OP, I read your post wrong. As usual I need to read things at least 5 times. Your sexy as hell btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just my opinion but everyone's type is different some are interested on what's on the outside and others to certain traits or what's on the inside. my "type" depends on how the guy I'm talking to treats me for example.....On Friday i went out of my way to intro myself to a couple of newbie guys at chams throughout the night it was their first time and one was stood at the bar yes he was gym fit, had a great looking body and a cracking smile but I introduced myself because i know how daunting a first visit can be not for how he looked and this guy basically looked at me like I was somthing on his shoe and couldn't get away fast enough. Now yes I'm a bbw and yes I ain't that pretty and yes if I had been trying to chat him up or drueling all over him then yeah but i was just being nice yes he was good looking but he knew it. Ignorant and full of himself. but other guy was what I would call an average build fairly standard looking and he was soooo greatful that I had made the effort to make him feel less nervous. Ive found this to be the case on a few occasions (not lumping all gym fit guys in with this one thats just my experience so far) my "type" of guy is polite with great banta and the courtesy to say thankyou for making an effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do Ok on here so I can't complain but what I'm finding more of is being turned down for non gym-type hairy guys..."

I welcome this development.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well I ain't one to rock a 6pack or arms like Arnie lol but don't do to bad at all and some of the women I've had the pleasure of meeting or getting to know have said before now in conversations that they just don't want to meet someone who spends their free time in the gym or the mirror but someone who can meet or can keep their eyes on them rather than their reflection. not having a dig at anyone just putting it out there how some ladies feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like a nice smile, nice eyes. Yes I admire gym fit men and have played with some I don't completely go for them. I like a man to be a man. I don't mind if they have a hairy chest in fact I'm growing to like this.

That said Im not keen on beer bellies either tho. Just personal preference sorry. "
hey how are you ain't seen you for a while hope also ok xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I generally find a man with a gym fit body is what turns me on but having said that a guy without those qualities who is great to chat to can at times be equally attractive.

If I’m honest as a curvier girl a good looking muscular man can sometime intimidate and bring out the odd insecurity.

I wouldn’t worry too much op you have a good profile and are clearly popular "

Spot on this.

I don’t have a physical type really, it’s more about making me laugh and being interesting. I’d never first contact a crap profile but I have met someone with one just because their messages and demeanour I found very attractive.

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By *issallureWoman
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I generally find a man with a gym fit body is what turns me on but having said that a guy without those qualities who is great to chat to can at times be equally attractive.

If I’m honest as a curvier girl a good looking muscular man can sometime intimidate and bring out the odd insecurity.

I wouldn’t worry too much op you have a good profile and are clearly popular

Spot on this.

thanks lovely great profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I generally find a man with a gym fit body is what turns me on but having said that a guy without those qualities who is great to chat to can at times be equally attractive.

If I’m honest as a curvier girl a good looking muscular man can sometime intimidate and bring out the odd insecurity.

I wouldn’t worry too much op you have a good profile and are clearly popular "

Totally agree, as a size 18 that wobbles a gym type does intimidate me too. I prefer to read the bio. Humour is a must, and that can come through quite nicely, and can give you an idea as to their conversation abilities. You need to have humour and conversation, makes the sex better, in my opinion anyway!!

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