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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all,

Ok so I was approached by a Female who invited me to a party to which I accepted as they seemed decent and I was looking forward to it.

6 days later the Male 'cancelled' me and the reason was apparently he didn't want any males fitter than him attending (Their words).

I declined a meet with a nice Woman as I was booked for that party but my question is this a common thing with couple's that one half can get insecure about a guest? I haven't had this before the couple's I've met have been decent so slightly confused..

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By *ve 66Woman
over a year ago

Blackwood

Well their the ones losing out ... very tasty

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By *ouse and QuackersCouple
over a year ago

abergele

If they are that insecure then tbh they shouldn't be swinging at all imho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all,

Ok so I was approached by a Female who invited me to a party to which I accepted as they seemed decent and I was looking forward to it.

6 days later the Male 'cancelled' me and the reason was apparently he didn't want any males fitter than him attending (Their words).

I declined a meet with a nice Woman as I was booked for that party but my question is this a common thing with couple's that one half can get insecure about a guest? I haven't had this before the couple's I've met have been decent so slightly confused.."

Could have come to mine instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all human and sometimes insecurities can creep it sadly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As stated above no matter who the couple is or whatever their dynamic things can affect feelings of security, esteem & trust etc, these things can be very fluid. It's not necessarily a measure of the quality or other of a couple situation. Tbh op the excuses people give out are rarely a reflection of the true reason, just chalk it up to experience & move along X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they just changed their minds or found someone else they preferred so tried to let you down in a flattering way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of us are robots. I don't think they shouldn't be swinging if from time to time they get insecure. Isn't this a relatively normal feeling. No matter if your a swinger or not. Anyone can feel like that from time to time. Although as someone else said maybe that wasn't the reason at all. It could of been for any reason why they cancelled. I can completely understand how frustrating it must be . Especially as you had other opportunities. Unfortunately sometimes this happens to us all. Put it behind you and plan for an even better weekend this week xxmiss

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By *uddsWoman
over a year ago

st athans


"If they are that insecure then tbh they shouldn't be swinging at all imho"

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over a year ago

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By *andK78Couple
over a year ago

Newport

For us Mrs would not want a supermodel in the bedroom and Mr would not want someone who is hung like a race horse completely ripped or BBC.

Many of us would feel insecure if someone of the same sex who you thought was better than you was there.

It's got nothing to do with you should or shouldn't be swinging but being realistic and considerate to your partner's feelings.

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By *ar-Some CoupleCouple
over a year ago

from somewhere glittery & sparkly


"Hi all,

Ok so I was approached by a Female who invited me to a party to which I accepted as they seemed decent and I was looking forward to it.

6 days later the Male 'cancelled' me and the reason was apparently he didn't want any males fitter than him attending (Their words).

I declined a meet with a nice Woman as I was booked for that party but my question is this a common thing with couple's that one half can get insecure about a guest? I haven't had this before the couple's I've met have been decent so slightly confused.."

I'd be happy with that.Take it as a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For us Mrs would not want a supermodel in the bedroom and Mr would not want someone who is hung like a race horse completely ripped or BBC.

Many of us would feel insecure if someone of the same sex who you thought was better than you was there.

It's got nothing to do with you should or shouldn't be swinging but being realistic and considerate to your partner's feelings. "

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By *rgasmicFunCouple
over a year ago

Gwent

U obviously look after your self, we love attractive ppl but they r still ppl, its there loss no matter what the reason, take it on the chin , move on, and looks like this thread has got u some extra intrest,maybe more when the mrs reads this lol xx

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