FabSwingers.com forum: Picky women

By *amo2121 OP Man
over a year ago

swansea

Is it just me ... and I know Ile cop some stick...but from a male point of view (baring in mind) the ratios...christ there are some picky women out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a grab my popcorn

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

How dare women develop standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the many, many woman who wont instantly sleep with me should be made to wear a "lesbian" badge.

There. I've finally said it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I deleted my single _rofile due to the amount of men that don't take the time to read _rofiles and who think it's ok to say exactly what they wanted to do to me with out even having a conversation. Yes there are some extremely genuine men on here but unfortunately due to the idiots and the ratio of single men to women and couples us woman "and couples" have the right to be picky. It's all about being patient and not falling into the same bad habits of the idiots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking as a male that does read _rofiles and is always friendly and replies to every message yes women are way to picky.

Most prefer a gym fit rider/shirt filler than someone that will actually treat them like a gentleman should (on here and in public obviously)

I know I will get some stick for this post but I don't care needs to be said.

Not all men will treat you nicely.

Personally I'd rather treat a lady as a lady not a pice of meat.

As I've said I know I'll get some stick but do your worst, I couldn't give a flying f**k.

Im entitled to my opinion and there it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm picky and proud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MrhardMrswet really sorry about the long message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best be picky then sleep with the whole of Fab lol

What's wrong with being picky anyway. Doesn't that make us all individuals who each have our own tastes. Now I want blooming popcorn lol

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By *-CrassClownMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Is it just me ... and I know Ile cop some stick...but from a male point of view (baring in mind) the ratios...christ there are some picky women out there."

Some picky blokes too I imagine, safe to say it balances out in the end, difference is there are a fuck tonne more men to notice when they aren't getting any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a grab my popcorn

Salted or sweet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm picky and proud

I'm with you, picky n proud & no I'm nothing special I just only enjoy sex with people I can converse with, enjoy spending time with & enjoy having sex with. None of the guys I enjoy are any of the things described by the man above but they sure don't treat me like a piece of meat X

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By *ubenesque.Woman
over a year ago

over by there

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Most prefer a gym fit rider/shirt filler than someone that will actually treat them like a gentleman should (on here and in public obviously)

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Why do you assume that men who are in good shape/go to a gym do not treat women well?

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By *amo2121 OP Man
over a year ago

swansea

Ah look, I'm all for choice , and I don't mean picky as in because of looks they shouldn't be, I mean some ladies _rofiles are almost bullet points!! Ffs give us a break !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Most prefer a gym fit rider/shirt filler than someone that will actually treat them like a gentleman should (on here and in public obviously)

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Why do you assume that men who are in good shape/go to a gym do not treat women well? "

Experience, Ive been a bouncer for years and from my experience my opinion the "fitter" a bloke is the worse they treat women.

Plus having big muscles doesn't make them "hard" just means they can lift weights.

Yeah opinion's are subjective but in the real world that's what I've seen, been guilty of it myself back in my army days but now it grinds my gears that genuine guys get pushed aside.

Anyways I'm done with the thread now, I've voiced my opinion that I've gained from experience.

You can feel free to have your own views.

Every one have a good night however your spending it.

Night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From our point of view (male speaking) unfortunately a lot of single men on here let it down for everyone, a well thought out msg and not the blatant copy and paste and we'll always endeavour to reply even if it's a msg to say sorry we're not interested. What a lot of men don't get is very rare that people can just meet at a drop of a hat. So we go to the socials and meet people that way, it shows that they're interested in the lifestyle and not just opportunists.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a type and have always stuck to that type.

I am here for myself, to meet who I want (when I was actively meeting). Looks and physical attraction have always been number 1 for me. I wouldn't meet someone I found physically unattractive.

Calling a woman 'picky' is pretty much like saying she shouldn't be able to fuck who she likes and should settle for the average or dish out the sympathy fucks because it would make some men feel better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Most prefer a gym fit rider/shirt filler than someone that will actually treat them like a gentleman should (on here and in public obviously)

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Why do you assume that men who are in good shape/go to a gym do not treat women well?

Experience, Ive been a bouncer for years and from my experience my opinion the "fitter" a bloke is the worse they treat women.

Every fit gym type or rugby player I've met over the years have treated me bang on. I have only ever been treated dodgilly by 2 guys and they were not of the above type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just me ... and I know Ile cop some stick...but from a male point of view (baring in mind) the ratios...christ there are some picky women out there."

You've 4 pics on your _rofile and 2 are identical. A better variety goes along way. Window shopping so to speak.

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By *ve 66Woman
over a year ago

Blackwood

If men didn't lie so much( yes I'm married but she knows I'm on here) sort of bollocks be a lot of easier for you men. This sight is what you want it to be. . I could never lead a man to my bed without chatting where others thrive on it. EACH TO THEIR OWN.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Being picky saves me from a lot of the crap on here .....

Hello .... what you up to .... want to fuck???

Don’t think so ..... not after that one liner ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let them be picky leaves the decent ones for the less shallow women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey nothing wrong with us gym types, well apart from our height/dicks being 1mm out

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent

Let me guess. They won’t sleep with you so that means they must be picky?

Didn’t realise we women aren’t allowed preferences/types.

You saying you don’t have a type? Or you just desperate to shag anything that moves? Women can generally tell if a guy wants her or just wants a hole to stick his dick in.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

The question that needs to be asked is...

Why aren't men being picky, as OP's post infers?

Seriously dude, will you stick your dick in any old rancid bag of maggots?

Don't YOU have standards?

Get down the local crackhead pub if that's your approach.

Jeez, some people exhibit some wierd attitudes on Fab. How DARE women have standards about who 'uses' their bodies? They should shut up and let any old tramp fuck 'em.

OP, this thread has NOT cast you in a good light. If you never pull again on Fab it'll be too soon, and a lucky escape for the girls.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"Speaking as a male that does read _rofiles and is always friendly and replies to every message yes women are way to picky.

Most prefer a gym fit rider/shirt filler than someone that will actually treat them like a gentleman should (on here and in public obviously)

I know I will get some stick for this post but I don't care needs to be said.

Yeah, because gym fit guys NEVER treat women well. It's the exercise machines. It changes their DNA.

Ferchristsake listen to yourself!

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By *ay rickMan
over a year ago

cardiff

I go to the gym---ooooops my apologies I ment the bar--lifting pints counts doesn't it lol--and I'm very picky,, my number 1 rule-she has to have a pulse or be warm at the very least,, no way am I digging her up with all this sun on it's way pms!!!,,,, away from my sick humour,, keep being picky ladies and enjoy what and who you decide to!! I now keep it 99.9% in the real world--it's easier I think with the ratio on this site,,as great as it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t just speak to anyone in the real world so why would we just meet anyone of fab!

Standards are to be met, I’m sorry but I have a man who I love very much and in my opinion is a gorgeous so why would I settle for someone who doesn’t meet my expectations.

Personally I need to be attracted to someone to have sex with them and that’s in looks and personality plenty of choice for everyone and we all have different ‘types’

Prinny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How dare women develop standards

The god damn cheek of it

it’s such an inconvenience for woman to have a choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If men were picky I'd never get laid hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *siaessex2Couple
over a year ago

essex

of course woman are picky . here to have fun with who is suitable to them . not to fuck with everyone ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women can be picky on hear there's so many single men to choose from

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By *wmfunMan
over a year ago

Ebbw Vale

No one can argue with that .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women can be picky on hear there's so many single men to choose from "
But how many times do we see women commenting on how fake disrespectful or unreliable those men are

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By *erdyCurvyInkedPervyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Too damn right I'm gonna be picky when I get messages like

'You're kinky - does that mean you'll fuck anything then?'

A polite hello never goes amiss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A polite hello never goes amiss!

Oh it sure does, the amount of ignored messages I've had, didn't even bother to look at my _rofile, just deleted it without bothering to read it because hello was in the subject bar.

Sorry but this world is to full of ignorant people.

Anyways I'm gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Salted or sweet lol"

I just caught up with the thread from overnight and need a refill..... So do me a solid and grab me a sweet one on your way past please, you know, like your good self (

awful, really awful cheese there)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Salted or sweet lol

I just caught up with the thread from overnight and need a refill..... So do me a solid and grab me a sweet one on your way past please, you know, like your good self (

awful, really awful cheese there)

Got to be a large salty popcorn for me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got to be a large salty popcorn for me lol

See! Picky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A polite hello never goes amiss!

Oh it sure does, the amount of ignored messages I've had, didn't even bother to look at my _rofile, just deleted it without bothering to read it because hello was in the subject bar.

Sorry but this world is to full of ignorant people.

Anyways I'm gone"

It's not rude not to reply

Read the site FAQs

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"Let them be picky leaves the decent ones for the less shallow women

So because women have types and standards that's being Shallow!?! Makes it sound that we should just lie on our backs for anyone. Thought we'd moved on from the dark ages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let them be picky leaves the decent ones for the less shallow women

So because women have types and standards that's being Shallow!?! Makes it sound that we should just lie on our backs for anyone. Thought we'd moved on from the dark ages

What are you doing out of the kitchen Snow??

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By *emon DelightMan
over a year ago

South Wales

"I'm a grab my popcorn

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By *emon DelightMan
over a year ago

South Wales

"Is it just me ... and I know Ile cop some stick...but from a male point of view (baring in mind) the ratios...christ there are some picky women out there.

Some picky blokes too I imagine, safe to say it balances out in the end, difference is there are a fuck tonne more men to notice when they aren't getting any. "

Yup - not to mention the guys that arrange to meet and fail to show up - there have been a lot of status updates on those guys recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A polite hello never goes amiss!

Oh it sure does, the amount of ignored messages I've had, didn't even bother to look at my _rofile, just deleted it without bothering to read it because hello was in the subject bar.

Sorry but this world is to full of ignorant people.

Anyways I'm gone"

Sometimes messages don't get open because the in box is so full it vanishes unread..Message titles and a good _rofile pic do catch my attention .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Speaking as a male that does read _rofiles and is always friendly and replies to every message yes women are way to picky.

Most prefer a gym fit rider/shirt filler than someone that will actually treat them like a gentleman should (on here and in public obviously)

I know I will get some stick for this post but I don't care needs to be said.

Not all men will treat you nicely.

Personally I'd rather treat a lady as a lady not a pice of meat.

As I've said I know I'll get some stick but do your worst, I couldn't give a flying f**k.

Im entitled to my opinion and there it is. "

This women does not prefer gym fit/ shirt fillers at all

And it's not just gym fit guys that treat women badly or like a piece of meat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And why have a burger when I've got steak at home

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

I'm a minger but I've done all right lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a minger but I've done all right lol"

Your not a minger lol

Plus you've got the charm and attend loads of socials so everyone knows your a nice friendly man max

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If men were picky I'd never get laid hahaha

I know im not a guy but id fuck you lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got to be a large salty popcorn for me lol

See! Picky!

A prime example of non gym fit etc, very picky & very popular, so OP what is he doing that you're not? Try looking at these things from a different perspective X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a minger but I've done all right lol"

Neither you nor social Harlot are mingers, you're normal, chatty, real people who also happen to be sexy X

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"Let them be picky leaves the decent ones for the less shallow women

So because women have types and standards that's being Shallow!?! Makes it sound that we should just lie on our backs for anyone. Thought we'd moved on from the dark ages

What are you doing out of the kitchen Snow??

I picked the lock MissP

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By *erdyCurvyInkedPervyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

A polite hello never goes amiss!

Oh it sure does, the amount of ignored messages I've had, didn't even bother to look at my _rofile, just deleted it without bothering to read it because hello was in the subject bar.

Sorry but this world is to full of ignorant people.

Anyways I'm gone"

You seem incredibly angry about this. Have you thought about therapy? Did you have a good relationship with your mother?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A polite hello never goes amiss!

Oh it sure does, the amount of ignored messages I've had, didn't even bother to look at my _rofile, just deleted it without bothering to read it because hello was in the subject bar.

Sorry but this world is to full of ignorant people.

Anyways I'm gone

You seem incredibly angry about this. Have you thought about therapy? Did you have a good relationship with your mother?

Ooops I did literally pee myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What world do you live in rugby boy's gym heads got the worst reputation in town when it come to women they use and abuse and break so many lady's hearts sorry bit had to be said

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By *andK78Couple
over a year ago

Newport

Maybe I don't understand the swingers lifestyle...

.... But it is always single guys moaning they have no luck with finding single women on here... To me that's not swinging... POF and Tinder would be more suitable perhaps...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such a silly thread. Nobody’s here to benefit anybody else, so if you’re saying they’re picky in the sense that they’re picking not to meet you exclusively for your benefit and none of theirs then yeah you’re right but it’s completely logical.

Stop moaning, message who you find attractive and learn how to handle rejection and with some patience you might meet people where you can mutually benefit each other. Having a moan isn’t going to attract anybody thought is it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and also why do people seem to think that the way somebody looks is a reflection of their personality? It isn’t relevant at all, wtf is going on haha.

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By *amo2121 OP Man
over a year ago

swansea

I'm not moaning, just think a lot of women are picky....im not short of meets, my point was when I view some womens _rofiles it looks more like a c.v of dos and donts. It just makes me flick to the next one. Anyway was just an observation ..be as picky as you like.

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By *amo2121 OP Man
over a year ago

swansea

"Let me guess. They won’t sleep with you so that means they must be picky?

Didn’t realise we women aren’t allowed preferences/types.

You saying you don’t have a type? Or you just desperate to shag anything that moves? Women can generally tell if a guy wants her or just wants a hole to stick his dick in. "

No ...completely wrong on your judgement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not moaning, just think a lot of women are picky....im not short of meets, my point was when I view some womens _rofiles it looks more like a c.v of dos and donts. It just makes me flick to the next one. Anyway was just an observation ..be as picky as you like."

Maybe this clarification should have been in the OP as I think you may find most women (and not just those that have commented so far) will have used this thread as a filtering tool......

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By *amo2121 OP Man
over a year ago

swansea

Good luck to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate being a wank sub

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By *hortarse69Woman
over a year ago

up the valleys ;-)

I'm a picky female..

If I want to be picky I will. Just because it's a swingers site, I still have certain standards and expect the same in a man!

If I choose not to meet a man who has messaged me, tough shit! It's my choice. If that man thinks he's one hell of a catch and how dare I not succumb to his charms, then off you trot, go charm someone else. Some guys on here just don't get it!

MASSIVE SHOUT OUT TO THE PICKY LADIES

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can understand why women are picky and rightly so ...

I’ve seen some of the messages and abuse sent to women and it’s absolutely disgusting !!!surely there’s no need ,, far too many wank brains coupled with desperate times ....

Now if I had a beaver I’d be picky Also ...

so good on you girls keep being picky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From our point of view (male speaking) unfortunately a lot of single men on here let it down for everyone, a well thought out msg and not the blatant copy and paste and we'll always endeavour to reply even if it's a msg to say sorry we're not interested. What a lot of men don't get is very rare that people can just meet at a drop of a hat. So we go to the socials and meet people that way, it shows that they're interested in the lifestyle and not just opportunists. "
exactly this!

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By *mma_BWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Why do you think they have a bullet point _rofile. I have one. It didn’t start off like that. But I learnt as I went. I was stood up loads of times when I was new.. all I want is for my _rofile to be read. I what what I want. And as it’s my _rofile & im here for good sex I get to set my standards.

I’m not fussed on a gym body but I wouldn’t discount him. They only feature I don’t like is a beard. But there’s plenty of men without them. Is that picky?! Ive gotta kiss him & if touching it, if it makes me vom should I just swallow it down and let him fuk me cause he wanted to?

I’ve beeb turned down by men I’ve wanted & told point blank I’m not their type.

It’s not a dating site it’s a sex site & I have better sex with a man I’m attracted to. If I wanted to date & fall in love I’d be on E harmony not being picking and chatting to all guys getting to know their personalities.

I’m picky and proud. I loves me a pretty boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they lay out the _rofiles in such detail because they are sick of answering the same old questions. At least then it's all there and if it's not for you you can move on. Of Course singles can be swingers. Most of the time we are looking for a single guy to join us. Not only couples are swingers

xxmiss

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By *rofMan
over a year ago

Around

"I'm picky and proud

Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My _rofile has about 20 rules. It started off with only a few but im so sick of the same messages I've done my _rofile so not to waste people's time. If they can be bothered to read mine and they know it's not for them then they don't have to message me. I'd rather read a good written and accurate _rofile then a few words that basically say the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let them be picky leaves the decent ones for the less shallow women

So because women have types and standards that's being Shallow!?! Makes it sound that we should just lie on our backs for anyone. Thought we'd moved on from the dark ages

Not at all but some are ridiculously picky it's not as if yer gonna marry the guys on here but some are just too much

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By *aut-eWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

A polite hello never goes amiss!

Oh it sure does, the amount of ignored messages I've had, didn't even bother to look at my _rofile, just deleted it without bothering to read it because hello was in the subject bar.

You’ll probably find that every person on this thread has looked at your _rofile but you might not see that if they’ve got ninja mode on

OP says picky, then fine I’m picky, I’m picky about who I’m attracted to and like a lot of the ladies on here have already said, I definitely couldn’t go with someone I’m not attracted to.

My _rofile may seem like a lot to get through but again that is down to the experiences I have had on here over the years and it’s adapted over time, it mostly gets ignored though because people try their luck, I don’t see an attraction, they get deleted then they moan on threads like this lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A polite hello never goes amiss!

Oh it sure does, the amount of ignored messages I've had, didn't even bother to look at my _rofile, just deleted it without bothering to read it because hello was in the subject bar.

You’ll probably find that every person on this thread has looked at your _rofile but you might not see that if they’ve got ninja mode on

OP says picky, then fine I’m picky, I’m picky about who I’m attracted to and like a lot of the ladies on here have already said, I definitely couldn’t go with someone I’m not attracted to.

Perfectly said xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let them be picky leaves the decent ones for the less shallow women

So because women have types and standards that's being Shallow!?! Makes it sound that we should just lie on our backs for anyone. Thought we'd moved on from the dark ages

Not at all but some are ridiculously picky it's not as if yer gonna marry the guys on here but some are just too much "

I get where you're coming from but to be fair male, female or otherwise we all have a right to decide the parameters. I know I have a 'type' but I'm happy to move away from that for mutually respectful good sex, giggles & a decent conversation. Desperation is not a good look on anyone & neither is a chip on the shoulder X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheers

Consistently picky as fuck P, how dare you? Oh yeah, you've got a fit as fuck toy boy

still loving you P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If men were picky I'd never get laid hahaha

Any guy (or girl lol) would be lucky to have you ??

Miss & Mr xxx

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By *amo2121 OP Man
over a year ago

swansea

"Let them be picky leaves the decent ones for the less shallow women

So because women have types and standards that's being Shallow!?! Makes it sound that we should just lie on our backs for anyone. Thought we'd moved on from the dark ages

Not at all but some are ridiculously picky it's not as if yer gonna marry the guys on here but some are just too much "

My point exactly x

Listen, as you are the only person who gets the thread, my point was I like a lady to be sexy, I'm not interested in bullet form _rofiles, I like to see a person behind the _rofile. I just think (and this is my opinion, not that it is worth less than anybody else who has commented, ) I just don't find it attractive. Be as picky as you like, after all it's your porogative, but I just hate looking at someone's _rofile and thinking ....well blah blah blah!! Lol . Thanks for understanding the post x

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By *amo2121 OP Man
over a year ago

swansea

Cheers

Anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheers

Consistently picky as fuck P, how dare you? Oh yeah, you've got a fit as fuck toy boy

still loving you P

Thankyou butty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the picky ladies, all the picky ladies

Put your hands up!

Wasn’t that a Beyoncé song?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Picky and ain't going to change

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By *amo2121 OP Man
over a year ago

swansea

"Picky and ain't going to change

Good for you, I think I probably used the wrong word with picky, I ment more 'military'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

picky aint in it lol if I seen some of the people I met at socials in the street I would avoid. some pretend to be something they ain't and give themselves away, always bitching about others and think they are something special, bless em lol. but on the positive side I have met some lovely people on here who are genuine and friendly and have become mates with .to those who I have offended tough ;-0 xx

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"Let them be picky leaves the decent ones for the less shallow women

So because women have types and standards that's being Shallow!?! Makes it sound that we should just lie on our backs for anyone. Thought we'd moved on from the dark ages

Not at all but some are ridiculously picky it's not as if yer gonna marry the guys on here but some are just too much

My point exactly x

So let me get this right...

YOU'RE being picky about the type of _rofiles you like. Don't you see the irony?

In that case...

Christ there are some men who are picky about how other people write their _rofiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the many, many woman who wont instantly sleep with me should be made to wear a "lesbian" badge.

Of all the things that a woman does not need a man for - wearing a Lesbian Badge must just about come top of the list....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on and off this site for a few year's now.. I get way women are selective (picky) on here.. there are some people on this site who waste they're time or are in relationships doing the dirty. Its a choice by any person to hold caution on anyone.

But saying that, I find it difficult myself meeting someone on here. I think we're all put into the same tarnished box of 'arse whole / disrespectful / time waster' until such time a social happens.

From my experience, keep being respectful and turn up to group social events and people get to know you.. and above all be patient..

Wow, I sound slight grown up with statement.

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By *igjrvMan
over a year ago

blackwood

Im a picky man. The choices are men or women and I pick women.

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By *amo2121 OP Man
over a year ago

swansea

"Let them be picky leaves the decent ones for the less shallow women

So because women have types and standards that's being Shallow!?! Makes it sound that we should just lie on our backs for anyone. Thought we'd moved on from the dark ages

Not at all but some are ridiculously picky it's not as if yer gonna marry the guys on here but some are just too much

My point exactly x

So let me get this right...

YOU'RE being picky about the type of _rofiles you like. Don't you see the irony?

In that case...

Christ there are some men who are picky about how other people write their _rofiles."

Yes there are...ermmm..im one of them lol. But as you say. I'm allowed to be picky about picky _rofiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer women/couples who are "picky". I'm selective (some may take the view that I can ill afford to be) because I want my experiences to be rewarding, a good investment of my limited free time, and not tarnished with regret.

I think the OP would do better to invest less time fault finding in others and more time improving himself.

The site is free and voluntary. On the occasions I get tired of it, I leave before coming back. More individuals here would do well to realise they are here out of their own free will and can leave out of their own free will should they dislike elements of the experience.

Love

Dirtbag

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By *amo2121 OP Man
over a year ago

swansea

"I prefer women/couples who are "picky". I'm selective (some may take the view that I can ill afford to be) because I want my experiences to be rewarding, a good investment of my limited free time, and not tarnished with regret.

I think the OP would do better to invest less time fault finding in others and more time improving himself.

Love

Dirtbag"

Op is more than happy with his _rofile, but thanks for the offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not so much that they are picky for me, everyone has a preference. Its more to the fact that all i hear and read is that single guys are time wasters and where are the geuie guus. Thats frustrating coming from a geniune guy who wouldnt waste anyones time but yet soent have of my time on fab srnding messages for them to be ignored

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

"Let me guess. They won’t sleep with you so that means they must be picky?

Didn’t realise we women aren’t allowed preferences/types.

You saying you don’t have a type? Or you just desperate to shag anything that moves? Women can generally tell if a guy wants her or just wants a hole to stick his dick in. "

Well said

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

"I'm a picky female..

If I want to be picky I will. Just because it's a swingers site, I still have certain standards and expect the same in a man!

MASSIVE SHOUT OUT TO THE PICKY LADIES

xxxx"

Well said ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very picky myself and there is nothing wrong with it, I'd rather have a good connection with someone I find attracted to instead of getting stuck into someone and regret it after.

Everyone has got a type and personally a woman's attitude goes a long way for me, I never knew this when I was younger but I wish I did.

I always used to go for the nicest on the eye but found that a woman that knows how to enjoy is much more fun than a good looking bag of spuds

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"All the many, many woman who wont instantly sleep with me should be made to wear a "lesbian" badge.

There. I've finally said it."
hahahaha brill just brill x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How dare women develop standards

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By *abtasticMrWolfMan
over a year ago

Llantrisant

"I'm a grab my popcorn

Salted or sweet lol"

salty sweet! Can't you have both!

We are all picky in our own way. Just cos we all on here doesn't mean we are desperate to shag anything!

We all want some form of banter or connection with those we play with.

I agree the ratio of men to women on the site is ridiculous. And all in favour of the ladies having all the choice. Just means us men (ugk MAN ! Beats chest like Tarzan) have to up our game.

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By *abtasticMrWolfMan
over a year ago

Llantrisant

"Its not so much that they are picky for me, everyone has a preference. Its more to the fact that all i hear and read is that single guys are time wasters and where are the geuie guus. Thats frustrating coming from a geniune guy who wouldnt waste anyones time but yet soent have of my time on fab srnding messages for them to be ignored"

This I understand and agree. But we all have are preferences.

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By *WKinkMan
over a year ago

Bury

If I’m honest if the ratios of men/women were reversed it probably have a long list of wants because I could be picky.

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By *amo2121 OP Man
over a year ago

swansea

The ratios don't help, I just don't find it a turn on reading bullet point _rofiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know this thread focuses heavily on 'picky: as being about the physical look of a person & liking, or not what's presented to them in a picture or in person at a social, what it doesn't identify is the importance of just feeling right about the person. Feeling able to talk openly, feeling comfy, trust, knowing each other without the need for talking bollox. You may only meet once sexually/socially, you may meet several times but at any stage we're all entitled to withdraw & that choice shouldn't be dependent upon manners etc, it should be about personal choice & what feels right & acceptable to that person. We aren't here to please others we're here to please ourselves, it's just nice if it's mutually pleasurable along the way. Bring back the adult conversation & leave the bollox behind X

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By *amo2121 OP Man
over a year ago

swansea

"You know this thread focuses heavily on 'picky: as being about the physical look of a person & liking, or not what's presented to them in a picture or in person at a social, what it doesn't identify is the importance of just feeling right about the person. Feeling able to talk openly, feeling comfy, trust, knowing each other without the need for talking bollox. You may only meet once sexually/socially, you may meet several times but at any stage we're all entitled to withdraw & that choice shouldn't be dependent upon manners etc, it should be about personal choice & what feels right & acceptable to that person. We aren't here to please others we're here to please ourselves, it's just nice if it's mutually pleasurable along the way. Bring back the adult conversation & leave the bollox behind X"

Actually ...its not about looks or anything else, if you read it it will tell you that I don't like bullet points of 'Must be this ' 'Must be that' etc.it just (to me) feels robotic and very unflattering of the person writing it. It's just a view point (my view point).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My comment wasn't aimed at you, which is why it started as a comment about the 'thread' & direction of the conversation. I shall back away but cheers all & a have a lush BH weekend X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like having a _rofile with all the rules but it's there to help people know abit about what I like and dislike. Also stops me getting harrassed 24/7. If someone doesn't want to take the time to read it then I've no time for them either. I could easily just put like so many _rofiles " Here to have sex". There,that looks so much more exciting doesn't it

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By *amo2121 OP Man
over a year ago

swansea

"My comment wasn't aimed at you, which is why it started as a comment about the 'thread' & direction of the conversation. I shall back away but cheers all & a have a lush BH weekend X"

Your right, it has been looked at as picky in looks etc, and that wasn't my point, but it shows to me that the irony that I was actually trying to point at the amount of bullet points on some _rofiles...and the biggest one for me is...why don't men read the _rofile, is that 95% of the women who commented didn't actually read or understand my point lol.

Anyway ...happy bank holiday to you to x

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By *amo2121 OP Man
over a year ago

swansea

If the guys a knob you will get the same response whatever your _rofile looks like, my point was it just doesn't feel sexy and hot to read and makes me move on very quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see this all the time.

IT'S a case of supply and demand as in eveything in life.

wherever there is an over supply(men) the door is open for people to be picky.

So women who wouldn't normally attract younger fitter men CAN on here.

ever heared of punching above your weight.

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By *amo2121 OP Man
over a year ago

swansea

"I see this all the time.

IT'S a case of supply and demand as in eveything in life.

wherever there is an over supply(men) the door is open for people to be picky.

So women who wouldn't normally attract younger fitter men CAN on here.

ever heared of punching above your weight.

Yes I concur, plenty of women punching well above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to punch below tbh, I have my punching above at home X

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By *amo2121 OP Man
over a year ago

swansea

"I tend to punch below tbh, I have my punching above at home X"

Ah...very sweet x

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent

"My comment wasn't aimed at you, which is why it started as a comment about the 'thread' & direction of the conversation. I shall back away but cheers all & a have a lush BH weekend X

Anyway ...happy bank holiday to you to x"

Your OP literally said there is picky women on here.

No context. Nothing about _rofiles with bullet point.

If you want people to understand you. Maybe explain yourself better?

And it seems it’s ok for you to be “picky” about the women you want to meet based on their _rofiles but you don’t think it’s ok for women to have their _rofiles how they want them

As for punching above their weight, you don’t know the type of men women pull outside of fab. Just because you think they couldn’t in “real life” doesn’t make it so.

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By *mbidextrous WizardMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Not just picky. They know that they have so much choice compared to us. So it’s just the rudeness and the not giving a fuck of men’s stance as it is not hard if they read your message to give a simple “no thanks “ !

I’d be happy with a “fucking no chance “ and still take no offence and respect their decision?

But that’s just me maybe ?

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By *amo2121 OP Man
over a year ago

swansea

"Not just picky. They know that they have so much choice compared to us. So it’s just the rudeness and the not giving a fuck of men’s stance as it is not hard if they read your message to give a simple “no thanks “ !

I’d be happy with a “fucking no chance “ and still take no offence and respect their decision?

But that’s just me maybe ? "

My man

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over a year ago

"I see this all the time.

IT'S a case of supply and demand as in eveything in life.

wherever there is an over supply(men) the door is open for people to be picky.

So women who wouldn't normally attract younger fitter men CAN on here.

ever heared of punching above your weight.

Awwh come on Buck you've always had a problem with younger guys on here.

I'm sure you've punched way about your weight quite a few times too.

Lots of older guys like younger women . Don't see anyone moaning about that though.

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By *rgasmicFunCouple
over a year ago

Gwent

"I'm a grab my popcorn

Pmsl, cant wait for this one

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By *rgasmicFunCouple
over a year ago

Gwent

Come on guys,who can remeber the days when u went into town, pub or club to pick up a young lady or a more mature lady, u would shave dress smart smell like a god(so u thought) lol, then when u saw this godess u worked at it baught her drinks payed her all the compliments she deserved danced sll night smooching kissing, time to go,im in here(so u thought) and she turns and says thanx for a great night bye,

Now u go on fab probably not looking your best see a nice girl and wright fancy a fuck!!!,

Its thr same process u want to be picked get your self noticed and work at it, and go to socials personality can some times win a girl over more than looks,

MY mrs is gorgous and she is very fussy, she works on the basis, if she was single and a guy caught her eye she will speek to him as long as heis not a knob lol,

Listen to these girls above learn some thing and have fun lol

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By *rgasmicFunCouple
over a year ago

Gwent

"I tend to punch below tbh, I have my punching above at home X"

Pmsl after all window shopping is for girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've punched way above my weight quite a few times and its been great fun

Sometimes they have even come back for more. Unbelievable I know

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

"I've punched way above my weight quite a few times and its been great fun

Sometimes they have even come back for more. Unbelievable I know

and good on you. women are in control and whynot aim high you have the foof

men want the foof women get to choose who gets the foof !

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over a year ago

"I've punched way above my weight quite a few times and its been great fun

Sometimes they have even come back for more. Unbelievable I know

and good on you. women are in control and whynot aim high you have the foof

men want the foof women get to choose who gets the foof !

Well Said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to punch below tbh, I have my punching above at home X

Pmsl after all window shopping is for girls"

There's nothing wrong in reading the menu & having a little taste now n again, can't live on steak alone

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By *rgasmicFunCouple
over a year ago

Gwent

"I tend to punch below tbh, I have my punching above at home X

Pmsl after all window shopping is for girls

There's nothing wrong in reading the menu & having a little taste now n again, can't live on steak alone

Pmsl

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By *rgasmicFunCouple
over a year ago

Gwent

"I've punched way above my weight quite a few times and its been great fun

Sometimes they have even come back for more. Unbelievable I know

and good on you. women are in control and whynot aim high you have the foof

men want the foof women get to choose who gets the foof !

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By *mbidextrous WizardMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Being picky or having a particular type is totally fine ..but it’s rude not to just let them know that they are not that that you seek with at least a “no thanks “ x

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over a year ago

"Being picky or having a particular type is totally fine ..but it’s rude not to just let them know that they are not that that you seek with at least a “no thanks “ x "

Having made good friends with women on Fab, I know for a fact that it is physically impossible to reply to each and every message. They literally get DOZENS of messages an hour. Even more if a status has gone up that is suggestive, and it goes bonkers if a new pic has gone up. It's just not practical.

This is why, if you took the time to read the Fab FAQ's (Frequently Asked Questions, for those not familiar with acronyms) you will read that the website itself clearly states that deletion if messages without response IS NOT RUDENESS.

This thread started out as a whine and has been seen as one by everyone I have spoken with (a fair number of people, male and female) since it was created. Just leave it be. People owe you nothing on this site and the quicker you can get used to that and accept it, the sooner your experience will improve. It's up to the _rofile owner how their _rofile reads, nobody else. If you don't like it, jog on!

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over a year ago

"Being picky or having a particular type is totally fine ..but it’s rude not to just let them know that they are not that that you seek with at least a “no thanks “ x "

I wish you could have access to my account to see for yourself what single women put up with. I can assure you would change your mind on the matter.

A polite 'no thanks' is never enough 95% of the time it then turns into a debate and eventually we just get abused. X

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over a year ago

"Being picky or having a particular type is totally fine ..but it’s rude not to just let them know that they are not that that you seek with at least a “no thanks “ x

I wish you could have access to my account to see for yourself what single women put up with. I can assure you would change your mind on the matter.

A polite 'no thanks' is never enough 95% of the time it then turns into a debate and eventually we just get abused. X"

OMGG if we dare say a polite 'no thanks'; to most men there is no such thing.

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over a year ago

"Being picky or having a particular type is totally fine ..but it’s rude not to just let them know that they are not that that you seek with at least a “no thanks “ x

I wish you could have access to my account to see for yourself what single women put up with. I can assure you would change your mind on the matter.

A polite 'no thanks' is never enough 95% of the time it then turns into a debate and eventually we just get abused. X

OMGG if we dare say a polite 'no thanks'; to most men there is no such thing. "

Totally agree with you x

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By *rgasmicFunCouple
over a year ago

Gwent

My mrs gets lots of mail from guys but its me reading them, as she wont go on here due to abuse, but if i see that a guy had taken the time to write some thing readable then she will read and and reply even to say some thing and a no thanx, politeness cost nothing.

Manners make us men.

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By *amo2121 OP Man
over a year ago

swansea

Well this has gone just a little off my initial post, but thanks to all that have participated. Much love x

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By *rgasmicFunCouple
over a year ago

Gwent

U ask a question on here, u will defonately get an answer, pmsl

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By *amo2121 OP Man
over a year ago

swansea

Yes, and nice to see so many, it went a little off thread but they always do. X

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Being picky or having a particular type is totally fine ..but it’s rude not to just let them know that they are not that that you seek with at least a “no thanks “ x "

Do you reply to every piece of junk mail that you get through your letterbox, or the spam emails you get?

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By *rgasmicFunCouple
over a year ago

Gwent

"Being picky or having a particular type is totally fine ..but it’s rude not to just let them know that they are not that that you seek with at least a “no thanks “ x

Do you reply to every piece of junk mail that you get through your letterbox, or the spam emails you get?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate and i mean hate being left hanging with a message but i completely understand that these women are getting 100+ messages a day sometimes and not all of them are a nice hey wanna fuck sometimes its a i want you sit on my face and fart down my throat! If your pic (not another cock pic)or first line doesnt grab them then you will be left for the mass delete pile. I know I dont get many answered but you will have more luck at socials than messages.

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By *amo2121 OP Man
over a year ago

swansea

"I hate and i mean hate being left hanging with a message but i completely understand that these women are getting 100+ messages a day sometimes and not all of them are a nice hey wanna fuck sometimes its a i want you sit on my face and fart down my throat! If your pic (not another cock pic)or first line doesnt grab them then you will be left for the mass delete pile. I know I dont get many answered but you will have more luck at socials than messages.

Thanks for the advice, I'm kinda struggling to see what this has to do though with my statement?

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