FabSwingers.com forum: Criminal

By *easandcarrots25 OP Man
over a year ago

Hopkinstown

If you found out someone had a criminal record would that deter you from meeting them?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

No. I once met a guy for a social and during chat it came out he had been to jail years previously. That didnt stop me from meeting him again.

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By *eral SexMan
over a year ago

Port Talbot

I have to say meeting a woman who's been jailed would be a terrific turn-on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have to say that it depended on what it was for, certain things I believe people should be hung for so I wouldn't want to associate with them in anyway.

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere

"I would have to say that it depended on what it was for, certain things I believe people should be hung for so I wouldn't want to associate with them in anyway. "

Precisely what I was thinking. Can get criminal records and go to prison for trivial(ish) things, like non payment of council tax for example. For something more serious like “forcing yourself on someone without consent” (couldn’t use the normal 4 letter word for that) then no chance would I be interested

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By *easandcarrots25 OP Man
over a year ago

Hopkinstown

Would you think that a criminal record would need to be disclosed on here then?

If so what kind of things do u think need to be disclosed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you think that a criminal record would need to be disclosed on here then?

If so what kind of things do u think need to be disclosed?"

How would you prove either way?

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere

"Would you think that a criminal record would need to be disclosed on here then?

If so what kind of things do u think need to be disclosed?

How would you prove either way?"

That’s the trouble. How can you make sure someone isn’t hiding something?? Scary if you think about it too much

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By *nked_DemonWoman
over a year ago

near Cardiff

For me it depends on what the charge was and the person. I’d happily meet for a social depending on the charge to discover for myself whether I trust them or not. It’s not an outright no for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been out 14 months now and i seem to do ok.....it depends on the crime and the person really so dont liste to what ppl tell u find out about him/her and make youre own mind up

.....just my opinion

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By *rishbottomcockloverMan
over a year ago

Delft

Depends on the crime, if they were sex offenders that would be a no no.

In general I wouldn't mind, people Who have been to prison have paid their debt to society and should have a second chance.

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent

Things like Clare’s Law are useful for this. Though I’m not sure how that would work in a fab situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with most on here, it depends what the charges are. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good point but u need there real name and information about them which on here everyone uses fake names and addresses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know there's a guy on here from my town that has been done for stalking and harrassing a woman he met online. So being on fab seems like a disaster waiting to happen. Nothing can be done about it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's scary

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere

"Ive been out 14 months now and i seem to do ok.....it depends on the crime and the person really so dont liste to what ppl tell u find out about him/her and make youre own mind up

.....just my opinion "

Completely agree. Each case in its own merits

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By *ve 66Woman
over a year ago

Blackwood

Don't have to be an ex jailbird to do something wrong.. drink to much or smoke to much and things can go downhill very fast .

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By *rgent action requiredCouple
over a year ago

Rhoose & Pontypridd

I know someone I met was convicted with common assault on a women.

He was fine with me, I think everyone has a past but that shouldn't shape your future

Nina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Things like Clare’s Law are useful for this. Though I’m not sure how that would work in a fab situation."

It applies here as some fabsters know X

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By *hynblondebbwWoman
over a year ago

city centre ish

I think, as most people have said, charges depending, but also, their verifications/friends speak a thousand words.. if the ‘criminal’ have long standing friends on fab that have known their convictions and have still chosen to trust them knowing what they’ve known about them and taken the time to get to know them and remain friends (I’m not talking random fab people, I’m talking people I maybe know enough to trust).. that for me, would also go a long Way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't it be more scary if the person was never caught? This whole conversation seems entirely pointless.

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent

"Things like Clare’s Law are useful for this. Though I’m not sure how that would work in a fab situation.

It applies here as some fabsters know X"

I just meant I don’t know the ins and outs of how the law works. If you need to be in a relationship with a person, as from what I can gather, the police investigate to see if the information needs to be shared and then shares it with the person who is vulnerable not necessarily the person who asks.

Plus as someone else says, it depends if they’re caught/charged.

For me personally it would depend on the charge, I have close family who have been in jail due to drug related things. That doesn’t bother me. Murder or sexual assault, would concern me. I know a group of lads who were jailed for “armed robbery” because they was stupid and on drugs, no one was hurt in the process. Hearing the charge would probably put people off, the story matters sometimes.

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