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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you tell them you was on fab love chams dogging party's or keep it a secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you tell them you was on fab love chams dogging party's or keep it a secret "

Personally I think honesty is the best policy but don't be too full on about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd drip feed it, in my experience it scares men off nicely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you enjoy swinging and you do not say thing you will not be happy for long , i would tell her slowly you never know she might want to try

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

First thing I need to find someone lol but how would you go about telling them we are into sex clubs gang bangs they defo think you a weirdo and run off haaaa xx

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By *oris the boreMan
over a year ago

swansea

Yes I did and spilled the beans about clubs and parties and dogging, she called me all the preverts she could lay her tongue on and ran for the hills pretty dam quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I did and spilled the beans about clubs and parties and dogging, she called me all the preverts she could lay her tongue on and ran for the hills pretty dam quickly."

Precisely why my next woman is coming from this lifestyle or not at all .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My boyfriend knows about Fab

He knows all the stuff I've done etc

It's not for him but has no issue that it used to be a big part of my life and knows I still use the site socially

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

So you meet somebody you love and can see yourself spending your life with.

Do you gamble all by revealing your 'dirty secret'? Your sexual swinging preferences might be repulsive to them.

You may never find somebody like him/her ever again. Of course you don't tell them.

In a perfect fantasy world you'd fess up and they'd say 'Brill! Can I join in?' But in the real world it would most likely see them walking out the door never to come back.

If you find love outside swinging it's probably best to make a choice.

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By *funtimetaffMan
over a year ago

From a quiet corner in Porth

Honesty all the way, they either want you for you of not at all

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By *funtimetaffMan
over a year ago

From a quiet corner in Porth


"Honesty all the way, they either want you for you of not at all "

Tho agreed drip feed it in as full throttle can make them run a mile x

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By *ubmissiveman8520Man
over a year ago

Swansea

I would probably find it helps both of you to open up

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By *ay rickMan
over a year ago

cardiff

If met in a bar it's not the 1st thing I'd say and personally I think it depends if that's what your looking for in a partner-ie to swing with!!--treat as a normal relationship and you learn more about eachother as time kiks on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr was on here and introduced me to it, he asked my thoughts and slowly introduced me to the scene he was before a single male but wasn’t meeting anyone while we was dating before I new, we been here ever since started with socials and then chams now we are regulars on the scene but I suppose it depends on the person lol xx

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

I would prefer to meet a lady on here to be honest. There are some women (out side fab), pipe up a good game and when it come to the crunch. They make it out I'm the perv and a twat. My motto stop talking crap and be honest with yourself.

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By *eral SexMan
over a year ago

Port Talbot


"Honesty all the way, they either want you for you of not at all "

I think this is very wise. Its all to easy for guys to fit themselves into the romantic narrative some women seek. It's doomed though as no guy can pretend to be Mr d'Arcy forever. The romantic narrative simply isn't constructed around how men really are, so yep, we must be loved how we are, not how partners would like us to be, I think.

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