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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

really would like to make new friends for chats ect find it hard people block you without talking to you xx

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By *funtimetaffMan
over a year ago

From a quiet corner in Porth


"really would like to make new friends for chats ect find it hard people block you without talking to you xx"

No matter what you do mate ppl will still block you with out any reason whatsoever, you've just got to suck it up fella as the ratio if men to women in here is crazy so inundated the ladies get.

Don't worry bout it fella

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I no a lot from cams but would like to no a lot more just as friends we are all here for same reason after all

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

It helps a lot if you are nice to people face to face as well as on line

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

Try the social scene in South Wales and don't take it too seriously on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My problem is I don't drink smoke or take drugs when at the club everyone is in there click I go alone and then I'm quiet shy find it hard to mix in xx

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By *nlyfun77Couple
over a year ago

valleys

People don’t block for no reason. People block, because they don’t like a profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People don’t block for no reason. People block, because they don’t like a profile. "
I no what you mean but in the swinging sene ain't there such thing as friends or being polite I would never block a profile because they wasn't my type also if they txt me I would still chat but if they wanted to meet ect I would be polite and say sorry it's cool to talk but you just ain't what I am looking for maybe just me

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By *nlyfun77Couple
over a year ago

valleys

When we first came on this site, we never blocked, but you’d get single guys messaging once or twice, every time we went online. Couples and single women get maybe 20 or 30 messages every day, so if a guys profile don’t match what we’re looking for, it’s easier to just block.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When we first came on this site, we never blocked, but you’d get single guys messaging once or twice, every time we went online. Couples and single women get maybe 20 or 30 messages every day, so if a guys profile don’t match what we’re looking for, it’s easier to just block. "
yes I fully understand that if someone is pestering you there's loads here that blocked me and never met or text them crazy xx

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By *funtimetaffMan
over a year ago

From a quiet corner in Porth


"People don’t block for no reason. People block, because they don’t like a profile. "

I'll have to disagree, I've been on here twice as a cpl many times as a single and ppl do just block you for no reason it does happen and manners or etticate mean nothing or the phrase that they'll only reply to messages with pics as they dont even open the message and still block you, ppl are strange creatures x

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By *nlyfun77Couple
over a year ago

valleys

Don’t take out personal, they don’t know you personally. There’s a huge amount of choice for couples and women. If we answered every message, we’d be typing all night, with no intention of meeting, but just to be friendly and polite, as you put it.

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By *funtimetaffMan
over a year ago

From a quiet corner in Porth


"Don’t take out personal, they don’t know you personally. There’s a huge amount of choice for couples and women. If we answered every message, we’d be typing all night, with no intention of meeting, but just to be friendly and polite, as you put it. "

N ffs no cock pics lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People don’t block for no reason. People block, because they don’t like a profile.

I'll have to disagree, I've been on here twice as a cpl many times as a single and ppl do just block you for no reason it does happen and manners or etticate mean nothing or the phrase that they'll only reply to messages with pics as they dont even open the message and still block you, ppl are strange creatures x"

It's nothing to do with manners blocking is another tool to use to manage your profile

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent


"People don’t block for no reason. People block, because they don’t like a profile.

I'll have to disagree, I've been on here twice as a cpl many times as a single and ppl do just block you for no reason it does happen and manners or etticate mean nothing or the phrase that they'll only reply to messages with pics as they dont even open the message and still block you, ppl are strange creatures x"

No reason that you see. Just because you send a picture doesn’t mean they won’t block you. Maybe your profile wasn’t for them? That’s a reason.

And the etticate on Fab dictates that you can delete a message without replying so they’re following it.

Personally I don’t have time to reply to every message from a guy I’m not interested in. And “thanks but no thanks” leads to “oh why?” Or “what is your type?” Or “you’re a fat ugly s l u t why would I want to fuck you anyway!”

Enough replied along those lines and you stop bothering.

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By *funtimetaffMan
over a year ago

From a quiet corner in Porth

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By *funtimetaffMan
over a year ago

From a quiet corner in Porth


"People don’t block for no reason. People block, because they don’t like a profile.

I don't care I just tryna say to op it happens no dramas intended, do ppl need a reason to block?? No so just smile be happy n skip lol

I'll have to disagree, I've been on here twice as a cpl many times as a single and ppl do just block you for no reason it does happen and manners or etticate mean nothing or the phrase that they'll only reply to messages with pics as they dont even open the message and still block you, ppl are strange creatures x

No reason that you see. Just because you send a picture doesn’t mean they won’t block you. Maybe your profile wasn’t for them? That’s a reason.

And the etticate on Fab dictates that you can delete a message without replying so they’re following it.

Personally I don’t have time to reply to every message from a guy I’m not interested in. And “thanks but no thanks” leads to “oh why?” Or “what is your type?” Or “you’re a fat ugly s l u t why would I want to fuck you anyway!”

Enough replied along those lines and you stop bothering. "

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By *andK78Couple
over a year ago

Newport

Verified by 31 people.

That's good by any standard and for a Single guys profile that's amazing.

Did not get your comment on Don't do Drugs Drink etc, Never noticed anyone doing drugs at a Social ( certainly not a place for junkies or people attending AA meetings ) and everyone speaks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always reply to people who take the time to actually read our profile and send a decent message. Even if it's to say sorry your not for us. I'm not sure all the guys on here really realise how difficult it is to get through all of the messages. There simply isn't time to reply to all. I'm always happy to chat to the (genuine) guys. When I've got the time too. The reason we ask for face pics is simply because there has to be an attraction. I don't have time to invest talking to a guy every day for 2 weeks for them to then feel comfortable enough to send a pic. Then I have to say your not my type. It's hard enough for me to say no thank you as it is. Even worse after you've been chatting. It just can't work that way for us xxmiss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Verified by 31 people.

That's good by any standard and for a Single guys profile that's amazing.

Did not get your comment on Don't do Drugs Drink etc, Never noticed anyone doing drugs at a Social ( certainly not a place for junkies or people attending AA meetings ) and everyone speaks. "
sorry I ment I go to cams a lot everyone is in there own click I go alone I'm quiet and shy till I play ect I mean if I did drink would boost confidence to try and mix or make a fool of myself trying lol same if I sniffed ect not saying anyone does there but when there alone everyone's in crowds it is difficult and I am happy for friends that I have made here and at cams just would like to make a lot more and no feel so shy x

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By *andK78Couple
over a year ago

Newport

The socials are the place to be, everyone speaks, both Newport & Swansea are amazing. Maybe easy to say as we are a couple but we do split up and usually its Mr off chatting to new people ( so just like a single guy going round )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we are all here for same reason after all "

Never understood why some men think this.

People are here for a wide range of reasons.

Why you assume you know why everyone is here I really don't understand

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

We have chatted to you before at chams and your are friendly.

I understand the need to wander around having a nose but you need to sit to talk sometimes. I sit in the smoking area despite not smoking as I just love chatting to the variety of people

Mrs

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By *funtimetaffMan
over a year ago

From a quiet corner in Porth


"We have chatted to you before at chams and your are friendly.

I understand the need to wander around having a nose but you need to sit to talk sometimes. I sit in the smoking area despite not smoking as I just love chatting to the variety of people

Mrs"

It's good to talk you see lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have chatted to you before at chams and your are friendly.

I understand the need to wander around having a nose but you need to sit to talk sometimes. I sit in the smoking area despite not smoking as I just love chatting to the variety of people

Mrs"
thanks hun yes we always have a giggle next time I will try that I always see you out there didn't no that you didn't smoke xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"we are all here for same reason after all

Never understood why some men think this.

People are here for a wide range of reasons.

Why you assume you know why everyone is here I really don't understand "
I ment that we are all here for the same reason as in something Sex related if you like to watch. play.foot fetish.porn. ect ect sorry it sounded wrong miss p xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we are all here for same reason after all

Never understood why some men think this.

People are here for a wide range of reasons.

Why you assume you know why everyone is here I really don't understand I ment that we are all here for the same reason as in something Sex related if you like to watch. play.foot fetish.porn. ect ect sorry it sounded wrong miss p xxx"

It still makes no sense to me sorry

Again you're assuming you know what everyone is here for

That probably isn't helping your cause

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