FabSwingers.com forum: What puts you off?

By *ev and Trev OP Couple
over a year ago

cardiff

So, you get mail from someone you don't know, the message is good so you check their _rofile out. The first pic you look at is promising and there's a definite possibility of an attraction.

Do what type of thing would be an immediate turn off for you?

The _rofile write up, pics or veri's?

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By *rofMan
over a year ago

Around

If I get a mail off someone I check if a guy has sent it, if it's a lady or couple I instantly ask if it's a mistake. If for some reason said person has passed my strenuous vetting process I then look to see if they have a bum photo available after that I'm a dribbling mess and tend to say something mildly amusing which fails to get a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I get a mail off someone I check if a guy has sent it, if it's a lady or couple I instantly ask if it's a mistake. If for some reason said person has passed my strenuous vetting process I then look to see if they have a bum photo available after that I'm a dribbling mess and tend to say something mildly amusing which fails to get a reply

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By *ev and Trev OP Couple
over a year ago

cardiff

I don't believe that for one minute _rof..... mildly amusing?

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Cock over a toilet pics - it appealing at all.

Too many cock pics and No other type of pic - yep we know you're proud of it but we got that from the first 20 pics.

Very little input on their _rofile - we all struggle what to write but at least some effort is better than none.

"Looks don't matter" in the write up - Have some standards and I don't know it could be me stereo typing but it screams attached male that's deprived of sex at home so will get it anywhere.

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By *ve 66Woman
over a year ago

Blackwood

Someone calling me hunny or sweetie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Biggest turn off is a long list of things a lady expects from a male on her _rofile without saying a single thing about what they bring to the table as if all possible partners are predisposed to be instantly interested and want to jump through their endless hoops. huge turn off.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Jizzed genitalia or on tongue pics. No male pics on couples _rofile whats that about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback even tho on the _rofile it says ‘safe sex always’

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By *oshker71Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

Smoking pics turn me off instantly

plus you see a woman’s lady garden all covered in sperm & sperm dripping out of it, and _rofile says safe sex only ..hmm really

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Brief to no bio (we like something to read

).... LOTS of close up, graphic shots.... Txt spk.... Bio written entirely by the man, all about what 'the Mrs' wants.

In contrast, what would get our attention would be well taken shots showing a range of body angles and states of dress. A well written bio that shows a personality and sense of fun as well as a fair indication of what they're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of write up on their _rofile is the biggest turn off.

"Will fill in later" will hardly get a list of people dropping at your feet xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Biggest turn off is a long list of things a lady expects from a male on her _rofile without saying a single thing about what they bring to the table as if all possible partners are predisposed to be instantly interested and want to jump through their endless hoops. huge turn off. "

I couldn’t agree more with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn’t agree more with this."

The problem is that there are so many desperate guys on here who will literally fuck anything that they have given these sorts of women a total false sense of desirability and self importance.

Deluded almost.

Fab is not reflective of 'real life' and a lot of women seem to forget that

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By *ay rickMan
over a year ago

cardiff

I had a msg last week from a female saying,,you sent me a reply ages ago which was abit off but I thought I would be generous and give you a 2nd chance!!!--I recalled her msg and it was a face pic or no chat,to which I replied you only have a pic of your left tit I've just sent 5pics to you lol no worries I believe in we're equal here-goodluck!!--so my response to latest msg was yup I remember but nothing's changed and find the 2nd chance quite arrogant as not needed--I wish you luck here n keep safe!!!--which I got the fuck you back n blocked!!---soooo my hate is double standards--and when your polite still get shite pms!!-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like others have said, little or no effort to say a little something about themselves, endless dick pics, one really will suffice, and when I get chatting to someone and they start getting graphic really early on, I totally go off them. Might be a bit weird on a sex site but it turns me cold.

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By *antdduWoman
over a year ago

wales

A polite message will always get a reply, be it positive or negative. Picture of genitals taken with y fronts around knees and polyester trousers around ankles oh so hmmmm, simply not acceptable, added to that 'the wife is going through menopause', and, go buy a fleshlight !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn’t agree more with this.

The problem is that there are so many desperate guys on here who will literally fuck anything that they have given these sorts of women a total false sense of desirability and self importance.

Deluded almost.

Fab is not reflective of 'real life' and a lot of women seem to forget that

Took the words right out of my mouth 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn’t agree more with this.

The problem is that there are so many desperate guys on here who will literally fuck anything that they have given these sorts of women a total false sense of desirability and self importance.

Deluded almost.

Fab is not reflective of 'real life' and a lot of women seem to forget that

Totally agree with you on this, this site is definitely not representative! I have recently stopped talking to someone cos he was a bit too good looking. This isn’t fake modesty talking but there’s no way a guy like that would be interested in size 18 me ‘off site’, and I have no wish to be a means to sticky

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By *ich_and_LizCouple
over a year ago

Spain

Since we are on here to meet people we firstly try to establish if they are looking for the same things as us, no compromises! A few ounces of intelligence are important so you can normally tell that by their _rofile summary. Also it’s important to know who has verified them, references are important in the real World too.Most importantly a polite reply is always sent!

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

I need something that will entice me, so it's good photos, a _rofile that actually says something about them, and me than just a one line message

So anything which is the polat opposite is a then off, the usual problems with photos - bombsites in the bedroom etc.

One line _rofiles, that will "Fill in later" and the _rofile is more than a year old

And the ubiquitous Sydney Uni statement

are you a sheep or can you actually think for yourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn’t agree more with this.

The problem is that there are so many desperate guys on here who will literally fuck anything that they have given these sorts of women a total false sense of desirability and self importance.

Deluded almost.

Fab is not reflective of 'real life' and a lot of women seem to forget that

This guy

this girl

General hints of narcissism tend to end my interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn’t agree more with this.

The problem is that there are so many desperate guys on here who will literally fuck anything that they have given these sorts of women a total false sense of desirability and self importance.

Deluded almost.

Fab is not reflective of 'real life' and a lot of women seem to forget that

end. "

Fab could do with a lot more women like you. One of the most genuine and nicest women I’ve met on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn’t agree more with this.

The problem is that there are so many desperate guys on here who will literally fuck anything that they have given these sorts of women a total false sense of desirability and self importance.

Deluded almost.

Fab is not reflective of 'real life' and a lot of women seem to forget that

end.

Fab could do with a lot more women like you. One of the most genuine and nicest women I’ve met on here

Oh are you talking to me?

if you are thank you v much. I very much enjoyed meeting you too

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By *ev and Trev OP Couple
over a year ago

cardiff

"Like others have said, little or no effort to say a little something about themselves, endless dick pics, one really will suffice, and when I get chatting to someone and they start getting graphic really early on, I totally go off them. Might be a bit weird on a sex site but it turns me cold.

This for me too.

Bev

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn’t agree more with this.

The problem is that there are so many desperate guys on here who will literally fuck anything that they have given these sorts of women a total false sense of desirability and self importance.

Deluded almost.

Fab is not reflective of 'real life' and a lot of women seem to forget that

end.

Fab could do with a lot more women like you. One of the most genuine and nicest women I’ve met on here

Oh are you talking to me?

if you are thank you v much. I very much enjoyed meeting you too

Yes I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t really judge people by their _rofile.

We find that once you get to know someone they can turn out to be someone completely different to what we thought they’d be like.

As long as we’re physically attracted to them then we’re keen to find out more.

I think the only thing that would really put us off would be photos of bareback meets with multiple men/women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lack of write up on their _rofile is the biggest turn off.

"Will fill in later" will hardly get a list of people dropping at your feet xx"

This!!! So lazy.

Agree with the smoking pics too, does nothing for me whatsoever...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im pretty new to this so still learning but one of the biggest things that switches me off is a bio that outlines a perfect male/female specimen or a long list of wants and wonts. There arent that many to be fair but it's the list of perfect attributes and won't and don't lists I just can't get my head around. I start reading and in my head it's like Blah Blah Blah. I know we all like to set out our stall and I appreciate we want to reduce the amount of unwanted attention and rubbish that comes through on mail but it just switches me off straight away. Just my thoughts of course and no doubt some may disagree so apologies if i offend. But I also sympathise with you ladies you get absolutely bombarded with emails so I can see why it's done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Trust you....

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By *rofMan
over a year ago

Around

Having a proper think, stroppy demanding _rofiles (generally women) with graphic verifications highlighting their willingness to exchange bodily fluids contrary to their very specific requirements.

If I want to meet a bunny boiler that doesn't care about themselves I'd arrange a meet with my ex wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having a proper think, stroppy demanding _rofiles (generally women) with graphic verifications highlighting their willingness to exchange bodily fluids contrary to their very specific requirements.

If I want to meet a bunny boiler that doesn't care about themselves I'd arrange a meet with my ex wife

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What about blow up beds ?

. LMAO XX

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By *rofMan
over a year ago

Around

Blow up beds are an accident waiting to happen, don't do it people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get put off if there is no public photos and they have gone to no effort to do a writing on their _rofile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wide open female leg photos....some parted with fingers.

' Well guys,,,,,,, this is me.ffs

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By *ac711Man
over a year ago

south Wales

Men with a couples _rofile then message you looking for mm meet !!

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

We try not to judge a book by its cover but it is the cover that gets you interested in picking up the book..

We cannot stand pics with cumshots in and little effort in the _rofile as we think you get out what you put in

Mrs

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By *rgasmicFunCouple
over a year ago

Gwent

I was gonna write some thing but i think most _rofiles should be like this lol ,

I am a good looking guy, i am awesome, i know nothing about weman, totaly disrespectful and rude, no nothing about the womans body or how to speek to them and dont give a shit about there emotions, i can fuck for hrs (pmsl) and i have a massive cock when we gonna meet xx.

Thumbs up if u think thats about right pmsl, should cheer up a few girls lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was gonna write some thing but i think most _rofiles should be like this lol ,

Thumbs up if u think thats about right pmsl, should cheer up a few girls lol xx"

Why should most _rofiles be like that?

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By *rgasmicFunCouple
over a year ago

Gwent

I meant SOME of the guys that come on here, the ones that make a lot of weman not go on here, but by all means not all, there r some fantastic guys on here, just some ruin it for others ,xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand the "some ruin it for others" mentality on here. If a single guy is unsuccessful on here it is highly likely through fault of his own,not the fault of others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't understand the "some ruin it for others" mentality on here. If a single guy is unsuccessful on here it is highly likely through fault of his own,not the fault of others."

The repetition breeds prejudice in people I suppose. If a demographic act prevalently in a certain way then other people tend to judge anyone fitting that demographic by the same logic. Sheep mentality basically.

Shame,you've a good head on your shoulders and now you're out of the game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't understand the "some ruin it for others" mentality on here. If a single guy is unsuccessful on here it is highly likely through fault of his own,not the fault of others."

I miss your sense P

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