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"there are. but it's changed so much. people would actually chat and find out more. these days it seems there are alot of rude people. I know we all have a certain type, but no need for being up own arse, pardon the punt. " Same as Peachy I'm afraid I know what I'm looking for (when I'm looking) and am not here to humour those who don't interest me. That isn't rude or up your own arse  | |||
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"how to make this site fun once again. " We'll, OP, not trying to be critical or funny, but you only seem to post on the forums about twice every 15 weeks.... 
Maybe if you contributed more often you could join in the fun and banter
It's not rocket science, but you only get out what you put in, dirty if like the law of thermodynamics
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"how to make this site fun once again. We'll, OP, not trying to be critical or funny, but you only seem to post on the forums about twice every 15 weeks....
Maybe if you contributed more often you could join in the fun and banter
It's not rocket science, but you only get out what you put in, dirty if like the law of thermodynamics
Maybe if we had more people contributing there would be more opinions and variety "Tbf though Jack it is near on impossible to have a bit of fun and banter on here these days without someone taking offence It gets a bit boring So I can see why the foruns have unfortunately become seldom used by some | |||
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"how to make this site fun once again. We'll, OP, not trying to be critical or funny, but you only seem to post on the forums about twice every 15 weeks....
Maybe if you contributed more often you could join in the fun and banter
It's not rocket science, but you only get out what you put in, dirty if like the law of thermodynamics
Maybe if we had more people contributing there would be more opinions and variety
Tbf though Jack it is near on impossible to have a bit of fun and banter on here these days without someone taking offence
It gets a bit boring
So I can see why the foruns have unfortunately become seldom used by some "People get offended? 
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"The trick with the forums is not to take them too seriously.... Also do not post anything where you are asking for an opinion or advice as that opens you up to comments that might just offend you. Unless your aim is to stir up controversy.... "Best bet is not to post at all....just incase  | |||
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"how to make this site fun once again. We'll, OP, not trying to be critical or funny, but you only seem to post on the forums about twice every 15 weeks....
Maybe if you contributed more often you could join in the fun and banter
It's not rocket science, but you only get out what you put in, dirty if like the law of thermodynamics
Maybe if we had more people contributing there would be more opinions and variety
Tbf though Jack it is near on impossible to have a bit of fun and banter on here these days without someone taking offence
It gets a bit boring
So I can see why the foruns have unfortunately become seldom used by some
People get offended?
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"how to make this site fun once again. We'll, OP, not trying to be critical or funny, but you only seem to post on the forums about twice every 15 weeks....
Maybe if you contributed more often you could join in the fun and banter
It's not rocket science, but you only get out what you put in, dirty if like the law of thermodynamics
Maybe if we had more people contributing there would be more opinions and variety
Tbf though Jack it is near on impossible to have a bit of fun and banter on here these days without someone taking offence
It gets a bit boring
So I can see why the foruns have unfortunately become seldom used by some
People get offended?
Seems to be an every day part of British culture these days
People looking for something to take offence to" this and what Peachy said | |||
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"The trick with the forums is not to take them too seriously.... Also do not post anything where you are asking for an opinion or advice as that opens you up to comments that might just offend you. Unless your aim is to stir up controversy.... "Problem is people ask for an opinion or advice but don't like the answer when it is given if it goes against the expectation of the answer they wanted | |||
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"The trick with the forums is not to take them too seriously.... Also do not post anything where you are asking for an opinion or advice as that opens you up to comments that might just offend you. Unless your aim is to stir up controversy....
Problem is people ask for an opinion or advice but don't like the answer when it is given if it goes against the expectation of the answer they wanted "This is the problem Snow A lot of people ask for an opinion and if it isn't the same as theirs go off in a tantrum They seem to forget that the forums are open for anyone to post whatever they like within the forum rules The fun and banter element went a long time ago as those of us who always enjoyed that part of it have given the fuck up due to being outnumbered these days by the miserable, over sensitive and easilly outraged who lurk around to pounce on anyone having a bit of fun and try and turn themselves into a fucking victim. Life's far too short for that shit | |||
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"I'm not a miserable prude etc etc. However it amuses immensely me to see the same old names,singing from the same song sheet (the minority incidentally) defending their often unsavoury behaviour trying to out shock each other and showing their ignorance by telling the rest of us that we are over sensitive. " It amuses me that this thread is full of people moaning about people moaning.. | |||
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"I'm not a miserable prude etc etc. However it amuses immensely me to see the same old names,singing from the same song sheet (the minority incidentally) defending their often unsavoury behaviour trying to out shock each other and showing their ignorance by telling the rest of us that we are over sensitive. It amuses me that this thread is full of people moaning about people moaning.. "If only moaning burnt calories it would be great
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"I'm not a miserable prude etc etc. However it amuses immensely me to see the same old names,singing from the same song sheet (the minority incidentally) defending their often unsavoury behaviour trying to out shock each other and showing their ignorance by telling the rest of us that we are over sensitive. It amuses me that this thread is full of people moaning about people moaning..
If only moaning burnt calories it would be great
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"how to make this site fun once again. We'll, OP, not trying to be critical or funny, but you only seem to post on the forums about twice every 15 weeks....
Maybe if you contributed more often you could join in the fun and banter
It's not rocket science, but you only get out what you put in, dirty if like the law of thermodynamics
Maybe if we had more people contributing there would be more opinions and variety
Tbf though Jack it is near on impossible to have a bit of fun and banter on here these days without someone taking offence
It gets a bit boring
So I can see why the foruns have unfortunately become seldom used by some
People get offended?
Seems to be an every day part of British culture these days
People looking for something to take offence to
this and what Peachy said"Ffs Snow don't agree they'll have me in a bloody clique with you now | |||
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"how to make this site fun once again. We'll, OP, not trying to be critical or funny, but you only seem to post on the forums about twice every 15 weeks....
Maybe if you contributed more often you could join in the fun and banter
It's not rocket science, but you only get out what you put in, dirty if like the law of thermodynamics
Maybe if we had more people contributing there would be more opinions and variety
Tbf though Jack it is near on impossible to have a bit of fun and banter on here these days without someone taking offence
It gets a bit boring
So I can see why the foruns have unfortunately become seldom used by some
People get offended?
Seems to be an every day part of British culture these days
People looking for something to take offence to
this and what Peachy said
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"I've actually never opened a thread on this site that you lot didn't have a post in, and honestly this boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes is probably why there are so few younger people on this site." I've met many younger people from the site, believe me there's plenty about X | |||
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"I've actually never opened a thread on this site that you lot didn't have a post in, and honestly this boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes is probably why there are so few younger people on this site." "...boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes..." So we all have to be mindful of what we say now, do we? I think, in all honesty, that most swingers are actually pretty open-minded and tolerant of other peoples views, what does grate however is when someone gets all bent out of shape about someone elses opinion on something they said, and starts ranting about how we are all closed-minded, rude, uneducated or trolls. Just because its become fashionable to "care", be "politically correct" or be "non-confrontational" doesn't mean its a lifestyle we should all forced to adopt. Human nature means conflict, and debate in a forum is healthy, if you want to have your hand held and your fevered brow mopped then I'd suggest a swingers forum really isn't the place to look. | |||
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"This kind of thin skin has even got a name now. Snowflake due to how fragile people's feelings are. By all means post on forums and accept that people will agree with you and others won't. Let's not turn the forums into a safe space "Can we have a forum panic room? Then we could retreat in there whenever want and lock the doors? preferably with a comfy bed, Internet access and a steady supply of condoms, lube and sustenance | |||
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"I've actually never opened a thread on this site that you lot didn't have a post in, and honestly this boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes is probably why there are so few younger people on this site. "...boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes..." So we all have to be mindful of what we say now, do we? I think, in all honesty, that most swingers are actually pretty open-minded and tolerant of other peoples views, what does grate however is when someone gets all bent out of shape about someone elses opinion on something they said, and starts ranting about how we are all closed-minded, rude, uneducated or trolls. Just because its become fashionable to "care", be "politically correct" or be "non-confrontational" doesn't mean its a lifestyle we should all forced to adopt. Human nature means conflict, and debate in a forum is healthy, if you want to have your hand held and your fevered brow mopped then I'd suggest a swingers forum really isn't the place to look. " The forum can be fairly hostile against none regular posters. Personally I couldn't give a shit if someone wants to have a pop at me as I'm as thick skinned as they come but I personally believe it's why the Welsh forum is shit unless you like social or social fuck ignore type posts.. | |||
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"I've actually never opened a thread on this site that you lot didn't have a post in, and honestly this boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes is probably why there are so few younger people on this site. "...boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes..." So we all have to be mindful of what we say now, do we? I think, in all honesty, that most swingers are actually pretty open-minded and tolerant of other peoples views, what does grate however is when someone gets all bent out of shape about someone elses opinion on something they said, and starts ranting about how we are all closed-minded, rude, uneducated or trolls. Just because its become fashionable to "care", be "politically correct" or be "non-confrontational" doesn't mean its a lifestyle we should all forced to adopt. Human nature means conflict, and debate in a forum is healthy, if you want to have your hand held and your fevered brow mopped then I'd suggest a swingers forum really isn't the place to look. The forum can be fairly hostile against none regular posters. Personally I couldn't give a shit if someone wants to have a pop at me as I'm as thick skinned as they come but I personally believe it's why the Welsh forum is shit unless you like social or social fuck ignore type posts.. " The forums are great...its the people that make them hostile | |||
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"I've actually never opened a thread on this site that you lot didn't have a post in, and honestly this boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes is probably why there are so few younger people on this site. "...boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes..." So we all have to be mindful of what we say now, do we? I think, in all honesty, that most swingers are actually pretty open-minded and tolerant of other peoples views, what does grate however is when someone gets all bent out of shape about someone elses opinion on something they said, and starts ranting about how we are all closed-minded, rude, uneducated or trolls. Just because its become fashionable to "care", be "politically correct" or be "non-confrontational" doesn't mean its a lifestyle we should all forced to adopt. Human nature means conflict, and debate in a forum is healthy, if you want to have your hand held and your fevered brow mopped then I'd suggest a swingers forum really isn't the place to look. The forum can be fairly hostile against none regular posters. Personally I couldn't give a shit if someone wants to have a pop at me as I'm as thick skinned as they come but I personally believe it's why the Welsh forum is shit unless you like social or social fuck ignore type posts.. The forums are great...its the people that make them hostile "Yup, there's the solution, ban people from posting, the forums will be a better place then | |||
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"I've actually never opened a thread on this site that you lot didn't have a post in, and honestly this boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes is probably why there are so few younger people on this site. "...boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes..." So we all have to be mindful of what we say now, do we? I think, in all honesty, that most swingers are actually pretty open-minded and tolerant of other peoples views, what does grate however is when someone gets all bent out of shape about someone elses opinion on something they said, and starts ranting about how we are all closed-minded, rude, uneducated or trolls. Just because its become fashionable to "care", be "politically correct" or be "non-confrontational" doesn't mean its a lifestyle we should all forced to adopt. Human nature means conflict, and debate in a forum is healthy, if you want to have your hand held and your fevered brow mopped then I'd suggest a swingers forum really isn't the place to look. The forum can be fairly hostile against none regular posters. Personally I couldn't give a shit if someone wants to have a pop at me as I'm as thick skinned as they come but I personally believe it's why the Welsh forum is shit unless you like social or social fuck ignore type posts.. The forums are great...its the people that make them hostile "I agree there I have been abused quite nastilly on here and via p.m in the past as a result of forum posts just because people dislike a difference of opinion Lucky I have a thick skin and couldn't really care less It's the internet, not real life and people really shouldn't take it all so seriously | |||
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"I've actually never opened a thread on this site that you lot didn't have a post in, and honestly this boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes is probably why there are so few younger people on this site. "...boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes..." So we all have to be mindful of what we say now, do we? I think, in all honesty, that most swingers are actually pretty open-minded and tolerant of other peoples views, what does grate however is when someone gets all bent out of shape about someone elses opinion on something they said, and starts ranting about how we are all closed-minded, rude, uneducated or trolls. Just because its become fashionable to "care", be "politically correct" or be "non-confrontational" doesn't mean its a lifestyle we should all forced to adopt. Human nature means conflict, and debate in a forum is healthy, if you want to have your hand held and your fevered brow mopped then I'd suggest a swingers forum really isn't the place to look. The forum can be fairly hostile against none regular posters. Personally I couldn't give a shit if someone wants to have a pop at me as I'm as thick skinned as they come but I personally believe it's why the Welsh forum is shit unless you like social or social fuck ignore type posts.. The forums are great...its the people that make them hostile
I agree there
I have been abused quite nastilly on here and via p.m in the past as a result of forum posts just because people dislike a difference of opinion
Lucky I have a thick skin and couldn't really care less
It's the internet, not real life and people really shouldn't take it all so seriously "It's a tough one though isn't it, I mean as long as there is freedom of speech there will always be a massive divide and things will generally escalate because a lot of us don't know each other and therefore take things as a personal attack. I think there are groups that stick together in the Wales forum and I get the fact that its because they are mates but as an individual again it can feel quite personal. I have thick skin as well but not everybody does. I have personally argued with you and also pm you with abuse back last year and for that I'd like to say I'm sorry, but you have to appreciate that (and this is a compliment) you are a confident woman and in all fairness you give as good as you get. But I am truly sorry there was no need for my personal comments to you it just got to me that day x Anyway. It's the new year so why don't we all try to change the format if we all feel the same..maybe if you take offence to reading a comment maybe we should all take a step back and deep breath. Well that's my new years resolution wishing you all a good new year x | |||
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"I've actually never opened a thread on this site that you lot didn't have a post in, and honestly this boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes is probably why there are so few younger people on this site. "...boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes..." So we all have to be mindful of what we say now, do we? I think, in all honesty, that most swingers are actually pretty open-minded and tolerant of other peoples views, what does grate however is when someone gets all bent out of shape about someone elses opinion on something they said, and starts ranting about how we are all closed-minded, rude, uneducated or trolls. Just because its become fashionable to "care", be "politically correct" or be "non-confrontational" doesn't mean its a lifestyle we should all forced to adopt. Human nature means conflict, and debate in a forum is healthy, if you want to have your hand held and your fevered brow mopped then I'd suggest a swingers forum really isn't the place to look. The forum can be fairly hostile against none regular posters. Personally I couldn't give a shit if someone wants to have a pop at me as I'm as thick skinned as they come but I personally believe it's why the Welsh forum is shit unless you like social or social fuck ignore type posts.. The forums are great...its the people that make them hostile
I agree there
I have been abused quite nastilly on here and via p.m in the past as a result of forum posts just because people dislike a difference of opinion
Lucky I have a thick skin and couldn't really care less
It's the internet, not real life and people really shouldn't take it all so seriously
It's a tough one though isn't it, I mean as long as there is freedom of speech there will always be a massive divide and things will generally escalate because a lot of us don't know each other and therefore take things as a personal attack. I think there are groups that stick together in the Wales forum and I get the fact that its because they are mates but as an individual again it can feel quite personal. I have thick skin as well but not everybody does.
I have personally argued with you and also pm you with abuse back last year and for that I'd like to say I'm sorry, but you have to appreciate that (and this is a compliment) you are a confident woman and in all fairness you give as good as you get. But I am truly sorry there was no need for my personal comments to you it just got to me that day x
Anyway. It's the new year so why don't we all try to change the format if we all feel the same..maybe if you take offence to reading a comment maybe we should all take a step back and deep breath.
Well that's my new years resolution wishing you all a good new year x"Apology accepted but not needed We can all be cunts as much as the next person | |||
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"I've actually never opened a thread on this site that you lot didn't have a post in, and honestly this boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes is probably why there are so few younger people on this site. "...boring, out-of-date willful ignorance of changing attitudes..." So we all have to be mindful of what we say now, do we? I think, in all honesty, that most swingers are actually pretty open-minded and tolerant of other peoples views, what does grate however is when someone gets all bent out of shape about someone elses opinion on something they said, and starts ranting about how we are all closed-minded, rude, uneducated or trolls. Just because its become fashionable to "care", be "politically correct" or be "non-confrontational" doesn't mean its a lifestyle we should all forced to adopt. Human nature means conflict, and debate in a forum is healthy, if you want to have your hand held and your fevered brow mopped then I'd suggest a swingers forum really isn't the place to look. The forum can be fairly hostile against none regular posters. Personally I couldn't give a shit if someone wants to have a pop at me as I'm as thick skinned as they come but I personally believe it's why the Welsh forum is shit unless you like social or social fuck ignore type posts.. The forums are great...its the people that make them hostile
I agree there
I have been abused quite nastilly on here and via p.m in the past as a result of forum posts just because people dislike a difference of opinion
Lucky I have a thick skin and couldn't really care less
It's the internet, not real life and people really shouldn't take it all so seriously
It's a tough one though isn't it, I mean as long as there is freedom of speech there will always be a massive divide and things will generally escalate because a lot of us don't know each other and therefore take things as a personal attack. I think there are groups that stick together in the Wales forum and I get the fact that its because they are mates but as an individual again it can feel quite personal. I have thick skin as well but not everybody does.
I have personally argued with you and also pm you with abuse back last year and for that I'd like to say I'm sorry, but you have to appreciate that (and this is a compliment) you are a confident woman and in all fairness you give as good as you get. But I am truly sorry there was no need for my personal comments to you it just got to me that day x
Anyway. It's the new year so why don't we all try to change the format if we all feel the same..maybe if you take offence to reading a comment maybe we should all take a step back and deep breath.
Well that's my new years resolution wishing you all a good new year x
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"It's a tough one though isn't it, I mean as long as there is freedom of speech there will always be a massive divide and things will generally escalate because a lot of us don't know each other and therefore take things as a personal attack. I think there are groups that stick together in the Wales forum and I get the fact that its because they are mates but as an individual again it can feel quite personal. I have thick skin as well but not everybody does. I have personally argued with you and also pm you with abuse back last year and for that I'd like to say I'm sorry, but you have to appreciate that (and this is a compliment) you are a confident woman and in all fairness you give as good as you get. But I am truly sorry there was no need for my personal comments to you it just got to me that day x Anyway. It's the new year so why don't we all try to change the format if we all feel the same..maybe if you take offence to reading a comment maybe we should all take a step back and deep breath. Well that's my new years resolution wishing you all a good new year x" Are you implying that there are groups of people who are friends in the South Wales scene who might be seen to club together on the forums? Nooooo | |||
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"People can be banned from posting in the forums by a forum moderator. However due to the amount of posts it's just easier for the thread to be shut down rather than troll through the individual posts and make an estimated guess on who's saying what about who. Sometimes it's just not that clear who is being obusive or misbehaving in an individual thread so that's why there is the report option in each individual post. The moderators do a great job that's thankless that makes the forums a great place for open debate." | |||
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"I only asked a question. didn't actually think it would get this kind of reaction. if you don't like the question, don't answer to it. still every one is entitled to have a opinion. but i can see that the fun as gone and some guys can't handle being corrected lol. " If you ask a question then anyone is entitled to respond, whether you like the answer or not, that's the point of questions, but for everyone to agree
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