FabSwingers.com forum: The next Cardiff Social...Sat. 26th Sept

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We've been giving some thought to the next social and feel it would be nice to end the summer on a high note...providing that doesn't clash with the brilliant Swansea social.

Before we decide on a venue we'd like to hear some input from all you sexy guys n gals with your thoughts on whether to stick with the same venue or to try somewhere new.

We have our own thoughts on this. The Great Western has a good feel about it and admission is free. We could all meet there at the start of the night, downstairs this time, so we could comandeer the dance floor before it gets too busy.

From there we could go on to Reflex for those of us that love 80's music or perhaps ClubX which is open til 6am! Due to the nature of this club - it's a gay club but welcomes straight folk - dress can be sexier and raunchier for those wishing to express themselves lol.

So come on folks, get writing as we need to hear your views on this. After all, it's your social and it's you lot that have made the Welsh socials such a success. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a nice hotel out of the way where we can have a party a buffet and stay over would be good, but ppl have to let you know earlier enuff and send their deposits, could be a very nice and wicked night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the great western was great but we will enjoy were ever it is held plus its my birthday as well so cant think of a better way to celebrate it than with the guys and gals from the welsh room

x x x jackie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just bring it on!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We looooove the hotel idea kitt. Maybe it would be one to plan for Christmas as an extra-special event.

How we'd collect the money though would be a headache.

Any suggestions folks? xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think it was a good night but good maybe find some where a little more private or warn them we r gonig to come as getting a drink in there was bit mental

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Jackie, alias hornyhousewife lol, looks like we'll be celebrating your birthday in style hun. xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You're not the only one to mention about the difficulty in getting served at the bar Caroline. It didn't affect me as Sean did the bar run all night lol. But it's a valid point hun. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes its me mand soz for the confusion lol really looking forward to it the last 1 was a brill night wont be driving this time though gonna stop over the night so can celebrate my birthday in style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is my birthday too :D but not sure if i'll be able to make this! will have to see closer to the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is getting freeky now

yes another great idea! payment could be made at the social before the "hotel" social this would give you:

a the numbers actually going

b payment for the function room

c actually see if the person /persons are suitable and not someone who would cause trouble when they get a wittle dwank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I know its pretty obvouse that I will be there, and babe with me, looking forward to another night of dance, pinch, and grope lol

maybe the secuity cam man will be happy agian with another show lmao ! the things you do when your d*unk eh ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Very sensible hornyhousewife. We might book into a hotel too to make it feel a bit more special. Good idea hun. xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No excuses now then red hun...you HAVE to knock the football on the head and attend the social instead. xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Damn...that's me out then prof. Think I may have got a "wittle dwank" as you so sweetly put it pmsl.

Nice idea though...but who wants to be in charge of all that money? I hate handling other people's cash. xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Great to hear you guys will be supporting the next social cj...wouldn't be the same without you hun.

As for the uncouth people who were performing for the security cams...words fail me lol. xxx

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By *he WabbitsCouple
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

We will be there come hell or high water, i like the western personally, a hotel room is a good idea but as you said collecting the money would be a headache. Still wherever you hold it i'm sure it will be a blast!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well we're relieved to hear it cos it just wouldn't be a Cardiff social without our dear friends Rog n Jess. I'm with you guys...I like The Great Western. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last venue not too bad as we all easliy took up that particular corner! However it was a nightmare to get served (at the bar). Why not have a themed night; tarts and vicars sort of thing? xx

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Great to hear you guys will be supporting the next social cj...wouldn't be the same without you hun.

As for the uncouth people who were performing for the security cams...words fail me lol. xxx"

I know, shocking behaviour, most unbecoming.... erm.... hang on.... getting a fuzzy mental picture......the mists are clearing..... lady... dark hair.... floaty dress..... cheeky smile..... hmmm.... I recognise her I think..... ooooo its you Mnd lol!!! You saucy minx!!!

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By *oddessWoman
over a year ago

swansea

"Great to hear you guys will be supporting the next social cj...wouldn't be the same without you hun.

As for the uncouth people who were performing for the security cams...words fail me lol. xxx

Dark hair...dress...cheeky smile...thought you were talkin bout me for a minute!!

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Great to hear you guys will be supporting the next social cj...wouldn't be the same without you hun.

As for the uncouth people who were performing for the security cams...words fail me lol. xxx

Dark hair...dress...cheeky smile...thought you were talkin bout me for a minute!!"

Erm... it all fits... were you flashing your boobies at the security cameras too?

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"We've been giving some thought to the next social and feel it would be nice to end the summer on a high note...providing that doesn't clash with the brilliant Swansea social.

Before we decide on a venue we'd like to hear some input from all you sexy guys n gals with your thoughts on whether to stick with the same venue or to try somewhere new.

So come on folks, get writing as we need to hear your views on this. After all, it's your social and it's you lot that have made the Welsh socials such a success. xxx

Well, to be honest, we are easy (steady!! form a queue lol !), although the club X thing sounds good.... all the sexy ladies in raunchy outfits...mmmmmmmmm!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No excuses now then red hun...you HAVE to knock the football on the head and attend the social instead. xxx"

Ahhhhh but it's not the football that'd stop me coming, it'd be me being out with mates visiting more 'gentlemanly' establishments :P

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By *oddessWoman
over a year ago

swansea

"Great to hear you guys will be supporting the next social cj...wouldn't be the same without you hun.

As for the uncouth people who were performing for the security cams...words fail me lol. xxx

Dark hair...dress...cheeky smile...thought you were talkin bout me for a minute!!

Erm... it all fits... were you flashing your boobies at the security cameras too?

No just at the barman to get his attention and get served quicker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i got board standing at the bar so i had to do something so i undud your bra lol

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By *oddessWoman
over a year ago

swansea

"well i got board standing at the bar so i had to do something so i undud your bra lol"

Well u gettin good at gettin me out of my underwear lol x

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Great to hear you guys will be supporting the next social cj...wouldn't be the same without you hun.

As for the uncouth people who were performing for the security cams...words fail me lol. xxx

Dark hair...dress...cheeky smile...thought you were talkin bout me for a minute!!

Erm... it all fits... were you flashing your boobies at the security cameras too?

No just at the barman to get his attention and get served quicker

Feck, thats where I was going wrong, should've let Jayne go to the bar lol!!

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

"a nice hotel out of the way where we can have a party a buffet and stay over would be good, but ppl have to let you know earlier enuff and send their deposits, could be a very nice and wicked night"

Nice idea Kitten - but I think this is the sort of thing you would arrange as well as a social - not instead of one.

The great thing about the socials as they stand is that people can more or less decide at the last minute and just turn up - which is perfect for the new and nervous and those people who need to arrange babysitters etc.

Making people book and pay in advance will just put those people off from coming altogether.

I'm not saying its a bad idea - quite the opposite, its just not the right format for the site's monthly social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

true enuff tobs but sometimes its nice to have a social in a function room of a pub even, private bar and just swingers not general public like they do in swansea innit

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"a nice hotel out of the way where we can have a party a buffet and stay over would be good, but ppl have to let you know earlier enuff and send their deposits, could be a very nice and wicked night

Nice idea Kitten - but I think this is the sort of thing you would arrange as well as a social - not instead of one.

Making people book and pay in advance will just put those people off from coming altogether.

I'm not saying its a bad idea - quite the opposite, its just not the right format for the site's monthly social"

I think Tobe's right, although an hotel etc sounds like a good idea too. The format thats developed so far seems to suit most people quite well, although it would be nice to have it in a private room like the Swansea one, but this brings with it the extra ball-ache of organising and paying for it.

I did notice a few young lads coming over to eyeball the ladies semi-d*unken antics, and if the meet was held in a private room we could avoid this, plus any unecessary unwanted attention this may bring. However, that being said, the flip-side is that you then are tied to one location, and that can be a bit of a bind if people decide en-masse that reflex should be invaded, or the local kebab hostelry should be decimated lol!

Now, if a place could be found with a private room, some banging 80's choons, a pole on a dance floor for the ladies, and a chippie around the corner.... then I would hazard a guess it would be a winner, but unfortunately such places are few and far between!!

Maybe the Cardiff social should carry on as it is, apart form the wait at the bar its pretty good in the western, there are enough of us guys around to "dissuade" any trouble-makers and we can all venture out to various clubs etc during the months until a favourite pattern develops?

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

Kitten: I hear you hun - and I honestly think your original idea of a social at a hotel with a private room ect is a great idea - anothr site I'm on does socials just like that and they are an absolute scream - but given the expense and the organising they take you'd be pushed to get more than maybe 1 every 3 months or so - and you'd want to make it more for committed an established members rather than a come-as-you-are type event.

I'd be well up for helping you organise something like that tho if your really interested.

_thwalescple:

altho there was a bit of curiosity from a few of the "civilians" at the GW, it never seemed too intrusive to me and lets face it - having a civilian audience adds a bit of an edge to the evening thats kinda fun - cos they arent in on the secret that we are in on

I had a chat with the security staff there, they were very switched on and refreshingly professional rather than just being hired meatheads - so I cant see things ever geting out of hand there.

So yes - a private room would be great - and perhaps a bit more of a plan for the evening in terms of where we will be at what times if we decide to move to different venues might add something to it - but overall its difficult to really find fault with the night or the venue.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Tobleton, I must shake your hand next time we meet hun...which I'm hoping will be at the next social in Sept. Sod shaking hands...snogs are order of the day methinks lol.

I have read everyone's comments with great interest and the general consensus seems to be that most people like The Great Western.

We do...it's been our local for a good night out for the past couple of years so I know for a fact the venue is safe and well-organised from a security front. It's rare to see any trouble there but when it happens the bouncers are very professional about nipping it in the bud...and no, it wasn't me being forcefully ejected pmsl.

It's handy to be able to have the top section of the venue pretty much to ourselves. And I'm with you Tobleton, let lesser mortals stop and stare with envy in their eyes. As a member of the fairer sex, I find a little outside interest quite complimentary providing it doesn't get out of hand.

And regarding the difficulty getting served at the bar, Sean has had a word with management to see if they can lay on a couple more barstaff for us at the next social. It seems this won't be a problem to arrange.

All this being said, things are never set in stone with the Wales night out. Keep up the suggestions folks...all ideas are being listened to with interest. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i dont reall mind where the social is goin to be ill let all u decide between you...

Ill deffinatly be there tho with cj as long as u all let me no were what time etc heheheh looking forward to lots more flirting and boogying all nite wohoooooo babexxx

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as the old adage goes Mands "IF IT AINT BROKE DONT FIX IT" I wish the welsh room all the best for many years to come at the GWH. I myself much as I would love to come to a social again, sadly cant do GWH due to family connections with that pub as wouldnt like it to slip out to family that I swing lol. I just chat in the room and do ma meets. have lots of fun mands

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Such a pity kitt. That situation has entered my head as we have friends who may well bump into us at The Great Western. It's a difficult one to solve. And before our daughter moved to Leeds there was always the chance we'd bump into her on our travels.

Keeping fingers crossed that if anyone does see us I'm behaving myself lol. Folks...keep me in check pleaseeeee. xxx

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

"as the old adage goes Mands "IF IT AINT BROKE DONT FIX IT" I wish the welsh room all the best for many years to come at the GWH. I myself much as I would love to come to a social again, sadly cant do GWH due to family connections with that pub as wouldnt like it to slip out to family that I swing lol. I just chat in the room and do ma meets. have lots of fun mands"

well the offer still stands to help you organise a hotel social for established members and regulars

alternatively come to the swansea social - I'd be willing to bed thaty someone ends up offering to put you up for the night

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Such a pity kitt. That situation has entered my head as we have friends who may well bump into us at The Great Western. It's a difficult one to solve. And before our daughter moved to Leeds there was always the chance we'd bump into her on our travels.

Keeping fingers crossed that if anyone does see us I'm behaving myself lol. Folks...keep me in check pleaseeeee. xxx"

OK mand, come and sit in the shy corner with us then, we'll keep you entertained !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Shy corner here I come lol. xxx

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By *he WabbitsCouple
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

Make space for us too please?

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Shy corner here I come lol. xxx"

Note to self.... make sure there are no cctv cameras in the shy corner lol!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol Mart...don't be a spoilsport hun. Just one cam...pleaseeeee. xxx

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Lol Mart...don't be a spoilsport hun. Just one cam...pleaseeeee. xxx"

We'll bring one just for you hun, and if you need any extras I am volunteering lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You may be sorry you did lol mart. xxx

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

on the subject of the shy corner - who was the cute girl in the shy corner in the brown boots and with the boobs to die for ???

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"You may be sorry you did lol mart. xxx"

I can honestly say I doubt that very much Mand!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

probably wont be making it to the next social ,but i am sure the mayhem and the sexy ladies will ensue , making the night a good one x

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

on the subject of the shy corner - who was the cute girl in the shy corner in the brown boots and with the boobs to die for ???"

I think she came with Angeleyes, no idea what her name is tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hmmm i would have said it was you jayne ,,, brown boots and boobs to die for x...but there was a girl sat next to me and she was a friend of angel eyes friend ,sounds like her ...

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

how about fancy dress we havent done that for a long while and its all fun after all its cardiff nowone cares what you wear lol

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

cant think who your talking bout diao lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Was thinking we might do a fancy dress for either Halloween or Christmas. But feel free to turn up dressed as outrageously sexily as you dare...no one will be complaining lol. xxx

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Jeez..... think we need to start putting our names at the bottom of our posts, I think diao fancies me!!!

Martin!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

naaaaaaaaa i am celebate lol .....xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hell daio if your celebate im mother superior lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be there!!!

I'll be the shy retiring chap in the corner, with my slippers and cardigan pmsl.

Oh and if any lovely lady wants to check out my white bits, they are more than welcome

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By *oddessWoman
over a year ago

swansea

"I'll be there!!!

I'll be the shy retiring chap in the corner, with my slippers and cardigan pmsl.

Oh and if any lovely lady wants to check out my white bits, they are more than welcome

Ooh me please!

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By *he WabbitsCouple
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

We will be the ones sensible one (yeh right lmao)

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By *he WabbitsCouple
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

Secong thought sod that PARTY ON FOLKS!!!!!!!!!!!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no doubt your socials are so great , but clubX and Reflex ..sounds tooo good ...lol

Jackie I know it's you ,we will celebrate in style ..hun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

viking righlty pointed out ..mandy ..i am sure you cetainly good in being so creative

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Will we be seeing you at the next social passion hun? xxx

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