FabSwingers.com forum: Single people....loneliness

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fellow singles....do you ever get lonely??

I am feeling lonely as fuck atm and have done for the past year or so now

I have my wonderful kids and family and friends for company but I guess I just miss having the companionship and emotional support type of thing.

I have been single nearly 4 years and am absolutely terrified of any form of commitment or at the thought of an exclusive relationship.

I love my own space and have my own routine and can't imagine changing that.

When I meet, which isn't that often these days, I almost always just do one offs.

I just wonder if I'm odd feeling like this?

for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you’re not alone in this,it’s kind of comforting to know I’m not the only one, but on the flip side I wish you didnt have to feel it, no one should.Sending hugs xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's a weird feeling

I miss the emotional connection I guess, but I'm far too scared to try and find it.

And I love my freedom and independence

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By *wanseaStudentMan
over a year ago

Wales- Swansea,Cardiff, Newport/ West/East Midlands - Birmingham, Coventry, Leicster.

I agree, couldn't you form a friendship or relationship where you live separately but have the foundations of each other if you know what I mean. Sometimes this works fine. Hope this helps x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No because I'm a selfish cunt and if I felt at all tied I'd be off looking for cock.

I get very bored very quickly

I'm a difficult individual

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By *wanseaStudentMan
over a year ago

Wales- Swansea,Cardiff, Newport/ West/East Midlands - Birmingham, Coventry, Leicster.

But you wouldn't be tied you'd live separate its basically a call for affection and shagging when you both want it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'd be afraid of getting attached though and if I cared for someone the thought of them shagging someone else would kill me. Like I said, I'm selfish

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By *wanseaStudentMan
over a year ago

Wales- Swansea,Cardiff, Newport/ West/East Midlands - Birmingham, Coventry, Leicster.

i cannot suggest anything here, maybe buy a dog, they are more useful and more company than a man, plus they'll give you unconditional love and stay with you forever

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I did think about a puppy when my last child started school as I was broody but I work shifts so it wouldn't be fair. I have a snake and a lizard but they're ignorant

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

"Fellow singles....do you ever get lonely??

I am feeling lonely as fuck atm and have done for the past year or so now

I have my wonderful kids and family and friends for company but I guess I just miss having the companionship and emotional support type of thing.

I have been single nearly 4 years and am absolutely terrified of any form of commitment or at the thought of an exclusive relationship.

I love my own space and have my own routine and can't imagine changing that.

When I meet, which isn't that often these days, I almost always just do one offs.

I just wonder if I'm odd feeling like this?

for me

Your not alone... I'm everyone's best friend. But nobody's number one I'm friend zoned right out. To be honest I'm feeling rather needy today haha, it must me the moon. Your not alone missp. I find Christmas tends to heighten these feelings though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Christmas definitely makes it harder Max

I make the effort for the kids but I find it very difficult

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

"Christmas definitely makes it harder Max

I make the effort for the kids but I find it very difficult"

You'll always have their love so that's a bonus. I've been ill the last two weeks, as well as leaving me a mess physically. It showed me just how lonely I really am,other than the doctor I seen a total of 3 people in two whole weeks.

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By *ve 66Woman
over a year ago

Blackwood

Know the feeling MissP69.All the kids Ave gone.Watching a film for 2 hrs and not having someone to say ' didn't understand the ending ' don't need no one talking or sex just feeling someone's presence will do me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Christmas definitely makes it harder Max

I make the effort for the kids but I find it very difficult

That's so sad Max....I don't have the problem of lack of family and friends so I shouldn't complain really xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been so hurt in the past i don't think i could get close to a guy. Wall is up and 100ft high but it would be nice to have a male friend too go out with sometimes without the sex. My kids have flown the nest and sometimes i don't see a sol for days......on the plus side i can fart when i want.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soul * sticky keyboard......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No because I'm a selfish cunt and if I felt at all tied I'd be off looking for cock.

I get very bored very quickly

I'm a difficult individual

I'm just like you lol, so I live my life at arms length & that drives guy's away, luckily Ch3wy sticks with it X

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

I know exactly how you feel. I'm off work at the moment and sometimes go the whole week without seeing anyone. I talk to the dog but don't cuddle him cos his breath stinks lol...

I've been single for 7 years and have become selfish in that I like my own space and don't want anyone under my feet. A cuddle buddy would be nice. Watch TV, go out for food, and company when we both want it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know exactly how you feel. I'm off work at the moment and sometimes go the whole week without seeing anyone. I talk to the dog but don't cuddle him cos his breath stinks lol...

If you're still off work after Christmas I'm coming to see you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know exactly how you feel. I'm off work at the moment and sometimes go the whole week without seeing anyone. I talk to the dog but don't cuddle him cos his breath stinks lol...

If you're still off work after Christmas I'm coming to see you

Your not alone ladies, I’m surrounded by people all day and through work but it’s not the same as hanging out in your onesie and just chilling with some company

I’ve been feeling it more an more lately, but at the same time I like my independent like you miss P

It’s great to hear you’ve got a good family connection, i don’t have that here in Wales as the only reason I’ve stayed here is because of my son.

Maybe Fab should open up a cuddle buddy site, just for people to hang out x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know exactly how you feel. I'm off work at the moment and sometimes go the whole week without seeing anyone. I talk to the dog but don't cuddle him cos his breath stinks lol...

If you're still off work after Christmas I'm coming to see you

Your not alone ladies, I’m surrounded by people all day and through work but it’s not the same as hanging out in your onesie and just chilling with some company

I’ve been feeling it more an more lately, but at the same time I like my independent like you miss P

It’s great to hear you’ve got a good family connection, i don’t have that here in Wales as the only reason I’ve stayed here is because of my son.

Maybe Fab should open up a cuddle buddy site, just for people to hang out x "

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

"Fellow singles....do you ever get lonely??

I am feeling lonely as fuck atm and have done for the past year or so now

I have my wonderful kids and family and friends for company but I guess I just miss having the companionship and emotional support type of thing.

I have been single nearly 4 years and am absolutely terrified of any form of commitment or at the thought of an exclusive relationship.

I love my own space and have my own routine and can't imagine changing that.

When I meet, which isn't that often these days, I almost always just do one offs.

I just wonder if I'm odd feeling like this?

for me

Your not the only one, it's 5 years for me. Seems a lot of people on here feel the same way.

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By *aut-eWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"I've been single for 7 years and have become selfish in that I like my own space and don't want anyone under my feet. A cuddle buddy would be nice. Watch TV, go out for food, and company when we both want it

This for me too, 7 years single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know exactly how you feel. I'm off work at the moment and sometimes go the whole week without seeing anyone. I talk to the dog but don't cuddle him cos his breath stinks lol...

We need to do lunch Mama X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive come out of a relationship that lasted over a decade...

towards the en i felt lonely in the relationship..

we lived together "for the kids" towards the end.

finally moved apart begining of this year... i did feel lonely but enjoyed my own space..

now have a reg fwb but i feel like its maybe escalating because im soo used to being with someone??

maybe the same is true if your single longer? you becme almost instatutionalised??

maybe thats why people dont committ or fail to get out of bad relationships

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By *ve 66Woman
over a year ago

Blackwood

5 years single after 25 yearsarried

Sometimes I love it other times I hate it. Long dark nights don't help

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's reassuring to know I'm not alone. I expected a load of abuse and to be told to man the fuck up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's reassuring to know I'm not alone. I expected a load of abuse and to be told to man the fuck up

naaah i think its a more common thing than people will admit.

there have actually been studies into such things.

a friend of mine who has a proper job and gets paid loads was on about such things..

appratently Japan has it big time.. i switched off after that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's reassuring to know I'm not alone. I expected a load of abuse and to be told to man the fuck up

Definitely not alone.

Part of the reason i joined, apart from curiosity was that I cant be doing with all the BS that comes with dating sites, the false promises and shallow ghosting once they've got sex.. sod that for a laugh..

At least here it's honest, If it's just sex it's just sex. It's ok to say that. If someone makes s connection with me and vice versa I've made it clear that's a possibility..I like my space and my independence but I do miss someone who actually gives a shit about me enough to ask. That's being human right? Hugs xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been single 2 years now after 16 yrs in a relationship. I knew no different. I thought my life was complete. Then one day it changed without any warning. I didnt think I would manage.but I'm lucky I have a good support network around me if needed which thankfully is rare. I do get lonely but I'm also very happy with my own company and keep myself busy. I also don't want any emotional ties. I find people too needy. Being happy with my own company was key. I just did things I've always wanted to do. I Travel alot, help with charity, and do self fulfilling things that are close to me. So that's my emotional release I guess. And this being anlther one of them of course.

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By *rgasmicFunCouple
over a year ago

Gwent

Im reading these treads and kinda feel for u all, its been a long time since i felt lonely, i know im a lucky guy been with a gorgous woman for 31 yrs and have large a family, there is some one for every one out there, why cant u all get together for a meal drink and a good cuddle and call a freind thats what there for, no one should be lonely at any time xxx

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By *adboy48Man
over a year ago

pontypridd

yes lonely hate being single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What type of snake do you have? I have a corn and a boa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not alone here MissP! These cold winter nights haven't helped lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get very lonely at times after being single for four years. But I have never been a practitioner of monogamy, I have always had some form of ethical non-monogamous relationship since I was 18, so that scares a lot of people off.

And after being alone for so many years I am used to my company (and my sons on the weekends) and doing thing my way completely, so I am not even sure how I would handle sharing my life with someone again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same, 5 years out of a 20 year marriage & I love my alone time, but I do yearn for the occasional cwtch or the lazy Sunday morning jump, Ch3wy just doesn't do cwtching & apart from when we're away I can't bear anyone staying overnight X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What type of snake do you have? I have a corn and a boa."

I only have my corn now, my royal died a couple of years back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was Originally going for a Royal before I fell in love with my Boa. But Royal.is still on the to get list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's normal don't worry, I've been single for just over 2 years and I get lonely sometimes.

I just miss the feeling or having someone next to me I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're 100% not alone MissP. It does get a bit lonely, especially on these cold dark night's xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're definitely not alone in that feeling.

I wish I had someone to wake up next to each morning, share laughs with, steal duvet, play pranks on, grab the booty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miss P....and to all the rest....thank you for such kind words....I am totally in the same boat as I too am lonely and was starting to wander if it was normal to feel this way!

It's a little different for me as my wife left me in June for another guy and then he left her....and NOW she has met someone else and I'm still alone....all be it with my kids but adult company and companionship is something that we must all crave.

Miss P and whomever else is feeling this way then I'm always up for a regular chat as it's been ages since I had any physical contact and can't really remember what sex is haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fellow singles....do you ever get lonely??

I am feeling lonely as fuck atm and have done for the past year or so now

I have my wonderful kids and family and friends for company but I guess I just miss having the companionship and emotional support type of thing.

I have been single nearly 4 years and am absolutely terrified of any form of commitment or at the thought of an exclusive relationship.

I love my own space and have my own routine and can't imagine changing that.

When I meet, which isn't that often these days, I almost always just do one offs.

I just wonder if I'm odd feeling like this?

for me

I agree..

absolutely not alone in this! Sure the time of year is to blame (in part)

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By *loveyourassMan
over a year ago

Newport

I hate being alone, this is my first Christmas in 15 years on my own, just wish I had someone to spoil, hope you're ok miss p

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By *r n1ceguyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Mmmmm I'm gonna create a new website .... not fookbuddies.Com but friendbuddy.com... or cwtchbuddy.Com.... crimbo can be lonely when you're single (I'm there too) Miss p69 you've got gate crash sexy mama I'm sure you pair will have a great laugh ????????

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By *hortarse69Woman
over a year ago

up the valleys ;-)

Single and definitely miss the companionship and support.. I miss being in a relationship but scared shitless of having another one.

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By *exy Under BearCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

I think we can all feel alone at times. This lifestyle is fun but I'm sure most of us keep it a secret from our vanilla friends and that can create distance as you are always keeping a secret from people who want to be close.

I have fantastic friends within the fab life but lots are fakers with maggie as they just want to fuck her xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only been single for 6 weeks and already I'm feeling lonely ,kids are never here so sat on my own most the time so your not alone missp xxx

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

"I know exactly how you feel. I'm off work at the moment and sometimes go the whole week without seeing anyone. I talk to the dog but don't cuddle him cos his breath stinks lol...

We need to do lunch Mama X"

Yes definitely. I'd like that x

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

"I know exactly how you feel. I'm off work at the moment and sometimes go the whole week without seeing anyone. I talk to the dog but don't cuddle him cos his breath stinks lol...

If you're still off work after Christmas I'm coming to see you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This for me too, 7 years single

Eight years for me

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By *hynblondebbwWoman
over a year ago

city centre ish

"I know exactly how you feel. I'm off work at the moment and sometimes go the whole week without seeing anyone. I talk to the dog but don't cuddle him cos his breath stinks lol...

I keep telling you, come and see me! My house is open to you always my darling, I might be straight but I’ll give anyone cuddles and if you can see it, you can snuggle into it (unless we are in the hot tub and that’s another set of rules lol) you have my number, please come down and see me, bring the fur baby I’ve told you before! I’m coming home Friday if you’re around.. USE MY NUMBER please xx

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Yes .... ive been single for quite a long time ..my children have grown and fled ... I do see them ....but they have theor own lives to lead ...

I like my own space ... I think you become selfish after a while ... but id like to have a friend .... cook a meal ... watch a film....have a laugh ....

I hate dark nights , thats when I feel alone ..

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

There's a lot on the telly about loneliness lately they say it's as bad as 15 fags a day

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By *ohnjo24Man
over a year ago

swansea

I've been on my own for ten years now and apart from my daughter I used to go weeks without seeing anyone apart from work mates,you do get lonely and feel down but then you become selfish and don't want anybody in your space for too long,that's why most of use like this site we get sex now and then and go home too our little house and leave everybody locked outside.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

I’m always told I’m the guy who knows everyone and had gazillions of friends.

Close the door to my house though and I feel desperately lonely these days,. It’s nothing to do with sex (honest) - just about having someone to share life’s little moments with. I had a brief glimpse into that world recently when a beautiful friend stayed while over here for a couple of weeks. Made it worse really!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m always told I’m the guy who knows everyone and had gazillions of friends.

I get that!! I got into a really difficult sitiation last year with someone I was meeting regularly and even though it ended utterly shit it kinda reminded me what I was missing and that I can have feelings for people and I've felt lonely as fuck since really.

I wish I could be emotionless, a lot of people assume I am but I really am the opposite, I guess I've just gotten used to being a certain way to fit the lifestyle I live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miss p I feel for u honestly and all u pple who feel lonely because ure single. But here's the thing a lot of pple can be surrounded by all the pple in the world and all the luv but still feel lonely.

Relationships:- while the cuddles are lovely and the company and the discussions back and forth. Let's also remember the fact that u can never have a decision without consulting the oh no more ouhh I feel like going on a shopping trip but hey can't because u will get a lot of hassle from spending unauthorised finances lol. The arguments over things that after 5minutes u don't even remember what the he'll u were fighting about. (It's called the ball and chains for a reason

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Saying all this remember Xmas is only lonely because it's been commercialized for u to believe that. I never understood y suddenly it's more important than the whole year.

I highly admire u and sexy mama because u always have a smile on your face and vibrate a lot of independent energy. Much love to all if you. Mrs. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was married a very long time and was still lonely as he was never around...on the up side, i can do what and who i want without the hassle of a partner.....

. Us singles should do a night out mun.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's me I feel lonely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is always good and bad points of being single. I have been single for 5 years, since I have been single I have had loada od opportunities to travel a lot of countries as much as I can! This is because i have no commitments (no house, no kids, no partner etc).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know exactly how you feel. I'm off work at the moment and sometimes go the whole week without seeing anyone. I talk to the dog but don't cuddle him cos his breath stinks lol...

We need to do lunch Mama X

Yes definitely. I'd like that x"

See you Friday gorgeous lady & I'm gonna give you the biggest girly cwtch X

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By *oreverHorny69Man
over a year ago

Milnrow

I feel lonely most of the time and having a hidden disability also doesn’t help. It is making me more nervous and shy on this site.

Would love to chat as have had no meets naughty or otherwise

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By *unshine500Man
over a year ago

west wales

Been single 3 years, what gets me feeling more lonely is comeing home to an empty house at night, with no one to talk to and i gess it being Christmas time too dont help, not even put up any decorations yet

Plus facebook dont help with all the soppy pics and status of happy couples lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christmas is a particularly shit time when you're on your own i used to hate it

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By *uttytrukerMan
over a year ago

newport

i get very lonely sometimes and i am in a relationship but saying that it is a distance relationship and not always easy to meet up so yes i do understand how you feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's reassuring to know I'm not alone. I expected a load of abuse and to be told to man the fuck up

MissP69..... You are definitely not alone. I recently lost my life chance of eternal happiness and the best part of who we were as a couple was the understanding of the fact that what we had alone was hyper special and what we did with company was certainly massively special but it was the way we felt together after the fact that made for marriage material.

You are definitely not alone, and for the love of God don't assume that by my being on here now that she doesn't count. She properly does.

@MaxBanging, I admired you the past few month (Chams related) but your post stirred some emotions, you said some stuff that could easily have come from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel it too sometimes.

I'm quite hard work so sometimes i think it's just easier to be alone, but really i'd love to find my lobster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fellow singles....do you ever get lonely??

I am feeling lonely as fuck atm and have done for the past year or so now

I have my wonderful kids and family and friends for company but I guess I just miss having the companionship and emotional support type of thing.

I have been single nearly 4 years and am absolutely terrified of any form of commitment or at the thought of an exclusive relationship.

I love my own space and have my own routine and can't imagine changing that.

When I meet, which isn't that often these days, I almost always just do one offs.

I just wonder if I'm odd feeling like this?

for me

There's certainly nothing wrong with needy, although I'd change it to human Max X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was married a very long time and was still lonely as he was never around...on the up side, i can do what and who i want without the hassle of a partner.....

. Us singles should do a night out mun........."

Loving this reply!!

I'd love to sort a night out with you beautiful people!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only been single for 6 weeks and already I'm feeling lonely ,kids are never here so sat on my own most the time so your not alone missp xxx"

Sorry to hear that you're feeling that way....surround yourself with friends and family and the feelings will soon pass....I know this is probably not the place to do it but I'd love to message you sometime but am outside the age range

Care to chat with me and see if we can't get each other through our loneliness problems?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fellow singles....do you ever get lonely??

I am feeling lonely as fuck atm and have done for the past year or so now

I have my wonderful kids and family and friends for company but I guess I just miss having the companionship and emotional support type of thing.

I have been single nearly 4 years and am absolutely terrified of any form of commitment or at the thought of an exclusive relationship.

I love my own space and have my own routine and can't imagine changing that.

When I meet, which isn't that often these days, I almost always just do one offs.

I just wonder if I'm odd feeling like this?

for me

MissP - loneliness is a strange thing, I too feel it yet i dont want to change my life, part of that is letting someone in again and the fear of getting hurt again but also Ive become accustomed to my life being answerable to myself alone and knowing I can do what I want when I want and with who i want subject to family first etc. But I still feel lonely - just dont sit insolence if you've got a good circle of friends use them and talk x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m always told I’m the guy who knows everyone and had gazillions of friends.

I wish I could be emotionless, a lot of people assume I am but I really am the opposite, I guess I've just gotten used to being a certain way to fit the lifestyle I live

Ive been single for most of my adult life. Im that strong independent woman without a care in the world...i cope with being working single mum because i have to, and protest that I wouldn't have it any other way. I'm crap at relationships. Either too needy or couldnt give a fuck. I always fall for the wrong guy...

I get bored easily too MissP. Tried to put my boredom to one side with a guy once and nearly moved my kids 60 miles from their dad, thank the Lord i woke up and smelt the coffee before I did!

Mama having chatted to you at swansea social, its easy to see you're such a warm and friendly lady with loads to give!

Max you are a darling and if you were closer I'd come make you chicken soup

It's great to see this post on the Wales forum with everyone supporting each other.

Thank you MissP for making us realise we are not alone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It certainly does take its toll after a while especially after you had been with someone previous for some time. However as much as it can cripple you at times you have to be happy and comfortable in yourself firstly. So many people rush into relationships and end up on the bully side of things or feeling trapped. They say there is someone out there for everyone and at this time of year is where you feel the loneliest. However dont go settling for less than you deserve and there are always friends close by that can help pick you up or may know of someone tbey reccommend meeting.

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over a year ago

"Been so hurt in the past i don't think i could get close to a guy. Wall is up and 100ft high but it would be nice to have a male friend too go out with sometimes without the sex. My kids have flown the nest and sometimes i don't see a sol for days......on the plus side i can fart when i want.....

I'm married and fart when I want

So does the Mrs and boy it don't half make me laugh

. There's someone out there for everybody

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By *aydee65Man
over a year ago

Near Merthyr

"Fellow singles....do you ever get lonely??

I am feeling lonely as fuck atm and have done for the past year or so now

I have my wonderful kids and family and friends for company but I guess I just miss having the companionship and emotional support type of thing.

I have been single nearly 4 years and am absolutely terrified of any form of commitment or at the thought of an exclusive relationship.

I love my own space and have my own routine and can't imagine changing that.

When I meet, which isn't that often these days, I almost always just do one offs.

I just wonder if I'm odd feeling like this?

for me

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Same here....exactly..... word for word.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I am lonely...........

Would to willing commit....

No one wants me.....

Normal sort of guy......

Own house, own car, cash in the bank (not loads, enough ))

Wonder where I am going wrong ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Youre definitely not the only one OP!

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By *ara MTV/TS
over a year ago

Aberdare

After being alone for two years I met a nice lady who accepted both sides of me.

Sadly things didn’t work out and I feel worse now then when I was alone before.

Christmas coming up doesn’t help either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost 17 years single and used to it now. I enjoy my own company way too much to have anyone else spoil it plus with my ever-growing family (new grandson last week new granddaughter due next week) I don't have the time for a relationship.

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By *inataur1Man
over a year ago

Rhondda/Bristol

I think we're all in the same place.

In so much as were far to comfortable in our own space now and it would have to take someone really special to invade it on a long term basis.

I still believe that there is someone out there for all of us though. Someone who can exist in our space without us realising their there.

People say I'm afraid of commitment, but it's not true. It takes time to get to know someone and to know if your the right fit together.

But thankfully, we all have this site that fills some of the void of being alone.

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over a year ago

"I think we're all in the same place.

In so much as were far to comfortable in our own space now and it would have to take someone really special to invade it on a long term basis.

I still believe that there is someone out there for all of us though. Someone who can exist in our space without us realising their there.

People say I'm afraid of commitment, but it's not true. It takes time to get to know someone and to know if your the right fit together.

But thankfully, we all have this site that fills some of the void of being alone. "

Nithing wrong with holding out for the right one...

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Why are you all so far away

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By *inataur1Man
over a year ago

Rhondda/Bristol

"I think we're all in the same place.

In so much as were far to comfortable in our own space now and it would have to take someone really special to invade it on a long term basis.

I still believe that there is someone out there for all of us though. Someone who can exist in our space without us realising their there.

People say I'm afraid of commitment, but it's not true. It takes time to get to know someone and to know if your the right fit together.

But thankfully, we all have this site that fills some of the void of being alone.

Nithing wrong with holding out for the right one...

Not at all, but with each one I think we build the wall a little higher and just hope that the next will demolish it.

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By *antdduWoman
over a year ago

wales

Loneliness is horrid for any person, so why not arrange a get together with others who feel the same, a little pick you up to look forward to

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over a year ago

"Loneliness is horrid for any person, so why not arrange a get together with others who feel the same, a little pick you up to look forward to

This is what I do, lunch with fab friends, arrange the odd lunchtime social, it breaks up those feelings at times, still doesn't quite meet the need for a cwtch & something a little more intimate which is what I think P was on admit X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting together with ppl, going out with friends is all good, but u do need to feel especially beloved by that someone

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I would be happy to have a couple of FWBs.... share things.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Loneliness is horrid for any person, so why not arrange a get together with others who feel the same, a little pick you up to look forward to

Very much this Peach

I'm bogged down with kids, family and friends for company.

I just miss the intimate, emotional connection that's all xx

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By *ara MTV/TS
over a year ago

Aberdare

"Loneliness is horrid for any person, so why not arrange a get together with others who feel the same, a little pick you up to look forward to

Very much this Peach

I'm bogged down with kids, family and friends for company.

I just miss the intimate, emotional connection that's all xx"

Definitely need a cuddle buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was single for 4.5 years before I met HD. Although I always said I'd never go there again giving heart and living together etc I was lonely. I was lonely before leaving my ex but it's got nothing on actually being alone!

Letting my heart rule my head back in Aug 2015 was the best thing I ever did Tbh.

Thinking of anyone where I was for far too long especially at this time of year

Nectar xx

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

"I think we're all in the same place.

In so much as were far to comfortable in our own space now and it would have to take someone really special to invade it on a long term basis.

I still believe that there is someone out there for all of us though. Someone who can exist in our space without us realising their there.

People say I'm afraid of commitment, but it's not true. It takes time to get to know someone and to know if your the right fit together.

But thankfully, we all have this site that fills some of the void of being alone.

Nithing wrong with holding out for the right one...

Not at all, but with each one I think we build the wall a little higher and just hope that the next will demolish it. "

You're right about building the wall higher. It's higher and thicker these days. Would need a JCB to break it down... I have good friends but as many people in this thread have mentioned, it's cwtches I miss. Sex can be readily available but having a cwtch and a giggle and just talk nonsense with is what I miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but having a cwtch and a giggle and just talk nonsense with is what I miss

You made me cry with this, because I had this until 5 weeks ago and a moment of my madness took it all away. I miss her so much, she was perfect. In every way. I am not going to see my family this year for Christmas because all I will think able is the empty chair next to me and why she isn't there.

Unlike almost everyone else I don't have family local, and I certainly don't have friends. When I finish work on a Friday I literally do not speak a word to another human being until I get to work Monday morning. No matter what I do, no matter what I try, I can't seem to change it. And it is made worse by the fact that I had someone who was happy just because share the same space with me, even when there is no one else to talk to.

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over a year ago

"I'd be afraid of getting attached though and if I cared for someone the thought of them shagging someone else would kill me. Like I said, I'm selfish

I'm just as selfish even more so because I'm not holding back despite being attached

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm well attached to Ch3wy & it never bothers me who he has sex with, that's his business but I'd be peed off if he cwtched someone else

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over a year ago

"I'm well attached to Ch3wy & it never bothers me who he has sex with, that's his business but I'd be peed off if he cwtched someone else

Very good point I'd be angry if the Mr shagged someone as you all know

I'd be f%@king livid if I found "I love you" texts from someone else for e.g

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was single for 4.5 years before I met HD. Although I always said I'd never go there again giving heart and living together etc I was lonely. I was lonely before leaving my ex but it's got nothing on actually being alone!

Letting my heart rule my head back in Aug 2015 was the best thing I ever did Tbh.

Thinking of anyone where I was for far too long especially at this time of year

Nectar xx"

You two are lush and so deserve happiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work away a lot and loneliness is a constant. I ha e friends but know one to spend that quality time with.. Which is something we all value

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding it hard myself!! Been single 6 months now, I dont miss my ex, but I do miss my kids and my dog!! And someone to cwtch up with!! Someone to set the world right with and make fun off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding it hard myself been almost 3 years single, getting very bored and lonely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My situation is that I work as a Contractor is Afghanistan.

It's exacerbated by the fact I'm shy in social situations and have no friends to talk to.

I've recently started attending swingers clubs just to escape the house. Luckily I've met some friendly people who are hsppybto include me in the conversations.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Its valentines day soon ....

That will make all us single tons feel worse

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By *aydee65Man
over a year ago

Near Merthyr

"Its valentines day soon ....

That will make all us single tons feel worse

Never really been one for Valentines so makes little difference to me tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its valentines day soon ....

That will make all us single tons feel worse

Never really been one for Valentines so makes little difference to me tbh"

Valentine's is over rated tbh, even for a couple, it's just an opportunity to fleece those in love X

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By *aydee65Man
over a year ago

Near Merthyr

"Its valentines day soon ....

That will make all us single tons feel worse

Never really been one for Valentines so makes little difference to me tbh

Valentine's is over rated tbh, even for a couple, it's just an opportunity to fleece those in love X"

Agree 100%

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