FabSwingers.com forum: haven't had any luck with the ladies on here. Any suggestions?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

seem to have no luck with any girls/ladies. been on here a while looking and mailing but never get a reply. am I doing something wrong? any suggestions

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By *orthatry84Couple
over a year ago

cardiff

Your account has only been open a week and you are very specific with your meets... just FF couples? Might need to be very lucky! If this isn’t the case they anyone else may be put off. It’s not easy for single men on here I don’t think so be patient and maybe try to get to one of the socials to mingle a bit. Good luck!

E x

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Your account has only been open a week and you are very specific with your meets... just FF couples? Might need to be very lucky! If this isn’t the case they anyone else may be put off. It’s not easy for single men on here I don’t think so be patient and maybe try to get to one of the socials to mingle a bit. Good luck!

E x"

It's only been a week, give it some time! Things don't happen quickly here for men (most of the time). More pics and more text would help. At least you've got the six pack area covered!

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

Certainly be patient and you have only just joined, like has been mentioned the social scene in South Wales does help. Take into consideration the amount of messages that women get on here it is unlikely that they will reply to everyone

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By *ild_oatsMan
over a year ago

the land of saints & sinners

Only a week.... What were you expecting. Them to be beating a path to your door.

The men on here outnumber the women by at least 100 to 1 and the decent men are outnumbered by the mad, bad and dangerous to know ones by a similar ratio.

Fab takes lots and lots and even more patience. A good profile and make yourself known for all the good reasons in the forums and chatrooms. Also attended socials or even arrange your own....

It's not rocket science...

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By *iss B-HavingWoman
over a year ago

Welsh Valleys

Get to a social so people know you. If only on a short time can be tough.

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By *inataur1Man
over a year ago

Rhondda/Bristol

You will have more deleted or ignored messages than you thought possible. This isn't personal to you, it's just the females get too many to deal with. Try not to sent messages if the recipient is off line as it will just be lost forever.

But you best bet is as has been said before, get to one of the socials and chat to everyone.

You have to play the long game, don't delete and start again.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

There are some day time or midweek socials that you don't need verifications to attend so you can get verified. That's the only way you can get to the weekend evening socials mentioned above.

This isn't an instant thing. If you're lucky you might get a meet quickly. There isn't a guaranteed way of getting there but patience is definitely needed. That and politeness even when you don't feel it's needed. Read a profile don't just look at the pics and make each message personal to something that's in their profile. Proves you are actually interested.

Good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move to Neath

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By *enuine photographerMan
over a year ago

Swansea

"seem to have no luck with any girls/ladies. been on here a while looking and mailing but never get a reply. am I doing something wrong? any suggestions

Go for the fellers

PMSL

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

"Move to Neath

Now, now MissP

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By *inataur1Man
over a year ago

Rhondda/Bristol

"Move to Neath

Now, now MissP

I'm creased ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be a big brave boy... contrary to popular myth this isn't a site where women will throw themselves at you. You'll need to make the effort, your profile doesnt have a lot on it and the language is quite "young" 'fuck buddies'? Try FWB.. "i can be discrete if you want" ummm no.. You should always be discrete..

Plus make sure you read the ladies profile, ensure you fit her requirements and that is included in your profile. Make conversation. Dont be pushy "want to meet" or "fancy a fuck" is likely to get a woman going

and deleting

Also be aware at 23 youre younger than many womens lower age limit here. When a woman wants an olympic swimmer (or at least someone who can swim well) she isnt going to go for someone whos still got their waterwings on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Move to Neath

Now, now MissP

I'm creased ??????"

Us Neath ladies are known for our hospitality thankyou!!

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By *inataur1Man
over a year ago

Rhondda/Bristol

"Move to Neath

Now, now MissP

I'm creased ??????

Us Neath ladies are known for our hospitality thankyou!!

I know, I lived on London road for 3 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"seem to have no luck with any girls/ladies. been on here a while looking and mailing but never get a reply. am I doing something wrong? any suggestions

Yes !

5 golden rules of fab

1. Patience,patience patience!

2. Be nice and accept "No thanks"

3. Respect everyone's opinion even if you don't like it.

4. Fab is not "dial a shag", people are here for many different reasons.

5. Be honest with others and yourself on what you want from Fab.

Stick to those and you will be fine.

Work to those and you will be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is defo needed. After 1 week I had no interest and made some mistakes here and there. Im about 6 weeks in i think and have now made many friends. It took some time though. Meets don't just happen. You have to engage females over time.

Women are bombarded with emails. And massively outnumbered. Try to contact people when there online. Avoid friday nights. That tends to be when women get bombarded apparently. I may be wrong about that but just going on what I ahve learnt So play the long game is my advice.

Don't just inbox everyone. Go after who attracts you and who fits with you and make conversation interesting. Also Don't send a cock pic and don't just ask for a meet. It won't happen. You will be ignored or blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Move to Neath

Now, now MissP

I'm creased ??????

Us Neath ladies are known for our hospitality thankyou!!

I know, I lived on London road for 3 years.

My dentist is there!!

Erm anyway....

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By *r n1ceguyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Move to Neath

Now, now MissP

I'm creased ??????

Us Neath ladies are known for our hospitality thankyou!!

I know, I lived on London road for 3 years.

My dentist is there!!

Erm anyway....

BTW how are your teeth ....WTF lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Move to Neath

Now, now MissP

I'm creased ??????

Us Neath ladies are known for our hospitality thankyou!!

I know, I lived on London road for 3 years.

My dentist is there!!

Erm anyway....

BTW how are your teeth ....WTF lol "

Pretty fucking perfect

My dentist is a legend

That's one thing I can't stomach is bad teeth

Anyway sorry OP for derailing your thread....I'll leave you all to it

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By *r n1ceguyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Move to Neath

Now, now MissP

I'm creased ??????

Us Neath ladies are known for our hospitality thankyou!!

I know, I lived on London road for 3 years.

My dentist is there!!

Erm anyway....

BTW how are your teeth ....WTF lol

Pretty fucking perfect

My dentist is a legend

That's one thing I can't stomach is bad teeth

Anyway sorry OP for derailing your thread....I'll leave you all to it

Pmsl

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By *r sugarandspiceMan
over a year ago

Wales

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