FabSwingers.com forum: 'Vanilla Dating'

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Unsure how I feel about the Modern day dating scene .. Where the hell do you start ? And for anybody else in the same boat , has fab tainted your expectations ?

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By *bc4gilfMan
over a year ago

gwent

Fab can be disapointing

You can meet some nice people and some totally bad. Some who judge you coz of there previous experience.

Its just a hope that we u can find a good one who can be friend after going through alot of trash lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see why a fab date shouldn't be like a vanilla date, unless you agree otherwise before you meet. Everyone deserves to be respected and to be treated properly, to have their boundaries preserved and to get what they fairly prepared for from the situation.

No fab hasn't tainted me, I have had meets for sex, social meets and meets that went from one to the other, in both directions. Every meet and everyone is different for me.

Mike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im useless at both dating and this

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By *uttytrukerMan
over a year ago

newport

"Unsure how I feel about the Modern day dating scene .. Where the hell do you start ? And for anybody else in the same boat , has fab tainted your expectations ? "

you could always just ask someone out for a social and see where it goes from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I, Peachy, try the dating scene occasionally & its never worked out, either the guys are on here anyway or they have some sort of flaw that prevents them pulling in vanilla land. I've met soon peculiar people the same as on here but never anyone I'd want to 'date' in the conventional meaning of the word. Fab life certainly suits better X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I, Peachy, try the dating scene occasionally & its never worked out, either the guys are on here anyway or they have some sort of flaw that prevents them pulling in vanilla land. I've met soon peculiar people the same as on here but never anyone I'd want to 'date' in the conventional meaning of the word. Fab life certainly suits better X "

This is my current dilemma ! Am having fun on fab ! But as you say, most on here are on other 'conventional/alternative' dating sites also.. Making me question everyone's intentions.. I have no expectations here due to the nature of the site .. I have more elsewhere .. Nightmare! Haha..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm much older than you & probably more cynical, but I've definitely reached the time in my life where I don't believe we're meant to be monogamous, I'm certainly not & people will always want to have secretes. If you're looking for that exclusive, mutually living relationship where theirs 100% trust & communication, I'm not entirely convinced it exists so I've stopped looking X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm much older than you & probably more cynical, but I've definitely reached the time in my life where I don't believe we're meant to be monogamous, I'm certainly not & people will always want to have secretes. If you're looking for that exclusive, mutually living relationship where theirs 100% trust & communication, I'm not entirely convinced it exists so I've stopped looking X "

Trust is absolutely more important than monogamy ! X

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