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Does a smart man catch the eye over a bit of a scruff pot

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By *lattank OP   Man
over a year ago

pontypridd

Just wondering if women are more attracted to a smart looking man over a scruffy one

Ignoring personalities. If a good looking man was scruffy, and was standing next to a not so good looking man that was dressed smart, would smart win?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rygbi kit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm into casual suits, uniforms & formal wear are a turn off for me X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if women are more attracted to a smart looking man over a scruffy one

Ignoring personalities. If a good looking man was scruffy, and was standing next to a not so good looking man that was dressed smart, would smart win?

"

No....an attractive man looking a bit rough is far sexier than an average guy in a suit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends which one smiles with their eyes...although generally smarter is better for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to prefer smart casual. Somewhere in the middle work's for me xx

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By *lattank OP   Man
over a year ago

pontypridd

I genuinely thought I would get a lot of “smart wins” reply’s. I’m glad to see there is still room for the scruffy ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like it was said above a cheeky grin usually wins me over

Irrelevant of clothing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like it was said above a cheeky grin usually wins me over

Irrelevant of clothing lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a sucker for a smartly dressed guy maybe it’s the thought of looking very proper but being the opposite?

But...... it does mostly depend on the guy himself. A scruffy workman type is equally as sexy if the personality is there!

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By *orthatry84Couple
over a year ago

cardiff

Same for me, a cheeky smile and being able to hold a conversation is far sexier than any outfit!

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"Just wondering if women are more attracted to a smart looking man over a scruffy one

Ignoring personalities. If a good looking man was scruffy, and was standing next to a not so good looking man that was dressed smart, would smart win?

No....an attractive man looking a bit rough is far sexier than an average guy in a suit "

And if the attractive man is in the suit and the average man is looking a bit rough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if women are more attracted to a smart looking man over a scruffy one

Ignoring personalities. If a good looking man was scruffy, and was standing next to a not so good looking man that was dressed smart, would smart win?

No....an attractive man looking a bit rough is far sexier than an average guy in a suit

And if the attractive man is in the suit and the average man is looking a bit rough?"

I'd go for the hottie in the suit 100%. It's all about looks for me as opposed to clothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

may well be hope for us workers by the looks..

I work in a garage so usually found in work trousers and boots lol

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By *lattank OP   Man
over a year ago

pontypridd

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By *lattank OP   Man
over a year ago

pontypridd


"Just wondering if women are more attracted to a smart looking man over a scruffy one

Ignoring personalities. If a good looking man was scruffy, and was standing next to a not so good looking man that was dressed smart, would smart win?

No....an attractive man looking a bit rough is far sexier than an average guy in a suit

And if the attractive man is in the suit and the average man is looking a bit rough?"

You tell me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the circumstances with me, a smart man will catch my eye in a club or on a night out but at the moment the rough looking builders at work are sending me into a frenzy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww a man in rigger boots and work clothes do it for me every time

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By *lattank OP   Man
over a year ago

pontypridd

It’s good to see a mix of options.

For reference, I quite like a lady in a velour tracksuit as much as I like one in a sexy dress.

Although, it’s always better when the clothes are on the floor and you are both naked skin to skin!

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking


"Awww a man in rigger boots and work clothes do it for me every time "

Hahaha Mrs S you have always had a thing for rigger boots!

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

I'm more of a smart casual: Jeans/shirt and groomed. Works for me, gives me confidence, and most women appreciate the style in my experience.

If I know the woman though, then sure, I may dress down a little more .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s good to see a mix of options.

For reference, I quite like a lady in a velour tracksuit as much as I like one in a sexy dress.

Although, it’s always better when the clothes are on the floor and you are both naked skin to skin!

"

Hmmm funny you should say that. I’m currently rocking a hot pink velour tracksuit and watching Jeremy Kyle! My signature look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its 50/50 to be honest im no oil painting but get a few looks when in my Orange work wear.

Hubby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awww a man in rigger boots and work clothes do it for me every time

Hahaha Mrs S you have always had a thing for rigger boots! "

But what if the rules say you're not allowed to wear rigger boots?.. spare pair for the bedroom then?!

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking


"Awww a man in rigger boots and work clothes do it for me every time

Hahaha Mrs S you have always had a thing for rigger boots!

But what if the rules say you're not allowed to wear rigger boots?.. spare pair for the bedroom then?! "

Hahaha trust you! Have you got a pair? I would let you in my bedroom if you have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing beats shirt tie and trousers for me especially tight ones with a good ass in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awww a man in rigger boots and work clothes do it for me every time

Hahaha Mrs S you have always had a thing for rigger boots!

But what if the rules say you're not allowed to wear rigger boots?.. spare pair for the bedroom then?!

Hahaha trust you! Have you got a pair? I would let you in my bedroom if you have "

I have haven’t i mama lol

And Mr S has a spare pair in the bedroom

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By *r n1ceguyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Lol I'm confused on this debate

Shall I go to the next social in

1 my builders work gear

(Ruff n ready)

Or

2 my office work gear

(Very smart suit n booted)

??????

Mr N1ceguy xx

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By *hynblondebbwWoman
over a year ago

city centre ish

As someone said above, it’d be the one who’s eyes smiles when their lips did though I know I’m gonna get slated for this, I don’t own a pair of tracksuit bottoms, dresses and skirts when I go out, though I think I’ve worn jeans once or twice maybe, just how I feel comfortable dressing, low cut deflects from the big hips hehe xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to admit I love my suits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's a bit of both. Definitely not chavy tho.

A handsome good looking man will

Good in anything in my eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s good to see a mix of options.

For reference, I quite like a lady in a velour tracksuit as much as I like one in a sexy dress.

Although, it’s always better when the clothes are on the floor and you are both naked skin to skin!

Hmmm funny you should say that. I’m currently rocking a hot pink velour tracksuit and watching Jeremy Kyle! My signature look. "

Mods?! Can we ban this sick filth please?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s good to see a mix of options.

For reference, I quite like a lady in a velour tracksuit as much as I like one in a sexy dress.

Although, it’s always better when the clothes are on the floor and you are both naked skin to skin!

Hmmm funny you should say that. I’m currently rocking a hot pink velour tracksuit and watching Jeremy Kyle! My signature look.

Mods?! Can we ban this sick filth please?! "

Oh how rude

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By *ar-Some CoupleCouple
over a year ago

from somewhere glittery & sparkly


"Lol I'm confused on this debate

Shall I go to the next social in

1 my builders work gear

(Ruff n ready)

Or

2 my office work gear

(Very smart suit n booted)

??????

Mr N1ceguy xx

"

Defo rough and ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe that sex appeal comes from how a man presents himself. His body

Language, confidence, smile, that twinkle in his eye. He could be rough and ready, suited & booted or butt naked. We all fancy variations at different times. After all variety is the spice of life.

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By *handi83Man
over a year ago

Right here

This post is quite interesting, I was about to post a similar thing after being on the cams... not really venturing there too much and just being confronted by an un holy mess... that was just crazy... I think standards are important, all of the people I’ve met from here have a certain thing about them... a particular level of class. Which is good.

I hope i provide the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As those who've met me know, I like men to be naked wherever possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After reading their profile and preferences I will check through some of their verifications to help to establish if I may be suitable for them before making contact and I see a lot of, as the OP put it 'scruffy' guys yet they won't meet me whom I consider to be 'well dressed' So maybe they do prefer scruffy, who knows this is just my own experience here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like it was said above a cheeky grin usually wins me over

Irrelevant of clothing lol

"

She said "Cheeky grin" NOT cheeky fucker

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By *eral SexMan
over a year ago

Port Talbot

I dislike wearing suits, they make me look like a Jehovah's witness.

There are definitely guys who can carry off the scruffy look though, be it work clothes, hippy-chic or even frayed-and-torn. But there are others who can be Guccied to fuck and still look like a bunch of bananas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what your idea of 'scruffy' is ..

For me I look for ....Personality ... smartly dressed..smells amazing .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dislike wearing suits, they make me look like a Jehovah's witness.

There are definitely guys who can carry off the scruffy look though, be it work clothes, hippy-chic or even frayed-and-torn. But there are others who can be Guccied to fuck and still look like a bunch of bananas. "

Very much this

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Personality I think is a big factor here. If you carry yourself well, are confident without being cocky, and have that twinkle in the eyes and smile you can be attractive no matter what you wear.

I prefer smart when I can as i'm in uniform all week!

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By *illia-RoseWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Both can be very sexy, there's something about a man looking ever so smart in a suit and tie, and knowing that he's a complete animal in the bedroom...

But also something so sexy about the rough and ready- almost like a stereotypical cowboy from an old western (some men look divine in a cowboy hat )

Only look that really turns me off is the super skin tight jeans (that look like leggings!) and tight t-shirts, that and a tracksuit

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