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By *iss B-Having OP   Woman
over a year ago

Welsh Valleys

How many have had experiences on here where someone says they were single but you found they had a gf or bf?

It's happened a few times now and I'm starting to think there are no genuinely single guys on here. If people want to go on here and not tell their partners that's fine but I'd rather they didn't involve people who think they're single.

Or is that just me ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been there done that.

A public social meet will usually out the lying cheaters as most attached men won't be seen in public with another woman

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By *iss B-Having OP   Woman
over a year ago

Welsh Valleys


"Been there done that.

A public social meet will usually out the lying cheaters as most attached men won't be seen in public with another woman "

Yeah that's what I've started doing. The recent one is a friend who I luckily haven't met recently but got suspicious and saw had a gf last 6 months. I've been cheated on and I hate being involved in people's drama. Rant over ha ha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have little thought for others or the consequences of their actions until it lands on their own fucking doorstep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been there done that.

A public social meet will usually out the lying cheaters as most attached men won't be seen in public with another woman "
this. Especially in their own stomping ground..

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By *nique_GymMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

One thing you can do is if you have progressed to texting is you can paste their mobile number into your Facebook (assuming you have it) search facility this will find them if they have their mobile registered and you can then see if they are indeed single!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One thing you can do is if you have progressed to texting is you can paste their mobile number into your Facebook (assuming you have it) search facility this will find them if they have their mobile registered and you can then see if they are indeed single! "
omg! I’d go nuts if I found out someone I’d been chatting to had looked me up on Facebook! Lol

I think if you have a doubt that they are single, they probably aren’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One thing you can do is if you have progressed to texting is you can paste their mobile number into your Facebook (assuming you have it) search facility this will find them if they have their mobile registered and you can then see if they are indeed single! "
but thanks for the tip! I didn’t know that love a casual stalk lol

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By *weet an innocentCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

I’ve had plenty of women saying that they single and then fucking behind his back, as you say, honesty is lacking here, it’s not what it used to be like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One thing you can do is if you have progressed to texting is you can paste their mobile number into your Facebook (assuming you have it) search facility this will find them if they have their mobile registered and you can then see if they are indeed single! but thanks for the tip! I didn’t know that love a casual stalk lol "

Facebook can be good but you'll find a lot of the hardcore serial liars/cheater either won't have it or will just have a 2nd phone number which has no link to their real life

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By *iss B-Having OP   Woman
over a year ago

Welsh Valleys


"One thing you can do is if you have progressed to texting is you can paste their mobile number into your Facebook (assuming you have it) search facility this will find them if they have their mobile registered and you can then see if they are indeed single! but thanks for the tip! I didn’t know that love a casual stalk lol "

Yeah ditto that's brill!

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By *iss B-Having OP   Woman
over a year ago

Welsh Valleys

I just find it funny that this site in reality should be the most honest but it's not shaping out that way!

Great tips though guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just find it funny that this site in reality should be the most honest but it's not shaping out that way!

Great tips though guys "
that’s exactly what I think... it should be open and honest, yet in reality it’s a haven for liars, manipulators and narcissists.

Thankfully I’m quicker at ing them out these days! Mainly by not rushing and a lot of chat... the idiots will show themselves. X good luck op

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By *iss B-Having OP   Woman
over a year ago

Welsh Valleys


"I just find it funny that this site in reality should be the most honest but it's not shaping out that way!

Great tips though guys that’s exactly what I think... it should be open and honest, yet in reality it’s a haven for liars, manipulators and narcissists.

Thankfully I’m quicker at ing them out these days! Mainly by not rushing and a lot of chat... the idiots will show themselves. X good luck op "

Yeah I'm getting better but sometimes you wonder how you missed something when it was obvious. If nothing else fab has taught me about these kinds of idiots. The first one who did this to me which I obviously won't name is on here still acting like he's some kind of god lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just assume all new guys I meet are attached its easier X

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By *iss B-Having OP   Woman
over a year ago

Welsh Valleys


"I just assume all new guys I meet are attached its easier X"

That's a good idea!

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By *iss B-Having OP   Woman
over a year ago

Welsh Valleys

I have now sent the latest person a messsge "do I take it your gf doesn't know you're on here."

And now I wait ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have now sent the latest person a messsge "do I take it your gf doesn't know you're on here."

And now I wait ha ha"

I just don't get into any of that anymore, attached or not is their business & tbh I'm not interested enough to care either way. So long as I'm their priority when we're together, selfish I know but it's far easier than the head work of 2nd guessing people. I say people because it's the same with male, females, couple's X

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By *iss B-Having OP   Woman
over a year ago

Welsh Valleys


"I have now sent the latest person a messsge "do I take it your gf doesn't know you're on here."

And now I wait ha ha

I just don't get into any of that anymore, attached or not is their business & tbh I'm not interested enough to care either way. So long as I'm their priority when we're together, selfish I know but it's far easier than the head work of 2nd guessing people. I say people because it's the same with male, females, couple's X"

That's fair enough. I just see it as my business when I specifically say I won't meet married/attached people unless as a joint couple.

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By *eepandhardMan
over a year ago

Swansea

The decision to meet a person that "cheats" is entirely up to every individual on this site or outside of it. As with every other aspects of our lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The decision to meet a person that "cheats" is entirely up to every individual on this site or outside of it. As with every other aspects of our lives."

Exactly this we each run our profile the way we wish, I wasn't being critical just expressing my view which I know is very simplistic X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many have had experiences on here where someone says they were single but you found they had a gf or bf?

It's happened a few times now and I'm starting to think there are no genuinely single guys on here. If people want to go on here and not tell their partners that's fine but I'd rather they didn't involve people who think they're single.

Or is that just me ha ha "
I've had this with a tv here who it turned out had a female partner, arranged a meet then told me she didn't know he/she was a tv, this was the first time I knew about her. Needless to say it went tits up in a hurry. Should be straight with people from the start

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By *akenloversCouple
over a year ago

ceredigion


"One thing you can do is if you have progressed to texting is you can paste their mobile number into your Facebook (assuming you have it) search facility this will find them if they have their mobile registered and you can then see if they are indeed single! "

This only works if their Facebook profile is not set on private, we do it all the time to see what's what xx

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By *r n1ceguyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Ladies .... straight honest single man reveal yourself!!!

It's me

Mr n1ceguy xx

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent

I've done the Facebook thing. But more and more guys are getting wise to it.

Plus my profile isn't searchable via my number but I'm not in a relationship.

I'm of the "it's none of my business" group mostly.

Though I do think it's better if people are honest about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I received a message recently from a married woman asking why my number was on her husband's phone ??

My reply... "Maybe you should ask your hubby"... not heard anything since...

If you're going to be dishonest to your spouse then at least be honest to the other person in question !!

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

I don't actually care if someone is cheating, after all, there's no risk to my relationship, they are the one going to get into trouble if it all goes sideways.

What does bug the shit out of me is the dishonesty.

We would rather know, so we can make our own minds up about whether or not we want to get involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't actually care if someone is cheating, after all, there's no risk to my relationship, they are the one going to get into trouble if it all goes sideways.

What does bug the shit out of me is the dishonesty.

We would rather know, so we can make our own minds up about whether or not we want to get involved."

This

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"I don't actually care if someone is cheating, after all, there's no risk to my relationship, they are the one going to get into trouble if it all goes sideways.

What does bug the shit out of me is the dishonesty.

We would rather know, so we can make our own minds up about whether or not we want to get involved."

100% this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I received a message recently from a married woman asking why my number was on her husband's phone ??

My reply... "Maybe you should ask your hubby"... not heard anything since...

If you're going to be dishonest to your spouse then at least be honest to the other person in question !!"

I've had this a few times, or the dodgy "where do you live again". Only yesterday I had some guy going mental on my kik demanding to know what me & his "wife" had been up to, she was supposedly single X

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

I like to be told right from the beginning, if the guy I'm chatting to is single or not. Somewhere near the top of the conversation I ask "so, how single are you?!"

Facebook has revealed loads to me in the past. And it's all from having the mobile number in my phone. Guys appear on "people you may know"!

I was chatting and meeting a guy every so often. Facebook told me, in that time period, he had met a new lady and married her! But was still contacting me!

Another, who said he was single. Is actually engaged!

Best one was most recent. We met every week, until he stopped contact. Months later facebook told me his real name, that he was married for 10+ years and not just engaged. And that we had mutual friends, one of which was a neighbour across the road!!!!

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I like to be told right from the beginning, if the guy I'm chatting to is single or not. Somewhere near the top of the conversation I ask "so, how single are you?!"

Facebook has revealed loads to me in the past. And it's all from having the mobile number in my phone. Guys appear on "people you may know"!

I was chatting and meeting a guy every so often. Facebook told me, in that time period, he had met a new lady and married her! But was still contacting me!

Another, who said he was single. Is actually engaged!

Best one was most recent. We met every week, until he stopped contact. Months later facebook told me his real name, that he was married for 10+ years and not just engaged. And that we had mutual friends, one of which was a neighbour across the road!!!!

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Small world lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not even going to get into how close my, previous long term regular meet was to my family etc. It's scary sometimes how close we all are to each other via our networks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would the people on Fab be any different to those in the real world.

People lie, cheat, use, abuse and look down on others here as they do in the real world.

Saying that dig a bit deeper on Fab and there are some hidden gems here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably best stay out of this one...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think honestey on here is wafer thin..

where as bullshit seems to be in plentiful supply.

it always works both ways ...

i personally struggle to know what im doing next week, let alone maintain any sort of cover story or have a 2nd life... my 1st is too fucking busy...

i mean whos got the energy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a fella contact me on here who says he's single, only what he doesn't know is that i went to School with his wife and his sister and i'm facebook friends with the wife and seen pics of them and their kids, which is how i recognised him. I just blocked him immediately, but honestly, some folk play with fire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably best stay out of this one... "

You're honest about your situation

It allows people to make informed choices as opposed to getting duped by peoples lies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would the people on Fab be any different to those in the real world.

People lie, cheat, use, abuse and look down on others here as they do in the real world.

Saying that dig a bit deeper on Fab and there are some hidden gems here."

Oh so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably best stay out of this one...

You're honest about your situation

It allows people to make informed choices as opposed to getting duped by peoples lies "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably best stay out of this one...

You're honest about your situation

It allows people to make informed choices as opposed to getting duped by peoples lies "

I know it's probably cost me a couple of meets but I can't see this working any other way.

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By *iss B-Having OP   Woman
over a year ago

Welsh Valleys

The person in question (who made me want to raise this in the forum) came back to me with "I'm not meeting...just browsing so it's ok." He then proceeded to delete his account. Odd considering he was apparently not doing anything wrong...

Just makes you think what level of single is truly single. Not on here just in life these days.

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