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By *irstimeswinger OP   Man
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

how is it ok for attached women to play outside of relationship

but attached guys are avoided like the plague?

explain?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who they are playing with...

For example a couple with a bi fem - the man may be happy for her to play with a fem alone

Or a woman may be happy for her bi partner to play only with men...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women only play as a cpl.and will not play alone with a male, me myself will only play alone with a fem not alone with a male or have a 3 some with to men, you would have to read that cpl profile or fem profile to see what there like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think what the post is getting at is that if a profile started off with "married lady looking extra sexual adventure on own" it would be seen as ooohh you naughty minx... If was sane but married man, then suddenly he becomes the devil himself and thrown to the wolves lol

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By *irstimeswinger OP   Man
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

Yes flints that's what I am getting at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a point there. It might be something like the sisterhood kicking in. Some women on here may not want to be the cause of breakup in marriage or feel that they wouldn't like it if they found out their own man was playing away. ?

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By *irstimeswinger OP   Man
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

Just seems like there is a bit of a double standard when it comes to this subject

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or they just don't fancy you and use that as an excuse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta hate sexcuses haha

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By *irstimeswinger OP   Man
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire


"or they just don't fancy you and use that as an excuse?

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Well yeah it could be that Vio! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems to me there are many double standards in this scene. I don't say that to be offensive either, just seems that the whole swinging thing is looked down upon by mainstream society, so who are say a swinging couple to look down on a married man or woman for that matter if they would not appreciate their neighbours frowning on their activity. I'm not sure I've been clear there but I hope you get the jist.

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