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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been on here a few months now and think I’m finally settling in!

I was wondering what lessons you have learnt since joining Fab. Whether from meets (good or bad experiences) or if you have learnt anything about your self or about other people? From chatting/web camming. Or anything else I may have missed out!

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By *eepandhardMan
over a year ago

Swansea

Lesson one: it is not what it says on the tin!

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By *iss B-HavingWoman
over a year ago

Welsh Valleys

I have learnt: not to trust people and be as naive as I once was; to become more confident; that I am very picky; that I am even more sexual than I thought I was; and discovering I'm bisexual. Am sure there are more!

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I have learnt: not to trust people and be as naive as I once was; to become more confident; that I am very picky; that I am even more sexual than I thought I was; and discovering I'm bisexual. Am sure there are more! "

I've discovered from chatting to people on fab just how many different facets and ways of expressing sexuality there are from what i've seen, women are far more genuine with their profiles than men are. And of course, the massive proportion of single men vs everyone else!

Also discovered how much I enjoy chatting with people here and exchanging perspectives on all things sexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive learnt there are loads of ways for a woman to tell you she doesnt want to shag you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believe nothing, trust noone.

I went through a very difficult experience at the end of last year due to (in hindsight, foolishly) believing the dangerous lies of a man I thought I could trust.

I will never make that mistake again

Always look after number 1

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

I have learnt.....

If a photo looks too good to be true, it usually is! Reverse image is a great friend.

Always meet in public first. Easier to walk away if there is no click.

Older men are as bad as younger guys, in being time wasters.

Guys who ask, what you are going to wear for a meet and want to know exactly what you are going to do. Are only using it for wank material and don't intend meeting.

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By *eepandhardMan
over a year ago

Swansea

Lesson two: sharing is caring

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Lesson one... We are fekkin awesome!

Lesson two... when you are unsure about something, refer to lesson one!

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By *eepandhardMan
over a year ago

Swansea


"Lesson one... We are fekkin awesome!

Lesson two... when you are unsure about something, refer to lesson one! "

That's lesson three

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

And... lesson three...

Hope everyone gets your sense of humour, otherwise you are in trouble!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And... lesson three...

Hope everyone gets your sense of humour, otherwise you are in trouble! "

I regularly get this problem lol

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By *eepandhardMan
over a year ago

Swansea


"And... lesson three...

Hope everyone gets your sense of humour, otherwise you are in trouble! "

It's not for everyone. And that's the way it should be! Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some things I've learned:

There's no reason for me not to be more confident in myself with women outside of this site.

Some people send some really weird messages to women and couples.

If you're not too serious on here you'll probably do better.

I can cum multiple times and stay hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How to spot a fake profile! And there are plenty about... Clowns

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Trusting is hard work on here. Some are worth it, some not in a month of Sunday's

Their are some fantastic people to meet on here. Some that if rather forget sharpish.

Forums can be more entertaining than the soaps.

There are more lessons

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By *iss B-HavingWoman
over a year ago

Welsh Valleys

I've also learnt not to ask about having an MMF in the forums

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By *amo2121Man
over a year ago

swansea


"ive learnt there are loads of ways for a woman to tell you she doesnt want to shag you "

this made me laugh!! Great answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've also learnt not to ask about having an MMF in the forums "

That thread was hilarious. Who knew there were so many twats here?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have learnt to take everything with a pinch of salt .. that trust needs to be built and to stay away from drama ..

Also, that what i want out of a 'vanilla' relationship might be a little more than before i found fab!

And that i clearly have one of those faces that make women want to hit the block button for some reason

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent

I learnt that someone saying they're interested in meeting you and actually wanting to meet you are two very very different things.

The forums are a good way to find people you DON'T want to ever meet.

There are too many ways for guys to ask for sex.

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By *eepandhardMan
over a year ago

Swansea


"I learnt that someone saying they're interested in meeting you and actually wanting to meet you are two very very different things.

The forums are a good way to find people you DON'T want to ever meet.

There are too many ways for guys to ask for sex."

That first paragraph is part of the first lesson I learnt...

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

Don't take fab to seriously, not everyone will like you. Be true to yourself never take one for the team. Stay clear of drama and watch out for the bullies and know it all's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keeping a sense of humour.

Being more proactive still working on that one though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't take fab to seriously, not everyone will like you. Be true to yourself never take one for the team. Stay clear of drama and watch out for the bullies and know it all's. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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And that i clearly have one of those faces that make women want to hit the block button for some reason "

Their loss if you ask me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take fab with a bucket of salt and have always found it educational.In fact every time I log off I say to myself "well,that taught me a lesson"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Some pple out there are into some weird arse shit (literally).

2. Pple complain about single guys a lot but we've been let down by more cples and fems than we care to count in comparison.

3. Defenitly made me want to explore my bi-side every gay woman I've met has mistaken me fr one most of my life so y not give it a try. Wats the worst that can happen.

4. There are sooooooo many wingers but they refuse to take honest constructive advice.

5. Even though u tell someone ure not interested but keep chatting to them fr diplomacy sake then they try to weasel their way in and think they stand a chance

6. Together as a couple we have far more exciting kinky sex than what pple put on their profiles saying they can do and making other pple feel inadiquate.

7. Reverse image search, reverse image search and ouhhh yeah reverse image search. I luv u Google!!!

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By *amo2121Man
over a year ago

swansea


"1. Some pple out there are into some weird arse shit (literally).

2. Pple complain about single guys a lot but we've been let down by more cples and fems than we care to count in comparison.

3. Defenitly made me want to explore my bi-side every gay woman I've met has mistaken me fr one most of my life so y not give it a try. Wats the worst that can happen.

4. There are sooooooo many wingers but they refuse to take honest constructive advice.

5. Even though u tell someone ure not interested but keep chatting to them fr diplomacy sake then they try to weasel their way in and think they stand a chance

6. Together as a couple we have far more exciting kinky sex than what pple put on their profiles saying they can do and making other pple feel inadiquate.

7. Reverse image search, reverse image search and ouhhh yeah reverse image search. I luv u Google!!! "

This!!!

I have met some lovely people but all in all I find it's just a place for women (who have no confidence and generally wouldn't get a date) to massage they're egos ...until reality hits them and someone asks for a meet lol !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have learnt to stay well out of the limelight after seeing so much drama within this scene.

Also the majority of people we have come across are decent folk but like real life it has it's fair share of idiots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only been on here a short while but we have learnt that Chams is the best place to meet people! (and before you jump on us for not including socials, we haven't been to one yet but are going to the Newport one Oct 7th).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. Some pple out there are into some weird arse shit (literally).

2. Pple complain about single guys a lot but we've been let down by more cples and fems than we care to count in comparison.

3. Defenitly made me want to explore my bi-side every gay woman I've met has mistaken me fr one most of my life so y not give it a try. Wats the worst that can happen.

4. There are sooooooo many wingers but they refuse to take honest constructive advice.

5. Even though u tell someone ure not interested but keep chatting to them fr diplomacy sake then they try to weasel their way in and think they stand a chance

6. Together as a couple we have far more exciting kinky sex than what pple put on their profiles saying they can do and making other pple feel inadiquate.

7. Reverse image search, reverse image search and ouhhh yeah reverse image search. I luv u Google!!!

This!!!

I have met some lovely people but all in all I find it's just a place for women (who have no confidence and generally wouldn't get a date) to massage they're egos ...until reality hits them and someone asks for a meet lol !!"

Are there really women like that on here??

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"1. Some pple out there are into some weird arse shit (literally).

2. Pple complain about single guys a lot but we've been let down by more cples and fems than we care to count in comparison.

3. Defenitly made me want to explore my bi-side every gay woman I've met has mistaken me fr one most of my life so y not give it a try. Wats the worst that can happen.

4. There are sooooooo many wingers but they refuse to take honest constructive advice.

5. Even though u tell someone ure not interested but keep chatting to them fr diplomacy sake then they try to weasel their way in and think they stand a chance

6. Together as a couple we have far more exciting kinky sex than what pple put on their profiles saying they can do and making other pple feel inadiquate.

7. Reverse image search, reverse image search and ouhhh yeah reverse image search. I luv u Google!!!

This!!!

I have met some lovely people but all in all I find it's just a place for women (who have no confidence and generally wouldn't get a date) to massage they're egos ...until reality hits them and someone asks for a meet lol !!"

To quote those wise men... Barry and Paul...

Oh dear,

Oh dear oh dear!

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By *uttytrukerMan
over a year ago

newport

i have learned that as a single guy over a certain age it is nye on impossible to get a meet from a woman or couple

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By *amo2121Man
over a year ago

swansea


"1. Some pple out there are into some weird arse shit (literally).

2. Pple complain about single guys a lot but we've been let down by more cples and fems than we care to count in comparison.

3. Defenitly made me want to explore my bi-side every gay woman I've met has mistaken me fr one most of my life so y not give it a try. Wats the worst that can happen.

4. There are sooooooo many wingers but they refuse to take honest constructive advice.

5. Even though u tell someone ure not interested but keep chatting to them fr diplomacy sake then they try to weasel their way in and think they stand a chance

6. Together as a couple we have far more exciting kinky sex than what pple put on their profiles saying they can do and making other pple feel inadiquate.

7. Reverse image search, reverse image search and ouhhh yeah reverse image search. I luv u Google!!!

This!!!

I have met some lovely people but all in all I find it's just a place for women (who have no confidence and generally wouldn't get a date) to massage they're egos ...until reality hits them and someone asks for a meet lol !!

To quote those wise men... Barry and Paul...

Oh dear,

Oh dear oh dear! "

Barry and Paul would be a refreshing site!!!

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By *amo2121Man
over a year ago

swansea


"1. Some pple out there are into some weird arse shit (literally).

2. Pple complain about single guys a lot but we've been let down by more cples and fems than we care to count in comparison.

3. Defenitly made me want to explore my bi-side every gay woman I've met has mistaken me fr one most of my life so y not give it a try. Wats the worst that can happen.

4. There are sooooooo many wingers but they refuse to take honest constructive advice.

5. Even though u tell someone ure not interested but keep chatting to them fr diplomacy sake then they try to weasel their way in and think they stand a chance

6. Together as a couple we have far more exciting kinky sex than what pple put on their profiles saying they can do and making other pple feel inadiquate.

7. Reverse image search, reverse image search and ouhhh yeah reverse image search. I luv u Google!!!

This!!!

I have met some lovely people but all in all I find it's just a place for women (who have no confidence and generally wouldn't get a date) to massage they're egos ...until reality hits them and someone asks for a meet lol !!

Are there really women like that on here?? "

Tons!!!

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By *rgasmicFunCouple
over a year ago

Gwent

Believe the ones u like, trust know one till they trust u, and stick to your boudries and enjoy xx

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"1. Some pple out there are into some weird arse shit (literally).

2. Pple complain about single guys a lot but we've been let down by more cples and fems than we care to count in comparison.

3. Defenitly made me want to explore my bi-side every gay woman I've met has mistaken me fr one most of my life so y not give it a try. Wats the worst that can happen.

4. There are sooooooo many wingers but they refuse to take honest constructive advice.

5. Even though u tell someone ure not interested but keep chatting to them fr diplomacy sake then they try to weasel their way in and think they stand a chance

6. Together as a couple we have far more exciting kinky sex than what pple put on their profiles saying they can do and making other pple feel inadiquate.

7. Reverse image search, reverse image search and ouhhh yeah reverse image search. I luv u Google!!!

This!!!

I have met some lovely people but all in all I find it's just a place for women (who have no confidence and generally wouldn't get a date) to massage they're egos ...until reality hits them and someone asks for a meet lol !!

Are there really women like that on here??

Tons!!!"

Yeah, they don't outnumber the bitter guys who don't get any though

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By *amo2121Man
over a year ago

swansea


"1. Some pple out there are into some weird arse shit (literally).

2. Pple complain about single guys a lot but we've been let down by more cples and fems than we care to count in comparison.

3. Defenitly made me want to explore my bi-side every gay woman I've met has mistaken me fr one most of my life so y not give it a try. Wats the worst that can happen.

4. There are sooooooo many wingers but they refuse to take honest constructive advice.

5. Even though u tell someone ure not interested but keep chatting to them fr diplomacy sake then they try to weasel their way in and think they stand a chance

6. Together as a couple we have far more exciting kinky sex than what pple put on their profiles saying they can do and making other pple feel inadiquate.

7. Reverse image search, reverse image search and ouhhh yeah reverse image search. I luv u Google!!!

This!!!

I have met some lovely people but all in all I find it's just a place for women (who have no confidence and generally wouldn't get a date) to massage they're egos ...until reality hits them and someone asks for a meet lol !!

Are there really women like that on here??

Tons!!!

Yeah, they don't outnumber the bitter guys who don't get any though "

No....they out weigh them by a mile!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive learnt that for a lot of guys on Fab any hole is a goal. They dont even want to see what you look like before you agree to meet them.

As long as you have a pulse they are up for it.

Its a good job Im very fussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over time Ive become very suspicious of guys whos veris are from a female with a hidden profile.

Also lots of guys say they can accommodate when really they cant.

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By *amo2121Man
over a year ago

swansea


"Over time Ive become very suspicious of guys whos veris are from a female with a hidden profile.

Also lots of guys say they can accommodate when really they cant."

Surely though that beats 'cannot accomodate' 'cannot travel' lol i mean hoe do you propose that they would meet anyone lol ...you can't come to me ...and erm..i can't get to you....by the way don't be to disappointed after all ..

I'm only a silohett

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have enough FWB who have my number thanks. Im not looking to meet anyone new

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By *amo2121Man
over a year ago

swansea


"I have enough FWB who have my number thanks. Im not looking to meet anyone new "

Well i wasn't referring to you...but if the shoe fits

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By *iss B-HavingWoman
over a year ago

Welsh Valleys

Also be wary of guys who suddenly stop messaging on a Friday / Saturday / Sunday as they often have a "Secret" girlfriend!

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By *eepandhardMan
over a year ago

Swansea


"Also be wary of guys who suddenly stop messaging on a Friday / Saturday / Sunday as they often have a "Secret" girlfriend!"

Lol. I have had few 'ladies' suddenly stop messaging as well. Bless them. Lol. Everyone has a different point of view on the matter.

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By *iss B-HavingWoman
over a year ago

Welsh Valleys


"Also be wary of guys who suddenly stop messaging on a Friday / Saturday / Sunday as they often have a "Secret" girlfriend!

Lol. I have had few 'ladies' suddenly stop messaging as well. Bless them. Lol. Everyone has a different point of view on the matter. "

I'm sure some are just genuinely busy ha ha - guys or girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fem of a Couple who message that her bf needs to meet your Mrs alone as it's his first meet

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By *eepandhardMan
over a year ago

Swansea


"Also be wary of guys who suddenly stop messaging on a Friday / Saturday / Sunday as they often have a "Secret" girlfriend!

Lol. I have had few 'ladies' suddenly stop messaging as well. Bless them. Lol. Everyone has a different point of view on the matter.

I'm sure some are just genuinely busy ha ha - guys or girls "

Oh, I am not judging anyone. I am sure they all have a good reason.

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By *amo2121Man
over a year ago

swansea


"Also be wary of guys who suddenly stop messaging on a Friday / Saturday / Sunday as they often have a "Secret" girlfriend!

Lol. I have had few 'ladies' suddenly stop messaging as well. Bless them. Lol. Everyone has a different point of view on the matter. "

Spot on mate!! We all have different views on it

It does annoy me though that single guys are all looked at in generally the same light which is totally unfair. eg;

Single guy -

can't accomodate...well he must be married!!

Single woman -

Can't accomodate....its for her safety.

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By *amo2121Man
over a year ago

swansea


"Fem of a Couple who message that her bf needs to meet your Mrs alone as it's his first meet "

Ha ha I get this a bit ...fake profile alert!!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fem of a Couple who message that her bf needs to meet your Mrs alone as it's his first meet "

Ah yes...we had that again just yesterday

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over time Ive become very suspicious of guys whos veris are from a female with a hidden profile.

Also lots of guys say they can accommodate when really they cant.

Surely though that beats 'cannot accomodate' 'cannot travel' lol i mean hoe do you propose that they would meet anyone lol ...you can't come to me ...and erm..i can't get to you....by the way don't be to disappointed after all ..

I'm only a silohett "

exactly how the he'll do u meet and they have veris wtf!!! How?

I once messaged a fem asking just tat and low and behold she blocks us

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By *amo2121Man
over a year ago

swansea


"Over time Ive become very suspicious of guys whos veris are from a female with a hidden profile.

Also lots of guys say they can accommodate when really they cant.

Surely though that beats 'cannot accomodate' 'cannot travel' lol i mean hoe do you propose that they would meet anyone lol ...you can't come to me ...and erm..i can't get to you....by the way don't be to disappointed after all ..

I'm only a silohett

exactly how the he'll do u meet and they have veris wtf!!! How?

I once messaged a fem asking just tat and low and behold she blocks us "

Innit !!! I love the silohett s who demand face pictures...they don't even ask nice, just ....face pic? Lol lol cracks me up . Take great pleasure though mate that we are the normal ones

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By *eepandhardMan
over a year ago

Swansea


"Also be wary of guys who suddenly stop messaging on a Friday / Saturday / Sunday as they often have a "Secret" girlfriend!

Lol. I have had few 'ladies' suddenly stop messaging as well. Bless them. Lol. Everyone has a different point of view on the matter.

Spot on mate!! We all have different views on it

It does annoy me though that single guys are all looked at in generally the same light which is totally unfair. eg;

Single guy -

can't accomodate...well he must be married!!

Single woman -

Can't accomodate....its for her safety.

"

The single ladies are looked at in the same light, I am sure. However, men in general would not complain about that publicly, they just get on with it. Women on the other hand need to vent, that's how they are dealing with the issues in life. We are different and there is the magic.

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By *amo2121Man
over a year ago

swansea


"Also be wary of guys who suddenly stop messaging on a Friday / Saturday / Sunday as they often have a "Secret" girlfriend!

Lol. I have had few 'ladies' suddenly stop messaging as well. Bless them. Lol. Everyone has a different point of view on the matter.

Spot on mate!! We all have different views on it

It does annoy me though that single guys are all looked at in generally the same light which is totally unfair. eg;

Single guy -

can't accomodate...well he must be married!!

Single woman -

Can't accomodate....its for her safety.

The single ladies are looked at in the same light, I am sure. However, men in general would not complain about that publicly, they just get on with it. Women on the other hand need to vent, that's how they are dealing with the issues in life. We are different and there is the magic."

Spot on !! There is the magic !! Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over time Ive become very suspicious of guys whos veris are from a female with a hidden profile.

Also lots of guys say they can accommodate when really they cant.

Surely though that beats 'cannot accomodate' 'cannot travel' lol i mean hoe do you propose that they would meet anyone lol ...you can't come to me ...and erm..i can't get to you....by the way don't be to disappointed after all ..

I'm only a silohett

exactly how the he'll do u meet and they have veris wtf!!! How?

I once messaged a fem asking just tat and low and behold she blocks us

Innit !!! I love the silohett s who demand face pictures...they don't even ask nice, just ....face pic? Lol lol cracks me up . Take great pleasure though mate that we are the normal ones "

Mate lol yup most pple think hubby is the bigger perve until they meet us and realise I'm (mrs( the one with the question that make u shift in ur seat uncomfortably lol

So lesson number 8. Most pple think that it's only the guys tat are perves but us women can be just as bad

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By *amo2121Man
over a year ago

swansea


"Over time Ive become very suspicious of guys whos veris are from a female with a hidden profile.

Also lots of guys say they can accommodate when really they cant.

Surely though that beats 'cannot accomodate' 'cannot travel' lol i mean hoe do you propose that they would meet anyone lol ...you can't come to me ...and erm..i can't get to you....by the way don't be to disappointed after all ..

I'm only a silohett

exactly how the he'll do u meet and they have veris wtf!!! How?

I once messaged a fem asking just tat and low and behold she blocks us

Innit !!! I love the silohett s who demand face pictures...they don't even ask nice, just ....face pic? Lol lol cracks me up . Take great pleasure though mate that we are the normal ones

Mate lol yup most pple think hubby is the bigger perve until they meet us and realise I'm (mrs( the one with the question that make u shift in ur seat uncomfortably lol

So lesson number 8. Most pple think that it's only the guys tat are perves but us women can be just as bad "

Sounds like he's a lucky man x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over time Ive become very suspicious of guys whos veris are from a female with a hidden profile.

Also lots of guys say they can accommodate when really they cant.

Surely though that beats 'cannot accomodate' 'cannot travel' lol i mean hoe do you propose that they would meet anyone lol ...you can't come to me ...and erm..i can't get to you....by the way don't be to disappointed after all ..

I'm only a silohett

exactly how the he'll do u meet and they have veris wtf!!! How?

I once messaged a fem asking just tat and low and behold she blocks us

Innit !!! I love the silohett s who demand face pictures...they don't even ask nice, just ....face pic? Lol lol cracks me up . Take great pleasure though mate that we are the normal ones

Mate lol yup most pple think hubby is the bigger perve until they meet us and realise I'm (mrs( the one with the question that make u shift in ur seat uncomfortably lol

So lesson number 8. Most pple think that it's only the guys tat are perves but us women can be just as bad

Sounds like he's a lucky man x "

Lol trying saying tat when he ahem services are needed 7 days+nights a week

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By *amo2121Man
over a year ago

swansea


"Over time Ive become very suspicious of guys whos veris are from a female with a hidden profile.

Also lots of guys say they can accommodate when really they cant.

Surely though that beats 'cannot accomodate' 'cannot travel' lol i mean hoe do you propose that they would meet anyone lol ...you can't come to me ...and erm..i can't get to you....by the way don't be to disappointed after all ..

I'm only a silohett

exactly how the he'll do u meet and they have veris wtf!!! How?

I once messaged a fem asking just tat and low and behold she blocks us

Innit !!! I love the silohett s who demand face pictures...they don't even ask nice, just ....face pic? Lol lol cracks me up . Take great pleasure though mate that we are the normal ones

Mate lol yup most pple think hubby is the bigger perve until they meet us and realise I'm (mrs( the one with the question that make u shift in ur seat uncomfortably lol

So lesson number 8. Most pple think that it's only the guys tat are perves but us women can be just as bad

Sounds like he's a lucky man x

Lol trying saying tat when he ahem services are needed 7 days+nights a week "

Lol just tell himbetter to have it and deal with it than not have it at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over time Ive become very suspicious of guys whos veris are from a female with a hidden profile.

Also lots of guys say they can accommodate when really they cant.

Surely though that beats 'cannot accomodate' 'cannot travel' lol i mean hoe do you propose that they would meet anyone lol ...you can't come to me ...and erm..i can't get to you....by the way don't be to disappointed after all ..

I'm only a silohett

exactly how the he'll do u meet and they have veris wtf!!! How?

I once messaged a fem asking just tat and low and behold she blocks us

Innit !!! I love the silohett s who demand face pictures...they don't even ask nice, just ....face pic? Lol lol cracks me up . Take great pleasure though mate that we are the normal ones

Mate lol yup most pple think hubby is the bigger perve until they meet us and realise I'm (mrs( the one with the question that make u shift in ur seat uncomfortably lol

So lesson number 8. Most pple think that it's only the guys tat are perves but us women can be just as bad

Sounds like he's a lucky man x

Lol trying saying tat when he ahem services are needed 7 days+nights a week

Lol just tell himbetter to have it and deal with it than not have it at all "

True tat I'll tell him now

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Once your over 50 then bye bye meets...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. Some pple out there are into some weird arse shit (literally).

2. Pple complain about single guys a lot but we've been let down by more cples and fems than we care to count in comparison.

3. Defenitly made me want to explore my bi-side every gay woman I've met has mistaken me fr one most of my life so y not give it a try. Wats the worst that can happen.

4. There are sooooooo many wingers but they refuse to take honest constructive advice.

5. Even though u tell someone ure not interested but keep chatting to them fr diplomacy sake then they try to weasel their way in and think they stand a chance

6. Together as a couple we have far more exciting kinky sex than what pple put on their profiles saying they can do and making other pple feel inadiquate.

7. Reverse image search, reverse image search and ouhhh yeah reverse image search. I luv u Google!!!

This!!!

I have met some lovely people but all in all I find it's just a place for women (who have no confidence and generally wouldn't get a date) to massage they're egos ...until reality hits them and someone asks for a meet lol !!"

Hahahaha fucking bang on the money!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't take fab to seriously, not everyone will like you. Be true to yourself never take one for the team. Stay clear of drama and watch out for the bullies and know it all's. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been on here a few months now and think I’m finally settling in!

I was wondering what lessons you have learnt since joining Fab. Whether from meets (good or bad experiences) or if you have learnt anything about your self or about other people? From chatting/web camming. Or anything else I may have missed out!"

It took me a few club visits to see how everything worked. I learned never to assume a lady sitting alone is there alone. Often, she is waiting for her arranged meet to arrive, or her partner is at the bar/having a smoke/ gone to the loo. I now have a rule in a club which is no alcohol for me and never to play with anyone that needs alcohol to play.

These are my personal rules. What others feel is OK is none of my business, unless it interferes with my enjoyment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes!

False advertisement on profile drives me crazy! Saying non smoker when they are a smoker is one of the worse for me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learned that you must welcome each and every person personally in the chat room or they accuse you of being ignorant and rip up a whole new bag of shit.

Oh and back to that 'Can't accommodate can't travel' bugbear.... if you read profiles then it usually explains a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt you must send out personnel invites to party's or you get slagged off in chat rooms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing is true, everything is permitted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've learnt you must send out personnel invites to party's or you get slagged off in chat rooms "

I had my gold embossed one in the post thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to speak my mind in a forum

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By *retty GoodMan
over a year ago

Cardiff Bay


"Not to speak my mind in a forum "

No never do that

Ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not to speak my mind in a forum "

If you can't in a forum then where else?

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By *amo2121Man
over a year ago

swansea


"I've learned that you must welcome each and every person personally in the chat room or they accuse you of being ignorant and rip up a whole new bag of shit.

Oh and back to that 'Can't accommodate can't travel' bugbear.... if you read profiles then it usually explains a lot. "

Yes I agree...one word...frauds!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've learned that you must welcome each and every person personally in the chat room or they accuse you of being ignorant and rip up a whole new bag of shit.

Oh and back to that 'Can't accommodate can't travel' bugbear.... if you read profiles then it usually explains a lot.

Yes I agree...one word...frauds!! "

Believe me I am no fraud!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've learned that you must welcome each and every person personally in the chat room or they accuse you of being ignorant and rip up a whole new bag of shit.

Oh and back to that 'Can't accommodate can't travel' bugbear.... if you read profiles then it usually explains a lot.

Yes I agree...one word...frauds!!

Believe me I am no fraud! "

I read all profiles hun and the ones I've seen like that either don't explain or tell u they're here fr a chat and a nose. Conclusion pic collectors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've learned that you must welcome each and every person personally in the chat room or they accuse you of being ignorant and rip up a whole new bag of shit.

Oh and back to that 'Can't accommodate can't travel' bugbear.... if you read profiles then it usually explains a lot.

Yes I agree...one word...frauds!!

Believe me I am no fraud!

I read all profiles hun and the ones I've seen like that either don't explain or tell u they're here fr a chat and a nose. Conclusion pic collectors "

Well you've met me

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking


"I've learnt you must send out personnel invites to party's or you get slagged off in chat rooms "

Hahaha do people get upset by this then? Lol....

I've learnt that fab is a funny old world...

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By *eepandhardMan
over a year ago

Swansea


"Not to speak my mind in a forum "

You gotta fight for your right to paaaaaarty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've learnt you must send out personnel invites to party's or you get slagged off in chat rooms

Hahaha do people get upset by this then? Lol....

I've learnt that fab is a funny old world..."

Some people do lol you can't please everyone xx

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By *amo2121Man
over a year ago

swansea


"I've learned that you must welcome each and every person personally in the chat room or they accuse you of being ignorant and rip up a whole new bag of shit.

Oh and back to that 'Can't accommodate can't travel' bugbear.... if you read profiles then it usually explains a lot.

Yes I agree...one word...frauds!!

Believe me I am no fraud! "

You also don't have " CAN'T ACCOMODATE CANT TRAVEL" yours says you CAN travel...this is another if my bug bears !!! PEOPLE WHO CAN'T READ !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've learned that you must welcome each and every person personally in the chat room or they accuse you of being ignorant and rip up a whole new bag of shit.

Oh and back to that 'Can't accommodate can't travel' bugbear.... if you read profiles then it usually explains a lot.

Yes I agree...one word...frauds!!

Believe me I am no fraud!

You also don't have " CAN'T ACCOMODATE CANT TRAVEL" yours says you CAN travel...this is another if my bug bears !!! PEOPLE WHO CAN'T READ !!!! "

Lol I just read my profile and you are correct. I had 'can't travel' for so long and hadn't realised I ever changed it. So my apologies!

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By *amo2121Man
over a year ago

swansea


"I've learned that you must welcome each and every person personally in the chat room or they accuse you of being ignorant and rip up a whole new bag of shit.

Oh and back to that 'Can't accommodate can't travel' bugbear.... if you read profiles then it usually explains a lot.

Yes I agree...one word...frauds!!

Believe me I am no fraud!

You also don't have " CAN'T ACCOMODATE CANT TRAVEL" yours says you CAN travel...this is another if my bug bears !!! PEOPLE WHO CAN'T READ !!!!

Lol I just read my profile and you are correct. I had 'can't travel' for so long and hadn't realised I ever changed it. So my apologies!"

No need to apologies!! I think in all fairness any topic in the forums can get quite heated quickly due to the fact that everything is in "text" and as we don't know each other it can be taken and read the wrong way..ive done it and I'm almost perfect much love Mrs no hard feelings xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To ALWAYS have a one to one social prior to any play meet. Helps out the liars and narcissists.

To never give too much away regarding vanilla life, or it can be used against you. People are happier to hear lies than the truth.

Men are worse gossips and shit stirrers than women.

I'm kinkier than I first thought

Love licking pussy.. who would have thought?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've learned that you must welcome each and every person personally in the chat room or they accuse you of being ignorant and rip up a whole new bag of shit.

Oh and back to that 'Can't accommodate can't travel' bugbear.... if you read profiles then it usually explains a lot.

Yes I agree...one word...frauds!!

Believe me I am no fraud!

I read all profiles hun and the ones I've seen like that either don't explain or tell u they're here fr a chat and a nose. Conclusion pic collectors

Well you've met me "

I know but u say u cn travel x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learned to keep yourself to yourself

Trust your own instincts

This comes from experience

Of different things that has happened over the years

Which relate to far to many similarities of what others have wrote in this forum

LOL to many to mention

But all a learning curve

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By *eswillMan
over a year ago

Chepstow

1 What happens on Fab stays on Fab.

2 Read 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1 What happens on Fab stays on Fab.

2 Read 1"

Come on now les my boy u know tats not true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regarding accommodating. I live with my son so can only meet when he's at school. Weekends are out because even when I can get a sitter it's at my house.

Guys who can't accom aren't always lying. Just saying like

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By *eepandhardMan
over a year ago

Swansea


"Regarding accommodating. I live with my son so can only meet when he's at school. Weekends are out because even when I can get a sitter it's at my house.

Guys who can't accom aren't always lying. Just saying like "

I know how is like mate. Same here.

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By *amo2121Man
over a year ago

swansea


"Regarding accommodating. I live with my son so can only meet when he's at school. Weekends are out because even when I can get a sitter it's at my house.

Guys who can't accom aren't always lying. Just saying like "

Exactly!!

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By *atty_loves_curvesMan
over a year ago

South Wales


"I've also learnt not to ask about having an MMF in the forums "

Hummmm, sorry about that, it's not normally me but when someone gives an insult like I got I tend to kick back. Not sure what happened after my reply as I went out and the thread was block when I got back.

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