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By *iss B-Having OP   Woman
over a year ago

Welsh Valleys

Judging by the type of this site and the people on it, narcissism seems to run rife.

What are your experiences with it on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So far I think it's the same as every walk of life. The narcissistic ones are the loudest. They're easy to spot and they don't care.

How many people pay attention to the bloke in the corener of the bar when there's someone dancing starkers on the pool table?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So far I think it's the same as every walk of life. The narcissistic ones are the loudest. They're easy to spot and they don't care.

How many people pay attention to the bloke in the corener of the bar when there's someone dancing starkers on the pool table?"

They certainly crave the attention, but then say that they don't like all the attention.. Very dangerous people in my eyes! Loads of them here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This "Narcissism is the pursuit of gratification from vanity or egotistic admiration of one's own attributes"

I guess it takes a measure of that to enjoy the scene fully, parties, clubs, socials it's largely about performing in front of or with others. Can't really see how that's a bad trait X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This "Narcissism is the pursuit of gratification from vanity or egotistic admiration of one's own attributes"

I guess it takes a measure of that to enjoy the scene fully, parties, clubs, socials it's largely about performing in front of or with others. Can't really see how that's a bad trait X"
I concur xx

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

cork

Can't say we noticed tbh,we was to busy looking in the mirror

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

We are too busy being awesome to have space in our lives for narcissism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't say we noticed tbh,we was to busy looking in the mirror "

Perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are too busy being awesome to have space in our lives for narcissism "

& you both do such a good job at it, love it X

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By *iss B-Having OP   Woman
over a year ago

Welsh Valleys


"So far I think it's the same as every walk of life. The narcissistic ones are the loudest. They're easy to spot and they don't care.

How many people pay attention to the bloke in the corener of the bar when there's someone dancing starkers on the pool table?"

That's a good point!

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By *iss B-Having OP   Woman
over a year ago

Welsh Valleys


"So far I think it's the same as every walk of life. The narcissistic ones are the loudest. They're easy to spot and they don't care.

How many people pay attention to the bloke in the corener of the bar when there's someone dancing starkers on the pool table?

They certainly crave the attention, but then say that they don't like all the attention.. Very dangerous people in my eyes! Loads of them here! "

I've had dealings with a few and it has been frightening. Being stood up by them and them completely forgetting. Then telling them. Then they stalk your profile wanting a reaction. Nope!

I notice some of the people on here are like the narcissist I spot on Facebook. Cryptic statuses so someone will ask what's wrong. Pics on and off. Hop on and off FAB. Complaints or rants about not getting meets.

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By *iss B-Having OP   Woman
over a year ago

Welsh Valleys


"This "Narcissism is the pursuit of gratification from vanity or egotistic admiration of one's own attributes"

I guess it takes a measure of that to enjoy the scene fully, parties, clubs, socials it's largely about performing in front of or with others. Can't really see how that's a bad trait X"

That's true - you need to have a certain level to be on here. I myself have many pictures so can be accused of it. However there's a line between confidence and it crosses over into the dangerous/scary.

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By *iss B-Having OP   Woman
over a year ago

Welsh Valleys


"Can't say we noticed tbh,we was to busy looking in the mirror "

haha!

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By *iss B-Having OP   Woman
over a year ago

Welsh Valleys


"We are too busy being awesome to have space in our lives for narcissism "

hear hear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This "Narcissism is the pursuit of gratification from vanity or egotistic admiration of one's own attributes"

I guess it takes a measure of that to enjoy the scene fully, parties, clubs, socials it's largely about performing in front of or with others. Can't really see how that's a bad trait X"

No need to perform in front of others.. Just be yourself, I'm sure people will appreciate that more rather than pretending to be someone or something you are not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By performing I was referring to sex, in club's & parties some people have been known to have sex in front of others. As people know me will attest there is no performing in the sense youre using the word, I'm me & always me X

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