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By *thwalescpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

brecon

Well, after holding it in for a while I just have to say....

FOR FUCKS SAKE GET A GRIP!!!

... to the factions that are appearing in the welsh room.

We all know what I am on about... so dont all look so shocked!!!

It's all kicking off and people are getting into trouble, mainly because others cant keep their noses out or their petty comments to themselves!!

In fact some people are deliberately stirring things up, maybe just for fun...... well, it aint fucking funny!!!

Everything has polarised around two people, with factions gathering on both sides......

She is often a daft bint, with a lot to say (loudly lol!), and can be very scatty, and loves lots of cock, which shouldnt be a surprise on a swinging site but seems to have upset some people (jealousy?) but has a heart of gold (yes you have guessed it, I like her!)....

He can sometimes be semi-reasonable, and at least one person has vouched that he is a nice guy, but he often fucks it up by being a complete nob in the chatroom, but after trying to talk to him I have to say I think he could start a fight in an empty room....

..... and the bottom line is they both have friends in the room, but, and here's my point, ITS THEIR ARGUMENT.... and should be conducted elsewhere without all sticking their oars in, sometimes with malicious intent.

Or perhaps, and this isnt such an earth-shattering revelation..... they should just both move on and blank each other?

I for one try not to get involved, but find it hard not to get dragged in when friends are getting slated, often by people who have their own agendas, using the origional fight as an excuse to drop others in the poo.

We are all adults, so lets start acting like it, if you dont like someone, dont talk about them behind their backs like I have seen in the room, just ignore them and move on, simples.!!

And to those that dont like me speaking my mind, tough shit, get used to it, there's gonna be a lot more of it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my sentiments exactly as I said in the room last night. Keep their personal fights out of the chat rooms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't agree more, the rest of us don't need to hear this. At the end of the day we're all here for fun fun and more fun and to meet whoever we want to when we want to and don't have to answer to anyone for our actions. It is after all like sthwales couple said a swinging site. So happy swinging!!!!!!!! Wetter

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By *exychic36Woman
over a year ago

brigdend

i couldnt agree more with u lot .There are no fights or rows comin from me ON My behalf when im in the room as all i want is to be able to go in room and chat to my mates without being slated !!!The wales room used to b fun now u got everyone bitchin abt people in room or behind there backs.like _thwalescpl said jelousy !!!

we should all get on and ave a laff ffs ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my sentiments exactly as I said in the room last night. Keep their personal fights out of the chat rooms"

And preferably the forums too

let them slug it out via messages...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

exactly bi lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well said sth its gone on long enough and we are all getting sick of it especially as we are friends with people on both sides x x x x x x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call me stupid and slap me with a wet fish and no I wouldn’t like it well the slapping maybe but the fish is a little too kinky for me, but where are the moderators when these altercations manifest themselves?

And also if there are intentions and I: quote “malicious intent.” Then this is a matter for other authorities regardless of whether this is a swinging site or otherwise.

I’m not even going to get into the debate of who did who no pun intended I will talk to anyone who has the decency to communicate in a civilised manner as I will also ignore anyone who I see fit, this is not because there are “factions” its because I choose to. The main reason I departed another site was because of the animosity in the chat room it now seems that it may be rearing its ugly head again here.

The Welsh room is an example to the rest of the rooms we even get people coming in commenting on how friendly it is there are some really great people who join in the conversations and banter but the minority as with single guys ruin it for others

I implore the moderators to moderate the rooms with a non-judgemental attitude as they should and route out those that are determined to degenerate the chat room to a bar brawl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh no I havnt been to see but feel left out now lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pr0f I do believe that is what started this bar room brawl, someone got banned oh i dont know over a week ago now, and thats when everything kicked off. Mods can do so much, you cant ban everyone for speaking their mind even though it is not nice, its just that some ppl speak it too freely lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not against free speech it is our democratic right. In fact I would encourage it in the chat rooms after all that’s what they are there for. What I take exception too is the animosity that is being allowed to generate into “malicious intent” I’m not a idiot and fully understand that some people for what ever reason take exception to other people this is a naturally occurring event in society and therefore it is to be excepted in the chat room. As with society there are laws and rules for unacceptable behaviour which is where the moderators and administrators come in there are ways and means to deal with these unruly individual characters and as far as I can see they are being dealt with a slap on the wrist AND allowed to make numerous accounts so the effect of a ban is negligible if at best enforceable. I can guarantee that if this antisocial behaviour IS allowed to continue the room will not only become a permanent place where “bar room brawls” are seen, but there will become “factions” and what is and I hope will be an amazing social night this Saturday will cease to happen thus limiting everyone’s chances of meeting like minded people. It saddens me to think that it is possible here but does not surprise me, lets hope it doesn’t happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep i gotta agree with that lets hope tonight puts an end to it all and that ppl with multiple screen names are made to toe the line but its hard to keep track all the time when so many members use different names hun. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all i am going to say hear hear, at last someone who has had the courage to speak out and try to end all this. it has been a farce with the arguments and bitchyness thats been going on.

i am there for fun and a laff.. and lets get back to the way it was in the welsh room

kath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

let em fight we say....well, nude of course and plenty of baby oil!!...grrr lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i say lets get back to swinging in the welsh room lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well..... where do I start?!

Factions...hmmmm yes that may have somehow occurred, Would the OP deny being part of it/one?

Interesting also to see their take on the 2 Parties...one account is glowing with praise and forgiveness, the other is accusatory and judgemental....

Suffice to say, I have no agenda here with anyone. Ask anyone, I am the most passive person here... BUT...I will not be open to bullying or ganging upon and as far as that goes, Yes someone being banned may have been part of it, but to be so two faced as to imply it and know nothing about it is really quite poor.

Also, other peoples input to this has been very interesting...indeed.

Plus, those who really know nothing at all about what has happened seem to be the most vocal.

Peace out.

Slurm/Brew/Kloot

Always the one ID........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

woa there I aint taken any sides, neithr have i dished or praised anyone, I certainly agree with you on the point of bullying, I do not condone bullying at all, and yes have seen it going on the room and have reported what I have seen, and I suggest everyone else be honest and do the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh and yes I dont like multiple screen names, when ppl are honest and say who they are fine as slurm/brew/kloot did, its the others that come under different names and stir things up then names disappear I dont like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry Kitten, I don't believe I mentioned any names?

But yes, Strange how some are 'allowed' multiple names.

As I said before, I bear no malice to anyone here, indeed anywhere. Yet I always seem to somehow bear the brunt.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i agree on how "some" have multiples, but cant do nowt about it have tried doesnt do any good somehow

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over a year ago

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By *thwalescpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

brecon


"Well..... where do I start?!

Factions...hmmmm yes that may have somehow occurred, Would the OP deny being part of it/one?

Interesting also to see their take on the 2 Parties...one account is glowing with praise and forgiveness, the other is accusatory and judgemental....

Suffice to say, I have no agenda here with anyone. Ask anyone, I am the most passive person here... BUT...I will not be open to bullying or ganging upon and as far as that goes, Yes someone being banned may have been part of it, but to be so two faced as to imply it and know nothing about it is really quite poor.

Also, other peoples input to this has been very interesting...indeed.

Plus, those who really know nothing at all about what has happened seem to be the most vocal.

Peace out.

Slurm/Brew/Kloot

Always the one ID........"

Well, as Neil has decided to own up to being one of the parties involved, I thought it only right to reply with a few points.... hold onto your hats!!!

Absolutely I would deny being part of any "faction", although I would never deny taking sides, as its clear from my origional posting, we tried to remain neutral until it became clear that other people were hijacking the argument and using it against not only the other individual, but her friends too, for their own personal vendettas.

"one account is glowing with praise and forgiveness, the other is accusatory and judgemental...." really? I think I have been very honest, dont forget Neil, you and I had a chat in the room, and I think what I said about you is accurate...... plus I did say something nice about you and not so nice about her..... perhaps your own take on that is skewed by your need to feel like the injured party in all this?

"I am the most passive person here... BUT...I will not be open to bullying".... really? What do you call what YOU have been doing then? And as for passive.... when we chatted in the room you went from "Mr Reasonable" to "complete twat" faster that a sportscar gets from 0 to 60 mph!!! And then decided to call someone else who was trying to chat to you "cunto".... thats passive? Attila the Hun was more restrained!! And while we are on the subject of "passive" and "bullying", the not-so-hidden meaning of your message to my wife in the chatroom was noted, perhaps you and I might discuss that over a beer or two sometime?

"Yes someone being banned may have been part of it, but to be so two faced as to imply it and know nothing about it is really quite poor."

Someone? You neil, in one of your other guises... and the three profile names below are only the tip of the iceberg, there has been at least one other that we know of!! As for knowing nothing about it, you were the one banging on about it, so I asked others and now know more than perhaps even you, as you seem to have picked the wrong mod as the culprit.... but again that doesnt matter to you does it, as you dont really care about that so long as you get your digs in against her friends.

Yes, I agree about the input from others, amazing how some can be so vitriolic in the chatroom one minute, then post that they dont agree with all the fighting and backstabbing.

From the off we have never claimed to know exactly what the origional problem was, my point was that some have seen evidence on one side, some seen it on the other, but only the two parties involved actually know the whole truth and its them that should be left to it.

Just a suggestion... delete each others phone numbers, block each others profile and move on.... simples!

His last point.... "always the one ID".... give me a chuffing break.... each ID he came on with was in order to sow discontent and devilry, and at one point Neil you definately had more than one running..... he never announced himself on each one from the off for fear of getting booted or banned.

This is getting tedious now Neil, and boring too, so here's the deal, you dont talk to us, and we wont talk to you, you leave others out of it, and ask everyone else to keep out, and we will do the same.... it aint rocket science, an argument can only continue if you continue to argue.

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By *exychic36Woman
over a year ago

brigdend

here here mart i totally agree with u !!!ive had a guts full too and think we should just drop the whole matter to b honest and move on like i have already moved on . ive asked many of times to be freinds with this person but to no avail( i dont really no wat that word means but sounds good hehehhe)now neil les just move on and forget it all ..if u dont wanna speak to me nicely then dont speak to me atall and ill do the same xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, your no into the be nice day then?

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By *exychic36Woman
over a year ago

brigdend

yes hun im always nice me jus t agreein that all fightin n bickering should stop

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jayne or Martin

I saw your reply and thought about responding to the points you have made. However, I believe that would just result in a never ending thread and I don't think that would be helping anyone.

I just wanted to acknowledge that I have read your reply and to say that there are always at least 2 sides to every story and noone except those involved has all of the information.

Here's to a happier room!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry - just re-read the last paragraph. I have never asked anyone to fight my battles for me - what others say or do is through no request of mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

right heres my 2 pennies worth for what it counts

1. The fighting and bitching in the room pisses me off, I stopped coming on the site for a while because of it and yet again it seems to have started up. Would you please both pack it in, we're not in infant school anymore so theres no need for name calling and shouting across the yard. If you dont like someone block em, then you wont see each other and you can't argue.

2. The multiple ID's are a pain in the arse speaking as a mod and a chatter. I myself have 2 ID's as i dont always feel like playing mod after all the shit I've had because of it, so I created an ID where me and zxr can just use chat if we want to. BUT we have never pretended to be anyone else! What I have a problem with is ppl making new ID's either to evade a ban or to make out they are a new member and see who's saying what. Get a grip ffs, ppl can work out who you are by your writing style and the way you spell ffs it doesnt take long. If you want a new ID at least have the bollox to say who you are!

3. Fighting factions, why anybody decided to get involved is beyond me, I know ppl wanna stick up for their friends but its a chat room ffs, if you dont like whats being said use the report button then turn it off for a while. Saves on a lot of arguments and saves on hassle for the likes of Kitten and myself. I dont want to know the ins and outs of who did what and why but when ppl are kicking off theres a fair bit of tale telling that goes on.

In short I cant be arsed with all this crap in chat, I've had the worst year of my life so fat and its only August! I have enough probs of my own without having other ppls shoved under my nose in a place where I come to chill out and chat with friends ( and thats NOT speaking as a mod). So just play nice, blank each other and keep it to yourselves from now on please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well said vamps

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