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By *errier OP   Man
over a year ago

Newport

hi I've been on here for years as a couple we met a few couples went to a social in Cardiff no I am on here as a single male have been for years was married she had now interest so just keep it to myself really so anyway my question is this what am I doing wrong I read people's profiles then I message them not long winded ones but just to break the ice ok i take it i might not be some peoples cup of tea iam no oil painting or model and when people message saying your not our type I always reply ok no worries thanks for the reply but can't understand people that put a status up looking for someone you message them they either don't read the message or just delete it so can anybody tell me what i need to do plus ive got pics no cock ones just me which I do send with message thank you for any advice given and I will take it on board

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women on here get billion mail per day. ..... Most men won't get any mail back

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By *errier OP   Man
over a year ago

Newport

I understand that but not to read it confuses me once they've asked to be messaged

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By *eral SexMan
over a year ago

Port Talbot

Its a numbers game. Sometimes women bulk delete the hundred or so messages they received on a Friday night etc. It helps to message when the people you want to meet are actually online, and expect a ratio of one reply to every 20 odd messages. Hang in there !

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By *errier OP   Man
over a year ago

Newport

Ok didn't think of that noted thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was a single fem on here in the first couple of days had over 500 messages. Plus when you reply to someone saying thanks but no thanks the abuse is unreal which I found out for myself. So it's easier just to reply to people who you want too.

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By *errier OP   Man
over a year ago

Newport

I never would of thought that I just thought I must be doing something wrong some people can not obviously take a knock back makes you think why there single ok i will definitely look at it in a different light now i would never dream of abusing someone because yhey said no x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never would of thought that I just thought I must be doing something wrong some people can not obviously take a knock back makes you think why there single ok i will definitely look at it in a different light now i would never dream of abusing someone because yhey said no x"

Sadly it happens and this is why it is just easier not to read it even read and delete if you are not interested. I tried to reply to all of my messages because I have manners, but it got too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably just not feeling you from your pic. Is basic really. ...

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By *ve 66Woman
over a year ago

Blackwood

I always reply even if I lie and say I'm only looking to chat... Less hurtful... Never had abuse or rude maybe cos they actually got a reply.

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By *r n1ceguyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I always reply even if I lie and say I'm only looking to chat... Less hurtful... Never had abuse or rude maybe cos they actually got a reply. "

I had a reply from you and it was lovely ... great fibber you are lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus.. do women not have pay to send mail. Only so many messages they get.. Therefore replying could cost plus guessing tedious the amount mail they get. I know I wouldn't reply to 1000 mail a day. What fun is that?

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By *aut-eWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"Plus.. do women not have pay to send mail. Only so many messages they get."

Non members have a limit of messages they can send and everyone has the option to become a member to up their limit. I'm a member and I can't say I've ever run out of messages. I also can't imagine it being a different limit if your male, female or couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok cool. Wasn't sure how it all works as never upgraded. I tend to get mail back when send any which is rare I send.but also realistic and know most on here already have regular set ups or just generally swamped in mail. I guess if desperate for a meet just persist I think most men think they going have women queuing up soon they sign up. I do better for meets off pof. Find it real easy compared this site

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