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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So what's everyone's views on meets, does everyone like a social before hand or do you just want to get down to it haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social for me as a single but as a couple we prefer to get straight into things X

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By *ve 66Woman
over a year ago

Blackwood

Definitely social first as some people fib a little on profiles and have 10 yr old pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Never met a couple so wouldn't know haha see I think the same they could be anyone definitely a lot safer, but don't think most people care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social first. I need the flirt and build up to get my juices flowing and engage my brain. Otherwise I might as well lie back and do my online shopping.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I'd definitely enjoy a social with you then :p haha I totally agree though, the build up is part of the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's totally different meeting as a couple, generally there's a lot more chat before the meet & you've got a partner with you should it not feel right on the night, we have left or said let's do coffee instead with couples we haven't clicked with in the flesh.

As a single you're more aware of the need for the mutual connection/attraction is there because there's nowhere to hide, I personally can't meet cold with a person on my own & a non pushy social in a neutral is vital to the process for me, I am beginning to embrace the back to mine if it feels right, but even that feels a bit much for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done both in the past

As I rule I like to meet socially first, as you can never really tell if there will be a spark just by texting etc

But I can be spontaneous if I'm horny, and the guy is younger, fit and plays rugby, he can sometimes be excused the social part ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From this site it would be plenty of messages and pics to make sure we all know what we are after then a social then if we're all happy then a play date.

In a club a little chat to see if the chemistry is right then play time.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

A social would be good to break the ice and give either person a chance to escape if the photos you've been sent was of someone else and the chemistry isn't there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have done both in the past

As I rule I like to meet socially first, as you can never really tell if there will be a spark just by texting etc

But I can be spontaneous if I'm horny, and the guy is younger, fit and plays rugby, he can sometimes be excused the social part ha "

Well I used to play rugby if that's any use?

Well still looking for a first couple meet but so far no luck, been some interesting responses mind

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By *r n1ceguyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Social first ... as much as I may fancy the pants of a lady ... I like good conversation and banter ... before we rip each others clothes off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I like your style brother haha

I actually really enjoy the social Side of things, definitely good for building up the tension haha

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By *iftygreyshadesMan
over a year ago

Aberaeron

Always prefer a social meet first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what's everyone's views on meets, does everyone like a social before hand or do you just want to get down to it haha"

Many moons ago when I started out it didn't bother me. Have the time I met people had what I wanted and didn't even know their name.

I learnt a lot from it and landed myself in a situation. Now I have a social if I was too meet alone or as a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely like to have a social first you get to know more about that person. Also you see how nice some people before they become your naughty fantasies.. thats my experience with it

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