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"Why does your friend think they should break up" Because prostitution is degrading to women, men who use them are arseholes blah blah blah. | |||
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"Why does your friend think they should break up Because prostitution is degrading to women, men who use them are arseholes blah blah blah. " I mean no offence to your friend but that's a pretty closed mind to have towards it. | |||
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"Why does your friend think they should break up Because prostitution is degrading to women, men who use them are arseholes blah blah blah. I mean no offence to your friend but that's a pretty closed mind to have towards it. " Yeah, she can be very closed minded. She thinks porn is evil. That her son will never ever watch it or wank when he's a teenager. And thinks her husband has never watched porn or wanked  she can be a bit nieve.
One of our other friends is kind of on the fence and I wondered if it was just me who thought it didn't matter | |||
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"Why does your friend think they should break up Because prostitution is degrading to women, men who use them are arseholes blah blah blah. I mean no offence to your friend but that's a pretty closed mind to have towards it. Yeah, she can be very closed minded. She thinks porn is evil. That her son will never ever watch it or wank when he's a teenager. And thinks her husband has never watched porn or wanked she can be a bit nieve.
One of our other friends is kind of on the fence and I wondered if it was just me who thought it didn't matter "   | |||
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"Why does your friend think they should break up Because prostitution is degrading to women, men who use them are arseholes blah blah blah. I mean no offence to your friend but that's a pretty closed mind to have towards it. Yeah, she can be very closed minded. She thinks porn is evil. That her son will never ever watch it or wank when he's a teenager. And thinks her husband has never watched porn or wanked she can be a bit nieve.
One of our other friends is kind of on the fence and I wondered if it was just me who thought it didn't matter "To be honest, I would have thought you'd only get one type of answer from this forum due to it being basically a sex based group. Personally I'd say if she loved him and sees a future with him then she has to somehow get past his previous encounters. Escorts are just another service that people use as long as the escorts are willing and not being forced to work them I see no problems. | |||
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"Why does your friend think they should break up Because prostitution is degrading to women, men who use them are arseholes blah blah blah. I mean no offence to your friend but that's a pretty closed mind to have towards it. Yeah, she can be very closed minded. She thinks porn is evil. That her son will never ever watch it or wank when he's a teenager. And thinks her husband has never watched porn or wanked she can be a bit nieve.
One of our other friends is kind of on the fence and I wondered if it was just me who thought it didn't matter
Personally I'd say if she loved him and sees a future with him then she has to somehow get past his previous encounters.
Escorts are just another service that people use as long as the escorts are willing and not being forced to work them I see no problems."Exactly this X | |||
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"Why does your friend think they should break up Because prostitution is degrading to women, men who use them are arseholes blah blah blah. " if she feels strongly about these views and feels like it's something she can't overcome, then I'd say that possibly yes she should. Whether you agree with her views or not really isn't the issue is it? Everyone is entitled to an opinion and feel like their views are valued (whether you agree or not). As a friend, I always try to support my friends with their choices, whatever they may be. Everyone has different moral fibre and things that are deal breakers in a relationship. History does impact a relationship, as it does life in general, so to say that his past will have no effect on her is narrow minded.  | |||
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"Why does your friend think they should break up Because prostitution is degrading to women, men who use them are arseholes blah blah blah. if she feels strongly about these views and feels like it's something she can't overcome, then I'd say that possibly yes she should. Whether you agree with her views or not really isn't the issue is it? Everyone is entitled to an opinion and feel like their views are valued (whether you agree or not). As a friend, I always try to support my friends with their choices, whatever they may be. Everyone has different moral fibre and things that are deal breakers in a relationship. History does impact a relationship, as it does life in general, so to say that his past will have no effect on her is narrow minded. "Well said Miss Maverick | |||
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"Why does your friend think they should break up Because prostitution is degrading to women, men who use them are arseholes blah blah blah. if she feels strongly about these views and feels like it's something she can't overcome, then I'd say that possibly yes she should. Whether you agree with her views or not really isn't the issue is it? Everyone is entitled to an opinion and feel like their views are valued (whether you agree or not). As a friend, I always try to support my friends with their choices, whatever they may be. Everyone has different moral fibre and things that are deal breakers in a relationship. History does impact a relationship, as it does life in general, so to say that his past will have no effect on her is narrow minded. "It's a different friend that thinks they should break up, the one who thinks watching porn and masturbating is evil and something that should never be done. The friend whose boyfriend it is is very on the fence and I seem to be the only one that doesn't see it as an issue. And she feels like she SHOULD break up with him because of what everyone else thinks about it. I just wanted to show her that I'm not the only one who thinks it's no big deal. | |||
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"Why does your friend think they should break up Because prostitution is degrading to women, men who use them are arseholes blah blah blah. if she feels strongly about these views and feels like it's something she can't overcome, then I'd say that possibly yes she should. Whether you agree with her views or not really isn't the issue is it? Everyone is entitled to an opinion and feel like their views are valued (whether you agree or not). As a friend, I always try to support my friends with their choices, whatever they may be. Everyone has different moral fibre and things that are deal breakers in a relationship. History does impact a relationship, as it does life in general, so to say that his past will have no effect on her is narrow minded.
It's a different friend that thinks they should break up, the one who thinks watching porn and masturbating is evil and something that should never be done.
The friend whose boyfriend it is is very on the fence and I seem to be the only one that doesn't see it as an issue. And she feels like she SHOULD break up with him because of what everyone else thinks about it. I just wanted to show her that I'm not the only one who thinks it's no big deal. "aww ok. I still think the same though. What everyone else thinks is irrelevant. It's what she thinks that really matters. Rather than trying to encourage her to see it from your perspective, why not help her come to her own conclusion without leading it? | |||
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"If you found out someone you were dating used an escort, would that make you want to break up with them? And I don't mean while you're together, this happened about 5 years ago. My friend thinks they should break up, I say who cares. Discuss?" I would end the relationship purely as the thought of A man I'm sleeping with sleeping a prostite makes me want to vomit! Men who sleep with prostitutes is fine as long as they are sleeping with me after or anytime In the future, but that's a personal opinion and preference nothing about it being degrading to women in my eyes lol. S x | |||
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"OK great read/debate and opinions. .. so I thought I'd put this in there ??? If I was your lover/ partner for 5 yrs and you just found out I was a 'gigolo' for 10 yrs Pryor to meeting you. .. what would you do????? #Shoeontheotherfoot.com" It's not something I could get over and still feel exactly the same but me and mr been together for almost 6years and it was a topic I dropped in general conversation sneakily without actually having to ask so I wouldn't have gone 5 years without knowing if I guy im with has been with a hooker  | |||
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"If you found out someone you were dating used an escort, would that make you want to break up with them? And I don't mean while you're together, this happened about 5 years ago. My friend thinks they should break up, I say who cares. Discuss?" I thing break up with someone for something they did when you was not with is dum. I think that girl looking for a reason to get out the relationship. | |||
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"If you found out someone you were dating used an escort, would that make you want to break up with them? And I don't mean while you're together, this happened about 5 years ago. My friend thinks they should break up, I say who cares. Discuss? I thing break up with someone for something they did when you was not with is dum. I think that girl looking for a reason to get out the relationship. " but where do you draw the line? As you could meet some who beat the crap out of their ex, and then say "well that was before me".. surely the female involved in this should make decisions on what she is happy with from a partner? Everyone will have varying degrees of what's acceptable or not. Using the "it's in the past" excuse, never floats with me, as the past creates the future. | |||
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"OK great read/debate and opinions. .. so I thought I'd put this in there ??? If I was your lover/ partner for 5 yrs and you just found out I was a 'gigolo' for 10 yrs Pryor to meeting you. .. what would you do????? #Shoeontheotherfoot.com It's not something I could get over and still feel exactly the same but me and mr been together for almost 6years and it was a topic I dropped in general conversation sneakily without actually having to ask so I wouldn't have gone 5 years without knowing if I guy im with has been with a hooker "They haven't been together for 5 years. This happened 5 years ago and they're together now. | |||
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"If you found out someone you were dating used an escort, would that make you want to break up with them? And I don't mean while you're together, this happened about 5 years ago. My friend thinks they should break up, I say who cares. Discuss? I would end the relationship purely as the thought of A man I'm sleeping with sleeping a prostite makes me want to vomit! Men who sleep with prostitutes is fine as long as they are sleeping with me after or anytime In the future, but that's a personal opinion and preference nothing about it being degrading to women in my eyes lol. S x" Question I'm gonna ask is intended with no judgement or anything, I'm literally just curious. How is sleeping with a prostitue any different to sleeping with women on here? They're still women who like sex (for the most part). Is it that they're doing it for money rather than for free or? X | |||
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"Why does your friend think they should break up Because prostitution is degrading to women, men who use them are arseholes blah blah blah. if she feels strongly about these views and feels like it's something she can't overcome, then I'd say that possibly yes she should. Whether you agree with her views or not really isn't the issue is it? Everyone is entitled to an opinion and feel like their views are valued (whether you agree or not). As a friend, I always try to support my friends with their choices, whatever they may be. Everyone has different moral fibre and things that are deal breakers in a relationship. History does impact a relationship, as it does life in general, so to say that his past will have no effect on her is narrow minded.
It's a different friend that thinks they should break up, the one who thinks watching porn and masturbating is evil and something that should never be done.
The friend whose boyfriend it is is very on the fence and I seem to be the only one that doesn't see it as an issue. And she feels like she SHOULD break up with him because of what everyone else thinks about it. I just wanted to show her that I'm not the only one who thinks it's no big deal. aww ok.
I still think the same though. What everyone else thinks is irrelevant. It's what she thinks that really matters. Rather than trying to encourage her to see it from your perspective, why not help her come to her own conclusion without leading it? "I'm not trying to lead it. I'm just trying to show her that not everyone sees it as a bad thing. If she can't deal with it then I've told her she should break up with him because it could be a bigger issue down the line. I don't think anyone should break up over the opinions of others, she just thinks "well everyone else thinks it's disgusting and wrong so maybe it is and maybe I shouldn't be with him" Whereas in just trying to say "some people think it's wrong yes, but look. There are others who don't. So there's two sides. What you choose to do is up to you but don't do it because other people think it's "wrong" or dirty" x | |||
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"If you found out someone you were dating used an escort, would that make you want to break up with them? And I don't mean while you're together, this happened about 5 years ago. My friend thinks they should break up, I say who cares. Discuss? I would end the relationship purely as the thought of A man I'm sleeping with sleeping a prostite makes me want to vomit! Men who sleep with prostitutes is fine as long as they are sleeping with me after or anytime In the future, but that's a personal opinion and preference nothing about it being degrading to women in my eyes lol. S x Question I'm gonna ask is intended with no judgement or anything, I'm literally just curious. How is sleeping with a prostitue any different to sleeping with women on here? They're still women who like sex (for the most part). Is it that they're doing it for money rather than for free or? X" On a very basic level, casual sex, you can be relatively assured that your partner wants to do this and finds you at least somewhat attractive, if only through beer goggles and only for the night. (Let's dispence with pitty fucks, dares and other assholish behavior for the sake of the argument, ok?) With a prostitute, you can never assume the same, even if they seem really enthusiastic.. As Satine in Moulin Rouge says, "I'm paid to make men believe what they want to believe." | |||
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"If you found out someone you were dating used an escort, would that make you want to break up with them? And I don't mean while you're together, this happened about 5 years ago. My friend thinks they should break up, I say who cares. Discuss? I would end the relationship purely as the thought of A man I'm sleeping with sleeping a prostite makes me want to vomit! Men who sleep with prostitutes is fine as long as they are sleeping with me after or anytime In the future, but that's a personal opinion and preference nothing about it being degrading to women in my eyes lol. S x Question I'm gonna ask is intended with no judgement or anything, I'm literally just curious. How is sleeping with a prostitue any different to sleeping with women on here? They're still women who like sex (for the most part). Is it that they're doing it for money rather than for free or? X" Oooooh there is no comparison to be drawn there, how can you say for the most part they're women who like sex? The tv & social media are flooded with examples of trafficking etc. There's a bit of sweeping judgement creeping into this now & its beginning to feel less like a friendship dilemma every comment you make X | |||
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"If you found out someone you were dating used an escort, would that make you want to break up with them? And I don't mean while you're together, this happened about 5 years ago. My friend thinks they should break up, I say who cares. Discuss? I would end the relationship purely as the thought of A man I'm sleeping with sleeping a prostite makes me want to vomit! Men who sleep with prostitutes is fine as long as they are sleeping with me after or anytime In the future, but that's a personal opinion and preference nothing about it being degrading to women in my eyes lol. S x Question I'm gonna ask is intended with no judgement or anything, I'm literally just curious. How is sleeping with a prostitue any different to sleeping with women on here? They're still women who like sex (for the most part). Is it that they're doing it for money rather than for free or? X Oooooh there is no comparison to be drawn there, how can you say for the most part they're women who like sex? The tv & social media are flooded with examples of trafficking etc. There's a bit of sweeping judgement creeping into this now & its beginning to feel less like a friendship dilemma every comment you make X" That's why I said for the most part. I also have friends who've done it and enjoyed it and watched many a documentary about women who do it to enjoy it. My comments are in response to others. They're not just pit of the blue statements. To me sleeping with an escort or whatever isn't that different to when a guy goes out, buys girls drinks all night with the aim to sleep with them. And more women I know have regreted d*unken one night stands than have regretted being paid for sex. | |||
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"Whatever tickles their fancy, I suppose.. I personally wouldn't split with someone if they had slept with an escort, providing it was safe... I have personally slept with one in the Dam (she was from a proper establishment), safe of course.. And have to say that very few women I have been with haven't even remotely come close to satisfying me like she did.. "Well they say practise makes perfect... Maybe she had a lot of practise? Or maybe it was the paying for it or something that did it for you? Or maybe you need to tell women what she did that pleased you so much  | |||
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"Whatever tickles their fancy, I suppose.. I personally wouldn't split with someone if they had slept with an escort, providing it was safe... I have personally slept with one in the Dam (she was from a proper establishment), safe of course.. And have to say that very few women I have been with haven't even remotely come close to satisfying me like she did..
Well they say practise makes perfect... Maybe she had a lot of practise? Or maybe it was the paying for it or something that did it for you?
Or maybe you need to tell women what she did that pleased you so much "No, she just wasn't a single mother who has about 20 kids.. I'm guessing though she probably had alot of practice.. And knew what she was doing.. She was super fit, too, like page 3 material.. Sounds a bit vain, but it worked for me just imagine how many green ticks she'd have.. No social meets, though..  | |||
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"Whatever tickles their fancy, I suppose.. I personally wouldn't split with someone if they had slept with an escort, providing it was safe... I have personally slept with one in the Dam (she was from a proper establishment), safe of course.. And have to say that very few women I have been with haven't even remotely come close to satisfying me like she did..
Well they say practise makes perfect... Maybe she had a lot of practise? Or maybe it was the paying for it or something that did it for you?
Or maybe you need to tell women what she did that pleased you so much
No, she just wasn't a single mother who has about 20 kids.. I'm guessing though she probably had alot of practice.. And knew what she was doing.. She was super fit, too, like page 3 material.. Sounds a bit vain, but it worked for me just imagine how many green ticks she'd have.. No social meets, though.. "Nothing vain about it If you are going to pay for it you would hardly pay for someone unattractive would you?? | |||
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"Well seens as we're all the same I may aswell start charging?? Do you know what the going rate is OP?? "A quick check on a working adult site would suggest £120 - £150 an hour 
But only £20 if you come from Abercarn | |||
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"Well seens as we're all the same I may aswell start charging?? Do you know what the going rate is OP??
A quick check on a working adult site would suggest £120 - £150 an hour
But only £20 if you come from Abercarn "What's the going rate for up my way?? | |||
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"Well seens as we're all the same I may aswell start charging?? Do you know what the going rate is OP??
A quick check on a working adult site would suggest £120 - £150 an hour
But only £20 if you come from Abercarn
What's the going rate for up my way?? "I heard it was a Wispa Gold and a can of Strongbow Dark Fruits | |||
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"Well seens as we're all the same I may aswell start charging?? Do you know what the going rate is OP??
A quick check on a working adult site would suggest £120 - £150 an hour
But only £20 if you come from Abercarn "Christ that's more than I thought! Hmmmmm | |||
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"Well seens as we're all the same I may aswell start charging?? Do you know what the going rate is OP??
A quick check on a working adult site would suggest £120 - £150 an hour
But only £20 if you come from Abercarn
What's the going rate for up my way??
I heard it was a Wispa Gold and a can of Strongbow Dark Fruits "I feel a change of career is on the horizon | |||
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"Well seens as we're all the same I may aswell start charging?? Do you know what the going rate is OP??
A quick check on a working adult site would suggest £120 - £150 an hour
But only £20 if you come from Abercarn
What's the going rate for up my way??
I heard it was a Wispa Gold and a can of Strongbow Dark Fruits
I feel a change of career is on the horizon "swallow their blobby spunk, and they'll give you more for your Ospreys shirt | |||
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"Well seens as we're all the same I may aswell start charging?? Do you know what the going rate is OP??
A quick check on a working adult site would suggest £120 - £150 an hour
But only £20 if you come from Abercarn
What's the going rate for up my way??
I heard it was a Wispa Gold and a can of Strongbow Dark Fruits
I feel a change of career is on the horizon swallow their blobby spunk, and they'll give you more for your Ospreys shirt "Mav mun ffs  | |||
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"If you found out someone you were dating used an escort, would that make you want to break up with them? And I don't mean while you're together, this happened about 5 years ago. My friend thinks they should break up, I say who cares. Discuss?" My ex used yo use an escort when he was with his simply because she wouldn't have sex. I don't see what difference it makes as it isn't happening while he is with her x | |||
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"Well seens as we're all the same I may aswell start charging?? Do you know what the going rate is OP??
A quick check on a working adult site would suggest £120 - £150 an hour
But only £20 if you come from Abercarn
What's the going rate for up my way??
I heard it was a Wispa Gold and a can of Strongbow Dark Fruits
I feel a change of career is on the horizon swallow their blobby spunk, and they'll give you more for your Ospreys shirt
Mav mun ffs "I think I'll have to go visit family more often if that's the case haha | |||
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