FabSwingers.com forum: Actually interested or not??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So we've been on and off the site for 3 years now and are finding that alot of couples and single females say they want to meet but are finding that they make every excuse up not to. Is this because there genuinely not interested in actually meeting? Thoughts please x

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Timing, coordination, notice, child care etc in our experience those who don't want to meet us tend to say they don't, we certainly say if we don't. What we do find is either people want to meet on that day with no notice & that's not going to suit us or were unable to match days. People have busy lives nowadays & trying to coordinate the timings of 4 adults to be I the room at the same time isn't always easy. That's why we tend to wait until we can visit club's or go to parties, we have more success that way.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Timing, coordination, notice, child care etc in our experience those who don't want to meet us tend to say they don't, we certainly say if we don't. What we do find is either people want to meet on that day with no notice & that's not going to suit us or were unable to match days. People have busy lives nowadays & trying to coordinate the timings of 4 adults to be I the room at the same time isn't always easy. That's why we tend to wait until we can visit club's or go to parties, we have more success that way. "
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We have kids so we always say from the off. What gets us are the ones that constantly message you arrange to meet on a specific night then they either suddenly stop messaging on the day or you get a message 10 minutes before your due to meet saying they won't be able to meet as they forgot they had something planned. Or the ones which say they want to meet but whenever the subject is brought up they go offline . We tend to go to chams now as fed up with wasted child free nights

By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

There are some who like the idea of swinging, but bottle it when it becomes a reality.

There are also a lot of genuine people out there, its just a matter of finding them.

Socials are one easy way to meet up, have a giggle and see how you get on, and maybe go from there.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are some who like the idea of swinging, but bottle it when it becomes a reality.

There are also a lot of genuine people out there, its just a matter of finding them.

Socials are one easy way to meet up, have a giggle and see how you get on, and maybe go from there.

Think that's the biggest problem with a few we have spoken to. We definitely need to try and get to some socials . Have only ever been to 1