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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I tell you what makes me instantly delete messages kids... opening a message with 'hey cheeky' 'hello naughty' or other such cringetastic greetings... cheeky?! Naughty? Minxy?!

Really grinds my gears. Am I being a prick?

Ranting again ain't I

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By *OWN AND COUNTY SOCIALSMan
over a year ago

CARMARTHEN


"I tell you what makes me instantly delete messages kids... opening a message with 'hey cheeky' 'hello naughty' or other such cringetastic greetings... cheeky?! Naughty? Minxy?!

Really grinds my gears. Am I being a prick?

Ranting again ain't I "

Having just checked your profile and pictures you are definitely not a prick

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By *eral SexMan
over a year ago

Port Talbot

Such openings are meant to be affectionate but are actually infantilising, one step up from 'hello love'. (in my bigoted opinion)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Such openings are meant to be affectionate but are actually infantilising, one step up from 'hello love'. (in my bigoted opinion) "

I'd far prefer 'Hello Love' lol. Maybe it is the infantilising that makes me cringe

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"Such openings are meant to be affectionate but are actually infantilising, one step up from 'hello love'. (in my bigoted opinion)

I'd far prefer 'Hello Love' lol. Maybe it is the infantilising that makes me cringe "

See now 'Hi Luv' gets me grinding my teeth esp off someone younger than myself. Don't know why it just does. But if rather that than 'Oi Slut' off someone I don't know

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

Aww so I suppose using.. let me dip my ginger nuts in your furry cup is a no no

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Aww so I suppose using.. let me dip my ginger nuts in your furry cup is a no no "

That's fine as long as you don't call me hun, cheeky, minx, naughty or luv

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By *eral SexMan
over a year ago

Port Talbot

I think as well they are somehow anonymous terms. The 'hun', or 'love' or 'cheeky girl' could be anyone, its an endearment that says I have no interest whatsoever in who you are, but please let me empty my nuts in you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol I find the "hey toots!" works a charm

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

Depends on my mood what will work or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tell you what makes me instantly delete messages kids... opening a message with 'hey cheeky' 'hello naughty' or other such cringetastic greetings... cheeky?! Naughty? Minxy?!

Really grinds my gears. Am I being a prick?

Ranting again ain't I "

People actually start a message with that? I must be so out of touch with the youngsters of today and I'm so thankful I am.

Call me old fassion but Women are meant to be treated like ladies until the time comes when they do not want to be and the bedroom door closes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not start with a simple Hi.... Followed by the name? I hate hun, babe, love.... The list goes on & on & on aaaargh

It's not difficult, is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This might be controversial , but it's pretty harsh to delete them on that grounds.

Especially if it's a first message, whilst I don't use that language myself , I usually just say hey. Just because they use certain wording as an opening shouldn't put you off them as a person , they might be a really nice guy who thinks it's an affectionate way to greet you and show they like you. I'd be more worried about the 'fancy a fuck' and 'meet now' messages , others i would give a chance for their personalities to come out ..........but what do I know , everyone's different and you probably have 100s of message to go through so can afford to be picky about who you reply to

Happy Fabbing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would "hey princess" be ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This might be controversial , but it's pretty harsh to delete them on that grounds.

Especially if it's a first message, whilst I don't use that language myself , I usually just say hey. Just because they use certain wording as an opening shouldn't put you off them as a person , they might be a really nice guy who thinks it's an affectionate way to greet you and show they like you. I'd be more worried about the 'fancy a fuck' and 'meet now' messages , others i would give a chance for their personalities to come out ..........but what do I know , everyone's different and you probably have 100s of message to go through so can afford to be picky about who you reply to

Happy Fabbing xx"

It would be a block from me, but then I'm told I'm harsh. How can it be a positive conversation if you're already pissed off ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I get your point but how are they to know that a fairly common greeting would piss you off ? It's not like they're going out of their way to anger you

Anyway I was just playing devils advocate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This might be controversial , but it's pretty harsh to delete them on that grounds.

Especially if it's a first message, whilst I don't use that language myself , I usually just say hey. Just because they use certain wording as an opening shouldn't put you off them as a person , they might be a really nice guy who thinks it's an affectionate way to greet you and show they like you. I'd be more worried about the 'fancy a fuck' and 'meet now' messages , others i would give a chance for their personalities to come out ..........but what do I know , everyone's different and you probably have 100s of message to go through so can afford to be picky about who you reply to

Happy Fabbing xx"

They also get deleted. Yes I get lots of messages, as do all the other single females on here. I rarely reply though, I need someones message to stand out and most of them don't. If I replied to every message, I'd need a secretary. It's nothing to do with being arrogant/up my self

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would "hey princess" be ok?"

Hey Princess is fine haha. Can't promise I'd reply tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I tell you what makes me instantly delete messages kids... opening a message with 'hey cheeky' 'hello naughty' or other such cringetastic greetings... cheeky?! Naughty? Minxy?!

Really grinds my gears. Am I being a prick?

Ranting again ain't I

People actually start a message with that? I must be so out of touch with the youngsters of today and I'm so thankful I am.

Call me old fassion but Women are meant to be treated like ladies until the time comes when they do not want to be and the bedroom door closes "

I am mainly a princess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got swept off my feet last year by "Alrite shithead"

It worked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got swept off my feet last year by "Alrite shithead"

It worked "

Noted !!! Maybe I'll try that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single female I rarely even opened any messages, if I liked the look of someone I'd wink them. It was a method that worked for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very rarely,,,if ever message.

My profile has in the past attracted interest and messages which I have naturally responded to.

Thankfully some females are attracted to witty,charming,considerate,,,,modest sarcastic,cynical bastards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tell you what makes me instantly delete messages kids... opening a message with 'hey cheeky' 'hello naughty' or other such cringetastic greetings... cheeky?! Naughty? Minxy?!

Really grinds my gears. Am I being a prick?

Ranting again ain't I "

Anyone who messages which poor directions, a dusty merkin and half decent banter should be deleted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I tell you what makes me instantly delete messages kids... opening a message with 'hey cheeky' 'hello naughty' or other such cringetastic greetings... cheeky?! Naughty? Minxy?!

Really grinds my gears. Am I being a prick?

Ranting again ain't I

Anyone who messages which poor directions, a dusty merkin and half decent banter should be deleted "

People with a penchant for festive merkins an appalling sense of direction will definitely be deleted. No matter how half decent the banter is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tell you what makes me instantly delete messages kids... opening a message with 'hey cheeky' 'hello naughty' or other such cringetastic greetings... cheeky?! Naughty? Minxy?!

Really grinds my gears. Am I being a prick?

Ranting again ain't I

Anyone who messages which poor directions, a dusty merkin and half decent banter should be deleted

People with a penchant for festive merkins an appalling sense of direction will definitely be deleted. No matter how half decent the banter is "

I would say send them on their way but they'd guarantee to go in the wrong direction best off sticking to deleting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I tell you what makes me instantly delete messages kids... opening a message with 'hey cheeky' 'hello naughty' or other such cringetastic greetings... cheeky?! Naughty? Minxy?!

Really grinds my gears. Am I being a prick?

Ranting again ain't I

Anyone who messages which poor directions, a dusty merkin and half decent banter should be deleted

People with a penchant for festive merkins an appalling sense of direction will definitely be deleted. No matter how half decent the banter is

I would say send them on their way but they'd guarantee to go in the wrong direction best off sticking to deleting "

You say all the right things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got swept off my feet last year by "Alrite shithead"

It worked "

Would work if they're hot as hell, I'd probably find it less appealing from a 60 year old in nylon y fronts

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