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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well although I've had an account for a year it's only been the last couple of months I've really been using it and his week alone I've had two dramas on here

One being an abusive woman and her boyfriend

The other being the boyfriend of a recent meet turning up on my doorstep (I didn't know she had a bf)

Anyway my question - Is this what I should expect on here ? And what do you do to minimise this stuff happening ?

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

I'm not sure there is a safeguard answer. You'll never really know if someone's telling the 100% truth until you find out otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all part of Fabs rich tapestry, some nutters around but largely the people are friendly & genuine X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Anyway my question - Is this what I should expect on here ? And what do you do to minimise this stuff happening ? "

Quite a few aggressive people but not sure why, just block em.

As for the ladys boyfriend; you're not the one in a relationship, she is, so his issue should be with her whether you knew she was attached or not. how was it resolved if you don't mind me asking?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I think he wanted to punch me till he seen the size of me , but I calmed him down, showed him the texts from her saying she was single and had broken up from her boyfriend , apologised (for what I'm not sure) and closed my door lol

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"Well I think he wanted to punch me till he seen the size of me , but I calmed him down, showed him the texts from her saying she was single and had broken up from her boyfriend , apologised (for what I'm not sure) and closed my door lol "

Good you had the proof. Shows it's not just the guys on here that can be deceitful.

Chalk it up to an experience and hope you don't fall foul of that type of thing again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I think he wanted to punch me till he seen the size of me , but I calmed him down, showed him the texts from her saying she was single and had broken up from her boyfriend , apologised (for what I'm not sure) and closed my door lol "

The bigger man that's why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I think he wanted to punch me till he seen the size of me , but I calmed him down, showed him the texts from her saying she was single and had broken up from her boyfriend , apologised (for what I'm not sure) and closed my door lol

The bigger man that's why "

I meant that on a positive way not literal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think either way would've been fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think either way would've been fine "

Omg I'm blushing at that & I don't even know if it's true

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha there's 3 ways I could've taken that and I chose the rudest one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust noone, believe nothing.

That is the only advice I'd give anyone on here after what happened to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust noone, believe nothing.

That is the only advice I'd give anyone on here after what happened to me "

I keep a distance from everyone nowadays... yes some people think I'm stuck up and aloof etc, and I also get people gossiping about me, twisting situations to favor themselves, and recently sending shitty messages about time to meets. But that's fab idiots for you.

keep your head down, enjoy your meets. Choose as wisely as you can. But sadly you will always get someone who shits on your doorstep.

That's my experience anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best advice from me is to meet with people who are a little further away from home.

I had a couple of incidents when I was first on fab a few years back and now tend to invest more time chatting to get to know people rather than meeting with people in the "meet now" situations to avoid any dramas

Just remember there are a lot of good people on fab, just take the time and patience to find them. Equally there are people out there who you could meet in every walk of life e.g. In a pub, work, etc who could bring similar drama to your life

Good luck for future meets, hope you don't experience anything similar in the future

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Best advice from me is to meet with people who are a little further away from home.

I had a couple of incidents when I was first on fab a few years back and now tend to invest more time chatting to get to know people rather than meeting with people in the "meet now" situations to avoid any dramas

Just remember there are a lot of good people on fab, just take the time and patience to find them. Equally there are people out there who you could meet in every walk of life e.g. In a pub, work, etc who could bring similar drama to your life

Good luck for future meets, hope you don't experience anything similar in the future "

Solid advice , most of which I already do

Funny thing is this girl lived 35miles away so her fella must've driven for 45 minutes just to confront me - poor sod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's really awful!

It does scare me a little with things like that.

*cupcakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust noone, believe nothing.

That is the only advice I'd give anyone on here after what happened to me "

@missp69 what happened if you don't mind me asking?! We're debating what to do.

We don't ever accommodate at "home" so we're hoping to lower the risks that OP has had but nothing is risk free x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can't speak for miss P but from now on I'll be looking for women with at least a few recent veris instead of newbies

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By * and CCouple
over a year ago

near Cardiff

We've always been lucky so far but we tend to dip our toes in every so often so maybe we've only skimmed the surface. Not sure where people think aggression will get them though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust noone, believe nothing.

That is the only advice I'd give anyone on here after what happened to me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must have been very lucky as all the guys I've met have been fine.

Even the ones I've met and decide aren't for me. We still have a cuppa and a chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust noone, believe nothing.

That is the only advice I'd give anyone on here after what happened to me "

Exactly my own sentiments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust noone, believe nothing.

That is the only advice I'd give anyone on here after what happened to me

I keep a distance from everyone nowadays... yes some people think I'm stuck up and aloof etc, and I also get people gossiping about me, twisting situations to favor themselves, and recently sending shitty messages about time to meets. But that's fab idiots for you.

keep your head down, enjoy your meets. Choose as wisely as you can. But sadly you will always get someone who shits on your doorstep.

That's my experience anyway! "

Exactly But I get castigated for voicing similar opinions.

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