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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are people insane? I don't understand why members on here are happy to do this. Can someone please enlighten me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From your own Profile:

"There's not much that I'm not willing to try and will never judge anyone on their fetishes as we all have our kinks, right?"

Practice what you preach, and don't question.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From your own Profile:

"There's not much that I'm not willing to try and will never judge anyone on their fetishes as we all have our kinks, right?"

Practice what you preach, and don't question.....

Hahaha nailed that haha.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"From your own Profile:

"There's not much that I'm not willing to try and will never judge anyone on their fetishes as we all have our kinks, right?"

Practice what you preach, and don't question.....

I'm not judging a fetish, it's more of a health concern.

And if people didn't question where would society be these days? I didn't realise being inquisitive was a no go.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hahaha nailed that haha. "

Good contribution. Can't beat a bit of schoolyard behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha nailed that haha.

Good contribution. Can't beat a bit of schoolyard behaviour."

Haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst it's not something I'd do personally, everyone is old enough to make their own decisions.

I've seen this type of fhread pop up around 3 or 4 times now, if it's not your thing or you're worried about health implications don't go to the meet

Posts like this will only damage your own reputation and probably come across as you judging / shaming people's choices , even if that's not what you intended

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Whilst it's not something I'd do personally, everyone is old enough to make their own decisions.

I've seen this type of fhread pop up around 3 or 4 times now, if it's not your thing or you're worried about health implications don't go to the meet

Posts like this will only damage your own reputation and probably come across as you judging / shaming people's choices , even if that's not what you intended "

Im just interested in the thought process behind it. Like the idea is a turn on but I couldn't abandon the implication of risk involved.

Also, when did "shaming" become such a prevalent verb? It's getting increasingly difficult to not upset people

Thanks for a coherent and well thought out response anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there's room for all tastes on this site but threads like this don't help, I personally wouldn't engage in bb fun with anyone but Ch3wy but I respect others right to do it & if they continue to be judged here they'll just hide that preference on their profile & the rest of us will be unable to make informed choices about who we have fun with. If this type of fun isn't for you why not just move on & leave them be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree Mr St0ne....Ignorance is not so blissful.

Many 'strangers' here are 'related' through sexual association as it is.

A chain is only as strong as the weakest link.

Let those who practise risky activity with multi partners get on with it.

I don't want to onboard that boat when it springs a leak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely allowing people the freedom to state their preference in a way that doesn't provoke judgement is safer for all of us, I've no doubt those why choose to play bb are all too aware of the risks, but if we can identify them we can choose not to join them. We track those who bb using the private notes function, it's not difficult to make discrete adult choices X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are people insane? I don't understand why members on here are happy to do this. Can someone please enlighten me?"

Agree with you mate, each to their own but not for me. Not everyone gets tested regularly or is honest about their health. I'm not judging anyone who takes part but would only be involved in safe play as I value my health.

Porn stars require up to date tests before they can film but tests are only valid for a short period of time and don't always detect everything as some diseases are in their incubation period.

I have to say it's not quite the same feeling with condoms but I only go without for long term partners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least by being open about their activities and displaying their verifications I know which cocks are going nowhere near me

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By *uddsWoman
over a year ago

st athans

"At least by being open about their activities and displaying their verifications I know which cocks are going nowhere near me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At least by being open about their activities and displaying their verifications I know which cocks are going nowhere near me

This is exactly the point,,,you really don't know for sure.

I would not be so naive or trusting on this site.

Or are you saying that everyone here is honest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At least by being open about their activities and displaying their verifications I know which cocks are going nowhere near me

This is exactly the point,,,you really don't know for sure.

I would not be so naive or trusting on this site.

Or are you saying that everyone here is honest?"

I think you have missed my point

I mean the ones who openly bareback multiple people and display their verifications I know who definitely to avoid

Of course there are people who play that way and aren't open about it.

But those who are do us a favour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op, do you give oral to a female and also do you wear a condom when you have your cock sucked?

By the way you don't have to answer but a risk is a risk, some people play with higher stakes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At least by being open about their activities and displaying their verifications I know which cocks are going nowhere near me

This is exactly the point,,,you really don't know for sure.

I would not be so naive or trusting on this site.

Or are you saying that everyone here is honest?

I think you have missed my point

I mean the ones who openly bareback multiple people and display their verifications I know who definitely to avoid

Of course there are people who play that way and aren't open about it.

But those who are do us a favour

Exactly my point but some people are too dense to see it, vilifying people here is such a clumsy & crude way of trying to stay safe X

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"At least by being open about their activities and displaying their verifications I know which cocks are going nowhere near me

This is exactly the point,,,you really don't know for sure.

I would not be so naive or trusting on this site.

Or are you saying that everyone here is honest?

I think you have missed my point

I mean the ones who openly bareback multiple people and display their verifications I know who definitely to avoid

Of course there are people who play that way and aren't open about it.

But those who are do us a favour

Exactly my point but some people are too dense to see it, vilifying people here is such a clumsy & crude way of trying to stay safe X"

Exactly this. There is one profile in particular who I think the op maybe referring to which has had countless verifications on numerous profiles. It's her life to do as she wishes but on checking her verifications some guys she's returned verifications to they have not shown them. This then leads for their next partners not being able to make an informed decisions whether to play or not.

The only ones that really bother me but again it's their decision however reckless is the married/taken guys and gals playing bare without partners consent taking God knows what back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Open response to the aforementioned responses:

You've all seemingly encapsulated my main concern: the insincerity and integrity to be open about the involvement.

One gentleman in particular states he's on here without his partners knowledge and so not only risks his health and hers.

I just don't understand the complete lack of care.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Some people will pit their satisfaction above anything. Yes it's selfish but it's their lives not yours. As long as you look after yourself that's all that matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, always look after no 1 first. What does this thread really achieve in the fight for safe sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At least by being open about their activities and displaying their verifications I know which cocks are going nowhere near me

This is exactly the point,,,you really don't know for sure.

I would not be so naive or trusting on this site.

Or are you saying that everyone here is honest?

I think you have missed my point

I mean the ones who openly bareback multiple people and display their verifications I know who definitely to avoid

Of course there are people who play that way and aren't open about it.

But those who are do us a favour

I didn't misunderstand you.

It's accepted that the honest bare back groups are to be avoided.

It's those that practise bare back,,,multi partner,,, and are not honest about it that are the ones to beware of.

It would be both naive and foolish to take a strangers word.

For this reason I simply don't attend the club's.

As said previously a chain is only as strong as it's weakest link.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"At least by being open about their activities and displaying their verifications I know which cocks are going nowhere near me

This is exactly the point,,,you really don't know for sure.

I would not be so naive or trusting on this site.

Or are you saying that everyone here is honest?

I think you have missed my point

I mean the ones who openly bareback multiple people and display their verifications I know who definitely to avoid

Of course there are people who play that way and aren't open about it.

But those who are do us a favour

I didn't misunderstand you.

It's accepted that the honest bare back groups are to be avoided.

It's those that practise bare back,,,multi partner,,, and are not honest about it that are the ones to beware of.

It would be both naive and foolish to take a strangers word.

For this reason I simply don't attend the club's.

As said previously a chain is only as strong as it's weakest link."

What's clubs got to do with it. Bareback can happen anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At least by being open about their activities and displaying their verifications I know which cocks are going nowhere near me

This is exactly the point,,,you really don't know for sure.

I would not be so naive or trusting on this site.

Or are you saying that everyone here is honest?

I think you have missed my point

I mean the ones who openly bareback multiple people and display their verifications I know who definitely to avoid

Of course there are people who play that way and aren't open about it.

But those who are do us a favour

I didn't misunderstand you.

It's accepted that the honest bare back groups are to be avoided.

It's those that practise bare back,,,multi partner,,, and are not honest about it that are the ones to beware of.

It would be both naive and foolish to take a strangers word.

For this reason I simply don't attend the club's.

As said previously a chain is only as strong as it's weakest link.

What's clubs got to do with it. Bareback can happen anywhere. "

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By *astmeetswest77Couple
over a year ago

monmouth

"It's those that practise bare back,,,multi partner,,, and are not honest about it that are the ones to beware of.

It would be both naive and foolish to take a strangers word."

How do you know if someone is honest.

Every person is a potential liar.

We always play safe but there are risks with oral. At least the people who are up front about liking bb leave you with no doubt and thank you for your honesty we say.

So the only option is to stay celibate. Not much point in being on a swinging site then.

Unless you just like talking about it. Fucking time wasters!

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By *louds in my coffeeTV/TS
over a year ago

Aberdare

Was in chams this fri and one fems hubby grabbed me by arm and took me to a room where is wife was there and she just wanted to be fucked bareback and filled.

I refused and they seem to forget I've refused to play with her 3 times before.

Quite a few went in there but that's up to them i know it put a few cples of playing with the single guys there at the end of the day ghonna can be passed oraly so using a condom for penerative sex would be pointless. I got to play with 2 cples on fri mainly cos they knew i didn't venture in.

Now surely the club has to bare some responsibility in promoting safe sex.

Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oi oi oi

sorry couldn't resist that

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"At least by being open about their activities and displaying their verifications I know which cocks are going nowhere near me

Yup, we use them as a handy reference guide to which profiles to annotate with "bareback".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At least by being open about their activities and displaying their verifications I know which cocks are going nowhere near me

This is exactly the point,,,you really don't know for sure.

I would not be so naive or trusting on this site.

Or are you saying that everyone here is honest?

I think you have missed my point

I mean the ones who openly bareback multiple people and display their verifications I know who definitely to avoid

Of course there are people who play that way and aren't open about it.

But those who are do us a favour

I didn't misunderstand you.

It's accepted that the honest bare back groups are to be avoided.

It's those that practise bare back,,,multi partner,,, and are not honest about it that are the ones to beware of.

It would be both naive and foolish to take a strangers word.

For this reason I simply don't attend the club's.

As said previously a chain is only as strong as it's weakest link.

What's clubs got to do with it. Bareback can happen anywhere. "

I know but these guys also go to the club's....so...you just don't know for sure do you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""It's those that practise bare back,,,multi partner,,, and are not honest about it that are the ones to beware of.

It would be both naive and foolish to take a strangers word."

How do you know if someone is honest.

Every person is a potential liar.

We always play safe but there are risks with oral. At least the people who are up front about liking bb leave you with no doubt and thank you for your honesty we say.

So the only option is to stay celibate. Not much point in being on a swinging site then.

Unless you just like talking about it. Fucking time wasters!

Celibacy is not an option

I'm just very careful who I go with.

I use this site to find like minded females of which there are many who,like myself can think above the waistline.It works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At least by being open about their activities and displaying their verifications I know which cocks are going nowhere near me

This is exactly the point,,,you really don't know for sure.

I would not be so naive or trusting on this site.

Or are you saying that everyone here is honest?

I think you have missed my point

I mean the ones who openly bareback multiple people and display their verifications I know who definitely to avoid

Of course there are people who play that way and aren't open about it.

But those who are do us a favour

I didn't misunderstand you.

It's accepted that the honest bare back groups are to be avoided.

It's those that practise bare back,,,multi partner,,, and are not honest about it that are the ones to beware of.

It would be both naive and foolish to take a strangers word.

For this reason I simply don't attend the club's.

As said previously a chain is only as strong as it's weakest link.

What's clubs got to do with it. Bareback can happen anywhere.

I know but these guys also go to the club's....so...you just don't know for sure do you ?"

Which guys??

I'm lost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just very careful who I go with.

That seems quite naive to me

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"At least by being open about their activities and displaying their verifications I know which cocks are going nowhere near me

This is exactly the point,,,you really don't know for sure.

I would not be so naive or trusting on this site.

Or are you saying that everyone here is honest?

I think you have missed my point

I mean the ones who openly bareback multiple people and display their verifications I know who definitely to avoid

Of course there are people who play that way and aren't open about it.

But those who are do us a favour

I didn't misunderstand you.

It's accepted that the honest bare back groups are to be avoided.

It's those that practise bare back,,,multi partner,,, and are not honest about it that are the ones to beware of.

It would be both naive and foolish to take a strangers word.

For this reason I simply don't attend the club's.

As said previously a chain is only as strong as it's weakest link.

What's clubs got to do with it. Bareback can happen anywhere.

I know but these guys also go to the club's....so...you just don't know for sure do you ?

Which guys??

I'm lost"

The guys that go to clubs and also bareback. Cause they don't frequent parties and one on one meets too. Christ they probably don't go to socials too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's so difficult about developing your own risk assessment processes? None of this is totally safe but we can each make choices & play according to the level of risk we perceive. The more information there is out there to inform that decision making, the better. I'd put more effort into your own business & leave others to deal with their own, in what world would club's take a stance on bareback or not, it's not an illegal practice it's personal choice & has to be respected as such. I've been to club's, parties, etc & I've seen all the bareback stuff that goes on, I see that as added information to aid my own/our decision making X

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"What's so difficult about developing your own risk assessment processes? None of this is totally safe but we can each make choices & play according to the level of risk we perceive. The more information there is out there to inform that decision making, the better. I'd put more effort into your own business & leave others to deal with their own, in what world would club's take a stance on bareback or not, it's not an illegal practice it's personal choice & has to be respected as such. I've been to club's, parties, etc & I've seen all the bareback stuff that goes on, I see that as added information to aid my own/our decision making X"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At least by being open about their activities and displaying their verifications I know which cocks are going nowhere near me

This is exactly the point,,,you really don't know for sure.

I would not be so naive or trusting on this site.

Or are you saying that everyone here is honest?

I think you have missed my point

I mean the ones who openly bareback multiple people and display their verifications I know who definitely to avoid

Of course there are people who play that way and aren't open about it.

But those who are do us a favour

I didn't misunderstand you.

It's accepted that the honest bare back groups are to be avoided.

It's those that practise bare back,,,multi partner,,, and are not honest about it that are the ones to beware of.

It would be both naive and foolish to take a strangers word.

For this reason I simply don't attend the club's.

As said previously a chain is only as strong as it's weakest link.

What's clubs got to do with it. Bareback can happen anywhere.

I know but these guys also go to the club's....so...you just don't know for sure do you ?

Which guys??

I'm lost"

Okay,,okay,,,those 'types' of guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just very careful who I go with.

That seems quite naive to me

To go with eyes closed is being naive,,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't it weird how some people know what clubs are like and the people that use them but have never been themselves.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"Isn't it weird how some people know what clubs are like and the people that use them but have never been themselves."

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By *ay rickMan
over a year ago

cardiff

In a club or up an alley or wherever---whichever way ya call it I think you gotta be a total nutcase to risk yourself---but hey if your willing to and are honest enough to tell any poor future lovers---heyyyyyy guess what I did b do lol then upto those peeps I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't it weird how some people know what clubs are like and the people that use them but have never been themselves."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well this is all getting entertaining x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a block button & private notes for a reason, maybe the adults here could use them X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well this is all getting entertaining x"

Well done Mr St0ne,,,,Seems I'm not the only one swimming against the tide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well this is all getting entertaining x

Well done Mr St0ne,,,,Seems I'm not the only one swimming against the tide.

Swimming against the tide of sperm as there are all doing bareback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well this is all getting entertaining x

Well done Mr St0ne,,,,Seems I'm not the only one swimming against the tide.

Swimming against the tide of sperm as there are all doing bareback

I'm NOT

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

"Isn't it weird how some people know what clubs are like and the people that use them but have never been themselves.

And the ones who've been once and are suddenly experts on the club and the sexual health of everyone who goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well this is all getting entertaining x"

It is going the way most threads in the Wales forum go these days

One particular person thinks they are a cut above the rest and proceeds to tell everyone else how disgusting they are and how he is a far superior species to the rest of us

Everyone else gets outraged and retaliate

1 or 2 people say how awful it is that everyone is ganging up on said person

Sone say it serves their right

Most agree

Insults get thrown about some more

And repeat

You get my drift

It's yawn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some**

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

I am sure we are already on number if block lists, as our profile only states we are a bareback only couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am sure we are already on number if block lists, as our profile only states we are a bareback only couple. "

You're consenting adults and what you do is your own choice.

At least you're open about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am sure we are already on number if block lists, as our profile only states we are a bareback only couple.

You're consenting adults and what you do is your own choice.

At least you're open about it

& we thank you for being open & honest about it, especially on an adult swinging site where you would think people would be more liberal & inclusive in their thinking. Safety begins with yourselves & is an individual responsibility X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback pure filth that's my opionion don't care what any body says or thinks

And yes I use condoms for oral

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By *uck4youMan
over a year ago

Amsterdam/London

@Alwaysup4it69 The hope of finding a girlfriend like you is the only reason I'm on this site! Thank you for being so open and honest, and pay no mind to the haters

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By *eral SexMan
over a year ago

Port Talbot

Well in the interests of stirring things up even more, I'd like to say hats off to the Catholic Church for its enthusiastic support of bareback sex. Look how well its worked in Africa and Asia. Us protestants with our sinful condoms are both barking up the wrong tree and don't know what we're missing. Let the jiz hit the fiz! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always amuses me when the more ,,,let's say 'adventurous',,, defend their life style with such angry passion and castigate those whose who take more care.

I simply look for females who share my own ideals.Thankfully there are many here.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"Always amuses me when the more ,,,let's say 'adventurous',,, defend their life style with such angry passion and castigate those whose who take more care.

I simply look for females who share my own ideals.Thankfully there are many here."

Once again assuming. For someone who's actually not a swinger yet using a swingers site you know so much about our lifestyle and the choices everyone makes.

Is it drafty up on that pedestal you put yourself on?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always amuses me when the more ,,,let's say 'adventurous',,, defend their life style with such angry passion and castigate those whose who take more care.

I simply look for females who share my own ideals.Thankfully there are many here.

Once again assuming. For someone who's actually not a swinger yet using a swingers site you know so much about our lifestyle and the choices everyone makes.

Is it drafty up on that pedestal you put yourself on?!"

Thanks for confirming my opinion of those who vent their spleen towards those who adopt more restraint.

Gosh you seem to think know alot about me.(Have we met by any chance?,,maybe you have another fab identity?)

I do swing but on my,,,and any partners,,, terms...I don't happen to brag about it....oops nearly fell off my soap box.

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By *astmeetswest77Couple
over a year ago

monmouth

"Always amuses me when the more ,,,let's say 'adventurous',,, defend their life style with such angry passion and castigate those whose who take more care.

I simply look for females who share my own ideals.Thankfully there are many here.

Once again assuming. For someone who's actually not a swinger yet using a swingers site you know so much about our lifestyle and the choices everyone makes.

Is it drafty up on that pedestal you put yourself on?!

Thanks for confirming my opinion of those who vent their spleen towards those who adopt more restraint.

Gosh you seem to think know alot about me.(Have we met by any chance?,,maybe you have another fab identity?)

I do swing but on my,,,and any partners,,, terms...I don't happen to brag about it....oops nearly fell off my soap box."

Don't think there's much chance of you falling off your soap box.

Must be amazing to be perfect.

Your not god by any chance are you?

Shit he's got me involved again. Better stop before ban number two is enforced

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"Always amuses me when the more ,,,let's say 'adventurous',,, defend their life style with such angry passion and castigate those whose who take more care.

I simply look for females who share my own ideals.Thankfully there are many here.

Once again assuming. For someone who's actually not a swinger yet using a swingers site you know so much about our lifestyle and the choices everyone makes.

Is it drafty up on that pedestal you put yourself on?!

Thanks for confirming my opinion of those who vent their spleen towards those who adopt more restraint.

Gosh you seem to think know alot about me.(Have we met by any chance?,,maybe you have another fab identity?)

I do swing but on my,,,and any partners,,, terms...I don't happen to brag about it....oops nearly fell off my soap box.

Don't think there's much chance of you falling off your soap box.

Must be amazing to be perfect.

Your not god by any chance are you?

Shit he's got me involved again. Better stop before ban number two is enforced "

It's easily done. The rest of us can only aspire to be so perfect.

And in answer to your question no I don't have another profile.

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By *ueynteMan
over a year ago

Cowbridge

"Well this is all getting entertaining x

It is going the way most threads in the Wales forum go these days

One particular person thinks they are a cut above the rest and proceeds to tell everyone else how disgusting they are and how he is a far superior species to the rest of us

Everyone else gets outraged and retaliate

1 or 2 people say how awful it is that everyone is ganging up on said person

Sone say it serves their right

Most agree

Insults get thrown about some more

And repeat

You get my drift

It's yawn

I think it is initially amusing to read the posts of the outlandishly superior, who dictate their own opinion to others yet have no understanding of their intellectual inadequacy.

The expression "All mouth and no trousers" comes to mind...one quite appropriate for a swingers site!

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By *icoleAndLisaTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

Let's face it, condoms are shit. I know a few people manage to fetishise them and get a kick out of them that way, but ultimately they detract from sex rather than add to it.

They kill spontaneity. Want to go from frottage to penetration? Sorry, got to make a quick pit stop while I change a tyre. Then half the time, they decide to snag and stop unrolling half way down, and you have to either risk tearing them or start all over again. They're erection killers as well as mood killers for a lot of guys. And ultimately, they mean the guy is fucking a piece of rubber and the piece of rubber is fucking you.

Sex is definitely so much hotter and more natural without them.

The flip side of that is that, for me, no amount of sexual pleasure can warrant taking a high risk of contracting something that I have to live with, day in, day out, for the rest of my life. Still having to pop those pills, even on days when I'm ill and not the least bit horny. Being treated as a sexual leper, even if the medication had it under control and I'm non-infectious.

I suspect the real thing with barebackers is that they don't think that far ahead. They get lost in the horny moment and worry about the risks they took later. Plenty that don't care about HIV when they're fucking, suddenly care a whole lot when that positive diagnosis comes in.

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By *eral SexMan
over a year ago

Port Talbot

"Let's face it, condoms are shit. I know a few people manage to fetishise them and get a kick out of them that way, but ultimately they detract from sex rather than add to it.

Sex is definitely so much hotter and more natural without them.

These are very incisive points.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let's face it, condoms are shit. I know a few people manage to fetishise them and get a kick out of them that way, but ultimately they detract from sex rather than add to it.

Sex is definitely so much hotter and more natural without them.

What a well written piece.

On another note c sider you crack me up, the best poster by far on here at the moment, you dangle your hook in the welsh forum and get so many bites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His very judgementally barbed hook, he has no ability to write a post without insulting someone or a group, that isn't clever or intelligent, it is childish & aimed only at stirring up the forum & yes people bite & it's fun for those like you; but whilst he's doing it he's very much drawing in a whole group of others with his sweeping statements. Not sure why I give a fuck really narrow minds have never interested me, but vilifying seems to generate a very base response

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By *eral SexMan
over a year ago

Port Talbot

"His very judgementally barbed hook, he has no ability to write a post without insulting someone or a group, that isn't clever or intelligent, it is childish & aimed only at stirring up the forum & yes people bite & it's fun for those like you; but whilst he's doing it he's very much drawing in a whole group of others with his sweeping statements. Not sure why I give a fuck really narrow minds have never interested me, but vilifying seems to generate a very base response

We give a fuck because judgementalism is strangely fascinating. Without wanting to engage or wanting to join in, it's just hard to resist the allure. Its like walking past a chess game and seeing the perfect move that would check mate one of the players. Its not your game, you don't know the people playing, but somehow you have to tell the person who could win in one move. We have to put our tuppence worth in, even though it won't be welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yawn

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By *ay rickMan
over a year ago

cardiff

Is it just me or does it always seem to be the same ones getting offended by the same peoples posts??--

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let's face it, condoms are shit. I know a few people manage to fetishise them and get a kick out of them that way, but ultimately they detract from sex rather than add to it.

Sex is definitely so much hotter and more natural without them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just me or does it always seem to be the same ones getting offended by the same peoples posts??--

Nope it's not just you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let's face it, condoms are shit. I know a few people manage to fetishise them and get a kick out of them that way, but ultimately they detract from sex rather than add to it.

Sex is definitely so much hotter and more natural without them.

What a well written piece.

On another note c sider you crack me up, the best poster by far on here at the moment, you dangle your hook in the welsh forum and get so many bites.

I find him hilarious but on the basis that I think he genuinely believes he is cut from a different cloth and doesn't just say it to provoke people. It is quite easy to tell the difference

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By *ilthy fun bareCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

"I am sure we are already on number if block lists, as our profile only states we are a bareback only couple. "

Well said. Same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am sure we are already on number if block lists, as our profile only states we are a bareback only couple.

Well said. Same here."

Well done,good for you

I am being rounded upon because I merely pointed out the bleedin' obvious.That being,,there has to be people who frequently practise bareback who attend the clubs and don't disclose this practice to partners or potential partners on a one night stand situation.This is my point.

As a retired medical professional I am well aware of scary stuff...Ignorance however they say is bliss.Here's comparison....

My favourite line regarding ignorance from the film Jaws was when the police chief said to the Mayor who wanted to keep the beach open was.

"You won't believe there is a big shark out there till it swims up and bites you on the arse"

If my humour,views or opinions fall stony ground sod em because I don't take fab or life indeed too serious.

Talking of fish.I never thought it would be such fun swimming with piranhas.

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