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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all,

Im after some advice as a single swinger, sometimes it's very hard to know what the best approach is.

Do I just cut straight to the chase, "Do you fancy meeting up?" that way you avoid all the chit chat, only to be told no.

Do you try and get yourself seen/noticed, by doing something extreme?

Do you just be patient, try and strike a conversation up with someone in the room, or whisper them?

Or do you just send a message, which will go to the bottom of a long list of messages, probably to be deleted.

It's such a shame that idiots, ruin it for the genuine people in here.

I'm sincere, adventurous, hygenic, genuine, and yet it's bloody hard work striking up a conversation and getting anywhere.

So please I'm willing to listen and take advice from anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my grans looking for a meet (she's lonely after pops died) - your age range suggest you will meet her - she's 86 you know

but u need to accommodate.. perhaps you should say you can, but take her to a nice hotel for a night of wild sex.

she would like to see a pic of you thou.. do u send those privately cos she's unlikely to message you first, as she cant get an idea of what your body looks like to she if she's interested first.

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By *onnlynCouple
over a year ago

Neath

If you message them make sure that you read thier profile first and make the message special to them not just a bog standard group message sent to loads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha quality!! If he knocks her back I'll take her, she sounds a minter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha, i love the reply about the granny. Even if it is a little sharp. I am generally just patient and if im honest picky in who i message. Always be yourself and being nice and polite never hurts. Whenver i am in the chat room i would also chat with guys as well as girls and couples cause if you dont it will put people off. Hope this helps. Oh yeah and a sense of humour always goes down well.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Well, while its true there are a few dickheads on here, it has to be said most single guys are ok.

If you really want to get ahead int theis game, there are a couple of things that will help enormously.

1/ Get into the chatrooms and make friends, without doing the usual single guy thing of pestering people for a meet.

2/ Get verified as "met in person", a bit of a difficult one for most guys, who tend to ignore the obvious.... the socials!!

These are a great opportunity to put faces to names, have a bit of a laugh and make friends, and, more importantly, for others to get to know you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha, i love the reply about the granny. Even if it is a little sharp. I am generally just patient and if im honest picky in who i message. Always be yourself and being nice and polite never hurts. Whenver i am in the chat room i would also chat with guys as well as girls and couples cause if you dont it will put people off. Hope this helps. Oh yeah and a sense of humour always goes down well."

sharp? Really?

In that case I apologise to the thread starter, was only meant to have been light hearted.

Many people actually look at profiles, and if you see they are incomplete - they treat as such - thats was the point my failer of comic value was trying to suggest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didnt mean to be critical. I guess it is just hard for peoples humour to come across in the way they want as it can be misinterpreted in text. But i still love how you kept it going till the ver end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

geez im so bored of these threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did post an informative post but decided to condense it

learn to use the fucking search box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try this..

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/support/63845

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