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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im sure this has been asked many times before..

why does so many messages go unread?

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By *aut-eWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"im sure this has been asked many times before..

why does so many messages go unread?"

My guess is because there is nothing much on your profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you _aut-e..i understand my profile is a little sparse. but messages get unread without my profile even getting looked at. lol

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By *aut-eWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"thank you _aut-e..i understand my profile is a little sparse. but messages get unread without my profile even getting looked at. lol "

People will look at your profile but may have the Looked @ Me turned off, if your profile doesn't interest them then it may lead to an auto delete without taking the time to read and reply, the more you put in the more likely you will see a return on it. Hope that helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah makes sense thanks..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads go unread due to the amount of msgs people receive.... be patient and hope they get read at some point and if not then just move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks cariad.. that is true

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"thank you _aut-e..i understand my profile is a little sparse. but messages get unread without my profile even getting looked at. lol

People will look at your profile but may have the Looked @ Me turned off, if your profile doesn't interest them then it may lead to an auto delete without taking the time to read and reply, the more you put in the more likely you will see a return on it. Hope that helps "

You ask for advice, but don't act on it?

A 9 word profile, and two cock pics isn't going to get you anywhere, your profile needs to be much more about who you are, what you want, and what you have to offer, and ditch the cock pics, everyone on here knows what one looks like.

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By *rShinyKnickersMan
over a year ago

BARRY

Ahh, TONS of mine go unread!! And loads get read and then left, or even just deleted. And my profile is pretty comprehensive, I think.

But that's cool, I get that I'm not to everyone's taste, I just move on!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"thank you _aut-e..i understand my profile is a little sparse. but messages get unread without my profile even getting looked at. lol

People will look at your profile but may have the Looked @ Me turned off, if your profile doesn't interest them then it may lead to an auto delete without taking the time to read and reply, the more you put in the more likely you will see a return on it. Hope that helps

You ask for advice, but don't act on it?

A 9 word profile, and two cock pics isn't going to get you anywhere, your profile needs to be much more about who you are, what you want, and what you have to offer, and ditch the cock pics, everyone on here knows what one looks like. "

Had a profile previous which was more than comprehensive full of info and it's exactly the same..

I didn't ask for advise I asked a question..

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By *aut-eWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

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By *aut-eWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"thank you _aut-e..i understand my profile is a little sparse. but messages get unread without my profile even getting looked at. lol

People will look at your profile but may have the Looked @ Me turned off, if your profile doesn't interest them then it may lead to an auto delete without taking the time to read and reply, the more you put in the more likely you will see a return on it. Hope that helps

You ask for advice, but don't act on it?

A 9 word profile, and two cock pics isn't going to get you anywhere, your profile needs to be much more about who you are, what you want, and what you have to offer, and ditch the cock pics, everyone on here knows what one looks like.

Had a profile previous which was more than comprehensive full of info and it's exactly the same..

I didn't ask for advise I asked a question.. "

I gave 2 thorough answers to your questions, there was no intent to offend but clearly I have. I'll just mind my own business OP and you keep doing what you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It might have something to do with your approach! I always ignore messages that start with things like:

Hi

Meet now?

Fancy a fuck?

Some people like to have a well mannered message

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"thank you _aut-e..i understand my profile is a little sparse. but messages get unread without my profile even getting looked at. lol

People will look at your profile but may have the Looked @ Me turned off, if your profile doesn't interest them then it may lead to an auto delete without taking the time to read and reply, the more you put in the more likely you will see a return on it. Hope that helps

You ask for advice, but don't act on it?

A 9 word profile, and two cock pics isn't going to get you anywhere, your profile needs to be much more about who you are, what you want, and what you have to offer, and ditch the cock pics, everyone on here knows what one looks like.

Had a profile previous which was more than comprehensive full of info and it's exactly the same..

I didn't ask for advise I asked a question.. "

Well, a simple law of maths then is the answer here, the one common denominator between the two profiles is you.... so you are the problem.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"thank you _aut-e..i understand my profile is a little sparse. but messages get unread without my profile even getting looked at. lol

People will look at your profile but may have the Looked @ Me turned off, if your profile doesn't interest them then it may lead to an auto delete without taking the time to read and reply, the more you put in the more likely you will see a return on it. Hope that helps

You ask for advice, but don't act on it?

A 9 word profile, and two cock pics isn't going to get you anywhere, your profile needs to be much more about who you are, what you want, and what you have to offer, and ditch the cock pics, everyone on here knows what one looks like.

Had a profile previous which was more than comprehensive full of info and it's exactly the same..

I didn't ask for advise I asked a question..

I gave 2 thorough answers to your questions, there was no intent to offend but clearly I have. I'll just mind my own business OP and you keep doing what you do "

Thank you _aut-e your answers and suggestions were helpful and I didn't take offence to your replies...shame others were not as polite as you

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By *amo2121Man
over a year ago

swansea


"It might have something to do with your approach! I always ignore messages that start with things like:

Hi

Meet now?

Fancy a fuck?

Some people like to have a well mannered message "

More well mannered than 'Hi' lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It might have something to do with your approach! I always ignore messages that start with things like:

Hi

Meet now?

Fancy a fuck?

Some people like to have a well mannered message "

Thank you...noted i always try and construct a well mannered message never crude.. going by lots of attitudes on here I've been lucky to be ignored

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