FabSwingers.com forum: Parties which only the man of a couple can play.

By *eswill OP Man
over a year ago

Chepstow

I been to many parties over the years I been on Fabs. I have run into this many times over the years, the man can play with who he likes when he likes but the women part of the couple, can at best play under very strict circumstances if at all.

I been told by many of these women they would love to play at the party but can not because their partner would not like it.

To me at best the man being hypocritical and at worst just using the women to get into parties so he can have fun.

Maybe it just me getting frustrated on missing out on some enjoyable plays because of a one sided relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I been to many parties over the years I been on Fabs. I have run into this many times over the years, the man can play with who he likes when he likes but the women part of the couple, can at best play under very strict circumstances if at all.

I been told by many of these women they would love to play at the party but can not because their partner would not like it.

To me at best the man being hypocritical and at worst just using the women to get into parties so he can have fun.

Maybe it just me getting frustrated on missing out on some enjoyable plays because of a one sided relationship."
you never know what is said and agreed to behind closed doors.

Perhaps that's what gets them off? Being controlled, being self controlled. Only having eyes for one? Only being pleasured by one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely swinging as a couple should be about enjoying equally.... unless there is a specific dynamic like Mav suggested??

I won't for a second suggest that a lot of men are selfish, narcissistic control freaks though

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Some folks play by their own rules, agreed by both in the couple, and that's fair enough, but we have seen similar to what Les describes too, where it's all one-sided.

We went to a party once, and chatted with a nice couple. He was off enjoying himself upstairs, so when we saw her Sat alone we would chatwirh her, and then with them both when he came back. We were all getting on well. We headed upstairs and were enjoying ourselves, when she joined us on the bed, so we started having fun with her, until he came in and had a bit of a hissy fit, so she stopped playing and went downstairs. We didn't know what we had done wrong, and grabbed a chance to have a chat with her before they left. She said he didn't like the fact she was playing with us and seemed to be, in his words, "having a good time".

Up until then, we would have happily played with them both, so if he had joined in we could have all had a great time, but he preferred her to sit around whilst he had fun.

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By *rgasmicFunCouple
over a year ago

Gwent

It does some times work the other way where the girls could be playing then go back to your own partner to play so the guys lose out because the other girl cant handle he man with another woman so y bother its not even soft play

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By *eswill OP Man
over a year ago

Chepstow

The main reason I getting worked up about it because I seen it three times in the last two months and many times over the years. Maybe I should stop talking to women at parties and then I would not find out about what really going on.

In one case the woman went and got permission from her man to play with me, only for the man then to blow his top when he sew "his women" enjoying herself. They are no longer a couple after she told him where to go.

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By *etlinkMan
over a year ago

cardiff

I hope you laughed mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen it appt at parties and have always lived by the rule of being asked to play and never asking myself in case of upsetting anyone.

Mind you I was a bit of a pain in the ass swinging me cock about in the area of play as a subbtle hint

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By *etlinkMan
over a year ago

cardiff

"Mind you I was a bit of a pain in the ass swinging me cock about in the area of play as a subbtle hint

been there, done that, felt the same

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By *rgasmicFunCouple
over a year ago

Gwent

"Seen it appt at parties and have always lived by the rule of being asked to play and never asking myself in case of upsetting anyone.

Mind you I was a bit of a pain in the ass swinging me cock about in the area of play as a subbtle hint

Its all about respect, if we r having fun and a single is watching but not in your face and he looks clean and nice he would probable be asked to join us, a pushy guy or not clean and tidy he is goin know where near my mrs and would be told to f--k off, respect your self and others u will have fun any where.

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By *rgasmicFunCouple
over a year ago

Gwent

I been told by many of these women they would love to play at the party but can not because their partner would not like it.

To me at best the man being hypocritical and at worst just using the women to get into parties so he can have fun.

Maybe it just me getting frustrated on missing out on some enjoyable plays because of a one sided relationship."

As for these cpls know one should have to do some thing just for there partners pleasure unless they want to, sorry but its equal and fun for all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of strange one that

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