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"It's just fabbing  "Very true, wish I could delete this thread now, moment of weakness lol | |||
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"Wish I had that problem! lol haven't met anyone I'd date in real life "Grass is always greener and all that  | |||
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"Wish I had that problem! lol haven't met anyone I'd date in real life
Grass is always greener and all that "100%.. I've found people are rarely who you think they are x | |||
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"Wish I had that problem! lol haven't met anyone I'd date in real life
Grass is always greener and all that 100%.. I've found people are rarely who you think they are x"I think that's true for 90% of vanilla life too.... people present how they'd like to be and most people don't even scratch the surface... Regardless of context, it's particularly difficult when someone sets out to deceive you....learning curve though   | |||
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"I've found a special someone but luckily he's as shallow as me, happy to see each other a couple times a week, go away now n again but we don't want anymore than that & we both see other people when the fancy takes us. It's taken us a long time to get to this point, neither of us expected it & just kinda floated into it, we just accept what it is now & feel like best friends who like to have sex now n again X" Don't think that makes you shallow, just sounds like you've found a perfect match | |||
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"I guess it's different for me, I get off on him meeting others it's my thing & I'm often arranging stuff & surprising him "That sounds perfect - unworkable when the other person isn't honest about what they want though..,,ah well, will just crack on | |||
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"Oh I'm shit at this ... Recently crossed boundaries with a fab meet ... skyping every night..talking all day every day .. became more than just a meet .. .. but there's a distance .. and nowww I get gutted when I see a new veri up .. he gets arsy too..so definitely know from now on not to cross lines.... not crossing fab into personal life again x" Is it easier to be harsh and just block rather than see his activities, for want of s better word  | |||
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"I guess it's different for me, I get off on him meeting others it's my thing & I'm often arranging stuff & surprising him
That sounds perfect - unworkable when the other person isn't honest about what they want though..,,ah well, will just crack on "It definitely only works if you're both on the same page, it took Ch3wy ages to understand what I wanted because it was so alien to him. People here seem to have no trouble getting the cuckold thing, but can't get their heads around cuckqueens. Luckily he now gets it & we make a good team. Lots of talking, being open & always respecting the others feelings works for us X | |||
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"I guess it's different for me, I get off on him meeting others it's my thing & I'm often arranging stuff & surprising him
That sounds perfect - unworkable when the other person isn't honest about what they want though..,,ah well, will just crack on
It definitely only works if you're both on the same page, it took Ch3wy ages to understand what I wanted because it was so alien to him. People here seem to have no trouble getting the cuckold thing, but can't get their heads around cuckqueens. Luckily he now gets it & we make a good team. Lots of talking, being open & always respecting the others feelings works for us X"You've just made me realise - again - I'm flogging a dead horse....glad to hear you're happy, you sound like you're sorted | |||
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"Oh I'm shit at this ... Recently crossed boundaries with a fab meet ... skyping every night..talking all day every day .. became more than just a meet .. .. but there's a distance .. and nowww I get gutted when I see a new veri up .. he gets arsy too..so definitely know from now on not to cross lines.... not crossing fab into personal life again x Is it easier to be harsh and just block rather than see his activities, for want of s better word "I'd just keep unblocking to see looool Just easier if we dont speak I think.... :/ xx | |||
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"Lust is a crazy thing  "Spot on x | |||
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"How do you protect yourself against falling for people on here? STDs are a doddle compared to emotional shit! X "You can't help how you feel and it doesn't matter if you met on here or anywhere else . If its mutual then go for it, If not, block and move on because every veri you see will sting a bit. | |||
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"How do you protect yourself against falling for people on here? STDs are a doddle compared to emotional shit! X
You can't help how you feel and it doesn't matter if you met on here or anywhere else . If its mutual then go for it, If not, block and move on because every veri you see will sting a bit. "agree with this. That's why communication & being upfront and honest is so important. Without it, you breed insecurity and doubt. That's where chewy and peachy have it spot on! | |||
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"How do you protect yourself against falling for people on here? STDs are a doddle compared to emotional shit! X
You can't help how you feel and it doesn't matter if you met on here or anywhere else . If its mutual then go for it, If not, block and move on because every veri you see will sting a bit. "Spot on - I've known this for a long time but it's taken seeing it in b&w from a complete stranger that's made me realise what a total plum I've been!! Thank you | |||
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"How do you protect yourself against falling for people on here? STDs are a doddle compared to emotional shit! X
You can't help how you feel and it doesn't matter if you met on here or anywhere else . If its mutual then go for it, If not, block and move on because every veri you see will sting a bit. agree with this. That's why communication & being upfront and honest is so important. Without it, you breed insecurity and doubt.
That's where chewy and peachy have it spot on! "Very true.... fuck and forget from now on i think! | |||
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"How do you protect yourself against falling for people on here? STDs are a doddle compared to emotional shit! X
You can't help how you feel and it doesn't matter if you met on here or anywhere else . If its mutual then go for it, If not, block and move on because every veri you see will sting a bit. agree with this. That's why communication & being upfront and honest is so important. Without it, you breed insecurity and doubt.
That's where chewy and peachy have it spot on! "Omg Miss Mav we so don't have it spot on lol, it's still takes work to maintain | |||
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"How do you protect yourself against falling for people on here? STDs are a doddle compared to emotional shit! X
You can't help how you feel and it doesn't matter if you met on here or anywhere else . If its mutual then go for it, If not, block and move on because every veri you see will sting a bit.
Spot on - I've known this for a long time but it's taken seeing it in b&w from a complete stranger that's made me realise what a total plum I've been!! Thank you "Not a plum. Just a human being. | |||
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"How do you protect yourself against falling for people on here? STDs are a doddle compared to emotional shit! X
You can't help how you feel and it doesn't matter if you met on here or anywhere else . If its mutual then go for it, If not, block and move on because every veri you see will sting a bit.
Spot on - I've known this for a long time but it's taken seeing it in b&w from a complete stranger that's made me realise what a total plum I've been!! Thank you
Not a plum. Just a human being.
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"if any man & that includes Ch3wy, ever said to me let's be exclusive on here, you're my fave meet or you're my priority I would tell them to jog on, that's a statement that is rarely achievable or meaningful on a swinging site. I know there are many married couples here who seem to manage the scene well, but as a married couple previously he clearly didn't & I learnt some valuable lessons. I'll never be any man's only one, I'll never be exclusive to Anyone & i'll always do my own thing. But I will always be open, honest & respectful whilst I'm doing it. If your guy isn't on the same page as you then its doomed. You know it's not right & that's why you asked the question. Good luck op just meet your needs & be true to you X happiness comes from within, never give anyone the power to control that X" Wise words, thank you....same time next week for a counselling session? Have a whole load of shit to sort  | |||
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"I let my guard down once I learned a massive lesson" Do you know why you let your guard down? I don't, which is why I have to be protect myself now | |||
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"Lust is a crazy thing "Like Mav said Lust can mask a lot of feelings. And can be more troublesome than Love itself | |||
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"I let my guard down once I learned a massive lesson" Me To, not that I'm against being in a relationship, far from it, just her feelings were different. Which is why being open and honest from the start is best. And for God's sake don't go doing anything romantic together, you know the stuff that you do on first dates, holding hands, windy walks on the beach. One of you will end up with feelings, have fun but know the boundaries. | |||
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"I let my guard down once I learned a massive lesson Do you know why you let your guard down? I don't, which is why I have to be protect myself now "My situation was very complicated I'm not going into detail because I ended up in a situation that all but killed me But I guess I just turned soft for a minute then it was too late It will never ever happen again | |||
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"I let my guard down once I learned a massive lesson Do you know why you let your guard down? I don't, which is why I have to be protect myself now
My situation was very complicated
I'm not going into detail because I ended up in a situation that all but killed me
But I guess I just turned soft for a minute then it was too late
It will never ever happen again "God help, that sounds horrific.....but I guess it shows that if you can come back from that you can come back from anything. Think you're right about being soft....some people can just sense that and have no shame in takeing advantage. | |||
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"I let my guard down once I learned a massive lesson Do you know why you let your guard down? I don't, which is why I have to be protect myself now
My situation was very complicated
I'm not going into detail because I ended up in a situation that all but killed me
But I guess I just turned soft for a minute then it was too late
It will never ever happen again
God help, that sounds horrific.....but I guess it shows that if you can come back from that you can come back from anything. Think you're right about being soft....some people can just sense that and have no shame in takeing advantage. "It wasn't the best of situations I wouldn't call it taking advantage At the end of the day I'm a grown woman and I make my own mistakes But I thought I was making an informed decision whereas I wasn't Anyway you live and learn | |||
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"I let my guard down once I learned a massive lesson Do you know why you let your guard down? I don't, which is why I have to be protect myself now
My situation was very complicated
I'm not going into detail because I ended up in a situation that all but killed me
But I guess I just turned soft for a minute then it was too late
It will never ever happen again
God help, that sounds horrific.....but I guess it shows that if you can come back from that you can come back from anything. Think you're right about being soft....some people can just sense that and have no shame in takeing advantage.
It wasn't the best of situations
I wouldn't call it taking advantage
At the end of the day I'm a grown woman and I make my own mistakes
But I thought I was making an informed decision whereas I wasn't
Anyway you live and learn " | |||
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"Yours was a particular set of circumstances P & that's not me minimising in anyway but I'd like to think that most guys wouldn't be so cold blooded, you certainly weren't seen as a fool or a soft touch but you got caught up with a fool of a twat. At the end of the day ladies, we all need to prioritise ourselves, if you're looking for more than fucking our naughty socialising this isn't the place to be" I'm not, that's for sure! Onwards and upwards! Thank you | |||
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"Yours was a particular set of circumstances P & that's not me minimising in anyway but I'd like to think that most guys wouldn't be so cold blooded, you certainly weren't seen as a fool or a soft touch but you got caught up with a fool of a twat. At the end of the day ladies, we all need to prioritise ourselves, if you're looking for more than fucking our naughty socialising this isn't the place to be" I agree Peach What happened to me is highly unlikely (thankfully) to happen to anyone else | |||
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"Yours was a particular set of circumstances P & that's not me minimising in anyway but I'd like to think that most guys wouldn't be so cold blooded, you certainly weren't seen as a fool or a soft touch but you got caught up with a fool of a twat. At the end of the day ladies, we all need to prioritise ourselves, if you're looking for more than fucking our naughty socialising this isn't the place to be I'm not, that's for sure! Onwards and upwards! Thank you "Find a couple of decent guys, have the occasional friendly chat then just phone or text when you have an itch that needs scratching. Sure you'll have no problems finding some on here. | |||
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"Yours was a particular set of circumstances P & that's not me minimising in anyway but I'd like to think that most guys wouldn't be so cold blooded, you certainly weren't seen as a fool or a soft touch but you got caught up with a fool of a twat. At the end of the day ladies, we all need to prioritise ourselves, if you're looking for more than fucking our naughty socialising this isn't the place to be I agree Peach What happened to me is highly unlikely (thankfully) to happen to anyone else "Sounds like your memoirs could be quite a read - who do you want playing you in the film version? I've always fancied Sandra Bullock to play me | |||
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"Yours was a particular set of circumstances P & that's not me minimising in anyway but I'd like to think that most guys wouldn't be so cold blooded, you certainly weren't seen as a fool or a soft touch but you got caught up with a fool of a twat. At the end of the day ladies, we all need to prioritise ourselves, if you're looking for more than fucking our naughty socialising this isn't the place to be I'm not, that's for sure! Onwards and upwards! Thank you
Find a couple of decent guys, have the occasional friendly chat then just phone or text when you have an itch that needs scratching. Sure you'll have no problems finding some on here. "There are lots of nice guys on here but lots of time wasters too unfortunately.....it's taking a bit of work to sort the wheat from the chaff....thank you | |||
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"Yours was a particular set of circumstances P & that's not me minimising in anyway but I'd like to think that most guys wouldn't be so cold blooded, you certainly weren't seen as a fool or a soft touch but you got caught up with a fool of a twat. At the end of the day ladies, we all need to prioritise ourselves, if you're looking for more than fucking our naughty socialising this isn't the place to be I'm not, that's for sure! Onwards and upwards! Thank you
Find a couple of decent guys, have the occasional friendly chat then just phone or text when you have an itch that needs scratching. Sure you'll have no problems finding some on here.
There are lots of nice guys on here but lots of time wasters too unfortunately.....it's taking a bit of work to sort the wheat from the chaff....thank you "There are some fucking outstanding guys on here who I can't imagine my life without (and no, not in a lovey dovey way) If a guy understands the scene and "gets" the lifestyle then it's half your battle. There are diamonds among the rough here believe me | |||
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"Yours was a particular set of circumstances P & that's not me minimising in anyway but I'd like to think that most guys wouldn't be so cold blooded, you certainly weren't seen as a fool or a soft touch but you got caught up with a fool of a twat. At the end of the day ladies, we all need to prioritise ourselves, if you're looking for more than fucking our naughty socialising this isn't the place to be I'm not, that's for sure! Onwards and upwards! Thank you
Find a couple of decent guys, have the occasional friendly chat then just phone or text when you have an itch that needs scratching. Sure you'll have no problems finding some on here.
There are lots of nice guys on here but lots of time wasters too unfortunately.....it's taking a bit of work to sort the wheat from the chaff....thank you
There are some fucking outstanding guys on here who I can't imagine my life without (and no, not in a lovey dovey way)
If a guy understands the scene and "gets" the lifestyle then it's half your battle. There are diamonds among the rough here believe me "I'm hoping I find people without massive double standards, that's how low my expectations are | |||
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"By being dead inside "Cold inside but warm on the outside.... like a sausage roll in a dodgy microwave....no probs x | |||
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"By being dead inside
Cold inside but warm on the outside.... like a sausage roll in a dodgy microwave....no probs x"never has a metaphor been more apt wait.... what? | |||
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"By being dead inside "Shivers has a point You make yourself be the way you need to be | |||
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"By being dead inside
Shivers has a point
You make yourself be the way you need to be "
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"Yours was a particular set of circumstances P & that's not me minimising in anyway but I'd like to think that most guys wouldn't be so cold blooded, you certainly weren't seen as a fool or a soft touch but you got caught up with a fool of a twat. At the end of the day ladies, we all need to prioritise ourselves, if you're looking for more than fucking our naughty socialising this isn't the place to be I'm not, that's for sure! Onwards and upwards! Thank you
Find a couple of decent guys, have the occasional friendly chat then just phone or text when you have an itch that needs scratching. Sure you'll have no problems finding some on here.
There are lots of nice guys on here but lots of time wasters too unfortunately.....it's taking a bit of work to sort the wheat from the chaff....thank you
There are some fucking outstanding guys on here who I can't imagine my life without (and no, not in a lovey dovey way)
If a guy understands the scene and "gets" the lifestyle then it's half your battle. There are diamonds among the rough here believe me "Too bloody right, the 3 other guys I meet on here I've been meeting occasionally for going on 5 years now, I know several of my friends here have met them & I'd certainly recommend them as diamonds to any woman, the good ones are certainly for sharing because there's not that many to go around. Although I think that's a fact some women here seem to forget, because the good ones are few & far between we all tend to be fucking the same guy's, so I never get this don't mess about on my patch mentality. Enjoy the person you're with for the time you're with them & don't get hung up on the outside your bedroom stuff, I certainly don't X | |||
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"By being dead inside
Shivers has a point
You make yourself be the way you need to be
Sad but true... needs must and all that"It is 100000% true | |||
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"Call me old fashioned but I can't be intimate unless there is more than physical attraction. Took a bit of a knock quite recently when I was accused of being some sort of control freak just because I showed a lady ' too much ' consideration." Omg I never thought I'd agree with anything you post but you know what, you're dead right, if there's no connection there's no sex for me X | |||
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"Call me old fashioned but I can't be intimate unless there is more than physical attraction. Took a bit of a knock quite recently when I was accused of being some sort of control freak just because I showed a lady ' too much ' consideration. Omg I never thought I'd agree with anything you post but you know what, you're dead right, if there's no connection there's no sex for me X" Same here, we wont play with anyone we wouldn't want to be friends with. | |||
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"Call me old fashioned but I can't be intimate unless there is more than physical attraction. Took a bit of a knock quite recently when I was accused of being some sort of control freak just because I showed a lady ' too much ' consideration. Omg I never thought I'd agree with anything you post but you know what, you're dead right, if there's no connection there's no sex for me X Same here, we wont play with anyone we wouldn't want to be friends with." Yeah I prefer friends or someone I like. Just feels like a posh wank otherwise. | |||
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"Yours was a particular set of circumstances P & that's not me minimising in anyway but I'd like to think that most guys wouldn't be so cold blooded, you certainly weren't seen as a fool or a soft touch but you got caught up with a fool of a twat. At the end of the day ladies, we all need to prioritise ourselves, if you're looking for more than fucking our naughty socialising this isn't the place to be I'm not, that's for sure! Onwards and upwards! Thank you
Find a couple of decent guys, have the occasional friendly chat then just phone or text when you have an itch that needs scratching. Sure you'll have no problems finding some on here.
There are lots of nice guys on here but lots of time wasters too unfortunately.....it's taking a bit of work to sort the wheat from the chaff....thank you
There are some fucking outstanding guys on here who I can't imagine my life without (and no, not in a lovey dovey way)
If a guy understands the scene and "gets" the lifestyle then it's half your battle. There are diamonds among the rough here believe me
Too bloody right, the 3 other guys I meet on here I've been meeting occasionally for going on 5 years now, I know several of my friends here have met them & I'd certainly recommend them as diamonds to any woman, the good ones are certainly for sharing because there's not that many to go around. Although I think that's a fact some women here seem to forget, because the good ones are few & far between we all tend to be fucking the same guy's, so I never get this don't mess about on my patch mentality. Enjoy the person you're with for the time you're with them & don't get hung up on the outside your bedroom stuff, I certainly don't X"It wasn't me saying don't fuck about on my patch, rather him saying to me don't fuck about. Bloody odd on a swinging site! | |||
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"Yours was a particular set of circumstances P & that's not me minimising in anyway but I'd like to think that most guys wouldn't be so cold blooded, you certainly weren't seen as a fool or a soft touch but you got caught up with a fool of a twat. At the end of the day ladies, we all need to prioritise ourselves, if you're looking for more than fucking our naughty socialising this isn't the place to be I'm not, that's for sure! Onwards and upwards! Thank you
Find a couple of decent guys, have the occasional friendly chat then just phone or text when you have an itch that needs scratching. Sure you'll have no problems finding some on here.
There are lots of nice guys on here but lots of time wasters too unfortunately.....it's taking a bit of work to sort the wheat from the chaff....thank you
There are some fucking outstanding guys on here who I can't imagine my life without (and no, not in a lovey dovey way)
If a guy understands the scene and "gets" the lifestyle then it's half your battle. There are diamonds among the rough here believe me
Too bloody right, the 3 other guys I meet on here I've been meeting occasionally for going on 5 years now, I know several of my friends here have met them & I'd certainly recommend them as diamonds to any woman, the good ones are certainly for sharing because there's not that many to go around. Although I think that's a fact some women here seem to forget, because the good ones are few & far between we all tend to be fucking the same guy's, so I never get this don't mess about on my patch mentality. Enjoy the person you're with for the time you're with them & don't get hung up on the outside your bedroom stuff, I certainly don't X
It wasn't me saying don't fuck about on my patch, rather him saying to me don't fuck about. Bloody odd on a swinging site! "Alarm bells Walk the fuck right away from that kind of guy....trust me | |||
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"Yours was a particular set of circumstances P & that's not me minimising in anyway but I'd like to think that most guys wouldn't be so cold blooded, you certainly weren't seen as a fool or a soft touch but you got caught up with a fool of a twat. At the end of the day ladies, we all need to prioritise ourselves, if you're looking for more than fucking our naughty socialising this isn't the place to be I'm not, that's for sure! Onwards and upwards! Thank you
Find a couple of decent guys, have the occasional friendly chat then just phone or text when you have an itch that needs scratching. Sure you'll have no problems finding some on here.
There are lots of nice guys on here but lots of time wasters too unfortunately.....it's taking a bit of work to sort the wheat from the chaff....thank you
There are some fucking outstanding guys on here who I can't imagine my life without (and no, not in a lovey dovey way)
If a guy understands the scene and "gets" the lifestyle then it's half your battle. There are diamonds among the rough here believe me
Too bloody right, the 3 other guys I meet on here I've been meeting occasionally for going on 5 years now, I know several of my friends here have met them & I'd certainly recommend them as diamonds to any woman, the good ones are certainly for sharing because there's not that many to go around. Although I think that's a fact some women here seem to forget, because the good ones are few & far between we all tend to be fucking the same guy's, so I never get this don't mess about on my patch mentality. Enjoy the person you're with for the time you're with them & don't get hung up on the outside your bedroom stuff, I certainly don't X
It wasn't me saying don't fuck about on my patch, rather him saying to me don't fuck about. Bloody odd on a swinging site!
Alarm bells
Walk the fuck right away from that kind of guy....trust me "Too true MissP - he doesn't 'do sharing' apparently, got to laugh | |||
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"Call me old fashioned but I can't be intimate unless there is more than physical attraction. Took a bit of a knock quite recently when I was accused of being some sort of control freak just because I showed a lady ' too much ' consideration. Omg I never thought I'd agree with anything you post but you know what, you're dead right, if there's no connection there's no sex for me X" Perhaps you have not seen the humour in my past comments and have totally misunderstood me x | |||
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"Yours was a particular set of circumstances P & that's not me minimising in anyway but I'd like to think that most guys wouldn't be so cold blooded, you certainly weren't seen as a fool or a soft touch but you got caught up with a fool of a twat. At the end of the day ladies, we all need to prioritise ourselves, if you're looking for more than fucking our naughty socialising this isn't the place to be I'm not, that's for sure! Onwards and upwards! Thank you
Find a couple of decent guys, have the occasional friendly chat then just phone or text when you have an itch that needs scratching. Sure you'll have no problems finding some on here.
There are lots of nice guys on here but lots of time wasters too unfortunately.....it's taking a bit of work to sort the wheat from the chaff....thank you
There are some fucking outstanding guys on here who I can't imagine my life without (and no, not in a lovey dovey way)
If a guy understands the scene and "gets" the lifestyle then it's half your battle. There are diamonds among the rough here believe me
Too bloody right, the 3 other guys I meet on here I've been meeting occasionally for going on 5 years now, I know several of my friends here have met them & I'd certainly recommend them as diamonds to any woman, the good ones are certainly for sharing because there's not that many to go around. Although I think that's a fact some women here seem to forget, because the good ones are few & far between we all tend to be fucking the same guy's, so I never get this don't mess about on my patch mentality. Enjoy the person you're with for the time you're with them & don't get hung up on the outside your bedroom stuff, I certainly don't X
It wasn't me saying don't fuck about on my patch, rather him saying to me don't fuck about. Bloody odd on a swinging site!
Alarm bells
Walk the fuck right away from that kind of guy....trust me
Too true MissP - he doesn't 'do sharing' apparently, got to laugh "Well then the cunt knows where the door is Never let any man on here dictate or control what you do or even suggest it | |||
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"Yours was a particular set of circumstances P & that's not me minimising in anyway but I'd like to think that most guys wouldn't be so cold blooded, you certainly weren't seen as a fool or a soft touch but you got caught up with a fool of a twat. At the end of the day ladies, we all need to prioritise ourselves, if you're looking for more than fucking our naughty socialising this isn't the place to be I'm not, that's for sure! Onwards and upwards! Thank you
Find a couple of decent guys, have the occasional friendly chat then just phone or text when you have an itch that needs scratching. Sure you'll have no problems finding some on here.
There are lots of nice guys on here but lots of time wasters too unfortunately.....it's taking a bit of work to sort the wheat from the chaff....thank you
There are some fucking outstanding guys on here who I can't imagine my life without (and no, not in a lovey dovey way)
If a guy understands the scene and "gets" the lifestyle then it's half your battle. There are diamonds among the rough here believe me
Too bloody right, the 3 other guys I meet on here I've been meeting occasionally for going on 5 years now, I know several of my friends here have met them & I'd certainly recommend them as diamonds to any woman, the good ones are certainly for sharing because there's not that many to go around. Although I think that's a fact some women here seem to forget, because the good ones are few & far between we all tend to be fucking the same guy's, so I never get this don't mess about on my patch mentality. Enjoy the person you're with for the time you're with them & don't get hung up on the outside your bedroom stuff, I certainly don't X
It wasn't me saying don't fuck about on my patch, rather him saying to me don't fuck about. Bloody odd on a swinging site!
Alarm bells
Walk the fuck right away from that kind of guy....trust me
Too true MissP - he doesn't 'do sharing' apparently, got to laugh
Well then the cunt knows where the door is
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"Yours was a particular set of circumstances P & that's not me minimising in anyway but I'd like to think that most guys wouldn't be so cold blooded, you certainly weren't seen as a fool or a soft touch but you got caught up with a fool of a twat. At the end of the day ladies, we all need to prioritise ourselves, if you're looking for more than fucking our naughty socialising this isn't the place to be I'm not, that's for sure! Onwards and upwards! Thank you
Find a couple of decent guys, have the occasional friendly chat then just phone or text when you have an itch that needs scratching. Sure you'll have no problems finding some on here.
There are lots of nice guys on here but lots of time wasters too unfortunately.....it's taking a bit of work to sort the wheat from the chaff....thank you
There are some fucking outstanding guys on here who I can't imagine my life without (and no, not in a lovey dovey way)
If a guy understands the scene and "gets" the lifestyle then it's half your battle. There are diamonds among the rough here believe me
Too bloody right, the 3 other guys I meet on here I've been meeting occasionally for going on 5 years now, I know several of my friends here have met them & I'd certainly recommend them as diamonds to any woman, the good ones are certainly for sharing because there's not that many to go around. Although I think that's a fact some women here seem to forget, because the good ones are few & far between we all tend to be fucking the same guy's, so I never get this don't mess about on my patch mentality. Enjoy the person you're with for the time you're with them & don't get hung up on the outside your bedroom stuff, I certainly don't X
It wasn't me saying don't fuck about on my patch, rather him saying to me don't fuck about. Bloody odd on a swinging site! "That comment wasn't aimed at you or anyone in particular it was an observation based on many conversations with female friends over the years, but P is right walk away from that kind of guy, that's not caring that's controlling X | |||
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"Yours was a particular set of circumstances P & that's not me minimising in anyway but I'd like to think that most guys wouldn't be so cold blooded, you certainly weren't seen as a fool or a soft touch but you got caught up with a fool of a twat. At the end of the day ladies, we all need to prioritise ourselves, if you're looking for more than fucking our naughty socialising this isn't the place to be I'm not, that's for sure! Onwards and upwards! Thank you
Find a couple of decent guys, have the occasional friendly chat then just phone or text when you have an itch that needs scratching. Sure you'll have no problems finding some on here.
There are lots of nice guys on here but lots of time wasters too unfortunately.....it's taking a bit of work to sort the wheat from the chaff....thank you
There are some fucking outstanding guys on here who I can't imagine my life without (and no, not in a lovey dovey way)
If a guy understands the scene and "gets" the lifestyle then it's half your battle. There are diamonds among the rough here believe me
Too bloody right, the 3 other guys I meet on here I've been meeting occasionally for going on 5 years now, I know several of my friends here have met them & I'd certainly recommend them as diamonds to any woman, the good ones are certainly for sharing because there's not that many to go around. Although I think that's a fact some women here seem to forget, because the good ones are few & far between we all tend to be fucking the same guy's, so I never get this don't mess about on my patch mentality. Enjoy the person you're with for the time you're with them & don't get hung up on the outside your bedroom stuff, I certainly don't X
It wasn't me saying don't fuck about on my patch, rather him saying to me don't fuck about. Bloody odd on a swinging site!
That comment wasn't aimed at you or anyone in particular it was an observation based on many conversations with female friends over the years, but P is right walk away from that kind of guy, that's not caring that's controlling X"Thank you...you talk a lot of sense on a crazy site like this | |||
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"Oh I'm shit at this ... Recently crossed boundaries with a fab meet ... skyping every night..talking all day every day .. became more than just a meet .. .. but there's a distance .. and nowww I get gutted when I see a new veri up .. he gets arsy too..so definitely know from now on not to cross lines.... not crossing fab into personal life again x" This happened to me also hence why I now keep it as a fab meet and nothing more Live and learn hay tarts | |||
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"Oh I'm shit at this ... Recently crossed boundaries with a fab meet ... skyping every night..talking all day every day .. became more than just a meet .. .. but there's a distance .. and nowww I get gutted when I see a new veri up .. he gets arsy too..so definitely know from now on not to cross lines.... not crossing fab into personal life again x This happened to me also hence why I now keep it as a fab meet and nothing more Live and learn hay tarts "Tat,s lol not tart sorry | |||
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"I fall easy because I'm a bit of a soft Kent really lol, this is why I tend to have gaps between play meets in general. one of my rules is also to not stay over at their's or to let them stay at mine. There's two I've met in the past who I probably would have married if they hadn't got those court orders haha "I get this Max Main reason why I don't bring anyone to mine. It becomes to personal and familiar in my own home | |||
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"I fall easy because I'm a bit of a soft Kent really lol, this is why I tend to have gaps between play meets in general. one of my rules is also to not stay over at their's or to let them stay at mine. There's two I've met in the past who I probably would have married if they hadn't got those court orders haha "We only sleep over if it's at Chams or a hotel & we can't get home, if we're near our own homes we never sleep together, even when we've planned too we'll usually decide to go our separate ways, we both agree we sleep better on our own | |||
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"I fall easy because I'm a bit of a soft Kent really lol, this is why I tend to have gaps between play meets in general. one of my rules is also to not stay over at their's or to let them stay at mine. There's two I've met in the past who I probably would have married if they hadn't got those court orders haha
I get this Max
Main reason why I don't bring anyone to mine.
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"I fall easy because I'm a bit of a soft Kent really lol, this is why I tend to have gaps between play meets in general. one of my rules is also to not stay over at their's or to let them stay at mine. There's two I've met in the past who I probably would have married if they hadn't got those court orders haha "Soft Kent, that's made me giggle | |||
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"Aw see this is where I fk up .. been going to his.. cwtching up ..etc definitely crossed boundaries " Cwtching up & staying over is all fine, it's the mind set that needs to change for some people. I reckon I see it differently because of my age, I'm that much older & wiser & I'm able to separate things out, recognise caring as opposed to loving X | |||
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"Aw see this is where I fk up .. been going to his.. cwtching up ..etc definitely crossed boundaries " Cwtching has a lot to answer for | |||
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