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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's it me or does anyone else find this odd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they have children still at home then maybe they don't want strangers coming to their house.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not necessarily, kids/extended family, nosey neighbours, privacy issues.

Lots of things like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really, they may have family at home.. I accommodate but prefer to have a hotel meet as a curtain twitcher lives downstairs and notes everything..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a cock u always get one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of single guys dont get that couples cant just meet there and then...we definitely cant....and there no way anything gonna happen when our kids are around....you have to remember this is someones home you are going into and they have to live with the neighbours and fallout if people get wind of whats on go ...what more annoying is single men who cant accommodate and expect a mobile shag service in the back of a car cause their wife is waiting at home for them!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's it me or does anyone else find this odd "

I notice you don't accommodate.

We will only accommodate people we know, we don't really want some nutter knowing where we live.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This isn't odd at all....what a strange thing to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes perfect sense to me lol X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's it me or does anyone else find this odd

I notice you don't accommodate.

We will only accommodate people we know, we don't really want some nutter knowing where we live."

Noticed that too...lol...we would only concider accommodating if we trusted someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why could you not accommodate if you are single..methinks op may be married judging on the cuddly toys in the background..??..as for couples not accommodating, I agree wholeheartedly why would you invite a complete stranger to your home??, that's fraught with danger...you need to build up trust before even thinking about meeting at home and that takes time..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wasn't saying anything about meeting a couple I just thought it was odd that most can't that's all

And as for what some of you have said about single guys like me not accommodating (I could if I wanted too) but why should we seen as you lot don't or won't as we don't know you ether

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wasn't saying anything about meeting a couple I just thought it was odd that most can't that's all

And as for what some of you have said about single guys like me not accommodating (I could if I wanted too) but why should we seen as you lot don't or won't as we don't know you ether "

Simple then, block all couples who can't accommodate, why stress and complain about something you can't do yourselves, 9 times out of 10 couples will have children, it's a fact of life..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you might need to read some of the posts again as to the reasons couples can't accomodate!!..how could you expect a couple to invite a complete stranger into their home???? I believe there are a few people on FAB are not who they seem to be..but I'm sure they are vastly outnumbered by genuine members..as for me I am prepared to accommodate but only after a few social meetings..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow a big debate!! Well I for one am part of a couple and Swinging is a separate lifestyle to our home life. We have children and we would never invite strangers inti our home, even if kids werent there. How do we know that the person isnt on sex offenders register or anything like that? My mum lives opposite us so wouldnt want her knowing our business. We only do club meets as safe environment. If we do invite ANYONE to our house then its after months of chatting and coffee meets etx. U need 100% trust.

Amen!

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By *onny-n-clydeCouple
over a year ago

cwmbran,

The fact that the OP even raised this goes to prove he isn't a swinger he's a wannabe. Swingers would understand and if it has to be explained he will never understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say game over for him meeting any couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are some of you having a go at the poor bloke ? He's only asking a question.

When you started swinging did you know all the do's and donts of the lifestyle ?

I know lots of couples that don't accommodate but expect others to.

I now only meet people if they can accommodate like me.

Why should I let someone into my home if they are not willing to let me into theirs .

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By *unsters66Couple
over a year ago

Newport

Clearly you are not going to get anywhere with a daft post like that or get a couple....we would only ever accomodate a couple if all got on well and after a social,our homes are our safe place and not just for shagging anyone.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^^^ bangs head against wall saying "Not another daft thread"

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"It's it me or does anyone else find this odd "

So whats your "Excuse then?" 41 single? I guess, own place? maybe your reason for not accommodating?

Whatever it is it must be dodgy, single guy, must accommodate surely?Unless of course they are married & playing away.

Yeah that's the only reason an older "single" guy won't accommodate surely?

Just pointing out the idiocy of your reasoning with idiocy of an equal level..

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will meet at ours as long as we have spoken to the person for a bit and feel comfortable enough. This is mainly with other couples or single females though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really, they may have family at home.. I accommodate but prefer to have a hotel meet as a curtain twitcher lives downstairs and notes everything.. "

I'll add to my previous post - I only ever accommodate after several meets.. Did accommodate a couple once and they both thought they could do whatever they wanted.. Because they were a couple - In the end both had to be physically ejected from mine with the help of my neighbour as they both got a bit shitty (quite frankly I don't appreciate people rummaging through my stuff) - Nowadays, as I say, I only ever accommodate after a few social meets, but prefer a hotel meet... Especially with curtain twitchers around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really, they may have family at home.. I accommodate but prefer to have a hotel meet as a curtain twitcher lives downstairs and notes everything..

I'll add to my previous post - I only ever accommodate after several meets.. Did accommodate a couple once and they both thought they could do whatever they wanted.. Because they were a couple - In the end both had to be physically ejected from mine with the help of my neighbour as they both got a bit shitty (quite frankly I don't appreciate people rummaging through my stuff) - Nowadays, as I say, I only ever accommodate after a few social meets, but prefer a hotel meet... Especially with curtain twitchers around "

Omg how rude ...think its best safe to meet at club or hotels...we always respect others homes its a privilege to be invited into someones home...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really, they may have family at home.. I accommodate but prefer to have a hotel meet as a curtain twitcher lives downstairs and notes everything..

I'll add to my previous post - I only ever accommodate after several meets.. Did accommodate a couple once and they both thought they could do whatever they wanted.. Because they were a couple - In the end both had to be physically ejected from mine with the help of my neighbour as they both got a bit shitty (quite frankly I don't appreciate people rummaging through my stuff) - Nowadays, as I say, I only ever accommodate after a few social meets, but prefer a hotel meet... Especially with curtain twitchers around

Omg how rude ...think its best safe to meet at club or hotels...we always respect others homes its a privilege to be invited into someones home..."

Tell me about it! - This happened a fair while back when I joined up a good couple of years ago and was too trusting of people.. Nowadays I prefer a few social meets first.. Just goes to show SOME couples can be just as pushy, etc as SOME single people.. Put me off for a little while, but learnt from it.. .. The guy was lucky he didn't leave with his car keys up his ass..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are some of you having a go at the poor bloke ? He's only asking a question.

When you started swinging did you know all the do's and donts of the lifestyle ?

I know lots of couples that don't accommodate but expect others to.

I now only meet people if they can accommodate like me.

Why should I let someone into my home if they are not willing to let me into theirs ."

He's not new on the site & you be fair there have been many sensible responses, he doesn't do himself any favours with his responses mindX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's it me or does anyone else find this odd

So whats your "Excuse then?" 41 single? I guess, own place? maybe your reason for not accommodating?

Whatever it is it must be dodgy, single guy, must accommodate surely?Unless of course they are married & playing away.

Yeah that's the only reason an older "single" guy won't accommodate surely?

Just pointing out the idiocy of your reasoning with idiocy of an equal level..

S"

I'm 41 & single lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"^^^ bangs head against wall saying "Not another daft thread" "

Pretty much sums up the Wales forum these days

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By *anter and baguetteCouple
over a year ago

BRIDGEND

Yeah. Our boy would get quite suspicious at the moans and groans and headboard banging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wasn't saying anything about meeting a couple I just thought it was odd that most can't that's all

And as for what some of you have said about single guys like me not accommodating (I could if I wanted too) but why should we seen as you lot don't or won't as we don't know you ether "

With all due respect I think you need to take a look at your attitude and approach to this site , you seem to be under the illusion that you are doing people a favour by meeting them . The " I'm not going to accommodate you because you won't do the same " attitude will get you little success , there are plenty more in your position that will be happy to accommodate

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By *amo2121Man
over a year ago

swansea


"It's it me or does anyone else find this odd

I notice you don't accommodate.

We will only accommodate people we know, we don't really want some nutter knowing where we live."

Ah touche!! This made me laugh forum about accommodating and op does not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

made me laugh as well OP cant accommodate so maybe he married and the mrs dont know lol. I hold get togethers and socials at mine but not play parties. I used to years back but got fed up of cleaning up all the used condoms etc., after lol xxxx

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

Your house is your private area

There's lots of personal items lying around that I wouldn't feel comfortable sharing with strangers

Unless you have a dedicated play zone or even Dungeon

I'll only accommodate once I've met, known and trust the other parties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not necessarily, kids/extended family, nosey neighbours, privacy issues.

Lots of things like that. "
that's right where we live we have to be very discreet because we live on a traveller site.with a lot of family around and can cause problems with other's around us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your house is your private area

There's lots of personal items lying around that I wouldn't feel comfortable sharing with strangers

Unless you have a dedicated play zone or even Dungeon

I'll only accommodate once I've met, known and trust the other parties "

all my get togethers are ppl i know and ppl i dont know but friends do lol

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By *ovis and GreeneyesCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

Funny a single male complaining about couples who can not accommodate when he can either.

In a word knob comes to mind.

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By *r n1ceguyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Pmsl right this is my opinion. .bonkers simply bonkers....

1.I'm a single straight male and can accommodate and travel

2. There is no way would anyone be allowed into my place without a social meet first (I have children every other weekend and it's their home when they are here)

3. Couples if you do not want to accommodate then that is your choice .. end of .. if people don't like it, then don't get involve and respect their wishes!

4. That's me done .. I'm open to debate .. fire away.... happy fabbing BTW

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