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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am no Angel but single men get a bad name here on fab which i can understand, and some guys own upto being in a relationship and taken on their profiles which is fair enough. Yet theres women here who say they would never ever cheat with a guy who's taken (yet verifications show otherwise)

Opinions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately, the sooner you learn that women run this site the better off you will be. If you went through their veris then i guess some women are hypocrites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opinion....just worry about yourself rather than scrutinising the choices of others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My opinion....just worry about yourself rather than scrutinising the choices of others "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I dont worry about myself. I am worried for the innocent, and people who lie to themselves.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"I dont worry about myself. I am worried for the innocent, and people who lie to themselves. "

And what is that going to achieve? You are not going to change a thing .only worry about things you can change ,not what you have zero control over. Or is it more that these woman will meet the cheats and not meet you that's the gripe ?

The only control you have is with who you meet and over your own moral compass. Other people will make their own choices . Put your energies in to your meets ..not who others will and won't meet .

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking


"I dont worry about myself. I am worried for the innocent, and people who lie to themselves.

And what is that going to achieve? You are not going to change a thing .only worry about things you can change ,not what you have zero control over. Or is it more that these woman will meet the cheats and not meet you that's the gripe ?

The only control you have is with who you meet and over your own moral compass. Other people will make their own choices . Put your energies in to your meets ..not who others will and won't meet ."

^ ^ ^ Exactly this.... just worry about yourself OP

What others do shouldn't be any of your concern

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont worry about myself. I am worried for the innocent, and people who lie to themselves.

And what is that going to achieve? You are not going to change a thing .only worry about things you can change ,not what you have zero control over. Or is it more that these woman will meet the cheats and not meet you that's the gripe ?

The only control you have is with who you meet and over your own moral compass. Other people will make their own choices . Put your energies in to your meets ..not who others will and won't meet .

^ ^ ^ Exactly this.... just worry about yourself OP

What others do shouldn't be any of your concern "

Exactly, we're adults & as such we have control over our decisions, make your own decisions & let others live with the outcome of theirs X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont worry about myself. I am worried for the innocent, and people who lie to themselves.

And what is that going to achieve? You are not going to change a thing .only worry about things you can change ,not what you have zero control over. Or is it more that these woman will meet the cheats and not meet you that's the gripe ?

The only control you have is with who you meet and over your own moral compass. Other people will make their own choices . Put your energies in to your meets ..not who others will and won't meet .

^ ^ ^ Exactly this.... just worry about yourself OP

What others do shouldn't be any of your concern

Exactly, we're adults & as such we have control over our decisions, make your own decisions & let others live with the outcome of theirs X"

Exactly this^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can you worry about yourself when single women say they don't meet married men yet do...

These could be women you could potentially meet.

You may be happy to cheat with married men and bury your head in the sand telling yourself it's ok but at least be honest about it so everyone knows what sort of person you are. And yes, i am lookong at some of the women who have posted here...

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking


"How can you worry about yourself when single women say they don't meet married men yet do...

These could be women you could potentially meet.

You may be happy to cheat with married men and bury your head in the sand telling yourself it's ok but at least be honest about it so everyone knows what sort of person you are. And yes, i am lookong at some of the women who have posted here..."

All I ask for is honesty when I agree to meet someone. I can at least make an informed decision.

Not that it should concern anybody else but I am single and have been for a very long time!

Some of the replies to threads on the forum also give me an idea of people I would NOT like to meet

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By *eral SexMan
over a year ago

Port Talbot

Jesus, simmer down everybody ! I can think of loads of contexts where you might have it on your profile that you don't meet people who are in a marriage or relationship and then make an exception. It all depends on the situation of the 'taken' person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasnt talking about you sexy as tbh i know nothing about you and have never met you.

Its when women say they dont meet married men that it gets my goat because i know for a fact they do.

Let's be honest, women have their pick on here so why do they feel the need to lie??? Are they lying to themselves or trying to kid everyone else. Girls, you dont need to lie to get some idiot wanting to meet you because most of the guys on here will meet you if you've got a face like it's been hit with a shovel and you need a crane to get out of bed in the morning.

Just my opinion, but honesty is always the best policy. If you want to cheat on a woman with her husband just grow a pair and say it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good grief

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jesus, simmer down everybody ! I can think of loads of contexts where you might have it on your profile that you don't meet people who are in a marriage or relationship and then make an exception. It all depends on the situation of the 'taken' person. "

You'd be speaking for yourself in your quote then as we can assure you that we would never knowingly meet an attached person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are people getting into such a sweat about what other consenting adults do with their private lives?? This site spins me right out sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are people getting into such a sweat about what other consenting adults do with their private lives?? This site spins me right out sometimes. "

Maybe because all of us are judgemental in one way or another or maybe the it's just the heat getting to everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would you feel if you were a loving, trusting partner and all the time the person is off fucking other people behind your back?

Just me, but i believe you should treat a partner with love, trust and honesty.

Of course none of this counts for married couples who are on the scene together.

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By *eral SexMan
over a year ago

Port Talbot


"Jesus, simmer down everybody ! I can think of loads of contexts where you might have it on your profile that you don't meet people who are in a marriage or relationship and then make an exception. It all depends on the situation of the 'taken' person.

You'd be speaking for yourself in your quote then as we can assure you that we would never knowingly meet an attached person."

That surely can't be true. This is a site for swingers, so you're supposed to meet attached people. There must be loads of situations where someone says they won't meet an attached person, then talks to somebody in an open relationship, or who has their partner's consent and decides to meet them. Its not necessarily hypocrisy , every case should be taken on its merits surely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jesus, simmer down everybody ! I can think of loads of contexts where you might have it on your profile that you don't meet people who are in a marriage or relationship and then make an exception. It all depends on the situation of the 'taken' person.

You'd be speaking for yourself in your quote then as we can assure you that we would never knowingly meet an attached person.

That surely can't be true. This is a site for swingers, so you're supposed to meet attached people. There must be loads of situations where someone says they won't meet an attached person, then talks to somebody in an open relationship, or who has their partner's consent and decides to meet them. Its not necessarily hypocrisy , every case should be taken on its merits surely. "

You'd play your way and we'll play our way which so far has brought no drama to our doorstep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are people getting into such a sweat about what other consenting adults do with their private lives?? This site spins me right out sometimes.

Maybe because all of us are judgemental in one way or another or maybe the it's just the heat getting to everyone "

Yes I think it must be the sun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How would you feel if you were a loving, trusting partner and all the time the person is off fucking other people behind your back?

Just me, but i believe you should treat a partner with love, trust and honesty.

Of course none of this counts for married couples who are on the scene together. "

That's fine and it is good to have your own principles but what other site users choose to do....openly or otherwise....shouldn't get you so irrate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately, the sooner you learn that women run this site the better off you will be. If you went through their veris then i guess some women are hypocrites. "
Spot on with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately, the sooner you learn that women run this site the better off you will be. If you went through their veris then i guess some women are hypocrites. Spot on with this "

Do men really go to the trouble of studying women's veris i.e then investigating the profiles of the men they have met??

This is a genuine question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always study women's profile & veris then send a message accordingly but unfortunately never get anywhere when I'm 100% polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not irate, people should be able to make informed judgements on who they meet tho. If someone wants to meet married people then why the cloak and dagger by lying on your profile?

I am ok with people meeting married cheats just be honest about it and not spout a load of crap by being a liar.

And no,men dont care about veris too much men would message a welders bench if they thought they would get their dick wet from it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry I meant do they go to the effort of then investigating the profiles of the men who have left the veris?? I mean to find out if they are married men etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My opinion....just worry about yourself rather than scrutinising the choices of others "

Exactly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt it very much, as i said most men would message a welders bench if you put a bra on it lol.

I personally don't care if people meet married or attached people. It's the hypocrisy of it all i don't like.

In any case, singles meeting singles isn't exactly swinging in my eyes. Swinging is swapping not someone fucking a married man behind his wives back. Each to their own tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont worry about myself. I am worried for the innocent, and people who lie to themselves.

And what is that going to achieve? You are not going to change a thing .only worry about things you can change ,not what you have zero control over. Or is it more that these woman will meet the cheats and not meet you that's the gripe ?

The only control you have is with who you meet and over your own moral compass. Other people will make their own choices . Put your energies in to your meets ..not who others will and won't meet ."

Suppose you have a point and a little truth in it, Perhaps I need to start being more of a Cunt (frustrating)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How would you feel if you were a loving, trusting partner and all the time the person is off fucking other people behind your back?

Just me, but i believe you should treat a partner with love, trust and honesty.

Of course none of this counts for married couples who are on the scene together. "

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By *restatynCplCouple
over a year ago

Rhyl

This is like being in a conversation with a whiny liberal - offended or annoyed by anything, whether it's their business or what.

How about the old maxim - 'Mind your own fucking business'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is like being in a conversation with a whiny liberal - offended or annoyed by anything, whether it's their business or what.

How about the old maxim - 'Mind your own fucking business'?"

Didn't realise you were in this conversation...

Welcome and thank you very much for your constructive input....

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By *r Spice !!!Man
over a year ago

Pontypandy near Porth


"I dont worry about myself. I am worried for the innocent, and people who lie to themselves. "

What's the point in worrying about others as I'm sure others aren't worrying about you and this site is all about the ladies if they say no then it's a no !!

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By *r n1ceguyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

In the words of the great Paddy Mcguiness "Single man reveal yourself!!"

Well here I am lol

Ladies pm me xx

MR N1CEGUY XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we're so influenced and concerned with the thoughts of others, why do we have our own thoughts?

Do what you choose to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you worry about yourself when single women say they don't meet married men yet do...

These could be women you could potentially meet.

You may be happy to cheat with married men and bury your head in the sand telling yourself it's ok but at least be honest about it so everyone knows what sort of person you are. And yes, i am lookong at some of the women who have posted here..."

I don't lie about it I've always met who I wish to meet & I've even been referred to as trash in this forum but at least I'll own my choices. Some guy's I've met I've believed to be single & turn out not to be, some were when we met & at some points aren't, some were even attached & are now single. Let's be honest, who in a club or party takes the time to ask & check?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you worry about yourself when single women say they don't meet married men yet do...

These could be women you could potentially meet.

You may be happy to cheat with married men and bury your head in the sand telling yourself it's ok but at least be honest about it so everyone knows what sort of person you are. And yes, i am lookong at some of the women who have posted here...

I don't lie about it I've always met who I wish to meet & I've even been referred to as trash in this forum but at least I'll own my choices. Some guy's I've met I've believed to be single & turn out not to be, some were when we met & at some points aren't, some were even attached & are now single. Let's be honest, who in a club or party takes the time to ask & check?"

We always ask and hope they tell the truth.

Not a lot more people can do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you worry about yourself when single women say they don't meet married men yet do...

These could be women you could potentially meet.

You may be happy to cheat with married men and bury your head in the sand telling yourself it's ok but at least be honest about it so everyone knows what sort of person you are. And yes, i am lookong at some of the women who have posted here...

I don't lie about it I've always met who I wish to meet & I've even been referred to as trash in this forum but at least I'll own my choices. Some guy's I've met I've believed to be single & turn out not to be, some were when we met & at some points aren't, some were even attached & are now single. Let's be honest, who in a club or party takes the time to ask & check?"

Totally agree! Hell I don't even care enough to ask names let alone their marital status.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you worry about yourself when single women say they don't meet married men yet do...

These could be women you could potentially meet.

You may be happy to cheat with married men and bury your head in the sand telling yourself it's ok but at least be honest about it so everyone knows what sort of person you are. And yes, i am lookong at some of the women who have posted here...

I don't lie about it I've always met who I wish to meet & I've even been referred to as trash in this forum but at least I'll own my choices. Some guy's I've met I've believed to be single & turn out not to be, some were when we met & at some points aren't, some were even attached & are now single. Let's be honest, who in a club or party takes the time to ask & check?

Totally agree! Hell I don't even care enough to ask names let alone their marital status. "

That's great, and your choices.

There are however women who knowingly meet and continue to meet married men knowing that they are married and that their wives/partners know nothing about it...

I am not judging, as i would meet a married woman alone even if her spouse was none the wiser. She is cheating not me.

Just trying to bring some balance to the argument.

We all make our own choices and have our own conscience to live with??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you worry about yourself when single women say they don't meet married men yet do...

These could be women you could potentially meet.

You may be happy to cheat with married men and bury your head in the sand telling yourself it's ok but at least be honest about it so everyone knows what sort of person you are. And yes, i am lookong at some of the women who have posted here...

I don't lie about it I've always met who I wish to meet & I've even been referred to as trash in this forum but at least I'll own my choices. Some guy's I've met I've believed to be single & turn out not to be, some were when we met & at some points aren't, some were even attached & are now single. Let's be honest, who in a club or party takes the time to ask & check?

Totally agree! Hell I don't even care enough to ask names let alone their marital status. "

I tend to give my meets names, can't be arsed to relate real name, profile name & all that stuff X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you worry about yourself when single women say they don't meet married men yet do...

These could be women you could potentially meet.

You may be happy to cheat with married men and bury your head in the sand telling yourself it's ok but at least be honest about it so everyone knows what sort of person you are. And yes, i am lookong at some of the women who have posted here...

I don't lie about it I've always met who I wish to meet & I've even been referred to as trash in this forum but at least I'll own my choices. Some guy's I've met I've believed to be single & turn out not to be, some were when we met & at some points aren't, some were even attached & are now single. Let's be honest, who in a club or party takes the time to ask & check?

Totally agree! Hell I don't even care enough to ask names let alone their marital status.

That's great, and your choices.

There are however women who knowingly meet and continue to meet married men knowing that they are married and that their wives/partners know nothing about it...

I am not judging, as i would meet a married woman alone even if her spouse was none the wiser. She is cheating not me.

Just trying to bring some balance to the argument.

We all make our own choices and have our own conscience to live with??"

There is no balance to bring, men cheat, women cheat & it takes two to tango & yep some of us do it with full knowledge X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you worry about yourself when single women say they don't meet married men yet do...

These could be women you could potentially meet.

You may be happy to cheat with married men and bury your head in the sand telling yourself it's ok but at least be honest about it so everyone knows what sort of person you are. And yes, i am lookong at some of the women who have posted here...

I don't lie about it I've always met who I wish to meet & I've even been referred to as trash in this forum but at least I'll own my choices. Some guy's I've met I've believed to be single & turn out not to be, some were when we met & at some points aren't, some were even attached & are now single. Let's be honest, who in a club or party takes the time to ask & check?

Totally agree! Hell I don't even care enough to ask names let alone their marital status.

That's great, and your choices.

There are however women who knowingly meet and continue to meet married men knowing that they are married and that their wives/partners know nothing about it...

I am not judging, as i would meet a married woman alone even if her spouse was none the wiser. She is cheating not me.

Just trying to bring some balance to the argument.

We all make our own choices and have our own conscience to live with??"

I don't really get what point you're trying to make

Some men cheat....some women cheat ....some knowingly play with attached people....some unknowingly play with attached people.

There is no argument to balance

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How can you worry about yourself when single women say they don't meet married men yet do...

These could be women you could potentially meet.

You may be happy to cheat with married men and bury your head in the sand telling yourself it's ok but at least be honest about it so everyone knows what sort of person you are. And yes, i am lookong at some of the women who have posted here...

I don't lie about it I've always met who I wish to meet & I've even been referred to as trash in this forum but at least I'll own my choices. Some guy's I've met I've believed to be single & turn out not to be, some were when we met & at some points aren't, some were even attached & are now single. Let's be honest, who in a club or party takes the time to ask & check?

Totally agree! Hell I don't even care enough to ask names let alone their marital status.

That's great, and your choices.

There are however women who knowingly meet and continue to meet married men knowing that they are married and that their wives/partners know nothing about it...

I am not judging, as i would meet a married woman alone even if her spouse was none the wiser. She is cheating not me.

Just trying to bring some balance to the argument.

We all make our own choices and have our own conscience to live with??

I don't really get what point you're trying to make

Some men cheat....some women cheat ....some knowingly play with attached people....some unknowingly play with attached people.

There is no argument to balance "

I understand if you want excitement and to go astray and are honest about it and state it. But don't lie about it and make out something your not man and make others feel shit in the prosece along the way (be truthful) it may not be nice but it's the ever loving truth!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not after an argument or debate here. Just what peeps thought, It was a question!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wasnt talking about you sexy as tbh i know nothing about you and have never met you.

Its when women say they dont meet married men that it gets my goat because i know for a fact they do.

Let's be honest, women have their pick on here so why do they feel the need to lie??? Are they lying to themselves or trying to kid everyone else. Girls, you dont need to lie to get some idiot wanting to meet you because most of the guys on here will meet you if you've got a face like it's been hit with a shovel and you need a crane to get out of bed in the morning.

Just my opinion, but honesty is always the best policy. If you want to cheat on a woman with her husband just grow a pair and say it..."

"most of the guys on here will meet you if you've got a face like it's been hit with a shovel and you need a crane to get out of bed "

Speak for yourself. Ive more self respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you worry about yourself when single women say they don't meet married men yet do...

These could be women you could potentially meet.

You may be happy to cheat with married men and bury your head in the sand telling yourself it's ok but at least be honest about it so everyone knows what sort of person you are. And yes, i am lookong at some of the women who have posted here...

I don't lie about it I've always met who I wish to meet & I've even been referred to as trash in this forum but at least I'll own my choices. Some guy's I've met I've believed to be single & turn out not to be, some were when we met & at some points aren't, some were even attached & are now single. Let's be honest, who in a club or party takes the time to ask & check?

Totally agree! Hell I don't even care enough to ask names let alone their marital status.

That's great, and your choices.

There are however women who knowingly meet and continue to meet married men knowing that they are married and that their wives/partners know nothing about it...

I am not judging, as i would meet a married woman alone even if her spouse was none the wiser. She is cheating not me.

Just trying to bring some balance to the argument.

We all make our own choices and have our own conscience to live with??

I don't really get what point you're trying to make

Some men cheat....some women cheat ....some knowingly play with attached people....some unknowingly play with attached people.

There is no argument to balance

I understand if you want excitement and to go astray and are honest about it and state it. But don't lie about it and make out something your not man and make others feel shit in the prosece along the way (be truthful) it may not be nice but it's the ever loving truth! "

Some people will always lie

Just because we would rather everyone was honest it doesn't mean they will be

That's life

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By *eral SexMan
over a year ago

Port Talbot

Very true. There are some people who lie pathologically. There's a brilliant short story by Rod Liddle about a man who cheats on his wife. The thrill for him is not the sex but the elaborate deceptions he plans surrounding it. He comes unstuck when he's in a train crash and loses his arm. The hospital say its a clean slice and they could re-attach it, but he knows that will mean his lies to his wife will unravel and his brilliantly devised deceptions will fail. He has to choose between his arm and his lies. That kind of liar really is to be avoided !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex didn't know what truth was tbh, it was an unknown concept X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My current wife cheated on me for 3 years before I realised lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wasnt talking about you sexy as tbh i know nothing about you and have never met you.

Its when women say they dont meet married men that it gets my goat because i know for a fact they do.

Let's be honest, women have their pick on here so why do they feel the need to lie??? Are they lying to themselves or trying to kid everyone else. Girls, you dont need to lie to get some idiot wanting to meet you because most of the guys on here will meet you if you've got a face like it's been hit with a shovel and you need a crane to get out of bed in the morning.

Just my opinion, but honesty is always the best policy. If you want to cheat on a woman with her husband just grow a pair and say it...

"most of the guys on here will meet you if you've got a face like it's been hit with a shovel and you need a crane to get out of bed "

Speak for yourself. Ive more self respect"

Not sure where i eas speaking for myself as i said most men, not i would.....

Thank you for your amazing input to the discussion tho. Very helpful...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you worry about yourself when single women say they don't meet married men yet do...

These could be women you could potentially meet.

You may be happy to cheat with married men and bury your head in the sand telling yourself it's ok but at least be honest about it so everyone knows what sort of person you are. And yes, i am lookong at some of the women who have posted here...

I don't lie about it I've always met who I wish to meet & I've even been referred to as trash in this forum but at least I'll own my choices. Some guy's I've met I've believed to be single & turn out not to be, some were when we met & at some points aren't, some were even attached & are now single. Let's be honest, who in a club or party takes the time to ask & check?

Totally agree! Hell I don't even care enough to ask names let alone their marital status.

That's great, and your choices.

There are however women who knowingly meet and continue to meet married men knowing that they are married and that their wives/partners know nothing about it...

I am not judging, as i would meet a married woman alone even if her spouse was none the wiser. She is cheating not me.

Just trying to bring some balance to the argument.

We all make our own choices and have our own conscience to live with??

I don't really get what point you're trying to make

Some men cheat....some women cheat ....some knowingly play with attached people....some unknowingly play with attached people.

There is no argument to balance "

Wasn't aware i was trying to make a point, was just commenting on a forum post giving my opinion...

Lots of women on here say they wont meet attached men yet they do.... Just like women (and men) say they dont do bareback yet how many of us have actually seen people fucking at chams, going from person to person with no protection or not changing a condom when going from one person to the next. Who do people think they are kidding?

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By *r sugarandspiceMan
over a year ago

South Wales

This thread made me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread made me chuckle "

It's another non thread to pass the time away & let the judges have something to moralise about. Keeps people occupied X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

At the end of the day, when it all comes down to a room full of naked bodies, do we ever stop and ask?

However, we can pick and choose the people that we would like to socialise and associate ourselves with.

That's part of free determination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think eveybodies rules get a little looser when they want tot fuck the oppersite number.

personally i dont give a shit what people choose to do ... but remember you choose to do it so sometimes less of the hollier than thou attitude would be a tad more humble.

women do take the lead on here many get attention from more men on here than they would under normal circumstances .. so i get the appeal, but i would say its still a majority of attached men on here looking for an easy shag thet would quatify the cheating in my book.

people forget that just like real life a little more effort and depth and relationships can be all the better sexual or otherwise.

i think honesty is overrated ... i mean do you really want to hear you do look fat in that dress? trust is the key...

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By *elsh.30Man
over a year ago

newport


"My opinion....just worry about yourself rather than scrutinising the choices of others "

Very true

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