FabSwingers.com forum: It doesnt take much time to be polite

By *nighthood75 OP Man
over a year ago

Rhondda

After taking my time to read through some profiles and mail the ladies with thought out stuff, not the one liners everyone talks about, im really shocked at the amount of mails i send that get deleted with no reply!

How long does it take to send a polite' Thanks but no thanks'?

You could even copy and paste it.

Ive taken my time to make the effort of sending the mail after all.

The swinging world is a changing, we all used to respect eachother and be polite at the least.

Bring back old style swinging!

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

From the site FAQ's...

"It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here? "

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By *aut-eWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"After taking my time to read through some profiles and mail the ladies with thought out stuff, not the one liners everyone talks about, im really shocked at the amount of mails i send that get deleted with no reply!

How long does it take to send a polite' Thanks but no thanks'?

You could even copy and paste it.

Ive taken my time to make the effort of sending the mail after all.

The swinging world is a changing, we all used to respect eachother and be polite at the least.

Bring back old style swinging!

OP I understand you've taken the time to read profiles and send a lovely message and this is just a suggestion here, you may want to revamp your profile, your last meet was 5 years ago and you have no pics to your profile except for your profile which isn't for public viewing (cock pic though

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I am by now means experienced here, just my take on things. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From the site FAQ's...

"It's not rude not to reply.

This. Couple of years back I had a lady stay overnight with me. We checked her account at midnight. She mass deleted her inbox. By 9am as I was making some breakfast she called me back to bedroom. She had logged back on and had 268 new messages....most of which she couldn't even read as not that many are visible.

This occurred overnight when she wasn't even logged in! (OK, she was 29, blond and rather stunning with some excellent pics, on site for 3 weeks. I accept those factors would attract more attention) So how does she reply to them all....messages coming in faster than possible to read, never mind reply. And many from the other end of the country rude/short/pointless.

She left the site soon after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You messaged us 3 months ago....sorry but we obviously didn't reply ...but like previously said on here we would of looked at your profile and no offence would of thought same and past straight by ....give it a bit of a revamp..no point you making lots of effort in messages and an effortless profile ...happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

great advice x

How long does it take to send a polite' Thanks but no thanks'?

You could even copy and paste it.

Ive taken my time to make the effort of sending the mail after all.

The swinging world is a changing, we all used to respect eachother and be polite at the least.

Bring back old style swinging!

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I am by now means experienced here, just my take on things. Good luck "

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By *unsters66Couple
over a year ago

Newport

No offence...but Man up and get over it,perhaps you are too insecure to be on this minefield of a site....revamp profile and do more recent pics and smile while you are writing it...good luck...

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

Just msg will get you no where here, it's all about the socialising. I'm nothing special to look at but I've put a lot of hard work into the social side and it's worked wonders. It's very rare I even meet from here these days or even send a msg tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I no longer give a fuck about people's sense of entitlement on this site, love these threads though because they help us out those we wouldn't bother with X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some times you can't win ,send a nice reply thanks but no thanks , you get abuse back. Don't bother and still abuse. No pleasing some

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

OP, would you copy and paste a message 30 times a day, every day though?

I wouldn't...and I'm flipping lovely

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By *aut-eWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Just msg will get you no where here, it's all about the socialising. I'm nothing special to look at but I've put a lot of hard work into the social side and it's worked wonders. It's very rare I even meet from here these days or even send a msg tbh. "

Max is a social butterfly, makes a great cuppa too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to reply to all messages

A polite no thanks would usually be met with a "Why not?" and would escalate from there and often end in the other party spending ages trying to convince me why I should meet someone I really don't want to.

Yawn.

I don't have time or patience for it and if that causes offence then I'm not going to lose any sleep over it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many more threads about this zzzzz

Tell you what op ..have my log in details and you sit and reply no thanks to ever message I revived today

Your in for a shift

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

How much time?

You'd be surprised if you had to reply 100 messages a day

And as mentioned above a non reply is deemed to be a No Thank you

Rejection's a bitch

And I've had plenty of experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As stated previously, if you get a no reply, it's a no thank you.. The problem is that when you reply 'no thanks' it normally opens up an unnecessary amount of abuse, questions and general hissy fits..

I've said no thanks to a guy before and it turned quite nasty (from his part), then on went the statuses of "blah blah is a prick"... Although I found it somewhat entertaining (and extremely immature), I could have spent better time having a wank...

Just read the sites FAQ, it's there in black and white..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many more threads about this zzzzz

Tell you what op ..have my log in details and you sit and reply no thanks to ever message I revived today

Your in for a shift "

Yep loads of threads about this recently I've started blocking these people who make them knowing not having a reply bothers them that much xc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many more threads about this zzzzz

Tell you what op ..have my log in details and you sit and reply no thanks to ever message I revived today

Your in for a shift "

This

You can have mine too Hun, I once replied to all my inbox messages it took nearly 15 hours, first and last time I'll be doing that. There's no malicious intent or ignorance to an individual effort, it's based on volume and lack of time. You just have to not take it personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You inbox was a revelation to me & I only had it a, couple of seconds, two words lady stricter filters. Trim the s & the flowers will grow through X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You inbox was a revelation to me & I only had it a, couple of seconds, two words lady stricter filters. Trim the s & the flowers will grow through X"

so eloquently put beautiful lady xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How long does it take to send a polite' Thanks but no thanks'?

You could even copy and paste it.

Ive taken my time to make the effort of sending the mail after all.

The swinging world is a changing, we all used to respect eachother and be polite at the least.

Bring back old style swinging!

No pics, no real information on you, a message in amongst quite a few others....

Mmmm go figure. Maybebe send a face pic with it may get a better response. Nothing like talking to a cock pic

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