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By *r sugarandspice OP   Man
over a year ago

South Wales

Hello everyone

What do you reckon of having a beginners social for people getting verified

All and everyone is welcomed verified or non verified

Please let me know if thats a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello everyone

What do you reckon of having a beginners social for people getting verified

All and everyone is welcomed verified or non verified

Please let me know if thats a good idea "

Daytime socials do provide this already. Are you suggesting that anyone who's been on the site for 6 months or more would be barred from these?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New and unverified members welcome at the day socials

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By *r sugarandspice OP   Man
over a year ago

South Wales


"Hello everyone

What do you reckon of having a beginners social for people getting verified

All and everyone is welcomed verified or non verified

Please let me know if thats a good idea

Daytime socials do provide this already. Are you suggesting that anyone who's been on the site for 6 months or more would be barred from these?"

No everyone is welcomed no matter how long you been on here

And yes daytime do provide this its for the people who cant come at days

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By *r sugarandspice OP   Man
over a year ago

South Wales


"New and unverified members welcome at the day socials "

Yes indeed and this will be for people who cant do days so i suggested it for nights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah ok

Good luck OP

Hope it works out for you

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By *ariadcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff/Bristol

There is a Cardiff one now open to all xx

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By *r sugarandspice OP   Man
over a year ago

South Wales


"Ah ok

Good luck OP

Hope it works out for you"

Aww thanks and its a rememberence of a person who invented a single social for everyone to get together and go to chams and have a good time unfortunately this person is no longer on here and she knows who she is and hopefully everyone knows who she is

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By *r sugarandspice OP   Man
over a year ago

South Wales


"There is a Cardiff one now open to all xx"

Yes i agree and this will be in Newport close to the club so if anyone wants a taste of chams for the first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello everyone

What do you reckon of having a beginners social for people getting verified

All and everyone is welcomed verified or non verified

Please let me know if thats a good idea

Daytime socials do provide this already. Are you suggesting that anyone who's been on the site for 6 months or more would be barred from these?

No everyone is welcomed no matter how long you been on here

And yes daytime do provide this its for the people who cant come at days "

ok I'm understanding good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id pop along if there's a fairly even spread of m/f. Still yet to attend a social and can't do days

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By *r sugarandspice OP   Man
over a year ago

South Wales


"Hello everyone

What do you reckon of having a beginners social for people getting verified

All and everyone is welcomed verified or non verified

Please let me know if thats a good idea

Daytime socials do provide this already. Are you suggesting that anyone who's been on the site for 6 months or more would be barred from these?

No everyone is welcomed no matter how long you been on here

And yes daytime do provide this its for the people who cant come at days ok I'm understanding good luck "

Thanks for the luck i think i would need more then that

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By *r sugarandspice OP   Man
over a year ago

South Wales


"Id pop along if there's a fairly even spread of m/f. Still yet to attend a social and can't do days"

Cool let's see how things goes and see how many fabbers are interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello everyone

What do you reckon of having a beginners social for people getting verified

All and everyone is welcomed verified or non verified

Please let me know if thats a good idea "

Good idea for genuine single guys who struggle here. Hope it goes ahead and is successful for you my brother and it gets others in the click

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By *r sugarandspice OP   Man
over a year ago

South Wales


"Hello everyone

What do you reckon of having a beginners social for people getting verified

All and everyone is welcomed verified or non verified

Please let me know if thats a good idea

Good idea for genuine single guys who struggle here. Hope it goes ahead and is successful for you my brother and it gets others in the click "

Thanks my man but would need everyones support on that

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By *ve 66Woman
over a year ago

Blackwood

Trouble is transport in the night.. Not everyone drives..

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By *r sugarandspice OP   Man
over a year ago

South Wales


"Trouble is transport in the night.. Not everyone drives.."

Catch a lift or taxi home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello everyone

What do you reckon of having a beginners social for people getting verified

All and everyone is welcomed verified or non verified

Please let me know if thats a good idea

Good idea for genuine single guys who struggle here. Hope it goes ahead and is successful for you my brother and it gets others in the click "

There have been single socials before in the evenings & most single guys failed to show. The only recently stopped. Any social that's a success is welcome, there are are many here who enjoy them as much as the fun side X

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By *r sugarandspice OP   Man
over a year ago

South Wales


"Hello everyone

What do you reckon of having a beginners social for people getting verified

All and everyone is welcomed verified or non verified

Please let me know if thats a good idea

Good idea for genuine single guys who struggle here. Hope it goes ahead and is successful for you my brother and it gets others in the click

There have been single socials before in the evenings & most single guys failed to show. The only recently stopped. Any social that's a success is welcome, there are are many here who enjoy them as much as the fun side X"

This social is a rememberence of a person who invented a single social for everyone to get together and go to chams and have a good time unfortunately this person is no longer on here and she knows who she is and hopefully everyone knows who she is and hopefully she returns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP can you please stop saying in rememberance of, it gives the impression she's dead when she is very much alive

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By *r sugarandspice OP   Man
over a year ago

South Wales


"OP can you please stop saying in rememberance of, it gives the impression she's dead when she is very much alive "

Oops sorry i shall amend that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP can you please stop saying in rememberance of, it gives the impression she's dead when she is very much alive

Oops sorry i shall amend that "

I'm not being mean it's just as soon as you hear/read the word rememberance I automatically think it in refernce to someone who is deceased

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience getting groups of people together is like herding cats - fabbers or not.

Agreed the regular socials are not going to fit in with everybodys lives for all manner of reasons.

would be good if fab had a fb like group setting for social - so those interested in a particular geography / time could be in the right one for them.

i totally iuunderstand the need to be discreet when organising the bigger ones but if there were a certain number of pubs / coffee shops etc that on certain days or nights like mindeds assembled i think there would be more of a non club scene?

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By *r sugarandspice OP   Man
over a year ago

South Wales


"OP can you please stop saying in rememberance of, it gives the impression she's dead when she is very much alive

Oops sorry i shall amend that

I'm not being mean it's just as soon as you hear/read the word rememberance I automatically think it in refernce to someone who is deceased "

Its all good learnt something new

Learning never ends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish you luck in arranging this .. lots of people enjoyed the previous single socials. Just a note though ... the organiser had a special arrangement with Chams regarding admission after her socials ... you'd have to check they would let you do the same because their general admission policy is membership required and genuine couples paying the £23 fee ... singles gents fee is considerably higher and prohibitive to some people. Xxx

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales


"OP can you please stop saying in rememberance of, it gives the impression she's dead when she is very much alive "

Indeed she is!! Her couples profile is still here

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By *r sugarandspice OP   Man
over a year ago

South Wales


"I wish you luck in arranging this .. lots of people enjoyed the previous single socials. Just a note though ... the organiser had a special arrangement with Chams regarding admission after her socials ... you'd have to check they would let you do the same because their general admission policy is membership required and genuine couples paying the £23 fee ... singles gents fee is considerably higher and prohibitive to some people. Xxx"

Thanks for the information i shall take that aboard, thought you could just pay and walk in looks like i have to make arrangements

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By *r sugarandspice OP   Man
over a year ago

South Wales


"OP can you please stop saying in rememberance of, it gives the impression she's dead when she is very much alive

Indeed she is!! Her couples profile is still here "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP can you please stop saying in rememberance of, it gives the impression she's dead when she is very much alive

Oops sorry i shall amend that

I'm not being mean it's just as soon as you hear/read the word rememberance I automatically think it in refernce to someone who is deceased "

I felt the same shiver tbh but it's good if someone else takes this up because it was quite popular X

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By *r sugarandspice OP   Man
over a year ago

South Wales


"OP can you please stop saying in rememberance of, it gives the impression she's dead when she is very much alive

Oops sorry i shall amend that

I'm not being mean it's just as soon as you hear/read the word rememberance I automatically think it in refernce to someone who is deceased

I felt the same shiver tbh but it's good if someone else takes this up because it was quite popular X"

Sorry to give you the shiveres and yes this can happen with everybody's help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish you luck in arranging this .. lots of people enjoyed the previous single socials. Just a note though ... the organiser had a special arrangement with Chams regarding admission after her socials ... you'd have to check they would let you do the same because their general admission policy is membership required and genuine couples paying the £23 fee ... singles gents fee is considerably higher and prohibitive to some people. Xxx

Thanks for the information i shall take that aboard, thought you could just pay and walk in looks like i have to make arrangements "

Maybe liase with the previous organiser for some advice and for pointing in the right direction

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By *r sugarandspice OP   Man
over a year ago

South Wales


"I wish you luck in arranging this .. lots of people enjoyed the previous single socials. Just a note though ... the organiser had a special arrangement with Chams regarding admission after her socials ... you'd have to check they would let you do the same because their general admission policy is membership required and genuine couples paying the £23 fee ... singles gents fee is considerably higher and prohibitive to some people. Xxx

Thanks for the information i shall take that aboard, thought you could just pay and walk in looks like i have to make arrangements

Maybe liase with the previous organiser for some advice and for pointing in the right direction "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say, the existing socials are fantastic, and while I'd advise people to use them, any forum that people use to make connections and build trust can only be a good thing.

My only advice would be to not underestimate the amount of organising involved and be prepared for the first few to have a lot of no shows until you get established. I wish you the best of luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to say, the existing socials are fantastic, and while I'd advise people to use them, any forum that people use to make connections and build trust can only be a good thing.

My only advice would be to not underestimate the amount of organising involved and be prepared for the first few to have a lot of no shows until you get established. I wish you the best of luck!"

Welcome back my old friend

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By *r sugarandspice OP   Man
over a year ago

South Wales


"I have to say, the existing socials are fantastic, and while I'd advise people to use them, any forum that people use to make connections and build trust can only be a good thing.

My only advice would be to not underestimate the amount of organising involved and be prepared for the first few to have a lot of no shows until you get established. I wish you the best of luck!"

Thanks for the luck i think i would need everyones luck or it might be a failure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to say, the existing socials are fantastic, and while I'd advise people to use them, any forum that people use to make connections and build trust can only be a good thing.

My only advice would be to not underestimate the amount of organising involved and be prepared for the first few to have a lot of no shows until you get established. I wish you the best of luck!

Welcome back my old friend "

Hello, sweetheart! Xx

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By *ve 66Woman
over a year ago

Blackwood


"Trouble is transport in the night.. Not everyone drives..

Catch a lift or taxi home "

Taxi to pricy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trouble is transport in the night.. Not everyone drives.."

Daytime, night time, day of the week etc, whatever time there will always be people the arrangement won't suit. Any organiser has to look at where the gaps or demand might be & arrange accordingly. Night time socials are generally well attended & lots of people are only too willing to offer lifts, I've often shared with others X

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By *r sugarandspice OP   Man
over a year ago

South Wales


"Trouble is transport in the night.. Not everyone drives..

Catch a lift or taxi home

Taxi to pricy "

Well we have to see who is generous to donate you some money for taxi fare or someone can accommodate you till the morning lol

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By *r sugarandspice OP   Man
over a year ago

South Wales

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By *r sugarandspice OP   Man
over a year ago

South Wales


"Trouble is transport in the night.. Not everyone drives..

Daytime, night time, day of the week etc, whatever time there will always be people the arrangement won't suit. Any organiser has to look at where the gaps or demand might be & arrange accordingly. Night time socials are generally well attended & lots of people are only too willing to offer lifts, I've often shared with others X"

Eve 66 another solution mentioned by chewy take the offer thats been offered to you by generosity thats if someone offers you a lift that is you happy to come lol

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By *ar-Some CoupleCouple
over a year ago

from somewhere glittery & sparkly


"OP can you please stop saying in rememberance of, it gives the impression she's dead when she is very much alive

Oops sorry i shall amend that

I'm not being mean it's just as soon as you hear/read the word rememberance I automatically think it in refernce to someone who is deceased

I felt the same shiver tbh but it's good if someone else takes this up because it was quite popular X

Sorry to give you the shiveres and yes this can happen with everybody's help "

This mad me chuckle lol

I am very much alive and kicking much to some people's disappointment

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By *eral SexMan
over a year ago

Port Talbot

There are usually people willing to offer lifts as there are always several people going in the same direction. I think its a lovely idea, and I'm in.

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