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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I've been on here a while now and whilst I fully admit I'm quite fussy and I'm definitely not a hunk I can't seem to attract many women ,

So can someone tell me what I'm doing wrong , I'm always polite when I message , never send messages like 'wanna fuck' etc but I extremely rarely even get as much as a no thanks , they just delete

Any help here ?

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Lower your standards and fuck anything seems to work for some

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By *unsters66Couple
over a year ago

Newport

Pmsl...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lower your standards and fuck anything seems to work for some "

I'm on here for a good time not a nightmare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having just had a peek at your profile, I hope that you don't mind me offering some advice.

First of all lose the photo with your tongue out. It may be fun, but not attractive in the slightest.

From what I can see you have a fairly decent body, so ahow it off - a couple of pics in boxers or pants maybe good to show it off!

Finally your profile needs more information on what you want/like.... humour is good, but not everyone will 'get' it and sometimes it's a bit odd or strange!

Above all, this is your opportunity to sell yourself - remember that. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Having just had a peek at your profile, I hope that you don't mind me offering some advice.

First of all lose the photo with your tongue out. It may be fun, but not attractive in the slightest.

From what I can see you have a fairly decent body, so ahow it off - a couple of pics in boxers or pants maybe good to show it off!

Finally your profile needs more information on what you want/like.... humour is good, but not everyone will 'get' it and sometimes it's a bit odd or strange!

Above all, this is your opportunity to sell yourself - remember that. Good luck "

Thanks for the critique, very helpful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea the humour doesn't come across well in your profile text

It's offputting

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yea the humour doesn't come across well in your profile text

It's offputting

Good luck"

Thanks but I really don't want to sensor my sense of humour, that's like lying about who you are , if you don't like my humour then chances are there won't be a spark when we meet.

Thanks for the constructive criticism though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was going to offer advice nicely but having read the profile, advice provided & comments to said advice I've decided to just comment YAAAAAWWWWWN

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd better change my profile pic then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yea the humour doesn't come across well in your profile text

It's offputting

Good luck

Thanks but I really don't want to sensor my sense of humour, that's like lying about who you are , if you don't like my humour then chances are there won't be a spark when we meet.

Thanks for the constructive criticism though "

I am not crticising your humour

I can see what you're trying to do but I don't think it is coming across in the way you want it to if you get me

Humour is very dificult to portray in written words

In person your humour is probably awesome but it doesn't come across well on your profile

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

Personally I think you have a good body(would like to see more of your face?)

Your sense of humour sounds likr mine,think you should send me some of your best jokes and we can trade

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I think you have a good body(would like to see more of your face?)

Your sense of humour sounds likr mine,think you should send me some of your best jokes and we can trade

Mrs"

Looks like you pulled!!! Get your coat....x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I think you have a good body(would like to see more of your face?)

Your sense of humour sounds likr mine,think you should send me some of your best jokes and we can trade

Mrs

Looks like you pulled!!! Get your coat....x"

Mrs F is a lushy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I think you have a good body(would like to see more of your face?)

Your sense of humour sounds likr mine,think you should send me some of your best jokes and we can trade

Mrs

Looks like you pulled!!! Get your coat....x

Mrs F is a lushy xx"

Yes can see ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yea the humour doesn't come across well in your profile text

It's offputting

Good luck

Thanks but I really don't want to sensor my sense of humour, that's like lying about who you are , if you don't like my humour then chances are there won't be a spark when we meet.

Thanks for the constructive criticism though

I am not crticising your humour

I can see what you're trying to do but I don't think it is coming across in the way you want it to if you get me

Humour is very dificult to portray in written words

In person your humour is probably awesome but it doesn't come across well on your profile"

I didn't think you was criticising me , I was genuine when I said thank you for the input

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland


"Personally I think you have a good body(would like to see more of your face?)

Your sense of humour sounds likr mine,think you should send me some of your best jokes and we can trade

Mrs

Looks like you pulled!!! Get your coat....x

Mrs F is a lushy xx"

Cheers p

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get your snorkel, waders & flippers ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I've been on here a while now and whilst I fully admit I'm quite fussy and I'm definitely not a hunk I can't seem to attract many women ,

So can someone tell me what I'm doing wrong , I'm always polite when I message , never send messages like 'wanna fuck' etc but I extremely rarely even get as much as a no thanks , they just delete

Any help here ? "

Wait patiently until summoned for

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By *issy 1974Woman
over a year ago

Barry

You made me giggle. Pitty I'm only after women. Nice tats too.

Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You made me giggle. Pitty I'm only after women. Nice tats too.

Xx "

Hahaha thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the text on ur profile made me smile. Better than reading what most of them say which is something like "fill in later" xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was going to offer advice nicely but having read the profile, advice provided & comments to said advice I've decided to just comment YAAAAAWWWWWN"

He was polite in all his responses??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was going to offer advice nicely but having read the profile, advice provided & comments to said advice I've decided to just comment YAAAAAWWWWWN

He was polite in all his responses?? "

At no point did I indicate he was rude, just his dismissive attitude after seeking advice is enough to make a person yawn. I was merely thinking why bother asking. Why the fuck am I explaining yet again & you're not even the op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

& you say this 4 days later I am truly lol now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was going to offer advice nicely but having read the profile, advice provided & comments to said advice I've decided to just comment YAAAAAWWWWWN

He was polite in all his responses??

At no point did I indicate he was rude, just his dismissive attitude after seeking advice is enough to make a person yawn. I was merely thinking why bother asking. Why the fuck am I explaining yet again & you're not even the op "

I wasn't trying to sound dismissive , I took your advice and the advice of others , and whilst I took up some people's advice I didn't want to change certain things as I think they're apart of who I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Barrylad you could attend a social and maybe start getting meets that way xc

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By *oulfoolMan
over a year ago

llandysul

Looking behind him at least he can make his own bed and keep a tidy room

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looking behind him at least he can make his own bed and keep a tidy room "

Haha ! Yes I've been well trained

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