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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all, i would be interested to hear from women or couples who are actually interested in soft swing fun. Lots of people seem to have it on their profile list but when you say thats what your looking for things seem to change

Maybe we can set up soft swing non penetration fun with interested people

Just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yuck..

full swap for me.. full penetration and lots of it

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By *ones47Couple
over a year ago

newtown

we only do soft swing its fun for us and had no probs with meets so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TENDS TO BE TO FRUSTRATING AND PEOPLE WHO SAY THEY DO IT WHEN YOU MEET THEM THEY TEND TO GO OVER THE NOUNDERY AND PUSH FOR FULL AFTER

BUT FULL FOR US AS WE NOTICED SOFT SWINGERS SHOULD NOT BE SWINGING AS THEY DONT REALY KNOW WHAT THEY WANT WELL THATS OUR OPPINION HAHHAHAH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"TENDS TO BE TO FRUSTRATING AND PEOPLE WHO SAY THEY DO IT WHEN YOU MEET THEM THEY TEND TO GO OVER THE NOUNDERY AND PUSH FOR FULL AFTER

BUT FULL FOR US AS WE NOTICED SOFT SWINGERS SHOULD NOT BE SWINGING AS THEY DONT REALY KNOW WHAT THEY WANT WELL THATS OUR OPPINION HAHHAHAH

"

Soft swingers do know what they want, Thats why they make the decision to not have full sex with others outside the relationship ... How is that not knowing what you want

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we've never classed ourselves as soft swingers.. miss likes playing with specific types of girl she likes - i just like to watch her/them have fun - if we meet couples, we may soft play - totally dependant on what they are like personality wise and what they look like, physically.

We're very fussy, if neither personality or looks match up to both of our requirements, we just dont play.

We look for others to bring something extra to our relationship we cant find/get together..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we've never classed ourselves as soft swingers.. miss likes playing with specific types of girl she likes - i just like to watch her/them have fun - if we meet couples, we may soft play - totally dependant on what they are like personality wise and what they look like, physically.

We're very fussy, if neither personality or looks match up to both of our requirements, we just dont play.

We look for others to bring something extra to our relationship we cant find/get together..

"

Sounds like a fantastic philosophy to be honest and I have to say some of the best nights we have had have been with so called soft swingers.

Swinging is foreplay for us and how far things go is irrelevant. If we are attracted and enjoy people socially it is a huge turn on for us and enhances what we do together...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thats what i think too

Am still experience it though

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

nope

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft swap can be a lot more passionate and a fantastic change from the bang bang bang of full swap which some seem to insist on. Some just can't see beyond fucking even though soft swap nights can be very passionate indeed.

Soft swap can also be good in eliminating the fake bi women in some couples. More women in soft swap couples seem to genuinely bi sexual compared to some who pretend just so they can get a cock inside them xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well put sns2029 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

women pretending to be bi to get a cock wtf ???? thats a new one on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have to have soft swing meets only as no woman in the universe can accomodate me superenormousgigantic penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

agrees with smiffy.....makes me eyes water just thinking about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"women pretending to be bi to get a cock wtf ???? thats a new one on me "

There's plenty of couples out there were the woman says she's bi but when it gets down to it she isn't really and is only doing it to either please her fella or get cock when meeting cpls. May as well say straight cpl instead of bi fem couple on some cpls profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"women pretending to be bi to get a cock wtf ???? thats a new one on me "

Its usually women pretend to be bi so their guy can get his cock into the other women!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh BTW, us2933 - save your money of cardiff strip clubs..

Waste of time.. save your money for the travel and hotel costs and go to london!

Stip clubs actually have dancers on stage all throughout the night night just at intervals.

All the girls dance, you can see them dance before you even decide if you want a private dance - and they are all generally fit!

Some of the girls we saw at FYEO - shocking.. put us right of our smirnoff ices - we had to leave.. shivvers

LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah thanks MISSBLONDE but London's a bit far mid week lol. We've been to the clubs in Cardiff a few times but usually with other cpls. We've had good and bad nights there but yes some of the girls are a tad rough lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the risk of sounding ignorant what's a stip club?

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By *ilthy RichMan
over a year ago

Aldgate

Soft swap isn't my preference - but had some great soft meets.. it's all about communicating beforehand what people want - what they're comfortable with. Then everyone's OK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No disrespect ment Smiffy but if you've got nothing to say that's not either being stupid or taking the piss out what people say, why comment at all?????

I know that sounds harsh and it's really not ment harshly but for once just let people have thier view as others do with your views

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why do you always have a pop at smiffy its not the first time you have done it i would much rather read smiffy,s comments than the stuffy up your own arse comments that most post on here for christ sake take it in the context it was written and lighten up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck it, that's not even worthy of a response but get your facts straight before comment on what I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its getting a bit off topic lol

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By *aidinwalesWoman
over a year ago

Rainbows End

So why bother responding??

In respect of 'imitation' bi fems.. I dont consider myself to be bi in the true sense of the word however sometimes when the chemistry is right Im more than happy to play with the lady - and not as you suggest because I want a cock inside me!

I would not intentionally set up a meet with a bi fem on a one to one basis as it doesnt float my boat however I do play with fems if it feels right at the time.

And with regard to the needless attack on someone who was trying to lighten the mood of this thread - if you dont like the respose then dont post to start with! Simples!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And if you'd read my post you would have noticed I said SOME not all so don't take it so personally. And I haven't attacked anyone, I simple said not to comment anything stupid. You may think it's lightening the subject but others disagree and would rather people simply say what they think instead of making jokes which usually ends in stopping the actual topic of a thread.

And for the record Smiffy say some very funny things at times and also some very informative things so don't moan if I object to something he's said as we're all entitled to our view on not just the selected few on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And if you'd read my post you would have noticed I said SOME not all so don't take it so personally. And I haven't attacked anyone, I simple said not to comment anything stupid. You may think it's lightening the subject but others disagree and would rather people simply say what they think instead of making jokes which usually ends in stopping the actual topic of a thread.

And for the record Smiffy say some very funny things at times and also some very informative things so don't moan if I object to something he's said as we're all entitled to our view on not just the selected few on here. "

Wow mega mixed up u is, first of all I is stupid, then I is informative, then you goes and tells someone not to take fings personally when you so obviously have,not to mention the pretend Bi females in the first place, me therapist wants ya number I can tell ya that,

P.s do ppl wiv multiple personalities have multiple profiles just a question like

P.p.s If there are any pretend females Bi or straight gis a shout en it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people are unable to read correctly (maybe call it laziness - cos my spelling or lack of it is due to laziness).. so I guess we need to cut them some slack (education is not what it was you know - or maybe that's just manners?).

Getting back on topic - miss has no interest playing full with others guys - happy for the occasional soft play..

If we found a single guy who fit the bill, and happy to play soft in a mfm, we'd consider it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow lol where did it all go wrong

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