FabSwingers.com forum: Message mayhem.......

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wanted to know people's opinions on this one?

Sometimes a couple message you with lots of interest, then you have a good chat and say we'll sort a meet out, then the next message you send is deleted with no reply, now I'm thinking is it sometimes the fem at first them the bloke comes on and is like no way I don't like the look of that guy or vice versa... I could be wrong but this has happened at least 3 times to me........ Maybe it's just me and I need to somewhat change my approach or something ? :-s

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change their minds, like the idea of meeting up but then bottle it, who knows...

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had some who sound enthusiastic at first but will never be pinned down to a time or place. I think some of then get turned on by the idea but have no intention of actually swinging.

Somtimes one of the parties does the planning without consulting the other.

Don't worry about it it's par for the course. Learn when to relax and go with the flow and when to press on.