FabSwingers.com forum: professional

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I see this regular on profiles why?

professional what !! racing driver, football player, rugby player or professional shagger, what?

cracks us up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see this regular on profiles why?

professional what !! racing driver, football player, rugby player or professional shagger, what?

cracks us up

I know the confusion myself as I don't understand why lol

I'm a professional finger blaster but I don't get paid for it

lol

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By *av1Man
over a year ago

porttalbot

It's someone not on the dole I guess. This must make me a PROFESSIONAL. I'm going to put it on my profile now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not in that club I'm purely an amateur at most things tbh X

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

'professional couple' always makes me laugh

So your occupation is being married?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take it loosley to mean someone with a job which they probably needed a degree to get

Maybe like a solicitor, doctor, teacher etc.

Then again it could just mean some jumped up cunt in a cheap suit

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By *av1Man
over a year ago

porttalbot

Bodie and Doyle were the bollocks of all professionals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I take it loosley to mean someone with a job which they probably needed a degree to get

Maybe like a solicitor, doctor, teacher etc.

Then again it could just mean some jumped up cunt in a cheap suit

A degree does not make a professional, I'm still a bloody amateur

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I take it loosley to mean someone with a job which they probably needed a degree to get

Maybe like a solicitor, doctor, teacher etc.

Then again it could just mean some jumped up cunt in a cheap suit

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great answer cheap suit lol fucking love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with peachy. Anyone with professional is normally in a cheap suit, but I'll guarantee you ladies, no matter how professional he is, he will still wipe his knob in the curtains. Just for the record I'm a professional prick and her indoors a professional cunt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I agree with peachy. Anyone with professional is normally in a cheap suit, but I'll guarantee you ladies, no matter how professional he is, he will still wipe his knob in the curtains. Just for the record I'm a professional prick and her indoors a professional cunt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently I am also a professional troll too......my CV is getting bigger by the day....better get a suit !

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By *rishbottomcockloverMan
over a year ago

Delft

You must be a troll, you keep on hiding your profile after you make forum posts!!

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By *rishbottomcockloverMan
over a year ago

Delft

What makes me laugh is someone aged 19 or 20 describing themselves as a professional! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What makes me laugh is someone aged 19 or 20 describing themselves as a professional! Lol "

and send messages with ay !! that's all, very professional lol

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By *unsters66Couple
over a year ago

Newport

"Bodie and Doyle were the bollocks of all professionals

LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read professional & think pro, as in prossy. That's what a professional was in my olden days lol. Yep, I'm old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely ot just covers that you work and if you class yourself as professional you take care of yourself, not someone on the doll who doesnt wash or have any hygiene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why all the criticism of what people include in their criteria for a meet ? Surely it's up to them what they put in their profiles. If you don't "approve " of it, move on. Sorry just don't understand this nastiness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why all the criticism of what people include in their criteria for a meet ? Surely it's up to them what they put in their profiles. If you don't "approve " of it, move on. Sorry just don't understand this nastiness. "

I don't it's that people don't approve

Just it seems to be a term that means different things to different people and seems to have no deinitive meaning on Fab at least

Which kind of makes it a bit pointless really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitive**

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't it's that people don't approve

Just it seems to be a term that means different things to different people and seems to have no deinitive meaning on Fab at least

Which kind of makes it a bit pointless really

I think it is pretty obvious what people using the term in their profiles are referring to and for those who are making out that they have no idea perhaps googling the word or looking it up in a dictionary might help them, I would suggest that fabbers using the term are simply making it clear what / who they are looking for so as not to waste peoples time, why ridicule them for that ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I already said what I took it to mean

If I'm wrong and you've decided to be offended then there we are

I don't understand how people can be offended by what strangers on an internet forum post I really don't

But it takes all sorts I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I already said what I took it to mean

If I'm wrong and you've decided to be offended then there we are

I don't understand how people can be offended by what strangers on an internet forum post I really don't

But it takes all sorts I guess

It's not your comment that prompted me to put my view across but some of the previous comments which are plainly critical and ridiculing others and as I stated in my humble opinipn just nasty, sorry if you took it as a personal criticism of you , that was not my intention,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I already said what I took it to mean

If I'm wrong and you've decided to be offended then there we are

I don't understand how people can be offended by what strangers on an internet forum post I really don't

But it takes all sorts I guess

I saw it as tongue in cheek banter

Like I said everyones different

I don't take enough notice of what people post on here to take offence

Unless they slag off the Ospreys

Then I cry myself to sleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I already said what I took it to mean

If I'm wrong and you've decided to be offended then there we are

I don't understand how people can be offended by what strangers on an internet forum post I really don't

But it takes all sorts I guess

I saw it as tongue in cheek banter

Like I said everyones different

I don't take enough notice of what people post on here to take offence

Unless they slag off the Ospreys

Then I cry myself to sleep

Lol, I would have to respond with West is best !

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By *eral SexMan
over a year ago

Port Talbot

"I take it loosley to mean someone with a job which they probably needed a degree to get

Maybe like a solicitor, doctor, teacher etc.

Then again it could just mean some jumped up cunt in a cheap suit

Might as well write bourgeois pricks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I take it loosley to mean someone with a job which they probably needed a degree to get

Maybe like a solicitor, doctor, teacher etc.

Then again it could just mean some jumped up cunt in a cheap suit

Might as well write bourgeois pricks. "

Nice !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I take it loosley to mean someone with a job which they probably needed a degree to get

Maybe like a solicitor, doctor, teacher etc.

Then again it could just mean some jumped up cunt in a cheap suit

Might as well write bourgeois pricks. "

Na....I like cunt in a cheap suit better

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By *eral SexMan
over a year ago

Port Talbot

"I take it loosley to mean someone with a job which they probably needed a degree to get

Maybe like a solicitor, doctor, teacher etc.

Then again it could just mean some jumped up cunt in a cheap suit

Might as well write bourgeois pricks.

Na....I like cunt in a cheap suit better

Ha ha ! There should be a professional emoji.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they mean Bodie and Doyle x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it crack me up too .

so what does a professional person have to offer ?

Does a Doctor for instance describe how the cock and the pussy work before fucking you?

If they fuck as good as their handwriting they will be shit lol

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By *ingKyMan
over a year ago

Cross Hands

Professional shagger? I think there is a word for that.... escort lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's someone who has obtained a professional qualification to be able to do the work that they do e.g. Social worker, nurse, solicitor etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's someone who has obtained a professional qualification to be able to do the work that they do e.g. Social worker, nurse, solicitor etc"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just added professional background looking for same on our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site is dotted with people saying they are professionals when they can't possibly. Which is pretty laughable, personally (in spite of being a professional myself) I wouldnt necessarily seek out professionals to meet.

That being said, it's a good indication I'll share a connection on an intellectual mindful level which would lead to a more rewarding encounter.

I'll say this, the site users are immensely judgemental at times. Ironic for a site that caters for a sexual subculture.

Reading people mocking others for their personal tastes and nit picking over it makes for a bad impression.

Who is anyone to sit in judgement of another persons' preferences. It almost feels like some peopme see this as a pick and mix meat wagon free for all where no persons genitals should be off limits for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The site is dotted with people saying they are professionals when they can't possibly. Which is pretty laughable, personally (in spite of being a professional myself) I wouldnt necessarily seek out professionals to meet.

That being said, it's a good indication I'll share a connection on an intellectual mindful level which would lead to a more rewarding encounter.

I'll say this, the site users are immensely judgemental at times. Ironic for a site that caters for a sexual subculture.

Reading people mocking others for their personal tastes and nit picking over it makes for a bad impression.

That there lies the problem.... people using the term when it does not apply to them

Which in turn makes it pretty pointless

And that is in no way mocking anyone....just a mere observation from over the years

People on Fab claiming to be something they're not....who'd have thought it, aye??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That being said, it's a good indication I'll share a connection on an intellectual mindful level which would lead to a more rewarding encounter.

I'll say this, the site users are immensely judgemental at times. Ironic for a site that caters for a sexual subculture.

Reading people mocking others for their personal tastes and nit picking over it makes for a bad impression.

That there lies the problem.... people using the term when it does not apply to them

Which in turn makes it pretty pointless

And that is in no way mocking anyone....just a mere observation from over the years

People on Fab claiming to be something they're not....who'd have thought it, aye??

Aye, as one poster said...a 19 year old cannot realistically be a professional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That being said, it's a good indication I'll share a connection on an intellectual mindful level which would lead to a more rewarding encounter.

I'll say this, the site users are immensely judgemental at times. Ironic for a site that caters for a sexual subculture.

Reading people mocking others for their personal tastes and nit picking over it makes for a bad impression.

That there lies the problem.... people using the term when it does not apply to them

Which in turn makes it pretty pointless

And that is in no way mocking anyone....just a mere observation from over the years

People on Fab claiming to be something they're not....who'd have thought it, aye??

Aye, as one poster said...a 19 year old cannot realistically be a professional "

And I think that is probably a rough reason why people were taking the piss

I don't think anyone really gives a fuck if certain members only want to meet others who occupy certain job roles

It's just the fact that so many have taken the term and used it to mean something different or just used it to try and make themselves seem more appealing that is the grounds for the pisstaking

Anyone can put professional on their profile....it's meaningless

Short of asking them to post proof of employment or maybe proof of qualification I guess you just have to take people's word for it and risk them being full of shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That being said, it's a good indication I'll share a connection on an intellectual mindful level which would lead to a more rewarding encounter.

I'll say this, the site users are immensely judgemental at times. Ironic for a site that caters for a sexual subculture.

Reading people mocking others for their personal tastes and nit picking over it makes for a bad impression.

That there lies the problem.... people using the term when it does not apply to them

Which in turn makes it pretty pointless

And that is in no way mocking anyone....just a mere observation from over the years

People on Fab claiming to be something they're not....who'd have thought it, aye??

Aye, as one poster said...a 19 year old cannot realistically be a professional "

A nurse perhaps ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That being said, it's a good indication I'll share a connection on an intellectual mindful level which would lead to a more rewarding encounter.

I'll say this, the site users are immensely judgemental at times. Ironic for a site that caters for a sexual subculture.

Reading people mocking others for their personal tastes and nit picking over it makes for a bad impression.

That there lies the problem.... people using the term when it does not apply to them

Which in turn makes it pretty pointless

And that is in no way mocking anyone....just a mere observation from over the years

People on Fab claiming to be something they're not....who'd have thought it, aye??

Aye, as one poster said...a 19 year old cannot realistically be a professional

A nurse perhaps ?"

3 year degree now to be a qualified staff nurse

Would have to at least 21

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a professional and worked bloody hard to get my qualification and job which is why I can't really put much on my page however after some meaningful dialogue and trust I'm happy to tell people what I do. It doesn't make me better than anyone else. I have a type too and it's usually someone who is sparky, but bright and can hold a stimulating conversation body size/shape doesn't matter. They don't have to be a professional but they have to tick those boxes. I use the word professional hoping that the reader will appreciate that I have a need to be discreet and that's because my career could be severely damaged if I'm not discreet. Professional does not mean married. I still have sexual appetites as much as everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Professional golfer , or sports player .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That being said, it's a good indication I'll share a connection on an intellectual mindful level which would lead to a more rewarding encounter.

I'll say this, the site users are immensely judgemental at times. Ironic for a site that caters for a sexual subculture.

Reading people mocking others for their personal tastes and nit picking over it makes for a bad impression.

That there lies the problem.... people using the term when it does not apply to them

Which in turn makes it pretty pointless

And that is in no way mocking anyone....just a mere observation from over the years

People on Fab claiming to be something they're not....who'd have thought it, aye??

Aye, as one poster said...a 19 year old cannot realistically be a professional

A nurse perhaps ?

3 year degree now to be a qualified staff nurse

Would have to at least 21"

Fair enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Professional golfer , or sports player .

This is another take on it

I have met a few professional rugby players off here

Don't think many of them had degrees

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a professional and worked bloody hard to get my qualification and job which is why I can't really put much on my page however after some meaningful dialogue and trust I'm happy to tell people what I do. It doesn't make me better than anyone else. I have a type too and it's usually someone who is sparky, but bright and can hold a stimulating conversation body size/shape doesn't matter. They don't have to be a professional but they have to tick those boxes. I use the word professional hoping that the reader will appreciate that I have a need to be discreet and that's because my career could be severely damaged if I'm not discreet. Professional does not mean married. I still have sexual appetites as much as everyone else. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Professional golfer , or sports player .

I think it's pretty obvious that these are not the "professionals " that we are talking about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I already said what I took it to mean

If I'm wrong and you've decided to be offended then there we are

I don't understand how people can be offended by what strangers on an internet forum post I really don't

But it takes all sorts I guess

If you wish to supply your logic to this argument you began then yep, you'd consider me a professional, the fact that I don't see the relevance to swinging is my point, it's meaningless X

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

It's a secret code word to others in the same secret club. If you then take the first letter of the next 10 to 30 words, it can be decrypted using the secret code they have to learn in order to qualify as a professional. The unencrypted message is then relayed onto others and actions are taken.

I think that's what it means, anyway. Either that or they've seen it mentioned on other profiles and thought it cool.

Disclaimer: To Sydney University Professionals - I did not reveal the code and still do not want to join.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I already said what I took it to mean

If I'm wrong and you've decided to be offended then there we are

I don't understand how people can be offended by what strangers on an internet forum post I really don't

But it takes all sorts I guess

If you wish to supply your logic to this argument you began then yep, you'd consider me a professional, the fact that I don't see the relevance to swinging is my point, it's meaningless X"

Yes , I can fully accept that it may be meaningless to you but it's not to me and I suggest not to others, i use for a reason, and the issue I have and the argument I make is the way some on the forum amuse themselves by ridiculing those that choose to use the term, why slag them off ? Can you imagine what a fabber using the word on their profile must think if they just happen to read this post and some of the comments made.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol I think you've been watching too much Homeland

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

My comment was completely tongue in cheek, after reading some of the earlier comments. I did not intend to offend anyone, so please accept my apologies if anyone did take it the wrong way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My comment was completely tongue in cheek, after reading some of the earlier comments. I did not intend to offend anyone, so please accept my apologies if anyone did take it the wrong way. "

To be fair yours was the only funnily interesting & adult comment in the thread. Wtf happened to banter, debate, conversation & just generally being able to make your own comment. A disagreement is not taking the piss ffs, OMG I'm losing the will to live here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My comment was completely tongue in cheek, after reading some of the earlier comments. I did not intend to offend anyone, so please accept my apologies if anyone did take it the wrong way.

You must agree with everything everyone posts here ever Peachy.

You mustn't be fooled into thinking you are entitled to your own opinion ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My comment was completely tongue in cheek, after reading some of the earlier comments. I did not intend to offend anyone, so please accept my apologies if anyone did take it the wrong way. "

You will always offend someone regardless what you post

Some people love to be outraged for absolutely no reason whatsoever

You kinda get used to it on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would be surprised at the number of supportive private messages I have had in relation to my comments on this thread, - Yes everybody is entitled to their opinion but it doesn't seem that I can have one without being shot down by the clique that seems to exist on this forum. Who seem to get their kicks from belittling others. Rubbishing their views with sarcastic comments. Carry on guys you are spoiling the site for many. Happy fabbing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You would be surprised at the number of supportive private messages I have had in relation to my comments on this thread, - Yes everybody is entitled to their opinion but it doesn't seem that I can have one without being shot down by the clique that seems to exist on this forum. Who seem to get their kicks from belittling others. Rubbishing their views with sarcastic comments. Carry on guys you are spoiling the site for many. Happy fabbing x"

The fact so few post on the Welsh forum would indicate you might have a valid point.

Just keep smiling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact so few post on the Welsh forum would indicate you might have a valid point.

Just keep smiling. "

Thank you very much we appreciate your comment xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact so few post on the Welsh forum would indicate you might have a valid point.

Just keep smiling.

Thank you very much we appreciate your comment xx"

As said before just keep smiling, for what it's worth pretty much everyone we know in this crazy scene stay well away from the welsh forum due to the way it is.

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

Some people who have job which is termed as a professional occupation are governed by professional codes of conduct.

They maybe using the term professional on their profile to attract people who also have similar jobs?

I don't know but that's what I think when I read that on a profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too be fair I'm in a clique of one, agreement with a post doesn't mean they're a friend, an acquaintance, that we've chatted or even met; likewise a disagreement. Cliques exist everywhere that human beings are because they are a social norm, how you react to or interact with people who fail to subscribe to your view is what matters & I'm still at a loss as to what you need support with. In real life do you require support from friends when a person doesn't agree with a comment you've made. Maybe I'm missing a point here but I was brought up to believe I was entitled to express my view & at no point has anyone on this thread been rude or humiliating, there is some light hearted banter & yes, some people don't get banter but that lack of understanding shouldn't require support.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact so few post on the Welsh forum would indicate you might have a valid point.

Just keep smiling.

Thank you very much we appreciate your comment xx

As said before just keep smiling, for what it's worth pretty much everyone we know in this crazy scene stay well away from the welsh forum due to the way it is."

I read far more scathing responses in other forums & no one takes offence, they all join in, I can signpost you to many such threads right this moment but I truly can't be arsed X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact so few post on the Welsh forum would indicate you might have a valid point.

Just keep smiling.

Thank you very much we appreciate your comment xx

As said before just keep smiling, for what it's worth pretty much everyone we know in this crazy scene stay well away from the welsh forum due to the way it is."

Thank you again. I think we will listen to your wise advice and stay away as well. We didnt join this site to put up with this sort of crap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people who have job which is termed as a professional occupation are governed by professional codes of conduct.

They maybe using the term professional on their profile to attract people who also have similar jobs?

I don't know but that's what I think when I read that on a profile

Totally agree, perfectly acceptable criteria to put on ones profile. Yet we get ridiculed for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And that's me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not rude or humiliating ? Can I just point out that I am not a professional shagger, neither myself or my partner are escorts. My partner is not a prostitute, I am not a jumped up c##$ and I don't wear cheap suits, neither do I wipe my knob in the curtains, ladtly i don't consider myself to be a bourgeois prick. You may be happy to class this as light hearted banter, some of the feedback on here and certainly that which i have recieved through private messages is at at odds with your definition of light hearted banter and certainly explains why people keep away from this forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And that's me"

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